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What are some things men find unattractive in women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we've had what do women find unattractive in men so to flip it what do men find unattractive in women...

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Judgemental attitudes banding whole groups together based on one experience they once had.

That they read subtext in every word ever spoken.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Nose hair longer than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically, the trend of injecting lips to make them fuller. I've always found that looks worse rather than better. But each to their own.

Daily red wine drinking to self medicate or mask trauma.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Saying no or being busy?

Seriously, as previously mentioned- collagen sausage lips, groucho brows and more makeup than a clown.

and on here, a profile with more demands and T&C's than the Brexit agreement- usually with a status rant about nobody wants to meet

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

Nothing that I could not say of men. Cruelty and dishonesty about feelings can happen in men and women.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am with those that don't like the "trout pout" lips.

I am not keen about masses of seemingly irrelevant tattoos on them. What is the deep personal meaning of having the chinese characters for "Shoe polish" tattooed on your left breast?

And finally, arrogant, shouty profiles. There are loads of lovely women and couples on Fab but every now and again ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, the trend of injecting lips to make them fuller. I've always found that looks worse rather than better. But each to their own.

Daily red wine drinking to self medicate or mask trauma."

What about white wine? #askingforafriend

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say my indecisiveness and sometimes negative attitude makes me unattractive.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ones with aggressive opinions towards those who want something that they might not necessarily agree with. We are all individuals afterall.....would be a boring world if we all wanted the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but when is it going to be International what men find unattractive in women day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like this thread is going to go south quickly but double standards in women is the main one I can think of.

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth


"I am with those that don't like the "trout pout" lips.

I am not keen about masses of seemingly irrelevant tattoos on them. What is the deep personal meaning of having the chinese characters for "Shoe polish" tattooed on your left breast?

And finally, arrogant, shouty profiles. There are loads of lovely women and couples on Fab but every now and again .... "

I agree & the fake over made up look with trout pout is a big turn off. I prefer a natural style & look.

Sorry ladies, we were asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nail and Head.

Don't forget.. Must have a 27 inch Penis and can fuck for 14 months straight.

Makes no odds if you're a man or a woman, if you're going to act like an entitled big head. It's not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, this thread has the potential of flying like a lead brick.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think it will be more popular with the ladies than you think…

Their block buttons will be red hot..

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female, i think its an interesting thread, yes people could take offence, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

I'm not going to be offended if someone on the internet says they find overweight girls unattractive, or don't like brunettes or only like a shaven muff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a female, i think its an interesting thread, yes people could take offence, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

I'm not going to be offended if someone on the internet says they find overweight girls unattractive, or don't like brunettes or only like a shaven muff "

This.

It's very interesting especially watching both threads

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"As a female, i think its an interesting thread, yes people could take offence, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

I'm not going to be offended if someone on the internet says they find overweight girls unattractive, or don't like brunettes or only like a shaven muff "

Definitely. I’m here looking for the ones who aren’t afraid to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it will be more popular with the ladies than you think…

Their block buttons will be red hot.."

I’m very grateful for this thread for this reason

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina "

Personally I just would like a decent guy....some do still exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it will be more popular with the ladies than you think…

Their block buttons will be red hot.."

Why would I block someone because they say what they don't find attractive in women? I've said something about men on the other thread. Be weird if men blocked me for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry- lipstick. Nice in pictures, not nice when I’m tryna lips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when they’re anything but empathetic, lacking humility and sensitivity...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry- lipstick. Nice in pictures, not nice when I’m tryna lips. "

This is so true. I'm desperately trying to find a red lipstick which is smudge proof. It seems impossible.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Just more worried about my nose hair now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity, neediness, misandry, double standards, hairy toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy plug holes. How can something so beautiful produce such a disgusting mess?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Negativity, neediness, misandry, double standards, hairy toes "

. * checks toes. All good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hairy anuses. How can something so beautiful produce such a disgusting mess?"

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking


"Nail and Head.

Don't forget.. Must have a 27 inch Penis and can fuck for 14 months straight.

Makes no odds if you're a man or a woman, if you're going to act like an entitled big head. It's not a good look.

"

100%

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Sorry- lipstick. Nice in pictures, not nice when I’m tryna lips.

This is so true. I'm desperately trying to find a red lipstick which is smudge proof. It seems impossible. "

Me too! If you do let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just more worried about my nose hair now!!! "
is good with a tweezers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Negativity, neediness, misandry, double standards, hairy toes

. * shaves toes. All good "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Negativity, neediness, misandry, double standards, hairy toes

. * shaves toes. All good

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hairy anuses. How can something so beautiful produce such a disgusting mess?

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Hairy anuses sounds like an Egyptian god.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like the phrase exceptional men that you see on lots of profiles for women. I often feel like messaging with my CV attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men and women are in incompatible lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They breathe lol

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking


"I just like the phrase exceptional men that you see on lots of profiles for women. I often feel like messaging with my CV attached."

