FabSwingers.com forum: Why do some men want a ffm?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Call it a 3some (reminds me I need to book a tee-off time ) a 3way a FFM MFF FMF or any other combo. Either way I imagine 2 beautiful sexy women with myself getting up to all sorts of sexy sex in a locked room and a large bed.

But why? Why do men want this? Is it desire? To submit to the weaker sex (I’m going to pay for this comment I know

) kind of - to be used??

Or some deeper feeling that I don’t read or guess?

Maybe it is more than just feeling greedy (I read ‘greedy girl’ on lots of profiles, do men write this? Or would you men share a girl with another girl, or is just 1-1 and nothing else?

*follow on from the other thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I submit to no one i see it as triple the orgasms plus seeing girls get off with each other makes my winky tingle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me think …. why oh why would they want it ??

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Greed!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'd just like to make two women laugh in harmony.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Beacause I am a heavy cummer. Wife cant handle all my cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably some subconscious thing that we're man enough to satisfy not just one woman but two.

And I can only imagine it's bloody good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 beavers

2 bums

4 boobs

End of thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let me think …. why oh why would they want it ??

Haha. That was my first thought when I read about the mmf.

But then you realise that some women won’t share, so there’s that.

Theres the ‘power’ dynamic. And that’s a lot more deeper than just, I can then tell my mates how I had 2 girls at once. (Or 2men if your a woman)

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Because two vaginas to play with will be twice as fun - two sock puppets instead of one? Hours of fisting fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"2 beavers

2 bums

4 boobs

End of thread.

3 bums!……….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because two vaginas to play with will be twice as fun - two sock puppets instead of one? …….."

It’s not a Punch and Judy show you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it makes them feel twice as manly. Not only did he find one woman who actually wants sex with him.... he found two!

Unless he's Ross off Friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion OP its just another kink a fairly tame kink if you ask but still just a sexual kink that turns some people on .

i could waste my brain power trying to get to the bottom of why they find it a turn on.

If i wanted such a encounter , i would bother to do that, for one reason only so i could use that knowledge to tempt and tease said people into meeting me for such a sexual encounter.

But as i am not looking for that sort of sexual encounter , i just think good luck hope you find what your looking for as i carry on about my daily business .

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I just like the difference in communication that comes with any variation of threesomes.

I don't really 'get' the overly fantasy-like view of a guy with two women, I just like the dynamic of three people together, I think.

Also I answered this partly seriously because I couldn't beat the making two women laugh comment, that was a cracker

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

To watch another woman go down on a woman to see how it’s done properly

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

There are a number of reasons for us.

The lady who joined us was absolutely gorgeous with an amazing body and a beautiful face. Variety is the spice of life and I got to experience another sexy woman.

I got to see my partner with another woman. Seeing them both really enjoying each other was a real turn-on.

There is something a bit outrageous having sex with or being given oral by a woman while snogging my own partner but it allowed that with full consent.

It was an experience in which I felt a particular connection to my partner. I think most relationships wouldn't allow this, but we experienced it together. I felt very close to her emotionally during the whole thing.

The lady who joined us had been a friend for a while through Fab. I'm sure we all have friends who we're attracted to. In this case we have an outlet for that. It doesn't have to stay hidden. We can tell her she's beautiful and sexy. We get to touch and kiss each each other, have oral and whatever else. We've shared our whole bodies with her and will again. It's just a lovely thing.

When Hannah and I are are having sex, we sometimes talk about our experience. It can hot talking about it and thinking about this other woman we've been with together, even when she's not with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To watch another woman go down on a woman to see how it’s done properly "

Assuming a woman will know what another woman likes is a myth. Women are all different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To watch another woman go down on a woman to see how it’s done properly "

Ah. Research

I didn’t think of that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because it makes them feel twice as manly. Not only did he find one woman who actually wants sex with him.... he found two!

Unless he's Ross off Friends."

And then to both be free ah the same time! I can see the odds diminishing all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 boobs instead of 2

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

From me, it’s very sexy sharing one man.

The allure of being the center of sexual pleasure, while pleasing others at the same time….double the pleasure and double the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because two vaginas to play with will be twice as fun - two sock puppets instead of one? ……..

It’s not a Punch and Judy show you know.

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thats the way to do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From me, it’s very sexy sharing one man.

The allure of being the center of sexual pleasure, while pleasing others at the same time….double the pleasure and double the fun. "

Tripple the fun. There’s three people in that room.

Masterbating is fun. So 1-1 would be double the fun…..and so on.

My maths is this way. my English is that way.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its him basking in the pleasure of two women who equally want to bestow unto him, no competing or pushiness, just both very focused on him

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

You got me; I’m greedy.

Nail. Head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife insisted.

It’s a hard life…

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"From me, it’s very sexy sharing one man.

The allure of being the center of sexual pleasure, while pleasing others at the same time….double the pleasure and double the fun.

