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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

News reports that Two couples who live together are not sure who the father of the children are. What happens if it all goes sour. Is it then polygon?

Are there couples on fab that are into poly relationships

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm sure that they will have thought of this. DNA testing would solve any father's clarity. Perhaps they'll share child care 3 ways afterwards?

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I would assume so. I think it's great. I don't think one person can fulfill all the wants and needs of another, especially when those needs change regularly. I was very surprised how closed minded the comments were on Facebook about it.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I would assume so. I think it's great. I don't think one person can fulfill all the wants and needs of another, especially when those needs change regularly. I was very surprised how closed minded the comments were on Facebook about it."

It certainly raises lots of practical and legal implications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter who is biologically the father? Historically I don’t think it has in poly set ups.

For some poly people, ideas about ownership and possession are unhelpful and I think that extends to children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also yessss there’s poly people on here. They’re all gorgeous

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Is this when polyamorous folk go into battle?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Monoarmory seems like it would be heavy enough. I hope none of that polyarmory is chainmail. Or that they've been working out a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would assume so. I think it's great. I don't think one person can fulfill all the wants and needs of another, especially when those needs change regularly. I was very surprised how closed minded the comments were on Facebook about it.

It certainly raises lots of practical and legal implications "

I like the idea of poly. I’m sure if I was in that type of relationship, worrying about court implication wouldn’t be my first thought when finding out the one I loved was pregnant.

It’s something I’ve never thought about, parenting in poly’ relationships. Everything would be equal possibly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The combinations can get confusing. You probably need a polymath to sort it out.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Is this when polyamorous folk go into battle? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this when polyamorous folk go into battle? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monoarmory seems like it would be heavy enough. I hope none of that polyarmory is chainmail. Or that they've been working out a lot

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I thought a polygon was a dead parrot.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"News reports that Two couples who live together are not sure who the father of the children are. What happens if it all goes sour. Is it then polygon?

Are there couples on fab that are into poly relationships

"

Nope Polly's not gone, I'm still here And I'm all for relationships where people fancy a bit of Polly

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I thought a polygon was a dead parrot. "

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

There were two males and two males all living together as one couple...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"There were two males and two males all living together as one couple... "

2+2 does not equal 1

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I thought a polygon was a dead parrot. "

Is it pining for the fjords?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for the punning

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I thought a polygon was a dead parrot. "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It works for the adults but does it work for the child/children? Who can say.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Does it matter who is biologically the father? Historically I don’t think it has in poly set ups.

For some poly people, ideas about ownership and possession are unhelpful and I think that extends to children "

I think that’s a very naive mindset to have.

It sounds lovely on paper. Very sunshine and rainbows. But in reality in a society things can go bad, relationships can end, and people plus their children might need financial support. That’s where the law steps in to figure that out and help enforce it and situations like this could turn ugly without it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"It works for the adults but does it work for the child/children? Who can say. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry I didn’t mean to make this serious. So I’m OUT!

I feel like a dragon.

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By *okenutopianWoman
over a year ago

London


"

Are there couples on fab that are into poly relationships

"

I think we're going to see Polyamory and Swinging intersect a lot more in the years to come.

I'm poly, the hinge in a straight MFM vee.

I'm not sure my husband and I would find a couple we'd mutually have feels for.

Really it seems most polyamory dynamics are about people as individuals having relationships with multiple people at the same time.

Swinging as couples IMO is a dynamic that built on the concept of a primary relationship and protecting that couple at all times.

Hierarchies have a place for poly couples who have intertwined lives but as a whole the dynamic and individuality of each relationship is respected in its own right than many swingers might be comfortable with.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"I’m sorry I didn’t mean to make this serious. So I’m OUT!

I feel like a dragon. "

I'm sorry, we're fresh out of dragons. Try a wyvern.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sorry I didn’t mean to make this serious. So I’m OUT!

I feel like a dragon.

I'm sorry, we're fresh out of dragons. Try a wyvern."

BUT… wait? This isn’t the set of dragon’s den?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Does it matter who is biologically the father? Historically I don’t think it has in poly set ups.

For some poly people, ideas about ownership and possession are unhelpful and I think that extends to children

I think that’s a very naive mindset to have.

