FabSwingers.com forum: "it's boring here. I'm leaving"

By *ogisticalBigMan OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yet weeks later the same users posting these statuses are still on fab and active at that.

Ever feel like telling them "if it's that bad just leave then"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I can’t be arsed to feel negative about statuses like that. I laugh and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I just ignore. They are attention seeking and trying to get a reaction. By replying you're giving them exactly that.

It's very much like children and their behaviour, any attention is attention and sometimes that's all they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Click bait !

Your right op? Why stick around in a place and people you don’t like?

I read really negative things, but try my hardest to just ignore it and see the good stuff and find the good people.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Yet weeks later the same users posting these statuses are still on fab and active at that.

Ever feel like telling them "if it's that bad just leave then"?

All the time.

"This site is full of time wasters" being another classic!

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

"No I just ignore. They are attention seeking and trying to get a reaction. By replying you're giving them exactly that.

It's very much like children and their behaviour, any attention is attention and sometimes that's all they want. "
Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I just ignore. They are attention seeking and trying to get a reaction. By replying you're giving them exactly that.

It's very much like children and their behaviour, any attention is attention and sometimes that's all they want. Exactly this.

It’s a crossover from facebook. ‘What’s up love?’ ‘Dm me if you need a chat!’ Etc.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s awful when people do that. Stay or go, your choice, but don’t rely on others to talk you into staying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read them and think they're after pity sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s awful when people do that. Stay or go, your choice, but don’t rely on others to talk you into staying

I’m going to try talking you into leaving……..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regard them as having just revealed their petulant and self-absorbed nature, they immediately cease to be of any interest to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There just trying to bring attention to themselves just ignore/ block and carry on I wouldn’t waste time on them

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

We all have grown up choices to make. Stay/go, matters not one jot to me

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It’s awful when people do that. Stay or go, your choice, but don’t rely on others to talk you into staying

I’m going to try talking you into leaving……..

You failed at that once before Bee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s awful when people do that. Stay or go, your choice, but don’t rely on others to talk you into staying

I’m going to try talking you into leaving……..

You failed at that once before Bee

One of many …

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It’s awful when people do that. Stay or go, your choice, but don’t rely on others to talk you into staying

I’m going to try talking you into leaving……..

You failed at that once before Bee

One of many …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s awful when people do that. Stay or go, your choice, but don’t rely on others to talk you into staying

Should I stay or should I go

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

"There just trying to bring attention to themselves just ignore/ block and carry on I wouldn’t waste time on them "

Exactly this! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I just ignore. They are attention seeking and trying to get a reaction. By replying you're giving them exactly that.

It's very much like children and their behaviour, any attention is attention and sometimes that's all they want. Exactly this.

It’s a crossover from facebook. ‘What’s up love?’ ‘Dm me if you need a chat!’ Etc.

100% exactly what it reminds me of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always read them and think they're after pity sex lol"

Do you think it works though? Asking for a mate

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By *ogisticalBigMan OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I always read them and think they're after pity sex lol

Do you think it works though? Asking for a mate

Sorry to say it but the white knights aren't assembling for you today haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always read them and think they're after pity sex lol

Do you think it works though? Asking for a mate

Get him

to try it and report back lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep. And when people bitch about the forums constantly. If you're not enjoying something that should be fun, leave. Find things that bring you real joy.

Apart from a brief eyeroll, I tend to not pay it too much attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always read them and think they're after pity sex lol

Do you think it works though? Asking for a mate

Sorry to say it but the white knights aren't assembling for you today haha

Hahaha. No I am one myself apparently. Don’t you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always read them and think they're after pity sex lol

Do you think it works though? Asking for a mate

Get him

to try it and report back lol"

I’ll pass on the message. Keep an eye out for a status by him.

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By *ogisticalBigMan OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

By the way to all those saying no. I have zero intention of telling them it just always crosses my mind when I see it.

Just gives me a giggle when they post it as their status

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yep. And when people bitch about the forums constantly. If you're not enjoying something that should be fun, leave. Find things that bring you real joy.

