FabSwingers.com forum: I don't think we should see eachother anymore

By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

So you are having dinner in a restaurant with someone you've been seeing (romantically) for the past 3 months...everything is progressing well (from your POV) and than all of a sudden they hit you with "I don't think we should see eachother anymore..."

What would your reaction/response be?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Fair do. Can you get the bill then?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask why. While they were giving their response I'd neck my wine, pay the bill, order an uber and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 'god, I'm so glad you said that, I've been thinking about how to bring it up all week'

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Let him pay the bill……

Leave and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool beans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"I'd say 'god, I'm so glad you said that, I've been thinking about how to bring it up all week'

classic

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Reject their resignation and continue enjoying my evening as if nothing happened.

The bell doesn’t dismiss you, I dismiss you.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

No worries treacle.

I respect your decision.

Thank you for this evening.

Up I get and off I trot

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"Leave

Without saying anything?

Impressive

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d be off. Had you ordered?

When someone doesn’t want to be with you. Get moving.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Ok, but can I finish my pudding first ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends whos saying it only one woman has ever or will ever make me feel that vulnerable to care enough for a reaction anyone else id be ok cool but remember when you fuck the next guy its not my fault if sex is now broken for you its all down hill from here bye bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could one say??

I think a dignified silence, and off into the sunset

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Shock.

Internally I'd be questioning things. Externally I'd be calmer and more accepting.

I'd probably order dessert for one, eat it in silent contemplation and leave.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I would have to ask why

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It would depend on my feelings towards him, but I would ask why we had to go to dinner for him to tell me.

A phone call would have been sufficient.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

"I would have to ask why"

Really, what if they say something that wasn't nice about you, it would be in your head forever.

I'd rather not give them that power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inner head me

Say ok proceed to the nearest bar pull any old random

Let them take me home and rail me all night

Nice person me

Ask why and see it’s maybe something I have done maybe we can work it out

If not thank them for the time together

Pay the bill and wish them well

Go home cry my eyes out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would depend on my hunger levels.I would probably come out in a stress rash whilst I say they're thinking about how to react and whether I would be getting any tea. So I would just sit there all red.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would depend on my hunger levels.I would probably come out in a stress rash whilst I sat there thinking about how to react and whether I would be getting any tea. So I would just sit there all red.

Auto correct

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"I would have to ask why

Really, what if they say something that wasn't nice about you, it would be in your head forever.

I'd rather not give them that power

Yea i get that but if i really liked someone i don't think i could just walk away without some sort of explanation

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Can you tell your best mate we are on now for tomorrow night.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"It would depend on my feelings towards him, but I would ask why we had to go to dinner for him to tell me.

A phone call would have been sufficient. "

Text message, surely?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would probably express my chagrin through the medium of dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say thanks for a fun time. Get up and leave they can pay the bill.

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Auto correct

If there is a rash involved glad it's over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would probably express my chagrin through the medium of dance"

Oh I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would have to ask why

Really, what if they say something that wasn't nice about you, it would be in your head forever.

I'd rather not give them that power

Yea i get that but if i really liked someone i don't think i could just walk away without some sort of explanation"

I'd be interested in hearing the other person's perspective...and then decide if I thought they were talking bollocks or not

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

It's hard to say response in the moment, probably lost for words! but I think for sure is 'I won't beg for them to change their mind'

Will take my ass where I'm more appreciated

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway?

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Pick my dinner plate up and go and sit elsewhere.

Quickly order more food or dessert from the menu, add some drinks on to the bill and send the bill across to them. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was before I've eaten the man is asking for it.

After. I'd say ok. Good luck.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Is sit and wait for more words than that…

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

"I would probably express my chagrin through the medium of dance"

Hahah this tickled me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say thanks for the honesty, order another bottle to say goodbye with and move on.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway? "

Why the hell would someone that's not read the entire post comment anyway?

