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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay just one I always ponder, I look at my " who's looked at me " tab and quite often it is mostly couples. Now I'm not looking to meet anyway as I'm happy with who I meet as it is. However being nosey like most would be I view the profile. And there it is " not looking for single guys " looking for m/f couples and females.

Nowhere on the profile or veris does it even suggest meets with single guys. What's that all about ? If I want shoes I'm going into a shoe shop I'm not calling into the butchers on the off chance

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Okay just one I always ponder, I look at my " who's looked at me " tab and quite often it is mostly couples. Now I'm not looking to meet anyway as I'm happy with who I meet as it is. However being nosey like most would be I view the profile. And there it is " not looking for single guys " looking for m/f couples and females.

Nowhere on the profile or veris does it even suggest meets with single guys. What's that all about ? If I want shoes I'm going into a shoe shop I'm not calling into the butchers on the off chance "

That is displayed when they have their filters set to block incoming messages from single men. It doesn't mean they're not seeking them and contacting them themselves.

It cuts down on the volume of incoming messages and means they can contact those they are attracted to rather than have anyone fitting what may be loose criteria contacting them.

A

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I look at all sorts of profiles coz im a nosey cow. I never want to meet them. If someone new comments on the forum im in there having a good nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay just one I always ponder, I look at my " who's looked at me " tab and quite often it is mostly couples. Now I'm not looking to meet anyway as I'm happy with who I meet as it is. However being nosey like most would be I view the profile. And there it is " not looking for single guys " looking for m/f couples and females.

Nowhere on the profile or veris does it even suggest meets with single guys. What's that all about ? If I want shoes I'm going into a shoe shop I'm not calling into the butchers on the off chance "

Probably looking at your veris for meets.

Basically using you J xx

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I look at all sorts of profiles coz im a nosey cow. I never want to meet them. If someone new comments on the forum im in there having a good nosey "

Same. Totally just nosy.

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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago

Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else

I love people been nosey

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath


"I look at all sorts of profiles coz im a nosey cow. I never want to meet them. If someone new comments on the forum im in there having a good nosey "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at all sorts of profiles coz im a nosey cow. I never want to meet them. If someone new comments on the forum im in there having a good nosey

Same "

Liar, you just look for all the wet shower cock pics!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

And don’t forget the hundreds who look who are in stealth mode op

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

If you don't want people looking at your profile hide it. If it's open to view then anyone can freely do whatever they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay just one I always ponder, I look at my " who's looked at me " tab and quite often it is mostly couples. Now I'm not looking to meet anyway as I'm happy with who I meet as it is. However being nosey like most would be I view the profile. And there it is " not looking for single guys " looking for m/f couples and females.

Nowhere on the profile or veris does it even suggest meets with single guys. What's that all about ? If I want shoes I'm going into a shoe shop I'm not calling into the butchers on the off chance "

Because we’re nosey ( window shopping)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don't want people looking at your profile hide it. If it's open to view then anyone can freely do whatever they want."

Not once did I say I didn't like people looking at my profile, the actual question is in the original post. Never made a statement about not liking my profile being looked at just curious as to why some who aren't looking for something are looking at the exact thing they aren't looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay just one I always ponder, I look at my " who's looked at me " tab and quite often it is mostly couples. Now I'm not looking to meet anyway as I'm happy with who I meet as it is. However being nosey like most would be I view the profile. And there it is " not looking for single guys " looking for m/f couples and females.

Nowhere on the profile or veris does it even suggest meets with single guys. What's that all about ? If I want shoes I'm going into a shoe shop I'm not calling into the butchers on the off chance

That is displayed when they have their filters set to block incoming messages from single men. It doesn't mean they're not seeking them and contacting them themselves.

It cuts down on the volume of incoming messages and means they can contact those they are attracted to rather than have anyone fitting what may be loose criteria contacting them.

A"

Spot on. I figure if they're genuinely interested they'll make it known. More than likely it's the lady just having a wee perv to herself lol.

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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Can't speak for everybody but for a while we had men filtered out just to stop being inundated, but we would still look at men so we could decide to contact one if they took our fancy, mostly because we look at the new pics tab and if we like a pic we'll click on the profile (however, we don't appear on who's looked) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many single men bother those of us with MF accounts and also single F accounts, dozens of messages each day where they haven't even bothered to read the profile. When they write they aren't looking for single men they usually but not explicitly mean they don't wish to be contacted by single men and typically haven't bothered to go into their message filters to block single M from contacting them. They are happier to make the first move.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Looking at your profile doesn't mean someone wants to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at your profile doesn't mean someone wants to meet you. "

Lies.

"I looked at your profile and would definitely thumb my dinkle into you.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Looking at our profile gives us hope

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

If we tick the meet single guys box we can’t keep up with messages so it is easier just to tick couples and if we were looking to meet a single guy then message somebody we chat with to see if they are free and want to meet, we often get messages that start .... I know you don’t meet single guys but, if they looked at our veris they will see we do

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Looking at our profile gives us hope "

It's the hope that kills you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got that on my profile to stop unwanted messages.

I'll still look at guys I'm interested in and message if I'm really keen

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes I click profiles by accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you allow single men to message you you get loads of messages from single men.

Sometimes it's easier as a couple to go hunting when you want a single man

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I've got that on my profile to stop unwanted messages.

I'll still look at guys I'm interested in and message if I'm really keen "

That would explain why you've blocked me then lol

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"If you don't want people looking at your profile hide it. If it's open to view then anyone can freely do whatever they want.

Not once did I say I didn't like people looking at my profile, the actual question is in the original post. Never made a statement about not liking my profile being looked at just curious as to why some who aren't looking for something are looking at the exact thing they aren't looking for "

Because they can.

Do you ever click on profiles that don't specifically interest you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an old guy - I’m just happy if anyone looks at my profile

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Sometimes I click profiles by accident"

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She does these accidental clicks quite frequently...and often.

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