FabSwingers.com forum: What do women want from a MMF

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. To understand….. what is it a women wants to achieve from a MMF.

I just see it through my eyes.

I know what I want.

But does a women was more than being used. Desired. Sensual. Or ….

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Hi. To understand….. what is it a women wants to achieve from a MMF.

I just see it through my eyes.

I know what I want.

But does a women was more than being used. Desired. Sensual. Or …."

Are you asking what women want from a bi male mmf. Or the straight version which is mfm?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If you can't get the job done properly, bring in a friend to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. To understand….. what is it a women wants to achieve from a MMF.

I just see it through my eyes.

I know what I want.

But does a women was more than being used. Desired. Sensual. Or ….

Are you asking what women want from a bi male mmf. Or the straight version which is mfm? "
this as they are quite different

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Is to enjoy it a bit obvious..??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess both.

I actually like to know I do a good job. I pleasure. Sometimes over my needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine women have individual needs and expectations.

Or, just an extra cock, I'm no expert.

I even hear they're allowed to vote. Crazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well me and my mate do work well as a team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don't want to be used in any sense, whether with one guy or multiple guys...perhaps wrong term of expression?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I like to see a woman pleasured when I’m with her, the way I see it, maybe the woman likes that too.

Now imagine her thoughts when 2 men are trying to give her exactly what she desires. Damn, I bet she thinks that’s hot, and if she thinks that’s hot….I’m in

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I guess both.

I actually like to know I do a good job. I pleasure. Sometimes over my needs. "

The words you are choosing to use are not selling it to any potential female that reads this.

Used, no one wants to be used, no gender is a sex toy to do with as you please.

‘Sometimes over my needs’ so what if the lady hasn’t finished, but your needs have been sated, is that it?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think the sexual dynamic is totally different when it involves more than one man; it can feel more primal than the conventional one-to-one, more raunchy, sensual, more (in conventional thinking) taboo. Nothing to do with wanting to be used for me. Just from my experience, others may differ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being spitroasted usually. But the type of meet can vary from just a fun vanilla meet with more than 1 guy, or more of a getting used scenario xx

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

If I had to guess, two dongs probably.

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By *r and Mrs 81Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

For me personally the (mrs), a mfm is about having more you can't actually beat the feeling of being between 2 guys with hands everywhere, being spit roasted is just amazing. I also love when my hubby can feel how I'm reacting to another man, like if i meet alone and take vids and pics its ace but when he can feel me see me its just mmmmmm I love how turned on it makes him, its definitely not about being used though I'd say if anything its empowerment for the woman knowing she can satisfy and turn 2 cocks on at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to watch them fuck and suck each other.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I wouldn't want to be "used" in any scenario.

Do you mean a MFM? I would want attention from both the Men, my pleasure being paramount.

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

"I want to watch them fuck and suck each other. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always found mfm a bit rubbish. Much prefer one on one.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I want to watch them fuck and suck each other. "

Whilst eating popcorn, filing your nails and shouting "harder wimps" whilst cracking a bullwhip on their arse cheeks?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If I had to guess, two dongs probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

MMF - not for me.

MFM - maybe but not sure. Prefer one to one.

Probably be just the experience for me. Not being used though. I’d have to know and like them both so probably never happen!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

" Or the straight version which is mfm? "

No it's not.

An MMF is a threesome. A Bi-mmf is a threesome where the guys are bi

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

" Or the straight version which is mfm?

No it's not.

An MMF is a threesome. A Bi-mmf is a threesome where the guys are bi"

To be fair I always thought mmf was bi and mfm wasn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Or the straight version which is mfm?

No it's not.

An MMF is a threesome. A Bi-mmf is a threesome where the guys are bi

To be fair I always thought mmf was bi and mfm wasn’t "

I know mmf as bi. And a Bi-mmf means the same thing. I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

This whole place confuses me.

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

The same as what a man wants from an FFM.

To watch and join in as they see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t. "

This is what I thought and most people I know. So I’m sticking with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t. "

Mmmmffff is when I push it in really deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t. "

This seems like something that's quite important to get right.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"Hi. To understand….. what is it a women wants to achieve from a MMF.

I just see it through my eyes.

I know what I want.

But does a women was more than being used. Desired. Sensual. Or ….

Are you asking what women want from a bi male mmf. Or the straight version which is mfm? "

I didn't realise that the letter order was important - every day's a school day

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

It's definitely on my bucket list, but is not easy to arrange.

My ideal scenario would be 2 men paying me lots of attention (reciprocated, obviously!!).

I want them to be respectful- not treating me like an object for the use of.

I have been asked if I'd be ok with meeting 2 men & being called slut, hair pulling, getting rough etc...absofuckingluteley not! To me, that sounds like an entirely different fantasy they're trying to create & that's not for me.

I shall continue my search!!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Hi. To understand….. what is it a women wants to achieve from a MMF.

I just see it through my eyes.

I know what I want.

But does a women was more than being used. Desired. Sensual. Or ….

Are you asking what women want from a bi male mmf. Or the straight version which is mfm?

I didn't realise that the letter order was important - every day's a school day

It's not, for those that think it is describe 1 woman and 3 men where all the guys are straight.

If you are going to have a convention it needs to work all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly …never knew

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"It's definitely on my bucket list, but is not easy to arrange.

