FabSwingers.com forum: Why Reply,just delete and Block.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Manners dude. Manners

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This is a joke thread right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

I must be rude then

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I just delete

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

We are damned if we do and damned if we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block button is in constant use

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

Really?

Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.

It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply with a picture of my hairy arse and tell them to fuck off, then block.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Manners dude. Manners

I must be rude then

I thought you of all people would know this

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"We are damned if we do and damned if we don't."

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

Why tell people how to manage their own inboxes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

Really?

Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.

It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

You can't win on here!! Men complain about getting blocked or left on read.

They even complain about not getting a "no thanks".

I give up, I just block.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"We are damned if we do and damned if we don't."

Really can't please everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My block button is in constant use"

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

I must be rude then

I thought you of all people would know this

I do I do

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Haha. Is this for real?

I do delete and block, unless it’s someone I recognise from the forum in which case I will reply.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Just block first. Who needs messages from people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just delete"

Fine lady you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a joke thread right?

No joke at all.

I have viewed many a post. And most parts of the forum.

So was just gauging what it's all about.

If I send a message

. No reply I move on. If I get blocked well even more easier for me.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I just delete"

You never deleted me

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Manners dude. Manners

Really?

Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.

It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind. "

So you only apply your ‘manners’ when applying for a job or acting ‘professionally’ WOW

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

An interesting twist

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

"This is a joke thread right?

No joke at all.

I have viewed many a post. And most parts of the forum.

So was just gauging what it's all about.

If I send a message

. No reply I move on. If I get blocked well even more easier for me.

Or you can just block those that don't reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

Oh god, we can't win can we, whatever we do is going to cause someone to have a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get messages??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

You can't win on here!! Men complain about getting blocked or left on read.

They even complain about not getting a "no thanks".

I give up, I just block.

There is a truth and proof in the very put in . When somebody does want to on a wavelength they will find a way to text/chat/message and otherwise.

When nit. There is silence.

Oh they opened it and read it. But I am waiting for a reply.

And have read manytime. Some get abused for it all.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Manners dude. Manners

And then you open yourself to.. well why not? What can I change? Well you met them! Ect ect….

So at what point do you stop conversing?

Heck… mindset… everything is a no until told otherwise.. people then don’t get as much angst

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a joke thread right?

No joke at all.

I have viewed many a post. And most parts of the forum.

So was just gauging what it's all about.

If I send a message

. No reply I move on. If I get blocked well even more easier for me.

Or you can just block those that don't reply

I think it's all about timing,

Yeah block is so simple.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"People get messages??"

I messaged you the other day,spoke to you for a bit and made your day. What more do you want!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

Why tell people how to manage their own inboxes?

It's a forum. Put out there.

Or does it seem like people are being told what to do??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

Love manners all day everyday until the sun sets and we all shut our eyes.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

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yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dependent on one’s mood, volume of messages rec’d, message context, etc...

find simpler to just ignore the messages that ask silly questions to which they already have an answer to, had they bothered to read profile...

some peeps make more effort than others in their messaging, these I tend to make time to answer as opposed to the simple Hi, winks, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?"

No issue whatsoever from any context.

Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

You can't win here sometimes

So many moan they don't get replies

Now a moan if you do reply !

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve got a sade ear worm now

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

So many posts on ‘why not reply? - even if it’s a no thanks, it’s polite and no need to be rude or ignorant’

Now we’ve got ‘why reply? If it’s a no thanks why not just block?’

Jesus Christ we can’t win can we

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?

No issue whatsoever from any context.

Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??

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actually I do reply to all my messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't win here sometimes

So many moan they don't get replies

Now a moan if you do reply !"

Funny old thing heh.

Iam chilled and cool with the methods applied.

Many may take abuse as a reply! Oh they responded to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve got a sade ear worm now

Sade. Smooth voice, Deff best hits worth listening too.

For the ears .

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I think people can do what they like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?

No issue whatsoever from any context.

Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??

actually I do reply to all my messages. "

A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?

No issue whatsoever from any context.

Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??

actually I do reply to all my messages.

A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above. "
it doesn't take a lot when you don't get many messages. A lot of women get many more xx

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?

No issue whatsoever from any context.

Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??

actually I do reply to all my messages.

A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above. "

I too used to respond with a "no thank you" to all of my messages that the profile etc didn't interest me, then over the weekend I was threatened by a guy, so even though I have manners I won't be using them in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We are damned if we do and damned if we don't."

right?!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If they've sent a well thought out msg, I might politely decline with a message.

Usually that's not the case, so they just get deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?

No issue whatsoever from any context.

Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??

actually I do reply to all my messages.

A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above. it doesn't take a lot when you don't get many messages. A lot of women get many more xx"

I truely don't believe you.

Why would they get more?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So many posts on ‘why not reply? - even if it’s a no thanks, it’s polite and no need to be rude or ignorant’

Now we’ve got ‘why reply? If it’s a no thanks why not just block?’

Jesus Christ we can’t win can we "

Your correct in this world of Hormones.

Difficult to please all, I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think people can do what they like"

Horses for courses.

Maybe afew donkeys in there for the ride..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

Really?

Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.

No way the manners select switch is Jammed in the full on mode its melting.

It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind.

So you only apply your ‘manners’ when applying for a job or acting ‘professionally’ WOW

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

Really?

Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.

It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind.

