FabSwingers.com forum: Puts you off?

By *ittlekinks38 OP Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

What often puts you off even talking to ppl once you've looked at their profile?

My top 3 would be ...

Status updates...they are bored or need to offload...??

Very short bio....no effort made

On for a matter of weeks and can't get a meet!!...need to be making an effort...its not dial a shag lol

Ohhh number 4 lol dick pics galore and no face pics or any other pics for that matter ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of bio and crassness - Bob

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Black silhouette

No bio

A username such as cumdump, bigcockharry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What often puts you off even talking to ppl once you've looked at their profile?

My top 3 would be ...

Status updates...they are bored or need to offload...??

Very short bio....no effort made

On for a matter of weeks and can't get a meet!!...need to be making an effort...its not dial a shag lol

Ohhh number 4 lol dick pics galore and no face pics or any other pics for that matter ...."

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Cock avatar

Blank avatar

Graphic name

Action shots

So many reasons…

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Other people in the pics of single profiles.

Anything with the words Dom/alpha/daddy

Public cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty floor in the pictures

Pictures while on the toilet

84000 verifications!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Action shots of unprotected sex

Crude username

One line bio

Out of date bio

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Lack of shared interests or opposing interests.

Distance, too close or too far.

Female not bi or bicurious.

No photo veri.

Can't accomodate (we can occasionally once trust is formed and at least a social). Single profiles that can't accom (unknowing wife at home ?)

Few if any public photo's.

Photos look old.

Photos show something we don't like such as piercings or very large build.

Couple profile but only photos of male or female, not both.

Poor or very short profile writeup.

Unpaid member.

Been here years but no meet verifications.

And so on....

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I'm a brat, 99% this, 98 % that etc

Vagina shots with someone else cum in it.

Needy profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me their interests.. if they are into stuff I wont do I swerve them.

Ones looking for sex tonight/this afternoon etc etc.. swerve

Overtly sexual profile pics, again.. swerve haha

Just don't like the look of them... I'm not desperate haha

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

First and for most profiles that starts with DON’Ts

Secondly profiles with T&C longer than brexit agreement (seen this phrase earlier on forum but absolutely love it)

When talking absence of response for ages and sudden appearance after

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Pretentious attitude in profile or message

Lack of effort.

Demands

Sydney disclaimer

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Do this, don’t do that, be this, don’t be that. Say this in the subject field.

FFS if I’d wanted to get told what to do I’d have stayed married!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Bloomin heck I'm all of the above

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Bloomin heck I'm all of the above

Just about to say that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that say no men.

Other than that, I’m good to go.

I’m easy, but please, don’t spread that around.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

FFS if I’d wanted to get told what to do I’d have stayed married!

100% with you on this mate

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Other people in the pics of single profiles.

Anything with the words Dom/alpha/daddy

Public cock pics "

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Dick pics galore

“Fill in later” especially when on the site 1 year+

Bareback photos on a singles account

Moany or bored status

When they go into detail of what they’d do in the bedroom

The word “banter” or worse; “banta”

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

No pictures

Limited bio

Poor grammar

On a couple's profile no couple pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silhouette avatar

Gross username

Gross or entitled status

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

No face….. no reply

I can’t be attracted to a body or a cock pic.

Don’t get me wrong I can admire a nice body pic but for me to be interested I have to see the face.

I hate gash pics. It’s just rank.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Calling themselves alpha, posting their vaccination status, does drugs (probably get too off their tits to maintain an erection anyway), multiple pictures with their nob in different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Professional whiners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silhouette avatar

Gross username

Gross or entitled status"

Silhouette avatar - and no photos at all.

..There's only so long I can talk to a ghost..

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"Put THIS SILLY WORD in your message so I know you read my bio, otherwise your message will be deleted"

Grow up!

"Put some effort in your message, otherwise I will just delete it"

I have no idea what effort even means to you, give me an example

"If you're under 6'3" don't even bother"

Don't even bother what? Don't even bother WHAT?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silhouette avatar

Gross username

Gross or entitled status

Silhouette avatar - and no photos at all.

..There's only so long I can talk to a ghost.."

