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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.

Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

‘He was the single most hopeLESS person I have ever met and I'm ever likely to meet again’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but when's it going to be Intergenerational Men's Day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won 180 million pounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but when's it going to be Intergenerational Men's Day?"
ask jim

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Positive things this week:

1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life

2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them

3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him

4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday

5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away

6) Getting my race pack

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Unfortunately none of us can control the behaviour of others but we can control our own. Tomorrow is a new day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?

I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My crushed to is mending well, so can now do a lot more things than previous week

Got an entry to University written piece sent off yesterday.

I've now got three nights off

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm hopeful that the weekend will arrive sooner rather than later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?

I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't. "

No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm hopeful that the weekend will arrive sooner rather than later"

One more get up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.

Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about? "

Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.

Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah but when's it going to be Intergenerational Men's Day?"

Lmao. You win this round.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won 180 million pounds "

FAF?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.

Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?

Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.

Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.

"

Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.

Yoda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?

I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.

No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant. "

Just reads wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Positive things this week:

1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life

2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them

3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him

4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday

5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away

6) Getting my race pack "

Just beautiful. Just beautiful. You’re so amazing. This made me smile lots.

Re: number 6- Are you doing a Rachel Dolezal? Did the Black community send you a welcome pack?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Positive things this week:

1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life

2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them

3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him

4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday

5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away

6) Getting my race pack

Just beautiful. Just beautiful. You’re so amazing. This made me smile lots.

Re: number 6- Are you doing a Rachel Dolezal? Did the Black community send you a welcome pack? "

Yeah, I'm joining the Sisterhood

It's for a 10k thingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?

I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't. "

That isn't what he said?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

The sun is shining and it's a beautiful day, it's my daughter's last day at college, she now has exams and off to university in September.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Positive things this week:

1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life

2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them

3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him

4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday

5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away

6) Getting my race pack

Just beautiful. Just beautiful. You’re so amazing. This made me smile lots.

Re: number 6- Are you doing a Rachel Dolezal? Did the Black community send you a welcome pack?

Yeah, I'm joining the Sisterhood

It's for a 10k thingy "

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?

I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.

No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant.

Just reads wrong"

I am scared that hatred isn’t just going to ‘die out’ like people say. And that my daughter is going to grow up in a hate filled world. People always say it’s getting better. The younger generation are better. Just had a depressing experience that made me feel pretty sad and hopeless is all. That’s what I meant. Nothing else. Nothing about only young people experiencing hate. Or anything like that.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Spending time with you yesterday morning was one of the most positive things that happened to me this week so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you've had a bad morning, pet. I went to pick up a desk I bought on Gumtree and the elderly couple were a treat. Even when I ran over their strimmer by accident and was instantly forgiven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good things,

Tomorrow is Friday

The sun is shining

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spending time with you yesterday morning was one of the most positive things that happened to me this week so far "

Same! Even if the weather was terrible and I had actual coffee and not decaf

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

The sun is out. That’s enough to cheer me up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately none of us can control the behaviour of others but we can control our own. Tomorrow is a new day "

Tomorrow IS a new day

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

.•°°

I've been offered a trial run as a receptionist. I hope it goes okay and I dont fuck it up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My crushed to is mending well, so can now do a lot more things than previous week

Got an entry to University written piece sent off yesterday.

I've now got three nights off "

Wow wow. So amazing. So positive. So happy for you pal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.

Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?

Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.

Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.

"

You’re right. I was just thrown is all.

You’re so great man. This social has made me happy for you! Enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?

I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.

No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant.

Just reads wrong

I am scared that hatred isn’t just going to ‘die out’ like people say. And that my daughter is going to grow up in a hate filled world. People always say it’s getting better. The younger generation are better. Just had a depressing experience that made me feel pretty sad and hopeless is all. That’s what I meant. Nothing else. Nothing about only young people experiencing hate. Or anything like that. "

See now that makes more sense as to the statement you wrote originally.

Also your experiences in the world could be the total opposite to what any family members experience growing up so none of it should be dwelled upon. Live life instead of constantly fretting about the what if's....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I brought a Nintendo switch to distract myself from the chaos that is the outside world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been offered a trial run as a receptionist. I hope it goes okay and I dont fuck it up. "

You won’t it up. Sending you millions and millions of good luck wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?

I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.

No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant.

Just reads wrong

I am scared that hatred isn’t just going to ‘die out’ like people say. And that my daughter is going to grow up in a hate filled world. People always say it’s getting better. The younger generation are better. Just had a depressing experience that made me feel pretty sad and hopeless is all. That’s what I meant. Nothing else. Nothing about only young people experiencing hate. Or anything like that.

See now that makes more sense as to the statement you wrote originally.

Also your experiences in the world could be the total opposite to what any family members experience growing up so none of it should be dwelled upon. Live life instead of constantly fretting about the what if's.... "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I brought a Nintendo switch to distract myself from the chaos that is the outside world"

Take a dick pic with next to it like Big Sean!

But seriously that’s sick man!

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

.•°°


"I've been offered a trial run as a receptionist. I hope it goes okay and I dont fuck it up.

You won’t it up. Sending you millions and millions of good luck wishes. "

Thankyou I need all the good luck I can get, I easily things up. I am looking forward to making obnoxious people listen to bad county music while I talk to the polite people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry dude i got nothing my telly went pop and im still unable to track down a ps5 without being ripped off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"……

Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.

Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.

Yoda "

You had me at Yoda!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.

Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about? "

I had my 4th back operation last week. It still hurts like fuck.

Today my surgeon said they'll operate again, different kind of op this time, which should help resolve the issue for a few more years.

Last time they operated I was ok for about 9 years, the last two years have been tough, there's light at the end of the pain tunnel.

Plus I've got some physio booked.

Today is a painful but good news day.

Racial hatred stuff... Can't begin to imagine what it's like.

Racists....... Cunts. End of.

Winston

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

All we can do is be better. Stand up for those who need us. Some of us try. Some of us will never stop trying, and feed on the hatred of those who try to stop us.

My positive? Someone overheard me talking to a cashier about the difficulties of replacing a lost passport. (Context: I'd found a lost passport and handed it in. She didn't hear that) She approached me and gave me specific information about Australian consulates.

I didn't need it, but

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love you guys man

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Who's giving you grief son? Tell em to knock it off, or I'll be round to sort them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you guys man "

*shoulder punch

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you guys man "

I’ve said this before…. Normally d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you guys man "

Hope today is better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love you guys man

I’ve said this before…. Normally d*unk. "
going in my out of context thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who's giving you grief son? Tell em to knock it off, or I'll be round to sort them out "

thank you Fife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love you guys man

*shoulder punch

Winston"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love you guys man

Hope today is better. "

. I hope so too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love you guys man

I’ve said this before…. Normally d*unk. going in my out of context thread "

Your going in? I wasn’t even ready!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.

Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about? "

It is horrific and there are no words to describe this type of hatred.

POSITIVE.

I am truly thankful for my wonderful wife and daughter, I am thankful for our life, love and unbreakable bond. We can only live the way in which we hope everyone gets to live and enjoy their lives.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I passed and exam I was having kittens about earlier this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fizz Friday!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's fizz Friday!! "

Bath bomb up the vag later.

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By *oredRichMan
over a year ago

royston


"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.

Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?

Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.

Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.

Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.

Yoda "

I watched that yesterday and was hoing to quote it, but you beat me to it.

OP, my good news is that I have a long weekend and a new chain for my chainsaw

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