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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" send me some any time...and i will oblige | |||
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"over the years ive been on BBWdating and Plenty of Fish.. oddly enough i've had more positive responses from men on here lol " I think you are right.......... | |||
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"Apparently i look like a thug Oh well i heard it in the grape vine that miss cheekychops likes men with tattoo's and that are a little bit older than herself.. ping her a message Just call me Cilla and i want an invite to your wedding " | |||
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"Apparently i look like a thug Oh well " I wouldn't say a thug but you certainly look like you can look after yourself | |||
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"I found POF the guys wanted just sex and werent really on there to date. I turned them down even though i was on this site (hipcrite - HELL YES I AM) " I have a differnet prosoner on there I am a weirdo... | |||
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"Apparently i look like a thug Oh well " I have to say you are so my type in the type of men I date... | |||
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"Half the people on POF are on here! " I know that had a few messages in fact the first message I ever got was you are on fabswingers... | |||
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"I would behave completely differently if i was going on a date than i would if i was having a swinging meet. A swinging meet is about sex, dating is more looking towards the future" Totally agree xx but great if your both like minded xx | |||
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"Half the people on POF are on here! " a guy who im a little smitten with i actually met on here and said this is FABS we arent supposed to be talking like this so he went and found me on plenty of fish just so he could talk all the slushy stuff.. made me giggle and the effort amused me | |||
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"Half the people on POF are on here! a guy who im a little smitten with i actually met on here and said this is FABS we arent supposed to be talking like this so he went and found me on plenty of fish just so he could talk all the slushy stuff.. made me giggle and the effort amused me " Aww that is so sweet | |||
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"Apparently i look like a thug Oh well I have to say you are so my type in the type of men I date... " Do we have a match??? JACKPOT | |||
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"Apparently i look like a thug Oh well I have to say you are so my type in the type of men I date... Do we have a match??? JACKPOT " Lets go to the island of fernandos .... No likely no lighty ..... Let the custard see the rhubarb xxx | |||
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"I cant slag pof off Ive met lots off there and even had 3 relationships of 4/5 months.... Most of these sites are free and work most of the time...... Good luck finding who/what you want off this or any site " cheers me dears... | |||
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"Half the people on POF are on here! a guy who im a little smitten with i actually met on here and said this is FABS we arent supposed to be talking like this so he went and found me on plenty of fish just so he could talk all the slushy stuff.. made me giggle and the effort amused me " aawwww haha! mad thinking but understand the reasons why | |||
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"Half the people on POF are on here! a guy who im a little smitten with i actually met on here and said this is FABS we arent supposed to be talking like this so he went and found me on plenty of fish just so he could talk all the slushy stuff.. made me giggle and the effort amused me aawwww haha! mad thinking but understand the reasons why" my logic even baffles me most times lol but i found it very sweet also and must be said his magic has kinda worked | |||
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"Half the people on POF are on here! a guy who im a little smitten with i actually met on here and said this is FABS we arent supposed to be talking like this so he went and found me on plenty of fish just so he could talk all the slushy stuff.. made me giggle and the effort amused me aawwww haha! mad thinking but understand the reasons why my logic even baffles me most times lol but i found it very sweet also and must be said his magic has kinda worked " Pass me a sick bucket... | |||
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"Hey I don't mind its their perference so its up to them I guess.. Its just hard work now I know why I shyed away from it for so long... " A woman on here complaining it's hard work??? You should try being a guy!!! | |||
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"Hey I don't mind its their perference so its up to them I guess.. Its just hard work now I know why I shyed away from it for so long... A woman on here complaining it's hard work??? You should try being a guy!!! " Nah I get message most day on here... haha just not with dating | |||
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"Is POF free for guys?" Totally x | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" OMG the little shit.. spose he is Gods gift too.. such a shame we cant all block these people | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ OMG the little shit.. spose he is Gods gift too.. such a shame we cant all block these people" He was ok looking and seemed nice.. So I braved it and sent a message... haha | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" Did you ask him if he just fancied a fuck instead then? | |||
