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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Work, personal circumstances, timings, emotions, feelings and life change on a day to day basis.

It affects us all.

Ive been single for too long and would like a girlfriend .

Who else is in my boat and actively seeking a male or female companion.

Leave your comments below and see if anyone catches your eye

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By *etmeteaseyou1Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart"

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Work, personal circumstances, timings, emotions, feelings and life change on a day to day basis.

It affects us all.

Ive been single for too long and would like a girlfriend .

Who else is in my boat and actively seeking a male or female companion.

Leave your comments below and see if anyone catches your eye "

Remember a girlfriend is not just for Christmas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got the boyfriend, wouldn't mind a girlfriend though

Px

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By *etmeteaseyou1Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time. "

we all would like find girlfriend but hard do that here

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Me me can I have a girlfriend pretty please?

K

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time. "

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway.

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick

I'd love a relationship with another swinger.

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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway. "

Thats an interesting take on it.

M xx

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Tbh I’m not sure what I’m after anymore.

When I first joined newly out of a relationship I was just seeking friends and fun times.

Now I miss the closeness of being with someone who’s on the same wavelength.

Will I find it? Who knows... but I’ll take the fun and friendship whilst I’m looking

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm on the fence... I like the idea of one, but not sure about the reality.

Fwb works for me at the moment, but I'd be open to more if I met the right person.

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By *etmeteaseyou1Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway. "

i agree with you nora fwb is not same as fuck buddy fwb you have all same things a gf just your own time as well

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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"Tbh I’m not sure what I’m after anymore.

When I first joined newly out of a relationship I was just seeking friends and fun times.

Now I miss the closeness of being with someone who’s on the same wavelength.

Will I find it? Who knows... but I’ll take the fun and friendship whilst I’m looking "

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

If like a part time one. I like the idea of spending quality time with just one person but I don’t want anyone in my pocket.

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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"I'm on the fence... I like the idea of one, but not sure about the reality.

Fwb works for me at the moment, but I'd be open to more if I met the right person. "

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Fbw does nothing for me coz i alway want more n knowing tbat there just there for mainly sex no thanks

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By *etmeteaseyou1Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"If like a part time one. I like the idea of spending quality time with just one person but I don’t want anyone in my pocket. "
that what a fwb is really

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway.

Thats an interesting take on it.

M xx"

Depends on the type of person you are though. I know what I want and I know I’m very happy with my life and I’ll never want a “proper” relationship. I’ve had feelings of some sort for everyone I’ve met. If it’s a long term thing it’s inevitable. That doesn’t scare me though, it scares a lot of people on here. I guess it’s how you handle it and it’s important to be totally straight and honest from the beginning as to what you want, which I always have been x

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By *etmeteaseyou1Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne


"Fbw does nothing for me coz i alway want more n knowing tbat there just there for mainly sex no thanks"
i had fwb before an it was more about companionship more then the sex

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"If like a part time one. I like the idea of spending quality time with just one person but I don’t want anyone in my pocket. that what a fwb is really"

Not in my book. I don’t want a feeling of casual or an option and I don’t want them separate from my life.

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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway.

Thats an interesting take on it.

M xx

Depends on the type of person you are though. I know what I want and I know I’m very happy with my life and I’ll never want a “proper” relationship. I’ve had feelings of some sort for everyone I’ve met. If it’s a long term thing it’s inevitable. That doesn’t scare me though, it scares a lot of people on here. I guess it’s how you handle it and it’s important to be totally straight and honest from the beginning as to what you want, which I always have been x"

It does scare a lot of people, you're right. The last relationship I had (a good few years ago) was great up until I asked her that I wanted to take things to the next level. She wasn't ready for it, it feaked her out and it all went downhill after that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway.

Thats an interesting take on it.