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

So you don't want to come back for coffee then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, fuck off then

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Finish meal and split the bill.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I would probably express my chagrin through the medium of dance

Oh I like that"

I should point out that I'm a better mime than I am a dancer.

And I'm not a good mime.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"Ok, fuck off then"

Yes probably this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably ask how long they had been thinking this and why. Then pay my share of the bill and go. Leave him sitting there all alone x

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’d want to know why and then be polite and leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway? "

I know right? I mean, there's plenty of food at home

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway?

Why the hell would someone that's not read the entire post comment anyway?"

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"So you are having dinner in a restaurant with someone you've been seeing (romantically) for the past 3 months...everything is progressing well (from your POV) and than all of a sudden they hit you with "I don't think we should see eachother anymore..."

What would your reaction/response be?

Ok. Then leave. Meh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway? "

I’ve been to restaurants with Fabbers?

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"It would depend on my feelings towards him, but I would ask why we had to go to dinner for him to tell me.

A phone call would have been sufficient. "

You wouldn't be offended and think they are cowardly, because they "didn't have the courage to say it to your face" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway? "

Why wouldn't they be?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Finish the meal off as its got to be paid for anyway.

Might not enjoy the company but if the foods good why not.

Then pay half the bill and say.

I wish you all the best and say good bye then walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weep uncontrollably, show them all the tattoos I have of their name on me & moonwalk out.

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway? "

On here where? On planet earth?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway?

On here where? On planet earth?"

Perhaps he'd like to try the restaurants on Mars or Venus?!

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

literally had this exact thing recently. I just said “Oh, ok. Bit of a dick move choosing this particular moment but I’m not going to try and change your mind” got up and left.

I don’t think he expected that reaction as he’s been telling me he got it wrong and ‘chasing’ me since

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Just say ok but you could of sent a text and not waste my evening.

Then dismiss them from my table so I could finish my food in peace

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Just smile and say that's ok, we were in my car.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I’d be pretty angry that they waited to tell me until we where sat at a meal but I’d respect there decision and leave

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I'd wonder at my poor choice of partner

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"I would have to ask why

Really, what if they say something that wasn't nice about you, it would be in your head forever.

I'd rather not give them that power

Yea i get that but if i really liked someone i don't think i could just walk away without some sort of explanation

I'd be interested in hearing the other person's perspective...and then decide if I thought they were talking bollocks or not

Exactly, which they probably would be..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would of said he could of text me that. After 3 months I wouldn't be too bothered anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My response, “can I have your sister’s number?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for the bill, pay for the lot and leave without saying a word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would your reaction/response be?

I must say OP, you’ve got a cracking body. Good work

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Why the hell would anyone on here be using restaurants anyway? "

We're not heathens who eat on the floor

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

What would your reaction/response be?

I must say OP, you’ve got a cracking body. Good work

That's a strange response to being dumped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m trying to work out why anyone would arrange to take someone out for a meal to finish with them, especially if they’ve only been dating for 3 months. It would mean they have to sit through a meal with someone knowing they’re going to dump them at the end of it because they’re not going to dump them before or during the meal surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would your reaction/response be?

I must say OP, you’ve got a cracking body. Good work

That's a strange response to being dumped."

I didn’t know it had happened to him personally. Thought it was general discussion. He didn’t say (unless I’ve missed something further down).

I also thought it would be nice to hear from a fellow gym goer as I know the work that goes in.

I stand corrected.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Grand no bother followed by getting up and walking out let them sort the bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My response, “can I have your sister’s number?”"

Good one

Unless they are twins of course!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Have I in this scenario had dessert yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have I in this scenario had dessert yet? "

Get it in a takeaway bag and run!

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan
over a year ago

Fife

"Finish meal and split the bill. "

This comment wins.

Mature, rational, mentally stable attitude.

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan
over a year ago

Fife

"I’m trying to work out why anyone would arrange to take someone out for a meal to finish with them, especially if they’ve only been dating for 3 months. It would mean they have to sit through a meal with someone knowing they’re going to dump them at the end of it because they’re not going to dump them before or during the meal surely."

