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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many people actually use their real names on their profile.?...just wandering as myself and friend (who has a profile on here...and doesn't use her real name on her profile ) met a couple at chams on Wednesday...who had same Christian names..(steve and sue )...but different name on profile...and we would like to keep in touch...but forgot their profile name...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I use my real name. I'd forget I have changed it and be ignoring people in a social situation

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We use our real names x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I know and trust have my real name...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I know and trust have my real name..."

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Same here!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I don't use mine on my profile but I do if I meet someone in person.

Having said that, when I meet people from the forums socially most call me jez and I'm so used to that now I don't think twice....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to have a fake name on my profile and after a similar thread i felt really bad, i came clean and made a public confession

I don't have a name on my profile anymore, some people know it others don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have my initial on mine, but think a lot of people know my name. Dont mind people knowing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all me on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep all me on my profile "

you tell fibs David lol

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yep all me on my profile

you tell fibs David lol "

I thought his name was Paul!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still remember the first social I attended at a club.

I walked into the balcony at A&G, looked around and did not recognise anyone.

As I headed back downstairs, I heard people calling "Pearl, Pearl" and it dawned on me that was me they were calling for!

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

We use real names our swinging names, its our alter ego's and it works well.

When we get to the point of meeting then we will disclose our christened names.

Saying that we still get called Frank and Simone by all our swinging friends

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Yep all me on my profile

you tell fibs David lol

I thought his name was Paul!? "

He told me Aloysius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my real name Mon to Fri I am Sharon when I go out to play its Shazza x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep all me on my profile

you tell fibs David lol

I thought his name was Paul!? "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF my birth certificate says Pubert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use real names, but more often than not im knowb as jules, both on and off site x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I use to have a fake name on my profile and after a similar thread i felt really bad, i came clean and made a public confession

I don't have a name on my profile anymore, some people know it others don't"

I liked that old name I even made a poem lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use to have a fake name on my profile and after a similar thread i felt really bad, i came clean and made a public confession

I don't have a name on my profile anymore, some people know it others don't

I liked that old name I even made a poem lol"

Im surprised you remember .... I poem!! Oh god help me

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I use to have a fake name on my profile and after a similar thread i felt really bad, i came clean and made a public confession

I don't have a name on my profile anymore, some people know it others don't

I liked that old name I even made a poem lol

Im surprised you remember .... I poem!! Oh god help me "

I can't remember the words it was a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use to have a fake name on my profile and after a similar thread i felt really bad, i came clean and made a public confession

I don't have a name on my profile anymore, some people know it others don't

I liked that old name I even made a poem lol

Im surprised you remember .... I poem!! Oh god help me

I can't remember the words it was a long time ago "

I feel somewhat relieved

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon

I don't use my birth name, rather a shortened version of my confirmation name (Margaret) as I prefer that - a lot of friends on here know my birth name and use it at socials - confuses the people that don't know me that well, but my family know I get called by both and I was introduced to Jim's family as Meg but they know its not my birth name - it's never been a problem. I'm not trying to hide anything, just like to be called Meg

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"I don't use my birth name, rather a shortened version of my confirmation name (Margaret) as I prefer that - a lot of friends on here know my birth name and use it at socials - confuses the people that don't know me that well, but my family know I get called by both and I was introduced to Jim's family as Meg but they know its not my birth name - it's never been a problem. I'm not trying to hide anything, just like to be called Meg "

that's not what you get called when you nick all the duvet

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't have my name on my profile, nor do I have a fake one. I just don't use any name till I meet people in the flesh.

Not sure why, but I'm so used to this way if doing things that it would be unsettling to use my name on a website!

But lots of people call me TD...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm Martin on Monday, Timothy on Tuesday, Walter on Wednesday, Thomas on Thursday, Frederick on Friday, Samuel on Saturday.

Sunday you can call me what you want

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I was Bryan yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ruby is not my real name, nor is sophia. In the club I'm my real name and I do tell people face to face if I'm organising a meet. I quite like my alter ego, its much classier than my real name!!

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Like to be called jay when meeting people off fab,it is my nickname so quite comfortable with it

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I was Bryan yesterday "

You're Bryan every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont put mine on my profile

however im not one of these people who have a fab name, a swinging name and then when i get to know you my real name comes out lol

if i get talking well to someone or meet them i just use my real name

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm getting used to being referred to as Lickety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont put mine on my profile

however im not one of these people who have a fab name, a swinging name and then when i get to know you my real name comes out lol

if i get talking well to someone or meet them i just use my real name"

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I knew yours while waiting at the bar at Chams!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I know and trust have my real name..."