It sounds lovely on paper. Very sunshine and rainbows. But in reality in a society things can go bad, relationships can end, and people plus their children might need financial support. That’s where the law steps in to figure that out and help enforce it and situations like this could turn ugly without it. "

Let's not pretend there's plenty of monogamous men unknowingly raising children that aren't there's and plenty of children who either don't know who their dad is or think it's someone it isn't. My exs mum only found out in her 40s that her dad wasn't her biological dad. This kind of thing is really common but it's suddenly a huge issue because it's polyamory. At least the men aren't being deceived in this situation.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Does it matter who is biologically the father? Historically I don’t think it has in poly set ups.

For some poly people, ideas about ownership and possession are unhelpful and I think that extends to children

I think that’s a very naive mindset to have.

It sounds lovely on paper. Very sunshine and rainbows. But in reality in a society things can go bad, relationships can end, and people plus their children might need financial support. That’s where the law steps in to figure that out and help enforce it and situations like this could turn ugly without it.

Let's not pretend there's plenty of monogamous men unknowingly raising children that aren't there's and plenty of children who either don't know who their dad is or think it's someone it isn't. My exs mum only found out in her 40s that her dad wasn't her biological dad. This kind of thing is really common but it's suddenly a huge issue because it's polyamory. At least the men aren't being deceived in this situation. "

*there's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here for the punning "

I was in an open relationship with a woman who turned out to be fake and clingy. But I still miss Poly Esther.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"Here for the punning

I was in an open relationship with a woman who turned out to be fake and clingy. But I still miss Poly Esther."

I laughed! Darn it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess "

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Does it matter who is biologically the father? Historically I don’t think it has in poly set ups.

For some poly people, ideas about ownership and possession are unhelpful and I think that extends to children

I think that’s a very naive mindset to have.

It sounds lovely on paper. Very sunshine and rainbows. But in reality in a society things can go bad, relationships can end, and people plus their children might need financial support. That’s where the law steps in to figure that out and help enforce it and situations like this could turn ugly without it.

Let's not pretend there's plenty of monogamous men unknowingly raising children that aren't there's and plenty of children who either don't know who their dad is or think it's someone it isn't. My exs mum only found out in her 40s that her dad wasn't her biological dad. This kind of thing is really common but it's suddenly a huge issue because it's polyamory. At least the men aren't being deceived in this situation. "

I think it’s an issue in all situations, which part made you think I only thought it was an issue here?

If you could quote the part I d appreciate it because I’d hate my point to be my misunderstood

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess "

Sure. Fortunately we have the technology. (And as Lacey points out, this isn't an issue confined to poly families)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought a polygon was a dead parrot. "

I thought it was a Pokemon

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Does it matter who is biologically the father? Historically I don’t think it has in poly set ups.

For some poly people, ideas about ownership and possession are unhelpful and I think that extends to children

I think that’s a very naive mindset to have.

It sounds lovely on paper. Very sunshine and rainbows. But in reality in a society things can go bad, relationships can end, and people plus their children might need financial support. That’s where the law steps in to figure that out and help enforce it and situations like this could turn ugly without it.

Let's not pretend there's plenty of monogamous men unknowingly raising children that aren't there's and plenty of children who either don't know who their dad is or think it's someone it isn't. My exs mum only found out in her 40s that her dad wasn't her biological dad. This kind of thing is really common but it's suddenly a huge issue because it's polyamory. At least the men aren't being deceived in this situation.

I think it’s an issue in all situations, which part made you think I only thought it was an issue here?

If you could quote the part I d appreciate it because I’d hate my point to be my misunderstood "

I meant people in general, not you specifically.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess

Sure. Fortunately we have the technology. (And as Lacey points out, this isn't an issue confined to poly families)"

No it isn't confined to poliamory but this thread refers specifically to that situation.

We've recently discovered that one of us has a half cousin who has only just discovered who their biological father is/was via DNA testing. We don't know exactly what the fall out has been or if the biological father or actual father knew.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess

Sure. Fortunately we have the technology. (And as Lacey points out, this isn't an issue confined to poly families)

No it isn't confined to poliamory but this thread refers specifically to that situation.

We've recently discovered that one of us has a half cousin who has only just discovered who their biological father is/was via DNA testing. We don't know exactly what the fall out has been or if the biological father or actual father knew."

Oddly, I've been accused of not being my father's daughter.

(By people who look superficially at my appearance. My medical history tends to indicate otherwise )

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess

Sure. Fortunately we have the technology. (And as Lacey points out, this isn't an issue confined to poly families)

No it isn't confined to poliamory but this thread refers specifically to that situation.