I have a feeling the person that booked the table and suggested the date in the first place was the one being made surplus to requirements.

I would question anyone's principles that would accept the offer of a date, get dressed and the rest and travel to the restaurant, sit down and then say "I think we shouldn't see eachother anymore". That's a lot of effort to see someone you don't want to see anymore when a simple "thanks for asking, but this isn't what I want so I think we should go our separate ways" way before the last date happened.

It would save everyone's feelings being hurt or ego being dented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling the person that booked the table and suggested the date in the first place was the one being made surplus to requirements.

It would save everyone's feelings being hurt or ego being dented. "

After three months though they might be in terms where they can still be friends, after deciding it wasn’t to continue romantically.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Thank you for telling me - in 5 mins I was just about to offer you a marriage proposal with a £2m Cartier engagement ring to the accompaniment of a 100 piece orchestra and a professionl film crew to capture the special moment. Think I’ll save it for someone else? Off you trot then dear - I’m staying to finish my dinner! That nice blonde over there might thank you for warming up the chair for her! Byeee!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"My response, “can I have your sister’s number?”

Good one

Unless they are twins of course! "

I’ve actually got that T-shirt - except I already had it and made very good use of it, since the sister’s now my wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My response, “can I have your sister’s number?”

Good one

Unless they are twins of course!

I’ve actually got that T-shirt - except I already had it and made very good use of it, since the sister’s now my wife! "

I need glasses as I read that as “my sister is now my wife”. I really must get laser

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan
over a year ago

Fife

I have a feeling the person that booked the table and suggested the date in the first place was the one being made surplus to requirements.

It would save everyone's feelings being hurt or ego being dented.

After three months though they might be in terms where they can still be friends, after deciding it wasn’t to continue romantically."

So the conversation goes "before we do that though, I need to tell you that I don't want to be with you in a dating or sexual way anymore so inthink that relationship is now over. If you still want to be friends though, we can do that. We are adults after all"

Then they cam decide if the table should be cancelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would your reaction/response be?

First reaction would be to ask them if they are sure that's what they want .if they answered yes to that I would order the cheque pay for the meal, wish them all the best in there life going forward and leave .

What more is there to say and do they have made up there mind my action ive detailed above are about respecting there wishes and me not losing my dignity over another person's choice..

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I had this after 8 years of swing her found out I was just being used as a stop gap while she was at uni but can’t get over her still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say ‘get out’. … As I only take my dates through McDonald’s drive through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree...

It's as though they want to witness your reaction & if you take it badly & get upset they will get a thrill from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll leave money to cover my half of the bill and leave. Can’t be arsed with drama, or drawn out goodbye nonsense.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

As they have chosen a public moment to potentially avoid a scene...I've obviously made a shit choice in choosing to spend time with an incompatible so I'd take it on the chin, say thank you for the evening and just leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d presume they picked a public place to avoid a reaction so I’d do the opposite of what they’d expect and continue as if nothing had happened, finish my meal and then thank them for a lovely evening and leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would your reaction/response be?

Ah the classic 3 month warranty period

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Say nothing, finish what’s on my plate, get up, say nothing….. leave you to pay the bill

I’ve no doubt you would try to explain but your revelation said it all

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

Ask if it was because of what the judge said or the restraining order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the restaurant. I'm walking out of any pub/carvery venue.

Nice restaurant that I've been looking forward to, I'd probably stay for desert.

Then check my fab messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be a " Shite test "

People words have way to many layers.

People work on emotions feelings. And those change every sec/min.

Don't most expresse and say.

Not the words used.

It's how you or they make themselves feel within!!

Totall minefield. Cocktail & mixtures.

Get up walk away. The sell buy date has exspired. Everything has a date. Don't look back.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"My response, “can I have your sister’s number?”

