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Is our obsession with sex and swinging sometimes too much?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right, I posted this thread well over a year ago on my old profile, but hey, being unimaginative and a just little bit bored, I thought I’d resurrect it again by copying and pasting what I said last time!

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Is there such a thing as being TOO obsessed with sex, to a degree where it might actually start to become a little unhealthy?

Are you a “careerist” Swinger that has to go to a sex club every weekend (or every chance you get), so much so that normal ‘vanilla’ nights out just no longer do it or hold any interest for you?

I see some profiles on here where literally every day there’s brand new pics being uploaded in yet another new piece of raunchy lingerie or with yet another sex toy, it must cost them a fortune!

Do you find yourself regularly spending your disposable income on brand new sexy clothes or toys? Doesn’t there come a point when buying the latest sex item is an addiction / compulsion rather than a need?

What about those that claim they’re constantly horny 24/7?

Does having sex all the time eventually become routine / samey? I like cake but I know if I had it all of the time I’d soon become bored of it. Unless I was addicted to it, of course, which in anyone’s book can’t be good for me.

To be absolutely clear, I’m not criticising anyone in the lifestyle as everyone is free to use their own time and money to enjoy themselves as they see fit, but it does seem that for some on here their life literally revolves around the scene and when ANYTHING is done to excess you have to wonder if that’s a good thing or not?

Views anyone?

(tin hat on!)

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Too busy shagging to answer, OP!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too busy shagging to answer, OP!

Mrs TMN x"

I definitely chose the wrong night to post this! I think most people are!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If I was fit and healthy, I probably would be. But I haven't got the energy, so it's never going to be an obsession...Unfortunately lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

When I was younger?

Yep. That pretty much summed me up. These days? No.

We've pretty much taken early retirement for now, at least a long sabbatical.

We'll be back. Just don't know when.

A

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

*Looks up from BJ* What was the question? Sorry, was a little distracted there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me not at all

It lets me focus on what’s inport

Ie when on a date I am not just looking to get my end away

Or have my back doors get smashed in

As I can get that on fab

So alowes me to take a step back

And see the quality’s in someone

Instead off the normal

No your not for me but I bang any way and dumb because I am horny and not had any in xxx amount off time

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth


"*Looks up from BJ* What was the question? Sorry, was a little distracted there "

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

A couple I met years back were self confessed addicted swingers. They rarely went a day without a meet. An amazing couple, fantastic as a meet with a relative newbie, they lived the lifestyle constantly. I had a 6 hour meet with them during the day they went straight out for dinner then had another meet, finishing the evening in a club. It was a working day. They both ran businesses from home. It worked for them and they loved it! I just have no idea where their energy came from!

So yes, I think people can become addicted to swinging, maybe not obsession. I think you'd need quite a strong sex drive to keep that momentum up!

Cherry x

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