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Casual or suited and booted

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

If you are going on a social what would you like the person you are meeting to wear ? Casual or dressed to impress?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual (whatever that is).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual always. Suits are only for weddings, funerals and criminals in court.

If a man turned up in a suit to a social I'd likely walk out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what im wearing i dont dress up for folks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like scruffy. We've met men socially who've been suited and booted and men who've worn jeans and a shirt and everything in between. They all dressed according to their style and taste. One common denominator was that their clothes were clean and maintained and they were well groomed.

I wear what I like and I think men should too

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yeah I'm a fan of dressed to impress

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Casual as I think it gives you a idea of the sort of person you're meeting , and I dont mean being judgemental but as in if someone turns up with heavy rock clothes on and that's not your thing, you know there will be a lack of compatibility

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

How many men actually, really, genuinely wear boots with their suits, though?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Casual mainly

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Depends who you’re meeting and where..

I’m casual and wouldn’t be meeting anyone that was super formal. It’s laid back always for me

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Whatever he is comfortable in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Casual always. Suits are only for weddings, funerals and criminals in court.

If a man turned up in a suit to a social I'd likely walk out. "

Have an everything suit, laugh in it, cry in it, die in it

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Whatever makes them comfortable & confident....

I don't feel I have any right to tell someone what to wear t.b.h

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Casual as I think it gives you a idea of the sort of person you're meeting , and I dont mean being judgemental but as in if someone turns up with heavy rock clothes on and that's not your thing, you know there will be a lack of compatibility "

Some people wear formal clothes as their style. I have started to wear slightly more casual clothes recently but while I was working I wore what some would call formal clothes a lot of the time, smart dresses, shoes, jackets that sort of thing. Do people think dressing like that is designed to hide something? That would go some way to explaining some remarks made to me

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By *ryandseeMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Horses for courses "

Front or back end?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Horses for courses "

Exactly!

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON


"Casual as I think it gives you a idea of the sort of person you're meeting , and I dont mean being judgemental but as in if someone turns up with heavy rock clothes on and that's not your thing, you know there will be a lack of compatibility

Some people wear formal clothes as their style. I have started to wear slightly more casual clothes recently but while I was working I wore what some would call formal clothes a lot of the time, smart dresses, shoes, jackets that sort of thing. Do people think dressing like that is designed to hide something? That would go some way to explaining some remarks made to me "

Not at all, as if your going on a meet I would presume that you would of had some communication before hand , I myself wouldnt judge anyone for the clothes they wore , Its the person that wears them that makes them , clothes are a personal preference, I might not like the clothes someone wears but could find them one of the nicest people I'd met

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Casual as I think it gives you a idea of the sort of person you're meeting , and I dont mean being judgemental but as in if someone turns up with heavy rock clothes on and that's not your thing, you know there will be a lack of compatibility

Some people wear formal clothes as their style. I have started to wear slightly more casual clothes recently but while I was working I wore what some would call formal clothes a lot of the time, smart dresses, shoes, jackets that sort of thing. Do people think dressing like that is designed to hide something? That would go some way to explaining some remarks made to me

Not at all, as if your going on a meet I would presume that you would of had some communication before hand , I myself wouldnt judge anyone for the clothes they wore , Its the person that wears them that makes them , clothes are a personal preference, I might not like the clothes someone wears but could find them one of the nicest people I'd met "

Ok I just wondered be because of your comment that casual clothes give you an idea of the sort of person someone is.

I'm secure in the way I dress so not upset or offended but it made me think that people possibly assume I'm trying to give a false impression by dressing smartly.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Casual but not scruffy… but if coming from work a suit would be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin liner and a name tag.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Whatever they feel comfortable in, I'll usually be wearing jeans and a shirt and maybe blazer if it's not hot

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

Smart trousers, smart shirt, nice belt oh, with trainers because I have to walk bloody miles around London !!

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

As always, context!

A drink straight from work, I'm likely to be in a suit, but wouldn't put a suit on specially for a social! In general you're going to catch me in jeans and a shirt/jumper...

Though my last social I was in (clean) gym kit - I did warn them beforehand as we agreed a quick drink while I was on my way and they were off somewhere else! I promise I don't make a habit of it...

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Anything as long as they look clean, tidy and smell nice.

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Anything as long as they look clean, tidy and smell nice.

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I’ll have to to remember that !!

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I'd have a conversation first about what my meet would appreciate me wearing, I can do suited, tux, or casual can even turn up in neoprene (if the ocean is involved) or leather if my bike is

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Smart casual as it’s usually a drink or meal

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Somewhere in the middle,

Suit is ott for a meet and trackie and runners are most deffo a no no.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Smart/casual I think a full on suit is over the top ..I do like a blazer with jeans on a man tho.

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Casual,jeans t shirt or polo shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always casual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Casual as I think it gives you a idea of the sort of person you're meeting , and I dont mean being judgemental but as in if someone turns up with heavy rock clothes on and that's not your thing, you know there will be a lack of compatibility

Some people wear formal clothes as their style. I have started to wear slightly more casual clothes recently but while I was working I wore what some would call formal clothes a lot of the time, smart dresses, shoes, jackets that sort of thing. Do people think dressing like that is designed to hide something? That would go some way to explaining some remarks made to me "

Remarks from who?

If it was an office type environment, formal clothes would be normal. If it was a garden centre I'd find it odd.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Casual but smart I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same if they were going for a job interview

But seriously I wouldn’t mind as long as it’s Very much situation dependant whether that is daytime or evening, location etc.

I would know through talking to them before meeting up I would have some idea of who they are and therefore what they would be wearing

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Smart casual.

Back when I wore a suit for work, if I was meeting someone I removed the jacket and tie to make it less formal but also so that I would be slightly more comfortable.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Usually smart casual, depends where and when meeting as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always casual.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I always liked them to dress how they were comfortable, but in a way that's suitable for where we're meeting and what we're doing...if someone had ever turned up at a nice cocktail bar in jogging bottoms and trainers I'd have been leaving very soon after they arrived.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Smart casual is a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't turn up suited and booted, OTT for a social.

Smart casual always

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