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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Nope.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
how often do you polish the pocket rocket there my man.

Are you cheating???

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Do you mean because she's masturbating she's having sex with someone else or masturbating is being unfaithful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you cheating by being here as a single male with no reference to her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck sake are these people for real!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Does she know you’re on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is she cheating?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Are you suggesting that because masturbates, she has sexual urges, so you two not having sex together may suggest she's doing so with another?.

It's a possibility of course, but there could be many reasons she may not want intimacy.

She may feel bad about herself, for one example.

My advice is speak with her, in an open and gentle way

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Oh good lord...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe.

Hope that helps

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Cheating by playing with herself?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I think you are having a giraffe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh good lord..."

Yep they actually are.

Real and among us!!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Are you?

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Possibly not mate, I’d have a chat with her to find out why she prefers her fingers to your penis, fingers crossed n maybe you can get your sex life back on track

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Cheating by playing with herself? "

Bet u like fingers wink wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your wife knows your on here as a single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Projection at its finest.

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By *winckle toesMan
over a year ago

norwich

"Nope. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

I assume OP your comment was tongue in cheek. If so, yes, she’s having an affair with herself, the filthy mare

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Not cheating. Is there a reason she prefers masturbation to sex with you?

Maybe you should ask her.....

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ?

Do you mean because she's masturbating she's having sex with someone else or masturbating is being unfaithful?"

Lets look at the words being used here, i find this very interesting, Cheating would imply you feel she is being dishonest, can masturbating be classed as a form of dishonesty, I find it hard to come to that conclusion however can it be defined as being unfaithful?... Mmmm there's alot of gray area there, If she is masurbating thinking of you or had you in the room, Would you feel hurt? However if she is fantasising about being with others regardless what gender they are, just a desire for them to the point where your not included in any form, this i feel can be considered as a form of being unfaithful, all be it shes not doing an act with anyone but thinking of the act with someone else other than you, either way you need to talk to each other, good luck

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Ok, let's unpack this and make some assumptions.

You two don't have sex.

She has urges and masturbates rather than sleep with you.

You are assuming she is having an affair as well to satisfy the urges she can't satisfy herself.

You don't think her wanking is cheating, you are leaping to another conclusion.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Cheating by playing with herself?

Bet u like fingers wink wink x"

Smooth

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

"Maybe your wife knows your on here as a single male"

Ohhh now this raises my eyebrow, you are married yet have a profile with single status... I think your wife has a case to worry more.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She’s playing with her self , so still has a sex drive but not wanting sex with me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Are you?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"She’s playing with her self , so still has a sex drive but not wanting sex with me "

That doesn't necessarily mean she's nobbing someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "
is she doing it right now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I’m on here because I don’t get it at home !! She says she’s not sexual blah blah but she wanks which is fine and healthy . But why not want the real thing every now and again . Hence me questioning it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has to be a wind up right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She’s playing with her self , so still has a sex drive but not wanting sex with me "

I don’t think she’s cheating on you, she’s wanking for release of sexual tension. You two need to talk about the distance between you both physically without it descending into a row

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I’m on here because I don’t get it at home !! She says she’s not sexual blah blah but she wanks which is fine and healthy . But why not want the real thing every now and again . Hence me questioning it… "

I think you need to talk to her…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe your wife knows your on here as a single male

Ohhh now this raises my eyebrow, you are married yet have a profile with single status... I think your wife has a case to worry more."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Is she using the sky remote then it’s all lies lies lies, check your pre-nup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She’s playing with her self , so still has a sex drive but not wanting sex with me

I don’t think she’s cheating on you, she’s wanking for release of sexual tension. You two need to talk about the distance between you both physically without it descending into a row"

This is my thoughts too.

You really need to speak with your wife, find out what's missing.

Maybe she feels unattractive, or you've stepped out of line

There are many reasons she may not desire intimacy but still have urges to release.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is OP in anyone elses inbox pleading innocene or did I draw a short straw?

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"My wife and I have not had sex for a very long time but she plays with herself . Is she cheating ? "

Yes it means she's having sex with every male in your street including the married ones. Come on, op, give your head a wobble.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Keep it on the thread please OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh dear .. not sure what to say here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A happy wife is a happy life .. that's why I'm on fab ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ok let’s move on …. Delete

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

I was going to suggest getting her some toys to use, see if she will let you join in and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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