Good one

Unless they are twins of course! "

Wouldn't he have had them both by then anyway, if they were twins?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would probably express my chagrin through the medium of dance"

That gave me morning lols!!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Weep uncontrollably, show them all the tattoos I have of their name on me & moonwalk out."

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Id probably ask why, and why they even bothered taking me for a meal? Then I’d make an excuse to go to the toilet and leave….

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Wait till there next loo trip and stir some hot chilli sauce in their meal and watch , obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask why obviously.

Then do the adult thing and say "Fuck you and your tiny dick!" before storming out of the restaurant. And though I may miss you, I'd never contact you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This meeting could have been an email.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Wait till there next loo trip and stir some hot chilli sauce in their meal and watch , obviously

Note to self, guard your meal at all times whilst out with Grumps....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But seriously, I would ask for the reason, but won't press too much for it. If she isn't interested, there is no point pestering. Ask for the bill soon to reduce the amount of awkward time spent.

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

What would your reaction/response be?

I must say OP, you’ve got a cracking body. Good work

Some parts of my body are definitely cracking ...definitely getting older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My response;

Thank goodness, you just saved me a lot of ag then I'd finish my dinner in silence, you never leave dinner matter what

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"Weep uncontrollably, show them all the tattoos I have of their name on me & moonwalk out.

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LOL

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"I'd ask why obviously.

Then do the adult thing and say "Fuck you and your tiny dick!" before storming out of the restaurant. And though I may miss you, I'd never contact you again.

Ah the classic shame his manhood in public...can't go wrong with that one

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"Wait till there next loo trip and stir some hot chilli sauce in their meal and watch , obviously

Note to self, guard your meal at all times whilst out with Grumps...."

Take your meal with you to the toilet if necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd ask why obviously.

Then do the adult thing and say "Fuck you and your tiny dick!" before storming out of the restaurant. And though I may miss you, I'd never contact you again.

Ah the classic shame his manhood in public...can't go wrong with that one

It's not big (my reaction, not his dick!) and it's not clever....but we all say and do silly things when we're angry.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I would say ok. I would wrap my steak in a napkin and leave. Never look back

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd look around to check if it was being filmed for a reality show. If not, pinch myself to wake up from my weird dream.

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"I'd ask why obviously.

Then do the adult thing and say "Fuck you and your tiny dick!" before storming out of the restaurant. And though I may miss you, I'd never contact you again.

Ah the classic shame his manhood in public...can't go wrong with that one

It's not big (my reaction, not his dick!) and it's not clever....but we all say and do silly things when we're angry."

What if he actually has a big penis?

would you still mention the "tiny dick" part?

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over a year ago

"I'd ask why obviously.

Then do the adult thing and say "Fuck you and your tiny dick!" before storming out of the restaurant. And though I may miss you, I'd never contact you again.

Ah the classic shame his manhood in public...can't go wrong with that one

It's not big (my reaction, not his dick!) and it's not clever....but we all say and do silly things when we're angry.

What if he actually has a big penis?

would you still mention the "tiny dick" part?

Course!

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"I'd look around to check if it was being filmed for a reality show. If not, pinch myself to wake up from my weird dream.

You've just been PUNK'D

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"I'd ask why obviously.

Then do the adult thing and say "Fuck you and your tiny dick!" before storming out of the restaurant. And though I may miss you, I'd never contact you again.

Ah the classic shame his manhood in public...can't go wrong with that one

It's not big (my reaction, not his dick!) and it's not clever....but we all say and do silly things when we're angry.

What if he actually has a big penis?

would you still mention the "tiny dick" part?

Course!

"Emotional damage!"

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over a year ago

What would your reaction/response be?

I must say OP, you’ve got a cracking body. Good work

Some parts of my body are definitely cracking ...definitely getting older

Aren’t we all, unfortunately

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By *agic.M OP Man
over a year ago

Orpington

What would your reaction/response be?