Tripple the fun. There’s three people in that room.

Masterbating is fun. So 1-1 would be double the fun…..and so on.

My maths is this way. my English is that way. "

Either way, it’s jolly good fun

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

It truly is a mystery

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By *nnasHammerCouple
over a year ago

The Upside Down

MFF is probably one of the most desired meet types for any straight man on this site. Even for some MF couples to. We are still looking to make a good connection with a sexy single lady to help us tick this off our list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You got me; I’m greedy.

Nail. Head.

Haha. Sometimes I do feel it’s a greedy craving. Sometimes it something more.

And other times I don’t want it at all with someone, but just me and her away from it all sharing a moment away from the world.

I’ll unlock her chains and release her after, I promise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From me, it’s very sexy sharing one man.

The allure of being the center of sexual pleasure, while pleasing others at the same time….double the pleasure and double the fun.

Tripple the fun. There’s three people in that room.

Masterbating is fun. So 1-1 would be double the fun…..and so on.

My maths is this way. my English is that way.

Either way, it’s jolly good fun

I can only imagine. …

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Why do you want to play golf?

The answer is the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you want to play golf?

The answer is the same.

Frustration of a weekend trying to accomplish the impossible?

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By *parkle23Woman
over a year ago

any town

Men are men they will never change

But I get if they want to them they also have to allow mmf if there partner wants to …. Well in my eyes

Now I am wondering where to go from here …… next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you want to play golf?

The answer is the same.

I enjoy the challenge golf presents.

You will never ever be the perfect golfer and the opportunities to improve are infinite.

It’s a game of so many skills.

I like that I can play with people from all walks of life and be accepted without question or prejudice.

It’s a great chance to practice mindfulness for four and a half hours.

I can turn off my phone and be off grid for the whole time.

The scenery and smells are very good for my well-being.

The 19th hole is a great place to drink a well earned beer or two.

Yeah… you’re spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are men they will never change

But I get if they want to them they also have to allow mmf if there partner wants to …. Well in my eyes

Now I am wondering where to go from here …… next"

I completely agree.

Just as much fun and I actually find the dynamics equally as enjoyable.

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

I like the abuse and ridicule in stereo !

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"To watch another woman go down on a woman to see how it’s done properly

Assuming a woman will know what another woman likes is a myth. Women are all different. "

This is relatable!!! I think it’s easier to understand FFM than a man wanting to share his wife though. That is a lot more complex

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"Men are men they will never change

But I get if they want to them they also have to allow mmf if there partner wants to …. Well in my eyes

Now I am wondering where to go from here …… next

I completely agree.

Just as much fun and I actually find the dynamics equally as enjoyable."

Same. Totally agree

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

"Why do you want to play golf?

The answer is the same.

I enjoy the challenge golf presents.

You will never ever be the perfect golfer and the opportunities to improve are infinite.

It’s a game of so many skills.

I like that I can play with people from all walks of life and be accepted without question or prejudice.

It’s a great chance to practice mindfulness for four and a half hours.

I can turn off my phone and be off grid for the whole time.

The scenery and smells are very good for my well-being.

The 19th hole is a great place to drink a well earned beer or two.

Yeah… you’re spot on

So you basically enjoy it and have fun.

That's the reason anyone actively chooses to do anything .

Hence the answer to the original posts question.

Life is quite simple when people don't over analyze absolutely everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Men are men they will never change

But I get if they want to them they also have to allow mmf if there partner wants to …. Well in my eyes

….

That’s how I see it, if I am fulfilled on way, you should be too. A good balance.

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"To watch another woman go down on a woman to see how it’s done properly "

There is something so magical about watching a woman licking pussy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To watch another woman go down on a woman to see how it’s done properly

There is something so magical about watching a woman licking pussy. "

That’s it…..you did it. I’m horny.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I like Charlie Sheen’s comment:

“A threeway is most mens desire. In reality, there is just not enough ‘guy’ to go around “.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I adore women.

My wife adores women.

Who am I to deny what she adores.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get to motorboat two sets of boobies and have two hot female mouths slurping on your hard willy, sounds like heaven to me.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I love the ladies so my poor husband just has to suffer being involved in a MFF

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I love the ladies so my poor husband just has to suffer being involved in a MFF

. The things he does for you

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By *ickeyblueeyes7Man
over a year ago

newport

Because it’s just bloody good fun

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I love the ladies so my poor husband just has to suffer being involved in a MFF

. The things he does for you

I know, poor bloke, don't know how he puts up with me, true love I guess

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Because sex with women I'm attracted to and have chemistry with is totally hot. So imagine how hot that is with a 3 way attraction and chemistry. Lots of hands, lips and tongues everywhere. Being totally engrossed by women im attracted from both sides. So much to grab, hold and kiss. And just enjoying being part of the interaction between the two women. It's one of my best things I've enjoyed/enjoy on the scene. But the attraction and chemistry is a more important factor than the number of women.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Having had the pleasure of quite a few FFMs with a couple of lady friends can confirm the dynamics are great. The giving and receiving of pleasure is amazing. Seeing 2 friends you are attracted to enjoying each other and getting to join in is an unforgettable experience.