Apart from a brief eyeroll, I tend to not pay it too much attention. "

Careful.......

I said the same thing yesterday and apparently I'm lacking empathy and understanding.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No. I try to not be one of "those" people on here.

I can understand how difficult it can be for some people, and, instead of sending an arsey reply-or comment on a thread, I'll ignore or see if there's anything useful in my brain I can help them with.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I definitely wouldn't message someone who had it on their status.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes often see them here in forums! And they still here! Obvs just attention seeking! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely wouldn't message someone who had it on their status. "

So basically, what I’m hearing is, you don’t love me.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

The best advice is to hide your profile and take a break, if you still feel the same in a few weeks then leave, if you decide to stay then you have saved yourself all the rigmarole of starting from scratch again.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

You must admit some of the flounce threads, especially those by a women, have great comedy value when all the white nights start

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Knights DOH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Like the SCS sale

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!"

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

This is the realest shit I ever did read

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"No I just ignore. They are attention seeking and trying to get a reaction. By replying you're giving them exactly that.

It's very much like children and their behaviour, any attention is attention and sometimes that's all they want. "

Very much this

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I block anyone on my updates who regularly posts stuff like this ,they always have blank profiles too .

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

This is the realest shit I ever did read

No it's not, genuinely I've had enough, I'm leaving for good any minute now. This is truly everyone's LAST CHANC to see me and lavish attention on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe admin should show empathy to these people and just delete their accounts.

Put them out of there misery.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I find it entertaining haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

This is the realest shit I ever did read

No it's not, genuinely I've had enough, I'm leaving for good any minute now. This is truly everyone's LAST CHANC to see me and lavish attention on me!"

How much is the plain white t shirt? Is that in the sale?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yep. And when people bitch about the forums constantly. If you're not enjoying something that should be fun, leave. Find things that bring you real joy.

Apart from a brief eyeroll, I tend to not pay it too much attention.

Careful.......

I said the same thing yesterday and apparently I'm lacking empathy and understanding.

You soulless evil cad.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

This is the realest shit I ever did read

No it's not, genuinely I've had enough, I'm leaving for good any minute now. This is truly everyone's LAST CHANC to see me and lavish attention on me!

How much is the plain white t shirt? Is that in the sale? "

I will send you the payment details. It's not available in shops and avaliable for a very limited time only. ACT FAST!

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Yes I've seen a few. I just wave and say TTFN.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

This is the realest shit I ever did read

No it's not, genuinely I've had enough, I'm leaving for good any minute now. This is truly everyone's LAST CHANC to see me and lavish attention on me!

How much is the plain white t shirt? Is that in the sale?

I will send you the payment details. It's not available in shops and avaliable for a very limited time only. ACT FAST!"

I'm contacting trading standards for false advertising

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"People love you seek attention, even though they tend to look down at those who are open about it.

The long goodbye on the forum, I'm not going to be here long. It's a bit like a advert for sale prices, get them before they're gone

Sports direct liquidation sale!! Everything MUST GO!!!

The world could end and the only surviving species be tardigrades and cockroaches.....and sports direct and SCS would still be holding sales.....

This is the realest shit I ever did read

No it's not, genuinely I've had enough, I'm leaving for good any minute now. This is truly everyone's LAST CHANC to see me and lavish attention on me!

How much is the plain white t shirt? Is that in the sale?

I will send you the payment details. It's not available in shops and avaliable for a very limited time only. ACT FAST!

I'm contacting trading standards for false advertising

Why? How do you know? I could be gone tomorrow. I could be gone in the next hour. Don't risk it, ACT NOW!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No, I can’t be arsed to feel negative about statuses like that. I laugh and move on. "

This

. I’m really not that arsed

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's all part of being on here, people like to have a moan and feel sorry for themselves.

I'd tie them all up and slap them but I'd get in trouble so I just let them crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a last ditch attempt at getting attention x

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