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Who's the most unreliable at meeting?

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

What's your experience of being let down when planning a meet, is it couple's or singles who's let you down mostly?

Have a great weekend.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We’ve never really been let down but we only meet people we have previously met at group socials so that eliminates all the fantasists.

.In general from the people we know I would say single men Maybe they get cold feet or their unable to make excuses to their wives ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"me"

Don't doubt that for a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although there was this one girl this one time

when a date is set, normally everyone turns up. I’m lucky I guess.

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"We’ve never really been let down but we only meet people we have previously met at group socials so that eliminates all the fantasists.

.In general from the people we know I would say single men Maybe they get cold feet or their unable to make excuses to their wives .. "

Yes think the social gatherings eliminate the time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience it's often couples that cancel with short notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think certain groups of people are worse than the other. Ultimately it comes down to someone's character.

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"In my experience it's often couples that cancel with short notice. "

Snap it's happened a few times over the years.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

With us it was cpls. We were kids free three times in last cpl of months and were after our first meet with a cpl. All three times the three cpls came up with excuses why they could not meet up. We have kids so child care is hard so when we were free we wanted to go for it. We know sometimes it can be difficult and things happen but some of the excuses were dire. J&J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men for me.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"What's your experience of being let down when planning a meet, is it couple's or singles who's let you down mostly?

Have a great weekend. "

Married men/men in relationships.

(Not having a dig, just stating in my experience)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make every effort to make it for a meet, social or otherwise. It’s just good manners. Once I stabbed myself with a screwdriver in work, bloody everywhere. Had no idea how to contact a social other than here. I was 30 mins late, with a plaster on my fingers but we had that coffee!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Never been let down yet. Although I don’t meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure that each demographic can be just as prone to this but in my experience it’s only ever been single men that have not shown up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it’s mostly the guy’s but I did pick ones attached but there just to under the thumb so single guy’s for me from now on

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Single men for me but in their defence I've met more of them then couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aliens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always seem to find it difficult to pin them down to a date. It becomes very tiresome and we are now considering just meeting people at clubs.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

By proportion, couples. By sheer number, single men.

But I'm rarely let down to be fair

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Luckily I've never been let down but I'd guess it's fakes that have no intention of meeting because they look nothing like their profile photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been ghosted 3 times in 2 weeks,i ask to many questions ?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

For me it’s couples, but it seems to be single guys fault. As they have so many single guys no show they end up booking like 3-4 guys on the day knowing most won’t show. Then when 2 do they have to let one down

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Vegetarians and vegans.

They don't do meats.

Badum tisch.

A

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Single men... But that's all I have experience of... At least half disappear or don't turn up to socials/meets with no explanation.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Never been let down and hopefully won't be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vegetarians and vegans.

They don't do meats.

Badum tisch.

A"

Winner.

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth


"What's your experience of being let down when planning a meet, is it couple's or singles who's let you down mostly?

Have a great weekend.

Married men/men in relationships.

(Not having a dig, just stating in my experience) "

I'd agree - I've, more than once, had a guy message me as part of a couple, who basically just wants a BJ, but doesn't want to meet with the wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's your experience of being let down when planning a meet, is it couple's or singles who's let you down mostly?

Have a great weekend. "

In our experience it’s pretty much 50 50

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