Also it means that one person can always get refreshments without the moment being spoiled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Call it a 3some (reminds me I need to book a tee-off time ) a 3way a FFM MFF FMF or any other combo. Either way I imagine 2 beautiful sexy women with myself getting up to all sorts of sexy sex in a locked room and a large bed.

But why? Why do men want this? Is it desire? To submit to the weaker sex (I’m going to pay for this comment I know

) kind of - to be used??

Or some deeper feeling that I don’t read or guess?

Maybe it is more than just feeling greedy (I read ‘greedy girl’ on lots of profiles, do men write this? Or would you men share a girl with another girl, or is just 1-1 and nothing else?

*follow on from the other thread.

It's very sexy for all involved if both of the women are bi and all 3 find each other attractive.

Dont really get the whole straight female mff situation though, do they just sit and wait for their turn to have sex with the guy?

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

But why? Why do men want this? Is it desire? To submit to the weaker sex (I’m going to pay for this comment I know

) kind of - to be used??

Or some deeper feeling that I don’t read or guess?

Maybe it is more than just feeling greedy (I read ‘greedy girl’ on lots of profiles, do men write this? Or would you men share a girl with another girl, or is just 1-1 and nothing else?

*follow on from the other thread.

It's very sexy for all involved if both of the women are bi and all 3 find each other attractive.

Dont really get the whole straight female mff situation though, do they just sit and wait for their turn to have sex with the guy? "

Double seat. One on his face and one on his wossname. He enjoys himself and they get to natter about Eastenders and nail polish (presumably)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A different dynamic variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every man's dream: The opportunity to disappoint two women at once.

Al Murray

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Two women tasting your cock whilst their tongues slide all over, occasionally stopping to kiss each other.

Then one sitting astride your face and one on your cock whilst they play with each other boobs and kiss…

Nope…I don’t see any appeal to it at all

I wish these images weren’t in my head at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why? Why do men want this? Is it desire? To submit to the weaker sex (I’m going to pay for this comment I know

) kind of - to be used??

Or some deeper feeling that I don’t read or guess?

Maybe it is more than just feeling greedy (I read ‘greedy girl’ on lots of profiles, do men write this? Or would you men share a girl with another girl, or is just 1-1 and nothing else?

*follow on from the other thread.

It's very sexy for all involved if both of the women are bi and all 3 find each other attractive.

Dont really get the whole straight female mff situation though, do they just sit and wait for their turn to have sex with the guy?

Double seat. One on his face and one on his wossname. He enjoys himself and they get to natter about Eastenders and nail polish (presumably)"

Sounds very boring to me but to each their own

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By *e13guyMan
over a year ago

Lewisham

I think there's more excitement going around when it's a MFM. Something about the lady getting to be greedy and putting taboo to the side for her own pleasure turns me on more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every man's dream: The opportunity to disappoint two women at once.

Al Murray"

Hahaha.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"To watch another woman go down on a woman to see how it’s done properly

Assuming a woman will know what another woman likes is a myth. Women are all different. "

This, whenever I see people say this, and the male equivalent, I just think they don't have much experience.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because we like playing with other women, so it naturally becomes a FMF

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Firstly Because we love with our eyes and we found ladies beautiful. More ladies more beauty.

Secondly because we love to be in charge and hold the power. Having two/three ladies gives more charge and feel of more power

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I like mff 3somes because I like women, I like to fuck them

I like to lick them I like to finger them, if you have two ladies to play with them you can do some of these things at the same time.

Also I like ladies that like ladies, it’s a lot of fun all playing together. Fucking a lady whilst another sits on her face is amazing.

As is having a lady ride your cock and another ride your face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to feel like a stud ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They want to feel like a stud ? "

And yet I look like a donkey… that might be why this has never happened

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Because its so bloody damn good!!!!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Only some men ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women want it more now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks. Disappointing one woman at a time is enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only some men ?! "

I’ve heard some men just don’t want to share their stuff.

But yes, some men wouldn’t do this or so they lied…I mean said.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

So someone can show us where the clit is..

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

Personally for me... It's because I find that the female body is a work of art. So to watch two women is like poetry in motion .. and to join them is devine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats something i haven't done yet ffm..

Is a fantasy of mine...

I bet theres a lot of guys out there that brag about what they would do but if it came down to the crunch they wouldn't last 5 min

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I want it cause dick too big, she needs a friend for help/support haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thats something i haven't done yet ffm..

Is a fantasy of mine...

I bet theres a lot of guys out there that brag about what they would do but if it came down to the crunch they wouldn't last 5 min

2 woman? I might last only two mins at the get go, but we would have the whole night after that.

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