Do many women have silhouette avatars and no photos? I don't look at women's profiles generally. I very rarely chat to a man that setup, it never bodes well!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Most of the above. I also have a strong dislike of bullet pointed do's and don'ts. Or even better, bullet pointed wish lists for partners. The usual:

"6 foot plus

9 inches or more

6 pack

Beard

Tattoos

Go for hours

Available Wed afternoons 1:35-2:38 only."

Swapping as a preference on a single profile. With who?

Drug inferences are also a no from me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What often puts you off even talking to ppl once you've looked at their profile? "

Simply if they're not what we'd look for in a potential play meet.

Doesn't have to be anything 'wrong with the profile at all.

Could have great photos and text, but just not be what we like. Could be too old, too young, too straight, too far away or it could be something as simple as one line of text or one single image.

Doesn't make them bad people and there'll be someone interested in them I'm sure.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Silhouette avatar

Gross username

Gross or entitled status

Silhouette avatar - and no photos at all.

..There's only so long I can talk to a ghost..

Do many women have silhouette avatars and no photos? I don't look at women's profiles generally. I very rarely chat to a man that setup, it never bodes well!"

Many. Some are obviously not women but others are very well verified and despite having lists of do's and don'ts on their profile there's not a lot else so a do as I say, not as I do approach.

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Text speak, I'm dyslexic and still manage to type full sentences

Sour face photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm beginning to see why nobody meets

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Married or attached playing away,

Has more pics of their conquests than them on profile,

Pushy/won't take no for an answer.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

On couple profiles ,pages full of the lady and only 1 cock pic of man (when they're after couples ).

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

Few posters need to reevaluate their profiles or stop expecting double standards

but hey that’s fab o

Couples that say the male is straight but then ask if he can play with me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gees

My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Put THIS SILLY WORD in your message so I know you read my bio, otherwise your message will be deleted" - please delete

Grow up! - never

"Put some effort in your message, otherwise I will just delete it" - just send wink

I have no idea what effort even means to you, give me an example - do I have to...!

"If you're under 6'3" don't even bother" - a petite 5’4”

Don't even bother what? Don't even bother WHAT?"
- what?

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Gees

My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them

Not as weird as "can't accommodate, can't travel"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only pics of the lady, only pics of a cock, Sydney uni/Facebook is a publicly traded entity bollocks, list of demands, status that is a a dig at someone and/or screams drama queen.

They're all obvious things, slightly more subtle and harder to quantify is any hint of entitlement or selfishness.

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

"Gees

My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them

Exactly this. I just don't want to share my private address. It's my safe space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gees

My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them

Exactly this. I just don't want to share my private address. It's my safe space."

You're ok as you're female. It's perfectly OK for a woman to want to feel safe. Men obviously don't have to worry about safety therefore must be cheaters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gees

My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them

Not as weird as "can't accommodate, can't travel""

It's there for a very good reason!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silhouette avatar

Gross username

Gross or entitled status

Silhouette avatar - and no photos at all.

..There's only so long I can talk to a ghost..

Do many women have silhouette avatars and no photos? I don't look at women's profiles generally. I very rarely chat to a man that setup, it never bodes well!

Many. Some are obviously not women but others are very well verified and despite having lists of do's and don'ts on their profile there's not a lot else so a do as I say, not as I do approach. "
l

That's interesting. I knew some women have the do's and don'ts but not the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm beginning to see why nobody meets

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

When they have that wierd bdsm checklist thing on their profile.

Multiple knob shots.

Multiple fucking shots with/without veries.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Negative profile, moaning and a list of things they want you to be like .

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Scruffy dirty houses in the backgrounds of their pictures.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Yeah I've unhotlisted a few for ranty status updates

A short bio is a no also... as is one/zero pics

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

The ones that say they reply to everyone. No you don't.

Cream pie pics.

The Sydney University bullshit.

Any copy and pasted sexual personality test.

Ones that discount particular races.

Profiles that are waaay too long, or way to short.

Text speak or terrible spelling and grammar. I can forgive the odd typo, but if you know you can't spell, maybe use a spellchecker?

Turns out I had some stuff to get off my chest

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Cream pie pictures. Nasty.

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