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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve often marvelled and found it funny how fab land seems to work in reverse to interactions in ‘the real world’; here we see genitals before faces, a name is a closely guarded secret and personal details are traded like gold.

In connection with this, is it also true that being sexy or our bodies are easier to expose and show than our emotions?

Is intimacy and closeness the final taboo on fab?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's strangers on the internet, so best to be prudent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is just looking for an NSA fuck then intimacy and closeness aren't required...?

Having public genital pics is different to having friends (or no) pics.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"It's strangers on the internet, so best to be prudent "

Whilst I tend to agree, there’s a unique way about fab

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"It's strangers on the internet, so best to be prudent "

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...but not prudish.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If someone is just looking for an NSA fuck then intimacy and closeness aren't required...?

Having public genital pics is different to having friends (or no) pics."

I know, my point is that that approach can make intimacy a very taboo thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not intimacy its into me i see

I dont see it as taboo i see it as dangerous

It takes too much of a level of care to be truly intimate and many people from what i see here have been badly burned even broken by intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is just looking for an NSA fuck then intimacy and closeness aren't required...?

Having public genital pics is different to having friends (or no) pics.

I know, my point is that that approach can make intimacy a very taboo thing "

Do you mean taboo in that the people aren't compatible?

NSA- no intimacy

FWB/ swinging- intimacy?

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"If someone is just looking for an NSA fuck then intimacy and closeness aren't required...?

Having public genital pics is different to having friends (or no) pics.

I know, my point is that that approach can make intimacy a very taboo thing

Do you mean taboo in that the people aren't compatible?

NSA- no intimacy

FWB/ swinging- intimacy?

"

I think that you’re missing the point of what I’m asking. Maybe I’m being a bit vague this morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is just looking for an NSA fuck then intimacy and closeness aren't required...?

Having public genital pics is different to having friends (or no) pics.

I know, my point is that that approach can make intimacy a very taboo thing

Do you mean taboo in that the people aren't compatible?

NSA- no intimacy

FWB/ swinging- intimacy?

I think that you’re missing the point of what I’m asking. Maybe I’m being a bit vague this morning? "

No it's me. I'm knackered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a conversation with friends about this.

I said on here we assess bodies first as a general rule, and then the rest comes after. They couldn’t comprehend it, because it’s a bit backwards.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I find that nothing beats a stimulating and intelligent discussion with a flaccid penis held between two fingers over a toilet bowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well same at clubs you see what you fancy and chat after

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

If you're looking for true intimacy, fab is not the place for it. As someone has already said, it can break you. There's always a little piece of me that I hold back on, and that's often not a conscious decision.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I had a conversation with friends about this.

I said on here we assess bodies first as a general rule, and then the rest comes after. They couldn’t comprehend it, because it’s a bit backwards. "

It really is. The more I think about it, the more it strikes me as contradictory to real life interactions.

The fact that getting to know someone and friendship/intimacy is very rare is just another aspect of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a conversation with friends about this.

I said on here we assess bodies first as a general rule, and then the rest comes after. They couldn’t comprehend it, because it’s a bit backwards. "

This must be why I don't understand the OP question. I don't do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a conversation with friends about this.

I said on here we assess bodies first as a general rule, and then the rest comes after. They couldn’t comprehend it, because it’s a bit backwards.

This must be why I don't understand the OP question. I don't do this. "

I always look at pics first, do you not? If the pics are ok then I move into the bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a conversation with friends about this.

I said on here we assess bodies first as a general rule, and then the rest comes after. They couldn’t comprehend it, because it’s a bit backwards.

This must be why I don't understand the OP question. I don't do this.

I always look at pics first, do you not? If the pics are ok then I move into the bio "

I know sometimes you get stuck at the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See if people would take the power in to they own hands

Like I do

Icnore me hear I am not interested In real life

Simple as I love it when people realise how stupid they been when in reality I was interested

But they ignorance turned me off

And stuck them on to a forever no list

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a conversation with friends about this.

I said on here we assess bodies first as a general rule, and then the rest comes after. They couldn’t comprehend it, because it’s a bit backwards.

This must be why I don't understand the OP question. I don't do this.

I always look at pics first, do you not? If the pics are ok then I move into the bio "

I only look at the pics to see if there's anything that puts me off.

I prefer no pics.

I chat to people. Not into sex meat catalogue stuff.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’ve often marvelled and found it funny how fab land seems to work in reverse to interactions in ‘the real world’; here we see genitals before faces, a name is a closely guarded secret and personal details are traded like gold.

In connection with this, is it also true that being sexy or our bodies are easier to expose and show than our emotions?

Is intimacy and closeness the final taboo on fab?

"

I feel that many people crave the brief intimacy that sex brings and are searching for it here, some using their body to attract partners. Genuine intimacy and closeness isn't possible to achieve with casual encounters in my opinion so yes, maybe it is the final taboo

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We are not looking for intimacy and closeness as we get that from each other .I always look at pictures first to see if their our type my husband likes to read a profile first then look at pictures..

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