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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've started seeing a woman, and last night she told me she genuinely wants my friend to cum on her face while I watch because it will make her so horny. Not sure if I could let that happen, and don't know whether to let her because I really like her. We've been seeing eachother for 5 months. Any advice?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

What does your friend think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t risk any friendships mate, I’ll come around and spunk on her face instead

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"So I've started seeing a woman, and last night she told me she genuinely wants my friend to cum on her face while I watch because it will make her so horny. Not sure if I could let that happen, and don't know whether to let her because I really like her. We've been seeing eachother for 5 months. Any advice?"

Make sure she wears goggles.

Sorry couldn’t resist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think he wants to know what I want to do, but he's a good mate so he won't do it without my blessing.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why are you on a swinging site if you want an exclusive relationship ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've started seeing a woman, and last night she told me she genuinely wants my friend to cum on her face while I watch because it will make her so horny. Not sure if I could let that happen, and don't know whether to let her because I really like her. We've been seeing eachother for 5 months. Any advice?"

Her way of telling you that she fancies your mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I never thought it would actually happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are you on a swinging site if you want an exclusive relationship ?"

Says in his bio he’s not looking for a relationship..this is why this site confuses me, full of contradictions

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So I've started seeing a woman, and last night she told me she genuinely wants my friend to cum on her face while I watch because it will make her so horny. Not sure if I could let that happen, and don't know whether to let her because I really like her. We've been seeing eachother for 5 months. Any advice?"

The most important question is does your friend want to do it?

You need to take his feelings into account even if she's keen and you go along with it just to please her.

He might not fancy it.

Have you got any other friends that could potentially stand in?

A

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think he wants to know what I want to do, but he's a good mate so he won't do it without my blessing."

Why did you tell your mate immediately before you had thought about it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are you on a swinging site if you want an exclusive relationship ?

Says in his bio he’s not looking for a relationship..this is why this site confuses me, full of contradictions "

Needs updating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She'll find out you're on here, she'll fuck your mate eventually and they'll live happily ever after.

This is just my opinion obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t risk any friendships mate, I’ll come around and spunk on her face instead "

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've started seeing a woman, and last night she told me she genuinely wants my friend to cum on her face while I watch because it will make her so horny. Not sure if I could let that happen, and don't know whether to let her because I really like her. We've been seeing eachother for 5 months. Any advice?

Her way of telling you that she fancies your mate "

Best answer by far, no sugar coating it. If she's fantasising about your mate trust me their are aspects of the fantasy she's not actually telling you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think he wants to know what I want to do, but he's a good mate so he won't do it without my blessing.

Why did you tell your mate immediately before you had thought about it ?"

I'm too honest for my own good. But also if she's thinking that way then Im scared she would ask him without me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I think he wants to know what I want to do, but he's a good mate so he won't do it without my blessing.

Why did you tell your mate immediately before you had thought about it ?

I'm too honest for my own good. But also if she's thinking that way then Im scared she would ask him without me"

She probably will.

At least if you go along with the original plan you get to watch.

A

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I never thought it would actually happen"

With me and a girl from Clapham

Down on the windy common

That night I ain't forgotten ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most important question OP is how does the prospect make you feel? In your gut.

If you aren't happy with it then you need an open conversation with her. Don't feel pressured into doing something you don't want to do

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I never thought it would actually happen

With me and a girl from Clapham

Down on the windy common

That night I ain't forgotten ..."

Haha that came into my head too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't do it. Px

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" But also if she's thinking that way then Im scared she would ask him without me"

He can't be much of a mate if he would go behind your back and spunk on your girlfriend's face

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood


"I never thought it would actually happen

With me and a girl from Clapham

Down on the windy common

That night I ain't forgotten ..."

You beat me to it!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


" Not sure if I could let that happen, and don't know whether to let her because I really like her."

In your interests you've listed quite a few things, including cuckolding, gangbangs and threesomes.

I would have thought watching someone else spunk on her face would be right up your street.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she even know your a member of a swinging site? and if not why is this not the perfect time to tell her and then you can go to a club together and allow her and you to live out this fantasy

Her eyes should be closed so she can imagine it is your mate

If she says it has to be your mate then as other have suggested there is more to it than a sexual fantasy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Unless you are sexually close with your friend, I'd look for a neutral man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've developed feelings then it's probably best to be straight with her. I don't know if you have, but from reading your OP it sounds like you don't want it to happen because you really like her.

She definitely fancies your mate, and I'd be feeling pretty bummed if I thought it was more exclusive between us both.

Maybe best to have a chat to see what you're both looking to get out of seeing each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've started seeing a woman, and last night she told me she genuinely wants my friend to cum on her face while I watch because it will make her so horny. Not sure if I could let that happen, and don't know whether to let her because I really like her. We've been seeing eachother for 5 months. Any advice?"
tell her no then if your not comfortable sharing

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s not a case of ‘letting her’.

You’ve got feelings for her and it seems that being possessive is part of that.

She’s shared with you what she wants and what she’d like, it’s time for you to do the same.

I think that you need to understand why you feel insecure about it, what it is that you want and how you want to go forwards.

You definitely shouldn’t engage in anything with other people until you’re certain and it’s a positive thing, otherwise it will just cause longer issues

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

She fancies your mate but your a safe bet

So she’s asking now hoping you’ll say yes. And it won’t stop there if you do. You’ll soon be sat in the corner watching your mate rail her, then after she’ll pity-suck you and continue treating you like a safe bet.

If you say no she’ll just do it anyways behind your back

I’d leave now. Huge red flag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a suitable male off here then

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Urrrrm, you've told your mate and your mate has said he will if you're ok .. what does that say about him?

If your gf/buddy wants more cock, you've got to look at the relationship. Is is a casual fb relationship or are you looking at it as bf-gf and she's not.

Seems as though your gf likes your mate to some degree - whether it goes ahead is beside the point - she's got plans you haven't.

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