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Best way to get more meets on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys I am really struggling as a single guy on here to organise any meets. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what I am doing wrong and how I do better?

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I am really struggling as a single guy on here to organise any meets. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what I am doing wrong and how I do better?

Thanks!"

Have you considered adding BashyBoshy to your username?

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Be a woman haha

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Expect nothing.

The odds are spectacularly against the you.

But the best way to get meets is obviously post here and tell everyone how few meets you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For guys socials and clubs

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester


"Expect nothing.

The odds are spectacularly against the you.

But the best way to get meets is obviously post here and tell everyone how few meets you get."

this all day works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think having a good profile detailing what you want and can offer, reading profiles and only messaging those who you really think you are compatible with is a very good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start sucking cock.

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"Start sucking cock. "
sounds great but I don't like cock x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its going to me hard as a man on here you are outnumbering women by a huge number ... then once you get past that its the selling of yourself and only you know you and then after that theres sexual attraction as a starter so all in all to put it bluntly its going to be very hard work .... some guys will og course just have the knack and know how and do well ...

also you do realise that all women are diferent dont you ?? a woman will only give advice from her own point of view no two women are the same ....

not only that but take a look at all the profiles that seek advice what do you see ?? yep all are samey thats not what you want you need to stand out and the only way to do that is to be you ...but it will still be super hard...

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall


"but it will still be super hard..."

Are Fleshlight paying you commission?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a shame

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"Thats a shame

"

Yeah

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

or you could leave lol, that will up your chances alot

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

Just like has been said you are one of thousands on here, there has been countless threads going over this same topic. I read a few that helped.

Firstly you should never expect that you're going to meet anyone because it might just not happen, sad to say but its the truth the women and couples on here have that much choice and they can pick out the ones that are on there 'A' game.

I would say to also make sure you read there profile you might well not be what they're looking for, hence why they don't message you back.

When messaging someone put some thought into why you're messaging them and try adding a little banter, if you can't captivate them in your words they may think you won't when meeting them. If you manage to get a reply of some sort don't think you've scored, you need to hold that conversation, keep them intrigued in what you're saying, make them think a little.

Always using good grammar it shows that you're putting thought into your messages.

If you don't get a reply or they kindly say no thank you, never give abuse they have 100's if not thousands of messages some days in there inbox and your message just might not of caught there eye or you might not be for them.

With your profile i would also put some thought into that aswel, but that'll be down to you to decide what to put.

I can't promise that this will definitely help you but it could well be a start for you. Just remember that there is thousands of other guys on here and you need to stand out beyond them all to be noticed.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Hey guys I am really struggling as a single guy on here to organise any meets. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what I am doing wrong and how I do better?

Thanks!"

Already UNLOS ... oh dear

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Hey guys I am really struggling as a single guy on here to organise any meets. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what I am doing wrong and how I do better?

Thanks!

Already UNLOS ... oh dear "

He'd already had at least one meet and was verified too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I am really struggling as a single guy on here to organise any meets. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what I am doing wrong and how I do better?

Thanks!

Already UNLOS ... oh dear

He'd already had at least one meet and was verified too.

"

Imagine people that have just come out of a relationship maybe, that was having regular sex, once, twice or more per week. (Some that live together could have sex daily) and then that relationship is over.

And that one meet in 1 month just isn’t the same as things was. there could be loads of reasons why people are feeling a struggle, and not just inside Fab.

Another Unlos …..

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Hey guys I am really struggling as a single guy on here to organise any meets. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what I am doing wrong and how I do better?

Thanks!

Already UNLOS ... oh dear

He'd already had at least one meet and was verified too.

"

He was being greedy!!??

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Err, where've you gone? ... Come back..... Please......!

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Hey guys I am really struggling as a single guy on here to organise any meets. I was just wondering if anyone could tell me what I am doing wrong and how I do better?

Thanks!

Already UNLOS ... oh dear

He'd already had at least one meet and was verified too.

He was being greedy!!??

"

Apparently so!

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like success a meet had and happy ever after maybe

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Damn, I was just about to meet you too.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

The man asked a simple question...why do some of you need to reply with passive aggressive shitty joke comments? Just because he had one meet, doesn't mean the guy is not struggling on fab...if you don't have a constructive advice for him, why comment at all?

A person asks for help on the forum, and some people start "roasting" them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man asked a simple question...why do some of you need to reply with passive aggressive shitty joke comments? Just because he had one meet, doesn't mean the guy is not struggling on fab...if you don't have a constructive advice for him, why comment at all?

A person asks for help on the forum, and some people start "roasting" them... "

Maybe he left because he wanted spit roasting rather than just a plain roasting?

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"The man asked a simple question...why do some of you need to reply with passive aggressive shitty joke comments? Just because he had one meet, doesn't mean the guy is not struggling on fab...if you don't have a constructive advice for him, why comment at all?

A person asks for help on the forum, and some people start "roasting" them...

Maybe he left because he wanted spit roasting rather than just a plain roasting? "

You failed at being funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing for me has been to use fake pictures, be someone I’m not and then just keep up the act in person.

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By *nimal007Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Start sucking cock. sounds great but I don't like cock x"

apparently if you don't like something you have to try it three days in a row and by the third time you will....or is that just food?

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys


"For guys socials and clubs "

Works every time.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"The man asked a simple question...why do some of you need to reply with passive aggressive shitty joke comments? Just because he had one meet, doesn't mean the guy is not struggling on fab...if you don't have a constructive advice for him, why comment at all?

A person asks for help on the forum, and some people start "roasting" them... "

Although, if said roasting posts, are post the UNLOS point, the individual is no longer there to read them, in fact the more useful advice which is also being posted is equally redundant.

Having said that, the silent minority may read the thread for advice which is great, however the ‘roasting’ does not apply to them.

Vis a vis no harm done.

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

We may all need advice at some point wether it be on here or not. So why not help in some way if you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going UNLOS is unlikely to help your cause on this quest.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Oops looks like the advice didn’t go down well

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat and treat fab as a social club. A lot more single men than women/couples so you need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Start sucking cock. sounds great but I don't like cock x

apparently if you don't like something you have to try it three days in a row and by the third time you will....or is that just food? "

I thought it was 10 times. Or is that just cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man asked a simple question...why do some of you need to reply with passive aggressive shitty joke comments? Just because he had one meet, doesn't mean the guy is not struggling on fab...if you don't have a constructive advice for him, why comment at all?

A person asks for help on the forum, and some people start "roasting" them... "

It happens all the time unfortunately and is very sad to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The man asked a simple question...why do some of you need to reply with passive aggressive shitty joke comments? Just because he had one meet, doesn't mean the guy is not struggling on fab...if you don't have a constructive advice for him, why comment at all?

A person asks for help on the forum, and some people start "roasting" them...

Although, if said roasting posts, are post the UNLOS point, the individual is no longer there to read them, in fact the more useful advice which is also being posted is equally redundant.

Having said that, the silent minority may read the thread for advice which is great, however the ‘roasting’ does not apply to them.

Vis a vis no harm done. "

Some of the ones before the OP went unlost were hardly helpful UNLOS and quite sarcastic.

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