We've recently discovered that one of us has a half cousin who has only just discovered who their biological father is/was via DNA testing. We don't know exactly what the fall out has been or if the biological father or actual father knew.

Oddly, I've been accused of not being my father's daughter.

(By people who look superficially at my appearance. My medical history tends to indicate otherwise )"

I know someone who is white British married to a British asian. They have two children one takes after their mum and is tall, slim and fair, the other games after their dad and is small, stocky and dark. Can you imagine the questions complete stranger ask *in front of the children* ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess

Sure. Fortunately we have the technology. (And as Lacey points out, this isn't an issue confined to poly families)

No it isn't confined to poliamory but this thread refers specifically to that situation.

We've recently discovered that one of us has a half cousin who has only just discovered who their biological father is/was via DNA testing. We don't know exactly what the fall out has been or if the biological father or actual father knew.

Oddly, I've been accused of not being my father's daughter.

(By people who look superficially at my appearance. My medical history tends to indicate otherwise )

I know someone who is white British married to a British asian. They have two children one takes after their mum and is tall, slim and fair, the other games after their dad and is small, stocky and dark. Can you imagine the questions complete stranger ask *in front of the children* ? "

People are bloody horrible, I swear.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

^^*takes after

Sorry I've got a problem with one of my eyes and I keep typing stuff wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd both love to find a 3rd for our relationship, greedy we know! Lol.

But despite being on apps for such, we're finding it impossible to find women open to this possibility and one where all 3 of us are attracted to each other.

Its mission impossible

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess

Sure. Fortunately we have the technology. (And as Lacey points out, this isn't an issue confined to poly families)

No it isn't confined to poliamory but this thread refers specifically to that situation.

We've recently discovered that one of us has a half cousin who has only just discovered who their biological father is/was via DNA testing. We don't know exactly what the fall out has been or if the biological father or actual father knew.

Oddly, I've been accused of not being my father's daughter.

(By people who look superficially at my appearance. My medical history tends to indicate otherwise )

I know someone who is white British married to a British asian. They have two children one takes after their mum and is tall, slim and fair, the other games after their dad and is small, stocky and dark. Can you imagine the questions complete stranger ask *in front of the children* ?

People are bloody horrible, I swear."

What on earth makes them think they can not only ask if the children both have the same father of similar questions but while the children can hear? When they were out with just their dad they were treated with suspicion mostly I suspect because it's the girl who's the fair one.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"There were two males and two males all living together as one couple...

2+2 does not equal 1 "

Not you again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt that upvc

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I firmly believe that nearly everyone has a need to know who their biological parents are. I'm all for polyamory but not think it's sensible for people to know if possible whose genes they possess

Sure. Fortunately we have the technology. (And as Lacey points out, this isn't an issue confined to poly families)

No it isn't confined to poliamory but this thread refers specifically to that situation.

We've recently discovered that one of us has a half cousin who has only just discovered who their biological father is/was via DNA testing. We don't know exactly what the fall out has been or if the biological father or actual father knew.

Oddly, I've been accused of not being my father's daughter.

(By people who look superficially at my appearance. My medical history tends to indicate otherwise )

I know someone who is white British married to a British asian. They have two children one takes after their mum and is tall, slim and fair, the other games after their dad and is small, stocky and dark. Can you imagine the questions complete stranger ask *in front of the children* ?

People are bloody horrible, I swear.

What on earth makes them think they can not only ask if the children both have the same father of similar questions but while the children can hear? When they were out with just their dad they were treated with suspicion mostly I suspect because it's the girl who's the fair one."

Some people need to go home and not come out again until they learn some basic manners.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

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By *idan31Man
over a year ago

ashby

Does polly want a cracker ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

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Tom read correctly

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Tom has also read that skin colour can jump several generations. This can also apply to hair colour such as ginger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Tom has also read that skin colour can jump several generations. This can also apply to hair colour such as ginger. "

I'm no geneticist but certain characteristics show up less often.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Depends on whether the genetic material is dominant or recessive. Some traits are simply more dominant.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Depends on whether the genetic material is dominant or recessive. Some traits are simply more dominant. "

Most traits are coded by multiple genes (skin colour, for example), so it's even more complicated. And many genes demonstrate a codominant inheritance pattern, rather than completely dominant/recessive.