My ideal scenario would be 2 men paying me lots of attention (reciprocated, obviously!!).

I want them to be respectful- not treating me like an object for the use of.

I shall continue my search!!

Well personally I'd like nothing more than to lavish attention to you, sadly my age precludes this - never mind (if you change your mind..,.....)

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t. "

It's all about who goes in the middle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs enjoys the attention of two (or more) guys desiring her.

Plus she loves a spit roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t.

It's all about who goes in the middle..."

Well, I was still in the middle this morning

, most of the time

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t.

It's all about who goes in the middle...

Well, I was still in the middle this morning

, most of the time

This is how I viewed what mmf/mfm is - fluid depending on the mood or prior agreement (although I suspect this could well change during the act). Perhaps I'm being to simplistic in my naivety

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’d say it was two dicks up em’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. To understand….. what is it a women wants to achieve from a MMF.

I just see it through my eyes.

I know what I want.

But does a women was more than being used. Desired. Sensual. Or ….

Are you asking what women want from a bi male mmf. Or the straight version which is mfm?

I didn't realise that the letter order was important - every day's a school day

It's not. Unless they all lay there motionless like sacks of potatoes.

I prefer to move around.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Two Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DVP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about fmm? Is that where the woman cums first?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"I want to watch them fuck and suck each other. "

Mrs c is the same

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Complete & utter indulgence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Complete & utter indulgence

Totally agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Complete & utter indulgence

Totally agree 100%"

I like the word indulgence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being worshipped by two men is the ultimate pleasure

J x

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By *r Bee 21Man
over a year ago

Warwick

All in the title surely 2 men ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All in the title surely 2 men ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucked into next week I imagine.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Mmf is a bi threesome and mfm a straight one? I've learnt a new thing today.

You didn't because it's some new fangled bollox that people have made up

I'm confused.

Mmf is bi, mfm isn’t.

It's all about who goes in the middle...

Well, I was still in the middle this morning

, most of the time

Yes I think that the concept of the "middle" figuratively is open to some degree of flexibility. Some of us are getting a bit too ancient to be physically that flexible, so we have to make up for it by being a bit more flexible in our approach.

The best of everything would be when everyone has still got enough bendiness to do whatever seems fun, and when nobody worries too much about who is doing what to who as long as it feels good...

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Being worshipped by two men is the ultimate pleasure

J x "

How about being worshipped by three? When does it become too much of a good thing?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

To have their inner void (orifices and soul) filled, even temporarily.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Being worshipped by two men is the ultimate pleasure

J x

How about being worshipped by three? When does it become too much of a good thing?"

I'll let you know if it happens

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

OP, as you can see the answer varies from woman to woman.

It's not a predefined answer of X,Y or Z (with a little bit of W).

And let's break the gender side out of the equation too, for many reasons.

The real question to ask should be, "What do *you* fancy?".

That makes it highly individualistic and you can tailor your response to their specific needs and desires at that moment in time.

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By *ugardilfMan
over a year ago

Chester

I met a couple a while back and she wanted to watch me and her husband together, then join in and have both of us spit-roast her, taking turns at both ends, suck both of us off at the same time and have us either on a nipple each or both eating greedily on her pussy.

She called the shots and all of us enjoyed the experience with each other.

Happy memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. To understand….. what is it a women wants to achieve from a MMF.

I just see it through my eyes.

I know what I want.

But does a women was more than being used. Desired. Sensual. Or …."

One in the front, one in the back I guess. But all jokes aside it depends on the lady I sopose like anything. It's just down to prefrances and prospectives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far you’ve asked what women want from MMF because you only see it through your own eyes which makes you sound like a selfish and inconsiderate lover if you are unable to see what your partner wants and what she’ll enjoy….but then you say you ‘like to pleasure, beyond your needs’ which would require you to have a full understanding of what your partner wants and what she enjoys…..you’ve also said that you and your mate make a good team, despite not knowing what a woman wants from a MMF….

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

My wife likes being in control over 2 men and also being pleasured.

She likes spit roast, both tits sucked, giving bj while getting licked..there is so many combination.

Also whats with these mmf or mfm? What is a gangbang then with 3 or 4 straight guys with 1 lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever done a 3-way where the two guys went in succession. I’d love to try MMF or MFM. For me all of this is about hedonistic pleasure, the rush, the dopamine hit. When I’m in a sexual scenario that’s not emotional (as with hubby) I become greedy and insatiable and just want to keep

going. I think with 2 (or more) guys it would bring new excitement and the prospect of it continuing for longer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few years ago my them girlfriend told me that she'd always wanted a threesome with two guys but hadnt told other partners because she thought they wouldnt be happy about it. I encouraged the idea and using contact mags we did end up meeting some guys. And it was fantastic seeing the pleasure she got from two cocks. However one time the guy we met turned out to be bi and while my girlfriend was sucking my cock he joined in with her and they both sucked it together. It was great for me.. I didnt mind.. However after the session my girlfriend was really pissed off as she wanted to be the centre of attention herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can't get the job done properly, bring in a friend to help

Too right and some women are just a two man job.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

"If you can't get the job done properly, bring in a friend to help

I didn't need helping in 'getting the job done' but it just added a bit of a spark at the time - and the fact that it was a friend we 1st invited to join us added a bit more spice to it all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They are indeed

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