FabSwingers.com forum: Messaging…

By *leasurabletimes1 OP Man
over a year ago

Tidworth

So do ppl actually message back on this as I know it’s like 100:1 on here lol but surely if there’s a polite message at least something lol or I just don’t get it lol what’s a man to do lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Lower your expectations.

And read the hundreds of other threads about this very same topic, there is good advice on them.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Oh... You're married. That's the problem.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I message back if I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A verification in 4 weeks.. someone must have replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep iv only had 6 people not message back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never have I ever replied to a message.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

"Oh... You're married. That's the problem."

This.

Your honesty is admirable, OP, but despite whatever people see this site as, many members will have sympathy for your unsuspecting wife.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Yes, I reply to most.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Never have I ever replied to a message."

You replied to me a while back...

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I have quite chats with lovely people on here. Some are friends, some are on hotlists. Be yourself, be fun, be honest and open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never have I ever replied to a message.

You replied to me a while back...

Shhh don’t tell the others or they’ll get jealous.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I'd be on all day even just sending a polite message to all 700 messages in my inbox.

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By *leasurabletimes1 OP Man
over a year ago

Tidworth

I get I’m not for everyone I’m not expecting to be and once I know I’m not for them I leave it be. Some on meet for a social and we still chat but that is it lol I like many other I guess aren’t expecting much. Maybe a reply back saying yes or no or something would make the difference I think.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Just don't message.

Your percentage of response will increase dramatically if you let someone message you first

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By *leasurabletimes1 OP Man
over a year ago

Tidworth

I know you would I do get that but how can we stand out haha when messaging lol see also if I can improve on messages I send lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will an inbox full of ‘no thank you’ improve your fab experience?

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By *leasurabletimes1 OP Man
over a year ago

Tidworth

"Will an inbox full of ‘no thank you’ improve your fab experience?"

No but I’m also trying to get advice lol

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I know you would I do get that but how can we stand out haha when messaging lol see also if I can improve on messages I send lol "

You stand out enough already, you are married. That's a massive red flag in most cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't we just have a thread saying we shouldn't reply if we're not interested? I'm so confused.

Pxx

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If they like the look of you/your profile, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the forums and reply my own comments so I feel less lonely

I sometimes message myself too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't reply back to messages for a number of reasons (that is in my profile too!), The basic "how's you", dicks in their profile pics, if an effort has been made to message me, I'll make the effort to message back.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"I use the forums and reply my own comments so I feel less lonely

I sometimes message myself too x "

Me, myself and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't we just have a thread saying we shouldn't reply if we're not interested? I'm so confused.

Pxx"

Yes….The thread from 20 wks ago. …….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the forums and reply my own comments so I feel less lonely

I sometimes message myself too x

Me, myself and I"

#monologue

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Ah,the Fab soliloquy.

'Man delights not me. No, nor women neither.'

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What are your messages like? The vast majority we get don't warrant a reply.

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