I must say OP, you’ve got a cracking body. Good work

Some parts of my body are definitely cracking ...definitely getting older

Aren’t we all, unfortunately

Not Jared Leto...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I would just go ok that’s your choice and I respect it. Then just get up and leave . No point wasting precious time on a dead dog at that stage

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over a year ago

What would your reaction/response be?

I must say OP, you’ve got a cracking body. Good work

Some parts of my body are definitely cracking ...definitely getting older

Aren’t we all, unfortunately

Not Jared Leto...

Well, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much involved I was with him. If I was head over heels for him, god I dread to think!

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"I would have to ask why

Really, what if they say something that wasn't nice about you, it would be in your head forever.

I'd rather not give them that power

exactly. I dont even want to know why. Wish you the best and im gone unbothered

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Probably make a joke about it being undstandable as being seen in public with me isn't good for anyone's image and how to leave without it being awkard, but on the inside feel rejected and a bit of a dick.

Finish the meal and wish them well.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Wait till there next loo trip and stir some hot chilli sauce in their meal and watch , obviously

Note to self, guard your meal at all times whilst out with Grumps...."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Have I in this scenario had dessert yet?

Get it in a takeaway bag and run!

I think that's the answer myself. It would be an awkward wait otherwise and I like to enjoy my pudding in peace.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Wish them well and walk away, staying would be very awkward..

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Shrug shoulders and say 'ok'. I can be fully committed to a person but at the slightest chance they are not to me, I lose interest immediately. There is no going back on that. To be honest though I think I'd know the signs before it got to that stage.

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By *olacolaMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Get some chips

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle

get up, walk out leaving her to pay the bill

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

What would your reaction/response be?

Having almost exhausted the opportunities for humour on this matter, my reply to the OP is:

I can't see a need for a dramatic reaction. It sounds like the woman is saying what many do when a discussion over a meal is called for rather than an abrupt ending there and then.

I would have replied something like, "I am sorry to hear that. I am sure we can talk about it and maybe now is a good time (to talk, rather than split) as things have turned out".

Quite often, anyway, that sort of conversation is just a test of commitment and later that evening you find yourself even more deeply involved and wondering whether you should have got out while the offer stood!

Only as a last resort do I part company with people for ever. Usually they keep in touch and sometimes we meet for old time's sake or, with luck for good time's sake. Only if they meet the obvious love of their life elsewhere do we make it final. At least one has moved on and still come back for an occasional reminder so never say 'never again'!

Only once have I seen finality as the best thing to do, in the interest of my own safety.

Going back to the humorous slant, a restaurant is only likely to feature at a very early stage of my involvement and even then a full stomach is best avoided if sexual athletics are also on the evening's agenda!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full Pint or Drink all over them and say thanks for the memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say "I've been thinking the same thing for months, just didn't have the balls to say anything, cheers". Then go home and cry into a crystal cut glass full of J.D, and check out the women on Fab.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yeah that's fine so best tell you that your sister is a much better fuck and she's moving in next week"

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over a year ago

What would your reaction/response be?

Nae bother doll, plenty more gussets for Pablo to plunder.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I'd ask why obviously.

Then do the adult thing and say "Fuck you and your tiny dick!" before storming out of the restaurant. And though I may miss you, I'd never contact you again.

Ah the classic shame his manhood in public...can't go wrong with that one

It's not big (my reaction, not his dick!) and it's not clever....but we all say and do silly things when we're angry.

What if he actually has a big penis?

would you still mention the "tiny dick" part?

Course!

Oh wow! Remind me never to cross you sweetie! Hell hath no fury like a woman’s scorn!

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

Are you going to eat those chips or can i have them.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Depends how much involved I was with him. If I was head over heels for him, god I dread to think!

Presumably you’d stop short of picking up the streak knife?

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Depends how much involved I was with him. If I was head over heels for him, god I dread to think!

Presumably you’d stop short of picking up the streak knife?

… or even the steak knife!

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