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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure if I’m wasting my time on here or not as I’ve only had 1 meet but I’m a young genuine lad looking for older women however seems to be a bit of a struggle on this site no one takes it serious just a few messages then onto the next haha are any women actually interested in younger men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like to see public photos

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The truth is that you are at the very young end of the age range and you will get less interest. It's the same at the other end and it would seem all the ages in between. You have one advantage in that you will grow older, stay positive, look and learn and hopefully you'll achieve your aim. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People like to see public photos "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any ladies into young men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah we can’t hold a conversation and use 2 much txt speke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ladies into young men? "
not sure but there’s some into you

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By *ilted CowboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wil be hard at your age as you have no idea how many guys are in a women's inbox on here. Most women in that age rage are also very experienced and want more than just a big dick. No public photos will really hold you back as will being unverified. Don't use a dick pic as a profile pic or send one without being asked.

I'd also consider a little white lie and set your age to 21. Women appreciate a profile that gives some insight into you. You need to stand as they have their pick of hundreds of guys. Don't talk to them meet or say anything you wouldn't in a pub etc.

Not saying I'm a sex guru or anything but I've never had an issue with finding someone. That being said I prefer regular FWB to ONS so that also helps as most women want more than a one of quickie

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Wil be hard at your age as you have no idea how many guys are in a women's inbox on here. Most women in that age rage are also very experienced and want more than just a big dick. No public photos will really hold you back as will being unverified. Don't use a dick pic as a profile pic or send one without being asked.

I'd also consider a little white lie and set your age to 21. Women appreciate a profile that gives some insight into you. You need to stand as they have their pick of hundreds of guys. Don't talk to them meet or say anything you wouldn't in a pub etc.

Not saying I'm a sex guru or anything but I've never had an issue with finding someone. That being said I prefer regular FWB to ONS so that also helps as most women want more than a one of quickie "

DO NOT lie about anything, you will be found out.

There are plenty of women who like younger men but it doesn't mean they will want to meet you and without photos, you have no chance at all

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By *ilted CowboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I do agree and was reluctant to say it but 19 and 21 isn't a huge deal numerically but I think there's definitely a very small number of women that would go that young as mature women. Most I see have 21 and over that are looking for cubs as a lot in that late 30s and over age range will have teenage kids not far from his age so it stops them feeling creepy (this is direct from 2 different 40+ women I know). I gave him credit for having the initiative to ask for advice so I think if he takes everything else into account that one little white lie isn't too bad. Appreciate some will disagree with any fibs at all though and that's fair enough.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Just no ... Don't lie about your age!!! That immediately puts me off if I find out, big no no.

Tbh you're the same age as my son, and most "older" women on here will have kids that age or older, so wouldn't even consider meeting a teenager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wil be hard at your age as you have no idea how many guys are in a women's inbox on here. Most women in that age rage are also very experienced and want more than just a big dick. No public photos will really hold you back as will being unverified. Don't use a dick pic as a profile pic or send one without being asked.

I'd also consider a little white lie and set your age to 21. Women appreciate a profile that gives some insight into you. You need to stand as they have their pick of hundreds of guys. Don't talk to them meet or say anything you wouldn't in a pub etc.

Not saying I'm a sex guru or anything but I've never had an issue with finding someone. That being said I prefer regular FWB to ONS so that also helps as most women want more than a one of quickie "

This I agree with. And definitely get a profile picture (not a dick), which is of your body, plus a few more decent public pictures. And sound normal and chatty when you message them.

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By *ilted CowboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Kinda proving my point though Also, there's a fair number of self described cougars or women that prefer young guys but the ones that do usually have 21 as the absolute minimum. So the late 30s ones that have kids in the early mid teens age of 15/16 etc Feel creepy with it set at 18 but not if it's into the early 20s.

Just giving my perspective of a fellow lover of mature women. When I was 19/20 I was the play thing of several women aged 37 - 46 and that was their view.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Like everything on here their are women that do like younger men and women that don’t .

I’m not sure as you haven’t said how mature you like your women but most of the women we know who like younger men normally go for 21 plus .

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Not sure if I’m wasting my time on here or not as I’ve only had 1 meet but I’m a young genuine lad looking for older women however seems to be a bit of a struggle on this site no one takes it serious just a few messages then onto the next haha are any women actually interested in younger men?"

Not that young no and looking at your profile a second no

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Was my dream in my late teens early twenties. Wished for an older woman or couple to control me , feminise me and take me down a fetish lifestyle path ………. Didn’t happen x

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

I hope i’m not ‘too’ young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danm son you make me feel old. Read a book, get a degree or get a mortgage or something

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I like younger men, but very rarely will I meet anyone under 30 years old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I’ll meet a younger man …. Not too young, maybe 47

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville


"I like younger men, but very rarely will I meet anyone under 30 years old. "

Well its a good job i’m 31

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Lots of women like younger men, myself included.

But I wouldn't meet one just to fulfil HIS fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any ladies into young men? "

I like younger men and let's face it 46 is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure if I’m wasting my time on here or not as I’ve only had 1 meet but I’m a young genuine lad looking for older women however seems to be a bit of a struggle on this site no one takes it serious just a few messages then onto the next haha are any women actually interested in younger men?"

Hi mate, speaking from experience here as I first joined the site when I was your age, over 10 years ago. Definitely get your profile straightened up, you will get more luck if you catch someone’s eye, if your profile has a bit about it then people will be more inclined to pay more attention.

Get some pictures uploaded, and for gods sake don’t flood your profile with dick pics, they don’t wanna see that, write more about yourself and keep active on the status update.

When you’re messaging someone make sure you have read their profile IN FULL! Before messaging, maybe pay some interest in what they written about when you message, always put a subject as that’s the first thing they look at before throwing you in the bin.

Always attach a pic! No matter what it is you’re talking about, attach a pic, some people will just scroll past or delete if they don’t see the little paperclip icon to say there’s a pic attached.

Be polite, be kind and be patient.

More importantly be respectful and never pushy!

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of women like younger men, myself included.

But I wouldn't meet one just to fulfil HIS fantasy "

Hi! Hello! Hey! Have we met? I’m Steve.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Plenty of us like younger guys but they, as all single men the same, must realise that fab is not easy for single men.

They thus need to use the site to maximise their potential here. This always means improving their profile, to sell them as best they can. We often look for you guys, so if you've not got pics we can see, or written text that sells you well, we will have limited need or interest raised, to consider you. Remember, there are thousands of other single men and those who spark our interest, get the attention.

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal


"Will be hard at your age as you have no idea how many guys are in a women's inbox on here."

Surely some double entendres here?

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By *ilted CowboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Only if you have a perverted mind...which means most of us are thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to meet the older ladies who I’m always more attracted to, it’s a shame, especially when they even say that they find you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are loads of older women who like and prefer younger men, one thing I did learn though is that some women may not want to be sexually involved with someone the same age as their own son or daughter which is completely understandable.

Have you tried setting the age range you want in your search and ticking the "I am the age they are looking for" box. That may help

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

My advice...move South and try a tranny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice...move South and try a tranny "

Ahaha. Absolute Qween.

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