M xx

Depends on the type of person you are though. I know what I want and I know I’m very happy with my life and I’ll never want a “proper” relationship. I’ve had feelings of some sort for everyone I’ve met. If it’s a long term thing it’s inevitable. That doesn’t scare me though, it scares a lot of people on here. I guess it’s how you handle it and it’s important to be totally straight and honest from the beginning as to what you want, which I always have been x

It does scare a lot of people, you're right. The last relationship I had (a good few years ago) was great up until I asked her that I wanted to take things to the next level. She wasn't ready for it, it feaked her out and it all went downhill after that "

Perhaps if you want a girlfriend as such, the dating sites may be better. I’ve never been on one so I’ve no idea how it works. I’ve heard some say they’re no different to fab though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks. It’s hard enough to keep one woman happy without adding another. Imagine periods twice a month

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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway.

Thats an interesting take on it.

M xx

Depends on the type of person you are though. I know what I want and I know I’m very happy with my life and I’ll never want a “proper” relationship. I’ve had feelings of some sort for everyone I’ve met. If it’s a long term thing it’s inevitable. That doesn’t scare me though, it scares a lot of people on here. I guess it’s how you handle it and it’s important to be totally straight and honest from the beginning as to what you want, which I always have been x

It does scare a lot of people, you're right. The last relationship I had (a good few years ago) was great up until I asked her that I wanted to take things to the next level. She wasn't ready for it, it feaked her out and it all went downhill after that

Perhaps if you want a girlfriend as such, the dating sites may be better. I’ve never been on one so I’ve no idea how it works. I’ve heard some say they’re no different to fab though!"

Dating sites personally don't work for me. I've been actively on 2 of them for 10 years and one for 2 years. Im still on them and do spend time on them most evenings. My successful rate is providing to be as successful as Brexit. Its not working for me and its definitely not through a lack of trying.

I'm not particularly good at selling myself..its a good thing I'm not a salesman lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I think so. Possibly. If he is on board with ENM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id like a gf or fwb...been single for way too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My right hand is my FWB

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway.

Thats an interesting take on it.

M xx

Depends on the type of person you are though. I know what I want and I know I’m very happy with my life and I’ll never want a “proper” relationship. I’ve had feelings of some sort for everyone I’ve met. If it’s a long term thing it’s inevitable. That doesn’t scare me though, it scares a lot of people on here. I guess it’s how you handle it and it’s important to be totally straight and honest from the beginning as to what you want, which I always have been x

It does scare a lot of people, you're right. The last relationship I had (a good few years ago) was great up until I asked her that I wanted to take things to the next level. She wasn't ready for it, it feaked her out and it all went downhill after that

Perhaps if you want a girlfriend as such, the dating sites may be better. I’ve never been on one so I’ve no idea how it works. I’ve heard some say they’re no different to fab though!

Dating sites personally don't work for me. I've been actively on 2 of them for 10 years and one for 2 years. Im still on them and do spend time on them most evenings. My successful rate is providing to be as successful as Brexit. Its not working for me and its definitely not through a lack of trying.

I'm not particularly good at selling myself..its a good thing I'm not a salesman lol"

Yeah I’m better face to face. Maybe try some organised socials. My goal for this year is to go to more social events. They are good fun.

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By *enuine Mike OP   Man
over a year ago

Guildford


"My right hand is my FWB"

I treat myself every so often to a FFM, for this I use both hands

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london


"well a girl friend is always good but fwb can be better as you can still have fun of relationship an companionship but also have your own time apart

Personally I'm not after a FWB. It's difficult to get emotionally attached with someone when you know that they are only with you for sex and a good time.

Not necessarily. That’s a fuck buddy. To me there’s a difference between that and FWB. A FWB to me is kind of like a relationship of sorts. All the fun and laughs without the hassle. Like a bubble. Not coming to my house, not meeting

My kids and family, not living with me or sharing my bank account etc etc. That’s how I see it anyway. i agree with you nora fwb is not same as fuck buddy fwb you have all same things a gf just your own time as well"

I’m confused— why wouldn’t you have your own time with a gf too?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Throwing my hat into the ring. FWB/boyfriend would suit me if things worked out that way.

(Hampshire based )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My right hand is my FWB"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, but no, but yeah but........

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