Anyway, back to the day job

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Depends on whether the genetic material is dominant or recessive. Some traits are simply more dominant.

Most traits are coded by multiple genes (skin colour, for example), so it's even more complicated. And many genes demonstrate a codominant inheritance pattern, rather than completely dominant/recessive.

Anyway, back to the day job "

Thanks, I just tried to keep it simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tom has also read that skin colour can jump several generations. This can also apply to hair colour such as ginger. "

My daughter looks Chinese. So much so she looks a lot like her cousin who is actually half Chinese. And her genes are from my great granddad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like shagging

Its all over the news

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I've just noticed the misspelling in the thread title. Polyarmory sounds like a place where parrots can get guns.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"I would assume so. I think it's great. I don't think one person can fulfill all the wants and needs of another, especially when those needs change regularly. I was very surprised how closed minded the comments were on Facebook about it."

Why suprise people will always lose down on whT they do not understand, or se reply do yet la k the outage to do it themselves

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Depends on whether the genetic material is dominant or recessive. Some traits are simply more dominant. "

Certainly men's hair can be recessive and receding hair can be hereditary as can be a full set of hair

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"News reports that Two couples who live together are not sure who the father of the children are. What happens if it all goes sour. Is it then polygon?

Are there couples on fab that are into poly relationships

"

Always bugs me that when these stories come out that it's always 'they don't know who the father is'.

You never see any stories where it's a case of 'they don't know who the mother is'.

Bloody sexist if you ask me......

A

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

"

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds ..

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds .."

I don't imagine that's a common phenomenon

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds .."

Also if you use a lot of tanning stuff when pregnant a Caucasian couple can give birth to a black baby. Happened to my mate

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By *laymates30Couple
over a year ago

The West

Interestingly in the book Sex at Dawn, the writers look at other primates and prehistoric societies and say that human groups were more sharing in taking care of all offspring regardless of who the father was, as that was the best way of ensuring survival. It was the advent of the agricultural era where property and power became so important that it changed the way people lived and saw monogamy became the norm, against our human instincts.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Interestingly in the book Sex at Dawn, the writers look at other primates and prehistoric societies and say that human groups were more sharing in taking care of all offspring regardless of who the father was, as that was the best way of ensuring survival. It was the advent of the agricultural era where property and power became so important that it changed the way people lived and saw monogamy became the norm, against our human instincts.

"

And the church poking their nose in

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"I thought a polygon was a dead parrot.

I thought it was a Pokemon "

No, that's a small flat in Newcastle.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"News reports that Two couples who live together are not sure who the father of the children are. What happens if it all goes sour. Is it then polygon?

Are there couples on fab that are into poly relationships

Always bugs me that when these stories come out that it's always 'they don't know who the father is'.

You never see any stories where it's a case of 'they don't know who the mother is'.

Bloody sexist if you ask me......

A"

*Snort*

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage. "

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought a polygon was a dead parrot.

I thought it was a Pokemon

No, that's a small flat in Newcastle."

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds ..

I don't imagine that's a common phenomenon "

It's more common than you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene. "

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads."

This is true, my mother is a brunette my father has black hair. But I don't think my redhair and freckles are camouflage, quite the opposite I find

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds ..

I don't imagine that's a common phenomenon

It's more common than you think. "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads."

Everyone has the MCR1 gene. It codes for a receptor protein on the cell surface membrane of melanocytes. In people with very fair skin/red hair, the protein is mutated and it no longer triggers the synthesis of eumelanin (the form of melanin that gives darker pigment to skin, hair etc). Instead, it more pheomelanin remains (yellowy/pink colours).

So, we all have MCR1, we just all have slightly different coding to the protein and thus produce different levels of eumelanin.

My MCR1 is definitely mutated, as my skin does not tan and is milky white

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads.

Everyone has the MCR1 gene. It codes for a receptor protein on the cell surface membrane of melanocytes. In people with very fair skin/red hair, the protein is mutated and it no longer triggers the synthesis of eumelanin (the form of melanin that gives darker pigment to skin, hair etc). Instead, it more pheomelanin remains (yellowy/pink colours).

So, we all have MCR1, we just all have slightly different coding to the protein and thus produce different levels of eumelanin.

My MCR1 is definitely mutated, as my skin does not tan and is milky white "

So you're a mutant?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads.