Same, to others I'm LadyIce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I know and trust have my real name..."

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines almost real!

But if I used 'Tarquin' I'd probably never get any messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not only am called Minx I am one too

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"People I know and trust have my real name...

Same here."

Yeah right ho Penelope

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

I use my user name on her until I've been talking for a while then I will tell them my real name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I know and trust have my real name...

.

Same here!

"

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my real name, don't care who knows it, M likes M, but people who we talk to on here and trust know his name.

I did accidentally at a meet once before call him his surname as well and we don't think people should know our surname.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I use my real name, don't care who knows it, M likes M, but people who we talk to on here and trust know his name.

I did accidentally at a meet once before call him his surname as well and we don't think people should know our surname."

Good old Myron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use my real name, don't care who knows it, M likes M, but people who we talk to on here and trust know his name.

I did accidentally at a meet once before call him his surname as well and we don't think people should know our surname."

Im friends with people on facebook and so i've trusted those people with my surname. Through those friends i have also come across other users and because the pictures make it clear they are certain users i'm also aware of their details. I would never ever blab though and expose others information if i was told it in confidence or i obtained it by accident for example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont put mine on my profile

however im not one of these people who have a fab name, a swinging name and then when i get to know you my real name comes out lol

if i get talking well to someone or meet them i just use my real name"

That's the same for us. A kinky/swinging names and real names and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Jack and Kate aren't our real names but it's how people we've met here prefer to address us.

We always tell people our real names but I suppose we'll always be Jack and Kate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Most know my real name, but at socials i tend to get called diamond or di, I answer to anything really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use my real name, cant see the point in lying. Only have my initial on profile, but will introduce myself in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Perky and I were Christened as such and can produce our birth certificates to prove it!

Yeah, right...

Nah, we do use our real names in PM's and in person though. Too bloody old for all that subterfuge!!!

Although, if I were a single woman on here or any other site, I wouldn't use my real name at any time or under any circumstances. Too many weirdos around....

Pork

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

My real name is Carolyn which i shorten to Caz on here, however, in 'nilla land I'm known by a nickname which is a shortening of my maiden **coughs, was one once** name. I always tell meets my nickname but quite used to being called Caz too...Daz is Darren n Taz is Hannibal Lecter's more phycho younger herm_phrodite sibling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish taht was my real name!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mostly my real name on my profile, too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use my real name on my profile, but friends on here know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its mostly my real name on my profile, too!"

Professor XXX - that profile of yours should be in the Fabs Hall of Fame along with Bussy's

However, two points I must challenge you on: You state when the melon must be, but not the Satsuma? One assumes the same location?

And... you do seem to have a preoccupation with Sainsbury's. Some may even call it an obsession..... ? Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haven't got my name on my profile, but don't have a swinging name...if I'm speaking to someone I'll tell them my name though.

Have had meets with swinging names and I end up getting confused so now I just call everyone 'hun' to save me getting it wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed there does seem a lot of single blokes called "Dave" on the site...

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Profile name is my real name,well the shortened version of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I know and trust have my real name..."

Same here.

The initial K I use on my profile is for Kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its mostly my real name on my profile, too!

Professor XXX - that profile of yours should be in the Fabs Hall of Fame along with Bussy's

However, two points I must challenge you on: You state when the melon must be, but not the Satsuma? One assumes the same location?

And... you do seem to have a preoccupation with Sainsbury's. Some may even call it an obsession..... ? Discuss...

"

Why thank you! Im blushing now

I will give you it is inferred with respect to the location of the Satsuma should be the same as the Melon, however I always give extra attention to creative use of small fruit!

As for my Sainsbury's fetish - its all about those brown and orange uniforms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish taht was my real name!!!!"

You want to be called Taht? Unusual, but I've heard worse.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've noticed there does seem a lot of single blokes called "Dave" on the site... "
Not many Soxies though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines almost real!

But if I used 'Tarquin' I'd probably never get any messages! "

I'd still fuck you xxx I'm mel my nickname short for Michelle given to me by my wee bro when he just started speaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was Bryan yesterday "

You'll always be Penfold to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use my real name. I'd forget I have changed it and be ignoring people in a social situation "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed there does seem a lot of single blokes called "Dave" on the site... Not many Soxies though? "

Yes Affro,,,, you'd expect to see at least two.... although saying that!!!!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've noticed there does seem a lot of single blokes called "Dave" on the site... Not many Soxies though?

