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I used to be so tolerant, but....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read it either. Too many words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it boils my piss when people send you messages without reading your profile first too!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

People who send their profile pic in a message!

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get distracted by tits so i dont read em so feel free to piss in the kettle

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

People asking me where I’m from …. Clearly didn’t read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair to people I understand why they don’t read profile or why people get just one word messages

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's annoying,but a good filter as it's obvious when they haven't .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people aren't meeting it's really easy to untick the 'Looking for' boxes.

That takes their profile off the searches and doesn't waste people's time.

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By *damk4511Man
over a year ago

hatfield

Any female wanna call

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes, OP, it gets exhausting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get distracted by tits so i dont read em so feel free to piss in the kettle"
Best quote I’ve seen for a longtime

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By *nimal007Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, OP, it gets exhausting."
must be the long covid

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We weren't even aware of people actually reading profiles on here nowadays and we do find a far better approach with 100% results is sending a picture of Mr4's cock and asking if they'd like some fun or have plans or are they ok ?? as we do find reading very tiresome and hard on what little grey matter we have left between us and as we do keep being told or it's implied in local speak " it be a sex site baint it !!"

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "

I stuck just in the middle of your text. Lots of don’t and repeating. No pics of Mr in profile.

Oh, this is not rate your profile thread, apologies.

I have no idea why some people struggle to read. Probably just lazy.

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By *nimal007Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm not there yet I still don't let it rile me....but I guess it would depend on my mood. I think of it like this. I have used up one of their messages for the day so that's one less single female getting grief from them!!

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

What profile? Want a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit I don't have the attention span for long profiles. I don't mind making the effort to get to know someone but I'd rather do that in a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If people aren't meeting it's really easy to untick the 'Looking for' boxes.

That takes their profile off the searches and doesn't waste people's time. "

I wish this was true I get 10 to 20 messages from gay bi and straight guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People who send their profile pic in a message!

D."

That too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't read it either. Too many words. "

Which is ok if your not messaging us to meet x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair to people I understand why they don’t read profile or why people get just one word messages

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Agreed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What profile? Want a fuck?"

Lol

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I keep tight filters so I barely get any messages and those who haven't read my profile get deleted.Having tight filters saves me looking through a lot of mail of people I have no interest in and stops those sending messages getting pissed off. It's a win win situation.

When I am meeting new people I actually go look for profiles and people who appeal to me as well and make first contact it's a lot easier than sitting back and expecting those I like to meet to message me. The worst that has ever happened is they didn't reply or we didn't click when chatting.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


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When I am meeting new people I actually go look for profiles and people who appeal to me as well and make first contact it's a lot easier than sitting back and expecting those I like to meet to message me. The worst that has ever happened is they didn't reply or we didn't click when chatting. "

That’s the best approach

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Whaaa? We’re supposed to read the writing stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who send their profile pic in a message!

D."

Or they send an old face pic in message when they've more upto date on their profile

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Is it a profile or a shopping list

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Marzipan

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I wouldn’t read your profile as well OP after glancing over it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I hate it when men don't message me just because I'm 9 stone overweight

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I wouldn’t read your profile as well OP after glancing over it. "

Well, as long as you don't message them, no harm done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez don't get me started on this! Nothing worse than some numpty who can't read a profile, it's not like mine is miles long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when men don't message me just because I'm 9 stone overweight "

That's not why they don't message you, it's because unlike some of us they weren't born with big hands

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate it when men don't message me just because I'm 9 stone overweight "

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh tell me about it, despite my profile being clear, I can count on one hand the amount of people who have opened their message with a pun or a dad joke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you reply to tell them to read your profile properly? That’s always makes me lol when people do that, it’s like self perpetuating rage with no purpose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh tell me about it, despite my profile being clear, I can count on one hand the amount of people who have opened their message with a pun or a dad joke "

We get "hi" and "hey guys" and just that, lol I honestly don't know how to answer them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you reply to tell them to read your profile properly? That’s always makes me lol when people do that, it’s like self perpetuating rage with no purpose "

I have done a couple of times, then regret even replying ha ha ha

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "

I hate it that I have things in my profile like - I won’t meet married men - and they message anyway…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me, We have a copy and paste reply for those.

Our profile is currently only two lines, and has been for a little while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if they all boil your piss but we dislike them so we block and delete and move along - it's the only way to get rid of them. It is funny when you go to a club and meet loads of them and check their profiles to find you've blocked them. Their faces wrinkle up like little virgin anuses.

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Just the bottom line.

It's their last words most likely the interesting ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "

I'm not being funny but are you writing a best seller? Because that is one long profile. I thought mine was long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly things will annoy me. People not reading my profile and sending a message anyway isn’t one of the them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read people's profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She doesn't read profiles. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who send messages without even reading our profile boil my piss! Anyone else? "

It has always annoyed me. It says so much about the other person, it comes across as lazy or arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t read your profile as well OP after glancing over it. "

Don't worry about it, we don't meet hairy guys anyway lol

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