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"It's just my opinion, but I never understand why there should be such an apparent 'gulf' between being on here, and on a supposedly dating site. It's regularly said that swinging is different things to different people, but it's well documented the number of people who have met their SO on here, and there are obviously a fair number of people, myself included, who have met and had relationships of one type or another, and for varying lengths of time via here. " I think its just the nature of the site because its predominantly about having no strings attached casual fun with others my logic is that if you want to venture into a swinging relationship this is the ideal place to meet a like minded individual. | |||
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"By the way you are no way fat at all. great body what a fool he was. " thanks...x | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ Did you ask him if he just fancied a fuck instead then?" hahahaahaaaa he prob would if he knew his dick was going to get serviced... | |||
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"I've had 2 very weird meets from POF. Both lived in what I can only describe as squats, no carpets no wallpaper. It was very bizarre! I've given up on POF! I'm totally sick of being single but I'm a swinger and I couldn't be with a non swinger. I go for broad shoulders, tattoos and the older guy and have decided that I'm probably better single!!" Got broad shoulders , 3 large tattoos ???? X | |||
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"I do try and distinguish dating sites from fab to be honest. Don't know why but I do. Of someone from here was to message me on pof just for sex I would knock them back. " i do the same, and it was funny as i said above in the thread that a nice guy made an advance to me on here and it just felt wrong,, so he found me on POF and did the slushy cheesy chat up line thing on there | |||
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"I do try and distinguish dating sites from fab to be honest. Don't know why but I do. Of someone from here was to message me on pof just for sex I would knock them back. i do the same, and it was funny as i said above in the thread that a nice guy made an advance to me on here and it just felt wrong,, so he found me on POF and did the slushy cheesy chat up line thing on there" That is very sweet x | |||
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"Last Fridays date just asked me out again tonight. Then he got cheeky and asked what colour knickers I'm wearing Then he got all apologetic and asked me to excuse his sense of humour and that he'd be a gentleman from now... All of this was by text when I was in a meeting. So I just sent one reply: Of course you can take me out tonight. None. But I am wearing stockings. Proper stockings. With seams... Think I may have made a respectable man unfit for work for the rest of the day! " Great come back... | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" send a reply - well I can lose weight - wotcha gonna do about being ugly and judgemental ........ | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ send a reply - well I can lose weight - wotcha gonna do about being ugly and judgemental ........ " I said I don't go out with guys with small dicks and big gobs... | |||
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"So I just sent one reply: Of course you can take me out tonight. None. But I am wearing stockings. Proper stockings. With seams... Think I may have made a respectable man unfit for work for the rest of the day! Great come back... " It's only the truth | |||
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"Last Fridays date just asked me out again tonight. Then he got cheeky and asked what colour knickers I'm wearing Then he got all apologetic and asked me to excuse his sense of humour and that he'd be a gentleman from now... All of this was by text when I was in a meeting. So I just sent one reply: Of course you can take me out tonight. None. But I am wearing stockings. Proper stockings. With seams... Think I may have made a respectable man unfit for work for the rest of the day! " Just love it | |||
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"Being heavily tattooed puts some people off each to their own I guess lol " I love it!!! the more the better however I am fussy they have to be nice classy ones no prison type ones haha | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" Fat chick? He or they obviously need glasses. | |||
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"Lol. All from a respectable tattoo parlour don't actually know how many though lol" hahaha I am getting my 5th tattoo soon.. I can't wait | |||
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"Lol. All from a respectable tattoo parlour don't actually know how many though lol hahaha I am getting my 5th tattoo soon.. I can't wait " I need to get back and get another. Get withdrawal symptoms every now and again. There's space left on the body yet lol | |||
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"Lol. All from a respectable tattoo parlour don't actually know how many though lol hahaha I am getting my 5th tattoo soon.. I can't wait " My tats have meaning, my next one is going to be difficult to explain though! | |||
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" Of course you can take me out tonight. None. But I am wearing stockings. Proper stockings. With seams... Think I may have made a respectable man unfit for work for the rest of the day! Just love it " He may have just imploded at his weekly staff meet (they all work for him) since I may have just mentioned that the suspenders are attached to a basque... | |||
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"Lol. All from a respectable tattoo parlour don't actually know how many though lol hahaha I am getting my 5th tattoo soon.. I can't wait My tats have meaning, my next one is going to be difficult to explain though! " All my tats have a meaning of sort. Sleeves themed etc. Never really thought about just going to get a random tattoo done for the sake of it. Love tattoos on guys and ladies | |||
