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Can we please normalise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not doing anything at the weekend?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm down with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

Id adore one of those, it sounds bliss!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

Amen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recognise that the weeknd Is overrated these days and hasn’t been good since 2016.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

This is one of my favourite past times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

I try to do this every weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we also normalise leaving jobs that don’t make you happy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Totally normal for me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Can we also normalise leaving jobs that don’t make you happy. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not doing anything at the weekend?

I try to do this every weekend. "

Can’t think about it. You can’t do anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That has been well and truly normalised in our household.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we also normalise leaving jobs that don’t make you happy.

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Had to stop myself from going on a landlord rant next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never do anything at a weekend. Are we suppose to?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I checked with my boss and apparently I'm not allowed

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Recognise that the weeknd Is overrated these days and hasn’t been good since 2016. "

Bloody Brexit.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Can we also normalise leaving jobs that don’t make you happy.

Had to stop myself from going on a landlord rant next "

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I wish i could afford that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. I'm on a schedule of doing things all week. Then to do more things at the weekend...its exhausting

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

My perfect weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never do anything at a weekend. Are we suppose to?"

But if not doing anything is what you want to do then technically you are doing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life goals op and a fridge full of home cooked meals

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

My weekends are predictably and regularly uneventful.

Except the last bank holiday weekend, and I’m classing Mon/Tue/Weds this week as an eventful ‘weekend’ too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recognise that the weeknd Is overrated these days and hasn’t been good since 2016.

Bloody Brexit."

Now you’re getting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't normal? "

Op probably wouldn’t know this because she’s about that life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn't normal?

Op probably wouldn’t know this because she’s about that life "

I actually wish

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

I've been practicing doing as little as possible from Fri pm to Mon am.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes, lazy weekends and not enjoying hot sunny weather please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't normal?

Op probably wouldn’t know this because she’s about that life

I actually wish "

Perspective is a funny thing. I'd love something to do every weekend to take me away from the usual responsibilities of adulting. Enjoy it while you can, those times won't last forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s normal for me every weekend

I think it has become more normal for lots since lockdown, many can’t be arsed now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we also normalise leaving jobs that don’t make you happy. "

Agree I left mine Tuesday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s normal for me every weekend

I think it has become more normal for lots since lockdown, many can’t be arsed now "

I'm in that boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

I don't do a big lot most weekends like to chill on ky time off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, life is too short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s normal for me every weekend

I think it has become more normal for lots since lockdown, many can’t be arsed now

I'm in that boat"

It’s not necessarily a bad thing

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"That’s normal for me every weekend

I think it has become more normal for lots since lockdown, many can’t be arsed now "

I thought it was an age thing. I'll take that excuse though.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Can you expand on 'not doing anything'- as i quite like just mooching round the house doing a bit of DIY, washing the car, pissing round with 'stuff' in the garage.

While i don't get going in the morning that quickly, once i do, i'm not really a 'sit round and do nowt' sort of person

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Monday and Tuesday is the new weekend.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

4 weekends out of 8 hubby is working (he works nights) so we do nothing on those weekends. So on the 4 he has off we have to try and fit in everything we want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you write something really funny then delete it by accident grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s normal for me every weekend

I think it has become more normal for lots since lockdown, many can’t be arsed now

I'm in that boat

It’s not necessarily a bad thing "

To be fair it is quite nice just to relax

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Can we also normalise leaving jobs that don’t make you happy. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you write something really funny then delete it by accident grrrr "

What was it?? You got to say it now lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isn't normal?

Op probably wouldn’t know this because she’s about that life

I actually wish

Perspective is a funny thing. I'd love something to do every weekend to take me away from the usual responsibilities of adulting. Enjoy it while you can, those times won't last forever "

I would if I could but I'm not having "those times"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking forward to my next weekend of doing nothing, but then I get bored easily and want to do something

Pxx

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I don’t like doing nothing. It’s boring. I like to have plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lead a very boring weekend. After a week of work I really just need to do nothing, relax and recharge by myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn't normal?