Yes Affro,,,, you'd expect to see at least two.... although saying that!!!! "
I would expect your alter ego, well one of them) to be called a variation on the theme "Soxy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines almost real!

But if I used 'Tarquin' I'd probably never get any messages!

I'd still fuck you xxx I'm mel my nickname short for Michelle given to me by my wee bro when he just started speaking "

cuthbert youve pulled!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Use my real name, though the last part is more my vocational calling.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I was Bryan yesterday

You'll always be Penfold to me "

If I decide to change my name on here. I will give that one serious consideration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mines almost real!

But if I used 'Tarquin' I'd probably never get any messages!

I'd still fuck you xxx I'm mel my nickname short for Michelle given to me by my wee bro when he just started speaking

cuthbert youve pulled!! "

And as always - so close to Wiltshire!!!

Meh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its mostly my real name on my profile, too!

Professor XXX - that profile of yours should be in the Fabs Hall of Fame along with Bussy's

However, two points I must challenge you on: You state when the melon must be, but not the Satsuma? One assumes the same location?

And... you do seem to have a preoccupation with Sainsbury's. Some may even call it an obsession..... ? Discuss...

Why thank you! Im blushing now

I will give you it is inferred with respect to the location of the Satsuma should be the same as the Melon, however I always give extra attention to creative use of small fruit!

As for my Sainsbury's fetish - its all about those brown and orange uniforms!

"

Hmmm... I can understand the orange uniform thing. I was quite uncontrollable last time I flew easyJet - Perky had to drag me to the toilet to calm me down.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I know and trust have my real name..."

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By *irty RascalMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

I use my real name

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Brighton isn't my real first name.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"I use my user name on her until I've been talking for a while then I will tell them my real name."

Love your username, shame you don't just live next door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use my real name "

Ben is an alter ego, as my real name would stand out down in this neck of the woods. When I have a meet, I generally tell me real name. Funny thing is when I go to a party and half the people call me by my real name and the other half call me Ben.

I kinda like Ben, prefer it to my real name, which I curse my parents for!!!

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro


"I use my real name "

I'd change it to Boner Simpson. It stands out a bit more

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I use my real name

I'd change it to Boner Simpson. It stands out a bit more"

Why of all the Homer's on the site are none of them Homer Erotic?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I use my real name

Ben is an alter ego, as my real name would stand out down in this neck of the woods. When I have a meet, I generally tell me real name. Funny thing is when I go to a party and half the people call me by my real name and the other half call me Ben.

What's wrong with 'Dick'? Perfect shortening of 'Richard'.

I kinda like Ben, prefer it to my real name, which I curse my parents for!!!"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I use my real name

I'd change it to Boner Simpson. It stands out a bit more

Why of all the Homer's on the site are none of them Homer Erotic?"

Cos they are all on an odyssey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ben is an alter ego, as my real name would stand out down in this neck of the woods. "

Why? It's not Rumplestiltskin is it???

Can well understand if it is.......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Is anyone called Dick or Fanny?

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro


"Ben is an alter ego, as my real name would stand out down in this neck of the woods.

Why? It's not Rumplestiltskin is it???

Can well understand if it is.......

"

No, it's Rinkledforeskin

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I know a lady called Meg and I amuse myself (hur! hur!) by shouting out 'it's meg' really fast.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ben is an alter ego, as my real name would stand out down in this neck of the woods.

Why? It's not Rumplestiltskin is it???

Can well understand if it is.......

No, it's Rinkledforeskin "

The irony of a jewish boy called Rumpledforeskin would be amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a lady called Meg and I amuse myself (hur! hur!) by shouting out 'it's meg' really fast....."

Must be related to that other lady, Amanda Hugenkiss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ben is an alter ego, as my real name would stand out down in this neck of the woods.

Why? It's not Rumplestiltskin is it???

Can well understand if it is.......

No, it's Rinkledforeskin

The irony of a jewish boy called Rumpledforeskin would be amazing! "
PMSL!!!!!!

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France

I find people call me by my profile name even if I do give them my real name (with the exception of a couple of very close friends) so am quite comfortable hearing it called. TBH I've even considered a legal change of name and have done with it!

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