FabSwingers.com forum: Stressed!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep I don't get like this often but I'm officially stressed out!!!

I'm going on a meet tonight but I'm still stuck in London. I'm supposed to be meeting the lady in question at 8 but looks like its going to be later than that..... I hate being late and it's stressing me out ...... Arghhhhh!!!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

have you been in contact and explained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not Thursday - you can only get stressed on a Thursday!!!

Deep breaths and text her and explain!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Make sure that she knows, agree a new time and then there will be no need to be stressed or late.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Done all of the above and explained she is laid back and asked if I wanted to cancel..... Omg cancel???? No way I said be there no matter what lol. I'm hoping I get back before it gets too late.... Stupid work not even supposed to be in today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained"

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Done all of the above and explained she is laid back and asked if I wanted to cancel..... Omg cancel???? No way I said be there no matter what lol. I'm hoping I get back before it gets too late.... Stupid work not even supposed to be in today

Jeezzz watch you don't get a ticket heading back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol"

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work has a lot to answer for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol"

it will be fine hunk, she will understand - now breath in ............. and out .......... in ........ and out - and when u get there - have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

I can't imagine what you are getting at, Tease....... you naughty girl..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

it's a social lol but who knows lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

I can't imagine what you are getting at, Tease....... you naughty girl..

You have such a way with words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

it's a social lol but who knows lol

Depends on your definition of 'social' really, dunnit......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calm down, don't panic and meet a couple of hours later with a huge smile and a treat for her for being understanding.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

it's a social lol but who knows lol

Depends on your definition of 'social' really, dunnit......

Lmao yep it does but I'm a good boy

*walks away whistling* lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

it's a social lol but who knows lol

Depends on your definition of 'social' really, dunnit......

Lmao yep it does but I'm a good boy

*walks away whistling* lol"

You what? I think we have discovered a new species!!!!!!!!

ROFPMSL!!!!!!!!!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

If someone I was meeting was panicking about still being at work I'd offer to re arrang. I don't want to be the cause of any un due stress. Orworse the result of an accident as you tear arse around trying to get to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have you been in contact and explained

hope you have.... we don't want any crying into the forums later about 'she weren't there...' etc etc blah blah

Will wallow in my own self pity if I can't make it lol

Good man. Take it on the chin. Oh hang on - that's what you'll probably be hoping she'll be doing later......

it's a social lol but who knows lol

Depends on your definition of 'social' really, dunnit......

Lmao yep it does but I'm a good boy

*walks away whistling* lol

You what? I think we have discovered a new species!!!!!!!!

ROFPMSL!!!!!!!!!!

Lmao.... Ok ok maybe not but I'm good at what I do.... Or so I'm told lol...... Seeing dartford makes me think... I'm there in a couple if weeks seeing my nippers ahhhhh that's made me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm get off here and leave work early

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol I'm on the west coast mainline zipping up the country as we speak but still at work.... Hard to explain really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main reason why I do not organise any meets during week day evenings is the unpredictability of my working hours.

I cannot clock watch and just walk out at a specific time.

Hence I meet only on Saturdays or Sundays.

Good luck to the OP, hope your meet goes well.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Lol I'm on the west coast mainline zipping up the country as we speak but still at work.... Hard to explain really lol

You are the train guard?....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The main reason why I do not organise any meets during week day evenings is the unpredictability of my working hours.

I cannot clock watch and just walk out at a specific time.

Hence I meet only on Saturdays or Sundays.

Good luck to the OP, hope your meet goes well.

Oh and pearl it's easier said than done. I was supposed to be off today but gut called in late lady night not impressed joys of my job x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, I insist on having a rota for being "on-call" at weekends, so that I can arrange meets when I am not on-call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol I'm on the west coast mainline zipping up the country as we speak but still at work.... Hard to explain really lol

You are the train guard?...."

No he is the train driver lol x toot, toot x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmmmm, I insist on having a rota for being "on-call" at weekends, so that I can arrange meets when I am not on-call.

My work call in when needed no rota which drives me mad but my shifts are all to cock too as most weekends arnt my own and find myself off during the week when others are at work

hard life lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not start your meet at the prearranged time, but do via text message. Send each other saucy texts about what you'd like to do (but start with: "Hi, pleased to meet you finally," or she might think you're a bit forward.

Hope you get there and hope it goes ok. Good luck!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Why not start your meet at the prearranged time, but do via text message. Send each other saucy texts about what you'd like to do (but start with: "Hi, pleased to meet you finally," or she might think you're a bit forward.

Hope you get there and hope it goes ok. Good luck!

Ah! Wishy, that's a great idea. I'd enjoy that if someone was definitely going to turn up.

If they were doing it to lead up to 'but I'm not coming over' then I would be a tad tetchy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get there and hope it goes ok. Good luck!

Ah! Wishy, that's a great idea. I'd enjoy that if someone was definitely going to turn up.

If they were doing it to lead up to 'but I'm not coming over' then I would be a tad tetchy."

I'm not just a cantakerous old bastard, there's a brain in there somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heya. I do hope you'll get to your meet in time. Try to keep calm, the lady seems understanding. Relax and have a good evening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys. I'm finally back in Liverpool.... Home shower, shave and off for my meet.... Going to the flicks to watch James Bond lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Thanks guys. I'm finally back in Liverpool.... Home shower, shave and off for my meet.... Going to the flicks to watch James Bond lol "

have a good evening

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