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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really I like to see who’s looked at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really easy to fix that - Leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it takes a lot of work and patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it takes a lot of work and patience"

It could be that Leicester is dryer than a desert when it comes to sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you use both

Most people don’t put the effort in

And most people allow others off with minimum effort while screeming form the roof tops

Your profile dose not stand out

This that and the other

Get your self to clubs op

Get your self to socials

And those people that screemed your profile didn’t stand out

Turn them down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

Oh no not again and with that I'm out of here to enjoy this sunny afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all I think it’s amazing value

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you expect for your money OP.

I don't see anything that would be of benefit to me so I don't bother with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

You get what you pay for.. it's free..

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

Just don't renew your site supporters pass and stay on the site anyway, I find it's good value myself. It's up to each individual person's circumstances and how they use the site.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"No not really I like to see who’s looked at me "

Ah, but do you get to see how closely they looked?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Really easy to fix that - Leave"

He's only asking a question. No need for that reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it takes a lot of work and patience

It could be that Leicester is dryer than a desert when it comes to sex x"

Nothing to do with location/Area's.

Like anything in this life people are visually selective.

Like most Cv's on paper.

And in the flesh it's a whole diff ball game.

The internet has surely killed the art and inter personal skills,seduction and game of Flirting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really I like to see who’s looked at me

Ah, but do you get to see how closely they looked? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it about £35 for a year!? Lol. Thats hardly breaking the bank.

To be honest my concerns now would be if your gonna moan about a measly £35 for a years membership, then I can't see you putting your hand in your pocket to make the effort to a) groom, b) dress in nice clothes, c) be arsed to put fuel in your car to travel to a meet. Etc etc.

Your sounding incredibly cheap and also bitter that you feel your not getting your monies worth

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No, I like to be able to see my message trail and it's only a fiver and supports the site .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not really I like to see who’s looked at me "

I love honey but be careful of that bee

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

OP, the site supporter simply gives you more flexibility and options on using this site and your profile.

It has no bearing on your objectives or the outcomes. Attending the organised socials can open up a world of opportunities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really easy to fix that - Leave

He's only asking a question. No need for that reply."

Everything is .

" leave" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think a silver membership great value for a fiver

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really easy to fix that - Leave

He's only asking a question. No need for that reply.

Everything is .

" leave" lol

"

I ain't leaving yet. Got 169 days of site supporter left still

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

I find the private notes facility for site supporters invaluable,and at a fiver for a couple of months to me it's worth the money for that alone

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

OP, what makes you feel its a waste of money and time?

Maybe you consider just having a free profile in future

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
over a year ago

York

It’s only a few quid, but unsure I’ll renew.

It’s been an interesting 4 weeks for sure.

My eyes have been opened somewhat to how nice, and not so nice, people on a swinging site can be!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Personally, I think a silver membership great value for a fiver "

Me too, works out at less than 62p/week. I'll be renewing mine soon.

True, you don't get much more for it but that's because fab allows you to do so much for free; I think that the little extras do provide a better user experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really easy to fix that - Leave

He's only asking a question. No need for that reply.

Everything is .

" leave" lol

I ain't leaving yet. Got 169 days of site supporter left still"

Ride out the tenancy term on here.

Many many many more wonders iam sure you will come across on here.

You may be enlightened,eye opener and a learning curve.

Out in the wider society we most wear Rose tinted glasses.

The internet.

Is so called clothed! Yet stark very bare.

Enjoy fabbbaa dabbba doo dooo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X

OP, what makes you feel its a waste of money and time?

Maybe you consider just having a free profile in future"

Nothing happens. I read the profiles and send a message in regards to what it says, try and make it a little funny of course. But the main issue is nothing happens. It's a site for d**k tease. It's like a strip club but virtual x

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
over a year ago

York


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X

OP, what makes you feel its a waste of money and time?

Maybe you consider just having a free profile in future

Nothing happens. I read the profiles and send a message in regards to what it says, try and make it a little funny of course. But the main issue is nothing happens. It's a site for d**k tease. It's like a strip club but virtual x"

The main problem I think is that the ratio of men to women/couples is obviously huge, and most women/couples receive way too much mail, and a large majority of it, is not what they are after, so all us single men get tarred with the same brush.

I’m the same as you OP as in I read a profile and send a message appropriate to that profile, no dick pics unless asked for, and generally follow the “rules” set out on said profile, ie put banana in the subject title etc.

Maybe my face pics are horrible, or i’m just na ugly bastard I’m not though, i’m a handsome devil

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X

OP, what makes you feel its a waste of money and time?

Maybe you consider just having a free profile in future

Nothing happens. I read the profiles and send a message in regards to what it says, try and make it a little funny of course. But the main issue is nothing happens. It's a site for d**k tease. It's like a strip club but virtual x

The main problem I think is that the ratio of men to women/couples is obviously huge, and most women/couples receive way too much mail, and a large majority of it, is not what they are after, so all us single men get tarred with the same brush.

I’m the same as you OP as in I read a profile and send a message appropriate to that profile, no dick pics unless asked for, and generally follow the “rules” set out on said profile, ie put banana in the subject title etc.