Everyone has the MCR1 gene. It codes for a receptor protein on the cell surface membrane of melanocytes. In people with very fair skin/red hair, the protein is mutated and it no longer triggers the synthesis of eumelanin (the form of melanin that gives darker pigment to skin, hair etc). Instead, it more pheomelanin remains (yellowy/pink colours).

So, we all have MCR1, we just all have slightly different coding to the protein and thus produce different levels of eumelanin.

My MCR1 is definitely mutated, as my skin does not tan and is milky white

So you're a mutant? "

Yup. But if you can digest milk, then you're a mutant too

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Children definitely complicate things.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds ..

I don't imagine that's a common phenomenon

It's more common than you think. "

And how common is that?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds ..

I don't imagine that's a common phenomenon

It's more common than you think.

And how common is that?"

A mixed race couple having twins have approximately a 1 in 500 chance that the twins will have noticeably different skin colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads.

Everyone has the MCR1 gene. It codes for a receptor protein on the cell surface membrane of melanocytes. In people with very fair skin/red hair, the protein is mutated and it no longer triggers the synthesis of eumelanin (the form of melanin that gives darker pigment to skin, hair etc). Instead, it more pheomelanin remains (yellowy/pink colours).

So, we all have MCR1, we just all have slightly different coding to the protein and thus produce different levels of eumelanin.

My MCR1 is definitely mutated, as my skin does not tan and is milky white "

Thank you! I should have said that not all those who the MCR1 variant that is associated with red hair actually have red hair. The causation is more complex.

Have you ever read about the people of the Solomon Islands who the highest % of blonde hair outside Europe ? It's due to a local gene mutation rather than genetic influence from colonizers.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads.

Everyone has the MCR1 gene. It codes for a receptor protein on the cell surface membrane of melanocytes. In people with very fair skin/red hair, the protein is mutated and it no longer triggers the synthesis of eumelanin (the form of melanin that gives darker pigment to skin, hair etc). Instead, it more pheomelanin remains (yellowy/pink colours).

So, we all have MCR1, we just all have slightly different coding to the protein and thus produce different levels of eumelanin.

My MCR1 is definitely mutated, as my skin does not tan and is milky white

So you're a mutant? "

This is my son's favourite fact

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds ..

I don't imagine that's a common phenomenon

It's more common than you think.

And how common is that?

A mixed race couple having twins have approximately a 1 in 500 chance that the twins will have noticeably different skin colours.

"

Oh, I was asking in relation to twins with different fathers

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Tom read that you can have two twins and they can be both of different skin tone and colour..

You can also have twins with 2 different fathers as mad as that sounds ..

I don't imagine that's a common phenomenon

It's more common than you think.

And how common is that?

A mixed race couple having twins have approximately a 1 in 500 chance that the twins will have noticeably different skin colours.

Oh, I was asking in relation to twins with different fathers "

I need to go to Specsavers! I read it as a question about the twins with different skin colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"News reports that Two couples who live together are not sure who the father of the children are. What happens if it all goes sour. Is it then polygon?

Are there couples on fab that are into poly relationships

Always bugs me that when these stories come out that it's always 'they don't know who the father is'.

You never see any stories where it's a case of 'they don't know who the mother is'.

Bloody sexist if you ask me......

A"

But with surrogacy becoming popular this may become more of a thing in future.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads.

This is true, my mother is a brunette my father has black hair. But I don't think my redhair and freckles are camouflage, quite the opposite I find "

Frida. This all goes back to ancient times when mankind and womankind needed to keep their children safe from the dinosaurs...

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"And strange that ginger people seem to often have lots of freckles. This goes right back to stone age man. It's not only the animal kingdom where animals use camouflage.

No that's due to the MCR1 gene.

I believe it's recently been shown to be only part of the explanation for red hair. Most people who inherit MCR1 genes are not redheads.

Everyone has the MCR1 gene. It codes for a receptor protein on the cell surface membrane of melanocytes. In people with very fair skin/red hair, the protein is mutated and it no longer triggers the synthesis of eumelanin (the form of melanin that gives darker pigment to skin, hair etc). Instead, it more pheomelanin remains (yellowy/pink colours).

So, we all have MCR1, we just all have slightly different coding to the protein and thus produce different levels of eumelanin.

My MCR1 is definitely mutated, as my skin does not tan and is milky white "

Anyone can copy and paste from Wikipedia...

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