So you only apply your ‘manners’ when applying for a job or acting ‘professionally’ WOW

The manners button is fully left in the on Postion. And melting with the heat.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Bloody hell. We can't win.

Moan if you block, moan if you reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My block button is in constant use

Brill.

Simple method applied. No reply move on.

Block is what it is.

yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?

No issue whatsoever from any context.

Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??

actually I do reply to all my messages.

A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above.

Not a nice response you got from him.

And you shall apply accordingly..

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

If someone msg me saying , sorry nice but not for us , i wouldn't take in the wrong way at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete "

Well stated. Very valid point.

Some may take it as a door ajar to still try the sales pitch or maybe angle.

How we react sends all types of signals.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If it’s a well thought out message then we’ll reply.

If it’s a dick pic, one liner, FaF or copy and paste message we’ll just delete.

We did get this the other day - someone saying why did you message to say no thanks, told us where to go.

Obviously this made C so turned on we tried to message but they’d blocked us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

And then you open yourself to.. well why not? What can I change? Well you met them! Ect ect….

So at what point do you stop conversing?

Heck… mindset… everything is a no until told otherwise.. people then don’t get as much angst "

Can't win ever heh!!

We all still here to tell the tales.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

I do delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete "

Same

My block button is on fire these days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

I do delete! "

The most used/ over used button ever.

They should provide a " Platinum super duper DELETE TO ORBIT button. On Fab. Lol

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Just block first. Who needs messages from people"

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If someone msg me saying , sorry nice but not for us , i wouldn't take in the wrong way at all "

It should not be taken wrong at all. Its very polite they took the time to let you know where you stand. And gently let you slip away and ponder your not for them. And keep improving your CV on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel like a block and or delete is better than unread. Well I think it is anyway.

It's clear where you stand then.

But it's each to their own

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s a well thought out message then we’ll reply.

If it’s a dick pic, one liner, FaF or copy and paste message we’ll just delete.

We did get this the other day - someone saying why did you message to say no thanks, told us where to go.

Obviously this made C so turned on we tried to message but they’d blocked us

Wow the very best if both worlds heh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete

Same

My block button is on fire these days "

Fab will become so Blocked!! dyno rod will be Millionaires from this Dire Blockage!!

block block block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete

Same

My block button is on fire these days "

Fab will become so Blocked!! dyno rod will be Millionaires from this Dire Blockage!!

block block block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I message a woman, and it gets read then deleted, I'll block them. Saving the humiliation of me doing it again and looking like a proper desperado.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bloody hell. We can't win.

Moan if you block, moan if you reply

We are profoundly a proud nation of moaners!!

No moaning in the bedrooms. Leave that all to the Italians and franchises.

Our best moan is about the Weather daily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I message a woman, and it gets read then deleted, I'll block them. Saving the humiliation of me doing it again and looking like a proper desperado."

That's a very easy peasy method to apply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe a 3 point step of rule with manners to be applied to responses,declines,and No's. In messaging..

Like an old school dogging etiquette's..

1) when headlights are flashed,your invited.

2) come close to the car,look ,wank,but do not touch ever.

3) when winked at and given the full (green light ) all systems go go.

Please do add to this, it is very basic and brief..

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Manners "

It is thought of the day.

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

Why tell people how to manage their own inboxes?

Couldn’t agree more

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

You do it your way.

I do it my way.

Simple

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

We see it as being polite!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

People can do with their messages as they see fit . None of your business if they decide to block or reply with a “not for me…”

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We cant reply to all our messages.

We sometimes delete all messages.

Had to make our profile hidden as getting too many messages and some really vile pushy messages.

Some ppl on here think that they are gods gift and deserve a reply or meet.

Him

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"This is a joke thread right?

Yes.

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I am sure that for most people will depend on the message. Some will just delete, some delete and block some answer with a polite no and some will encourage further conversation. Context plays a part. Not all cold callers sell double glazing and even then someone may be looking for just that at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a joke thread right?

Must be...

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

Saying sorry is weird , it’s like your apologising for what ? Just saying nothing is best

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

A tip.

Always make sure you read the profile before making contact.

It's all about respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

Really?

Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.

It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind. "

If it was then I’m afraid “your” fired!

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

They can’t win .. you saying just delete and block and other guys saying just reply and tell us they don’t like you

You send a message

I say each to their own

Deal with the out Cutcome

Delete and block or a reply telling you they don’t want anything to do with you

Deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply. I then reply again if they don’t acknowledge that I’ve replied. If I then don’t get a reply to that. I then send insults for them being ignorant f’kwits….

I don’t.

I think I’ve only ever not replied twice. The messages were insulting. But other times I hate the ignorance of ‘not replying is a polite no’. Each to their own, but not for me.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Proof that you can't please everyone.

If you don't reply they call ya rude, if you do reply you are a time waster. Just can't win.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Manners dude. Manners

Really?

Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.

It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind.

If it was then I’m afraid “your” fired!

Cheers

we all are in the fire here lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.

A tip.

Always make sure you read the profile before making contact.

It's all about respect."

Read profile and respond accordingly . Much arises from not reading and then acting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people can't be bothered to read a profile and send a message that reflects the contents, why should we be bothered to respond.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If people can't be bothered to read a profile and send a message that reflects the contents, why should we be bothered to respond."

Spot on

Delete/block apply. So no more tennis is played with messages.

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