Op probably wouldn’t know this because she’s about that life

I actually wish

Perspective is a funny thing. I'd love something to do every weekend to take me away from the usual responsibilities of adulting. Enjoy it while you can, those times won't last forever

I would if I could but I'm not having "those times" "

Ahhh apologies, I misunderstood and thought you were complaining about always going out when you don't want to

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Unfortunately i have to work most weekends i make up for it on my days off though

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

I'm a Professional at this lol

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun


"I lead a very boring weekend. After a week of work I really just need to do nothing, relax and recharge by myself x"

Don't leave it plugged in for too long, the price of electricity .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lead a very boring weekend. After a week of work I really just need to do nothing, relax and recharge by myself x

Don't leave it plugged in for too long, the price of electricity ."

I barely have anything plugged in

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

I will be found in my garden planting out my broccoli and cutting my grass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we normalise waiting in a queue and not asking to go in front of people just because you have less items?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Torn between working 60 hour weeks and wanting to do nothing on the weekend to recover

Vs

Working 60 hour weeks and needing to do something on the weekend to actually have a life worth living

Any advice welcomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Torn between working 60 hour weeks and wanting to do nothing on the weekend to recover

Vs

Working 60 hour weeks and needing to do something on the weekend to actually have a life worth living

Any advice welcomed "

Try not to work 60 hour weeks and make more time for yourself because it’s important. Then try mixing it up with both.

Or

Join a commune

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Torn between working 60 hour weeks and wanting to do nothing on the weekend to recover

Vs

Working 60 hour weeks and needing to do something on the weekend to actually have a life worth living

Any advice welcomed

Try not to work 60 hour weeks and make more time for yourself because it’s important. Then try mixing it up with both.

Or

Join a commune"

With the cost of living and house prices they way they are, any suggestions on good communes around the London/Manchester area anyone?

Not into that culty stuff but I’m open minded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can we normalise waiting in a queue and not asking to go in front of people just because you have less items? "

Or just say "OK but can you put my items through with yours?"

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

But, drinking?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Torn between working 60 hour weeks and wanting to do nothing on the weekend to recover

Vs

Working 60 hour weeks and needing to do something on the weekend to actually have a life worth living

Any advice welcomed

Try not to work 60 hour weeks and make more time for yourself because it’s important. Then try mixing it up with both.

Or

Join a commune

With the cost of living and house prices they way they are, any suggestions on good communes around the London/Manchester area anyone?

Not into that culty stuff but I’m open minded "

Not sure but you can live in my head rent free if you want

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I've had too many busy weekends recently so, this time i'm having a restful one (unless i get any spontaneous invited for tea & cake).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we normalise waiting in a queue and not asking to go in front of people just because you have less items?

Or just say "OK but can you put my items through with yours?" "

Bro, You’re a nightmare fr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of time work weekends not this weekend lol garden early tomorrow few beers followed by fa cup final Saturday LFC

Sunday dinner then ready for work Monday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can we normalise waiting in a queue and not asking to go in front of people just because you have less items?

Or just say "OK but can you put my items through with yours?"

Bro, You’re a nightmare fr.

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OK but pls admit you were thinking to yourself you've gotta try that next time

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Nope 600 mile ride and 6hrs of ferry (all round trip) to visit my dad

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

I'm doing sod all this weekend other than recovering from a head cold!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Not doing anything at the weekend? "

I'm down for that, please can you contact my employer and tell them that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we normalise waiting in a queue and not asking to go in front of people just because you have less items?

Or just say "OK but can you put my items through with yours?"

Bro, You’re a nightmare fr.

OK but pls admit you were thinking to yourself you've gotta try that next time "

Low-key. Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we normalise people not thinking you’re free just because you have no plans. Sometimes doing nothing is all I want to do on a weekend.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Food shop, washing, cup final, tech work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have if it can't be done mon to Friday it can do one at the weekend it's my time ushally footy few beers perv on here.

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