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"Lol. All from a respectable tattoo parlour don't actually know how many though lol hahaha I am getting my 5th tattoo soon.. I can't wait My tats have meaning, my next one is going to be difficult to explain though! All my tats have a meaning of sort. Sleeves themed etc. Never really thought about just going to get a random tattoo done for the sake of it. Love tattoos on guys and ladies " They've taken a lot of designing but they mean the world to me. My favourite is the memorial for my dad. My tattooist and I both cried when she'd finished it. | |||
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"They've taken a lot of designing but they mean the world to me. My favourite is the memorial for my dad. My tattooist and I both cried when she'd finished it. " Aww that's sweet. | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ send a reply - well I can lose weight - wotcha gonna do about being ugly and judgemental ........ I said I don't go out with guys with small dicks and big gobs..." good reply | |||
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" Of course you can take me out tonight. None. But I am wearing stockings. Proper stockings. With seams... Think I may have made a respectable man unfit for work for the rest of the day! Just love it He may have just imploded at his weekly staff meet (they all work for him) since I may have just mentioned that the suspenders are attached to a basque... " | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" Look on the brightside at least you found out striaght away what an arse he was! Your lovely and he's guner trip up over his Labrador | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ Look on the brightside at least you found out striaght away what an arse he was! Your lovely and he's guner trip up over his Labrador " Bet the slim birds meet him once, get dazzled by his charming.personality and tell him to copulate off with alacrity | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ Look on the brightside at least you found out striaght away what an arse he was! Your lovely and he's guner trip up over his Labrador " | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" Checked my inbox, but haven't had a message ??? | |||
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"Some off the ladies on here say strange things, it baffles me why if a guy tried to get romantic with you on this site you'd hit the reject button, that guy could be the love of your life your soul mate. They say we've all got one some where but most never meet up! I thought I'd found mine once , problem was she was still looking . Surely if you met someone on fab and you got along really well, then hell that's gotta be a good start ! Why? Because you obviously have a hell of a lot in common " You have found yours... you married her... | |||
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"Some off the ladies on here say strange things, it baffles me why if a guy tried to get romantic with you on this site you'd hit the reject button, that guy could be the love of your life your soul mate. They say we've all got one some where but most never meet up! I thought I'd found mine once , problem was she was still looking . Surely if you met someone on fab and you got along really well, then hell that's gotta be a good start ! Why? Because you obviously have a hell of a lot in common You have found yours... you married her... " No.......she found hers .... | |||
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"Some off the ladies on here say strange things, it baffles me why if a guy tried to get romantic with you on this site you'd hit the reject button, that guy could be the love of your life your soul mate. They say we've all got one some where but most never meet up! I thought I'd found mine once , problem was she was still looking . Surely if you met someone on fab and you got along really well, then hell that's gotta be a good start ! Why? Because you obviously have a hell of a lot in common " Since im the one who kinda hit the reject button i'll explain why i keep dating sites and fabs seperate. Ive always said that i would not want a swinging relationship and i feel that if a man met me on here and decided he liked me that he would presume that because im on this site i'm open to the lifestyle and it would continue into a relationship. even if i explained that i do not want a swinging relationship id still feel that deep down he might perhaps be thinking 'well she might change her mind one day' | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............" Which dating site are these rude guys on? | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ Which dating site are these rude guys on?" plenty of cod roe.... | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ Which dating site are these rude guys on? plenty of cod roe.... " Well bit it if they are like that there must be better ones about with politer people on it. | |||
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"Is hard work I tell you... I send a message with some respones.. I go one saying I don't date fat chicks... oh the joys............ Which dating site are these rude guys on? plenty of cod roe.... " I am beginning to think I was 'brung up' in another century, maybe even Millennia. I honestly cannot remember (may be my age of course!) sending a woman a message anything remotely as rude as that to express my, er, careful now.... lack of a stirring desire... (??) I just couldn't do it. Had a few along those lines sent to ME but I just feel pity for those 'ladies' who did so, and hope that one day they realised what they passed over.... Okay, a boy can dream, can't he..?? | |||