Maybe my face pics are horrible, or i’m just na ugly bastard I’m not though, i’m a handsome devil "

I completely agree with you. I got one dick pic which is friends only, I don't even send it really. Nobody asks to see it hahaha. Ladies at work call me handsome but the cat fishes on here don't lol. That was only a joke x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

£5 per shag is a bit steep now that leccy prices have gone up as well

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By *andy and DannyCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

Silver is very good value as you still get enough pics to show yourselves, it also shows an element of commitment to the lifestyle and it is a lifestyle . The benefits far outwiegh the small cost imo , stick with it buddy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither a waste of money or waste of time for me personally. It's full of wank fodder even if that's all someone gets.

Fiver a month suits me fine I just drink one less pint of Peroni

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

It depends on what you think you are getting for your money.

Fab won't get you laid.

What fab will do is give you access to a community where you will find people who are enthusiastic about sex.

I think the membership is worth it. With the subscription I can hear melis voice. Without it I cannot.

I know that fab won't put me in the room with meli or frieda. That's up to me to organise if I can

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X

OP, what makes you feel its a waste of money and time?

Maybe you consider just having a free profile in future

Nothing happens. I read the profiles and send a message in regards to what it says, try and make it a little funny of course. But the main issue is nothing happens. It's a site for d**k tease. It's like a strip club but virtual x

The main problem I think is that the ratio of men to women/couples is obviously huge, and most women/couples receive way too much mail, and a large majority of it, is not what they are after, so all us single men get tarred with the same brush.

I’m the same as you OP as in I read a profile and send a message appropriate to that profile, no dick pics unless asked for, and generally follow the “rules” set out on said profile, ie put banana in the subject title etc.

Maybe my face pics are horrible, or i’m just na ugly bastard I’m not though, i’m a handsome devil

I completely agree with you. I got one dick pic which is friends only, I don't even send it really. Nobody asks to see it hahaha. Ladies at work call me handsome but the cat fishes on here don't lol. That was only a joke x"

the way to stand out from the hordes of male users on here is to go to socials or events. Become more than a profile. Become yourself and I'm pretty sure you will get much more attention

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

£5 should buy being balls deep in minge within 5 min of buying the supporters’ pass.

Otherwise it’s a waste of money

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"£5 should buy being balls deep in minge within 5 min of buying the supporters’ pass.

Otherwise it’s a waste of money "

Guaranteed or your money back

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I waste more money on chocolate in a week than I do on here in a year.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Good value fir money I would say £30 for 10 months just renewed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair to Fab, I think they hit the pricing sweet spot when they launched the site 15 odd years ago. It will be hugely profitable for them but not at a level that would put anyone off. Having renewable by phone also handy as it avoids bank statement issues.

And it's not risen since. Wish I could say that about a pint.

If I was to have one gripe it would be that the site design has barely changed in that time. But it still works well with a bit of patience.

Good luck.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s actually really good value, especially compared to lesser, yet more expensive sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I support it when I'm in the UK but travelling oversea soon, will rejoin when i get back to the UK so I can use more of the features

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't mind paying for the extra benefits of being a site supporter like message trail and notes .It's not exactly expensive.

If you expected sex or replies just because you paid a few quid then I suppose you are bound to be dissappointed because I don't think it will make the slightest difference in that situation .

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

No I don't get that feeling at all

I've put the leg work in and it's paying dividends I've met some fantastic people and I continue to do so

But you have to put the effort in whether you pay site supporter fees or not

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think it takes a lot of work and patience

It could be that Leicester is dryer than a desert when it comes to sex x"

I lived on Leicester for 30 years and only recently moved. The scene there's awsome with clubs on your doorstep.

I held group socials and parties all the time, it was busy!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

We used to be site supporters when we were more active.

Haven't been for years.

You can use the site easily enough for free if you're bothered by paying £2.50/ mth

The site will be a waste of time for some. But that's nothing to do with the site and everything to do with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Becoming a supporter doesn't mean you are more likely to get a meet. It's about getting the benefits of the site itself

There are loads of forum posts about how to UP your chances of getting a meet - take advantage of the advice

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Definitely not a waste of money for what you get - an active community, busy forums, clubs and socials, and lots of people to chat to if things go well. I'd even say it's amazing value

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

No, quite good VFM.

NOT A DIG AT YOU - Work on yer pics? Not looked at your profile. There is always room for improvement. Me included!

If you are unhappy, try a club instead op?

If still unhappy take a break, connect with family/friends? Then come back?

An open mind is always good to have wherever you are and wherever you go!

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By *remiumbondMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

What’s the difference between Silver & Gold ??

I upgraded to Gold thinking I’d see a difference or be able to post a video!!!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"What’s the difference between Silver & Gold ??

I upgraded to Gold thinking I’d see a difference or be able to post a video!!!! "

Gold is more yellow than silver.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I think it takes a lot of work and patience

It could be that Leicester is dryer than a desert when it comes to sex x"

2 of the bested clubs, in the country in travelling distance for Leicester

Stop waiting for things to happen and make them happen..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I think it's worth it for the ability to see 4 cams at once, message trails, post & watch vids, and see who looked at my profile.

Sad it's not got me instant dick delivery to my door though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

Think there's better things to spend your money on to be honest...all depends on how hard hard up you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I think it's worth it for the ability to see 4 cams at once, message trails, post & watch vids, and see who looked at my profile.

Sad it's not got me instant dick delivery to my door though "

You need Platinum membership for that I'm afraid. £10 a month but you also get 10% off Wimpy on Sundays as well as dick to door delivery.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Do any of you fabbers also get the feeling this site supporter is a waste of money? Or is the site a waste of time? X"

No, I'm happy (with the cost and the site). But we've all got to make that call for ourselves, haven't we.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Nope

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