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"Some off the ladies on here say strange things, it baffles me why if a guy tried to get romantic with you on this site you'd hit the reject button, that guy could be the love of your life your soul mate. They say we've all got one some where but most never meet up! I thought I'd found mine once , problem was she was still looking . Surely if you met someone on fab and you got along really well, then hell that's gotta be a good start ! Why? Because you obviously have a hell of a lot in common Since im the one who kinda hit the reject button i'll explain why i keep dating sites and fabs seperate. Ive always said that i would not want a swinging relationship and i feel that if a man met me on here and decided he liked me that he would presume that because im on this site i'm open to the lifestyle and it would continue into a relationship. even if i explained that i do not want a swinging relationship id still feel that deep down he might perhaps be thinking 'well she might change her mind one day' " Bet you'd miss the swinging lifestyle if you did leave , thanks for explaining | |||
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"when i met jay it was in an adult cinema and he had a cock in his mouth. should of realized then it was a match made in heaven" Made me chuckle | |||
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"when i met jay it was in an adult cinema and he had a cock in his mouth. should of realized then it was a match made in heaven" Jeeez - nearly spat me coffee out! | |||
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"when i met jay it was in an adult cinema and he had a cock in his mouth. should of realized then it was a match made in heaven" I suppose this takes 4D cinema to a whole new level lol | |||
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" Bet you'd miss the swinging lifestyle if you did leave , thanks for explaining " I dont count myself as a swinger. Im just a straight single female who prefers the calender style organization of having sex with men to fit my time schedule rather than pulling d*unken men on a rare night out (and that's not always guaranteed lol) I find it safer this way. | |||
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"Half the people on POF are on here! " Yeah I know a few, me included x | |||
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"still think you should have given the 53yr old a chance,, he could have been the one pmsllllll " Haha funny... Well I am not doing well on the dating front.. | |||
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"dating update.. Well I have had a couple of emails so far.. One from a bloke who is 42 and uses text talk and called me baby.....yikes second one was from well lets just say not my cup of tea I thought let me just plough into it but now I am beginning to shy away from it as I just think I don't attract the guys that I am attracted too... " We'll get Phil Mitchell sorted for you | |||
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"What type of guy is, well, your type of guy ?" Tall loads of tattoos and a nice guy I know a few like that but have to loose about 10 stone from them to look twice.. I am a nice girl as a friend type to them hahaha... | |||
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"dating update.. Well I have had a couple of emails so far.. One from a bloke who is 42 and uses text talk and called me baby.....yikes second one was from well lets just say not my cup of tea I thought let me just plough into it but now I am beginning to shy away from it as I just think I don't attract the guys that I am attracted too... We'll get Phil Mitchell sorted for you " Rusty... you are going to get a slap young man hahaha | |||
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"dating update.. Well I have had a couple of emails so far.. One from a bloke who is 42 and uses text talk and called me baby.....yikes second one was from well lets just say not my cup of tea I thought let me just plough into it but now I am beginning to shy away from it as I just think I don't attract the guys that I am attracted too... We'll get Phil Mitchell sorted for you Rusty... you are going to get a slap young man hahaha " Hmmm would that be with hand or paddle. I'll bend over ready lol | |||
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"dating update.. Well I have had a couple of emails so far.. One from a bloke who is 42 and uses text talk and called me baby.....yikes second one was from well lets just say not my cup of tea I thought let me just plough into it but now I am beginning to shy away from it as I just think I don't attract the guys that I am attracted too... We'll get Phil Mitchell sorted for you Rusty... you are going to get a slap young man hahaha Hmmm would that be with hand or paddle. I'll bend over ready lol" Nope a whip... | |||
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"J you'll have him tossing one out in a minute,, haha " ewwwwwwwwwwwww ok I'll get the wet kipper then.... | |||
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"What type of guy is, well, your type of guy ?" I've never had a type, it's more a feeling. My ex was a god but also a muppet! When I first met OH there was no instant attraction but as we'd chatted online for months before meeting we already had clicked. But the attraction grew (especially after one to many and sampled his goods!). I fell for him over a couple of months...hard! and it keeps growing | |||
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"J you'll have him tossing one out in a minute,, haha ewwwwwwwwwwwww ok I'll get the wet kipper then.... " That's it where's the man sized tissues | |||
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"What type of guy is, well, your type of guy ? I've never had a type, it's more a feeling. My ex was a god but also a muppet! When I first met OH there was no instant attraction but as we'd chatted online for months before meeting we already had clicked. But the attraction grew (especially after one to many and sampled his goods!). I fell for him over a couple of months...hard! and it keeps growing " awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww | |||
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