Lol.... Love this babe. Keeping it real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry- lipstick. Nice in pictures, not nice when I’m tryna lips.

This is so true. I'm desperately trying to find a red lipstick which is smudge proof. It seems impossible.

Me too! If you do let me know "

And let me know too. So I can pass it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They choose the wrong ones then expect sympathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They choose the wrong ones then expect sympathy "

The wrong what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry- lipstick. Nice in pictures, not nice when I’m tryna lips.

This is so true. I'm desperately trying to find a red lipstick which is smudge proof. It seems impossible.

Me too! If you do let me know "

Someone assured me fenty wouldn't budge. Lies. I looked like the joker on Friday night

There's a thread I put up about it. Working my way through the recommendations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

female entitlement

double standards

just my opinion of what i think that puts me off

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I have no problem speaking my mind…. and alot men don’t like that!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Sorry- lipstick. Nice in pictures, not nice when I’m tryna lips.

This is so true. I'm desperately trying to find a red lipstick which is smudge proof. It seems impossible.

Me too! If you do let me know

Someone assured me fenty wouldn't budge. Lies. I looked like the joker on Friday night

There's a thread I put up about it. Working my way through the recommendations."

Oh I’ll look for it. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They choose the wrong ones then expect sympathy

The wrong what?"

Eh it’s your fault for choosing the wrong one or types nobody else's live and learn lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no problem speaking my mind…. and alot men don’t like that! "

I find that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They choose the wrong ones then expect sympathy

The wrong what?

Eh it’s your fault for choosing the wrong one or types nobody else's live and learn lol "

The wrong men? Do you mean if a woman ends up with someone who is abusive and coercive she should live and learn? Ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry- lipstick. Nice in pictures, not nice when I’m tryna lips.

This is so true. I'm desperately trying to find a red lipstick which is smudge proof. It seems impossible.

Me too! If you do let me know

Someone assured me fenty wouldn't budge. Lies. I looked like the joker on Friday night

There's a thread I put up about it. Working my way through the recommendations."

Sorry this is really funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina "

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, the trend of injecting lips to make them fuller. I've always found that looks worse rather than better. But each to their own.

Daily red wine drinking to self medicate or mask trauma.

What about white wine? #askingforafriend"

I guess that's slightly better..& also better than putting vodka on your cornflakes.

Trying not to be too judgemental

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want. "

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, the trend of injecting lips to make them fuller. I've always found that looks worse rather than better. But each to their own.

Daily red wine drinking to self medicate or mask trauma.

What about white wine? #askingforafriend

I guess that's slightly better..& also better than putting vodka on your cornflakes.

Trying not to be too judgemental

"

Vodka? But Baileys would be heaven.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

A wiffey kipper.

Took a bird out once who was wearing fishnets, smelt like there was still a couple of mackerel caught in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence that then boils over to arrogance, deciding one experience will define all males are the same, thinking they’re above everyone just to name a few… this sites full of it…

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"That they read subtext in every word ever spoken. "

This

I am simply creature and not intelligent enough to load double meaning into every sentence.

#doesWhatItSaysOnTheTin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They choose the wrong ones then expect sympathy

The wrong what?

Eh it’s your fault for choosing the wrong one or types nobody else's live and learn lol "

Seriously?

Do you really think people choose the wrong one on purpose

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"As a female, i think its an interesting thread, yes people could take offence, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

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It’s an interesting read but i find myself agreeing with most of what is being said on both threads.

Still chuckling at Joker unexpected impersonation.

Back in the day we used to have a liquid we put on after lipstick, don’t they do anything similar now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a female, i think its an interesting thread, yes people could take offence, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

It’s an interesting read but i find myself agreeing with most of what is being said on both threads.

Still chuckling at Joker unexpected impersonation.

Back in the day we used to have a liquid we put on after lipstick, don’t they do anything similar now? "

Yeah I've tried that too. Didn't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Characteristics of entitlement/arrogance and egotistical attitude. Privileged princesses do nothing for me.

Also negativity isn’t great either, not unattractive as that can be short lived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Sisterhood.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

The most unattractive thing that I found in my ex-wife was another man - my ex-best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most unattractive thing that I found in my ex-wife was another man - my ex-best friend "

Ouch!

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By *hebirdsMan
over a year ago

Haddington

Women who hate other women without reason. Often to side with mysogonostic men (think Dorris or Patel).

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs"

I second this, well said

Neediness, negativity and stupidity are absolute turn off for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing Oompa Loompa tan you're not suppose to be orange.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"So we've had what do women find unattractive in men so to flip it what do men find unattractive in women... "

False promises and talk of what's on offer for you to find the exact opposite is the reality you're greeted with. Cold sex, gratefully accepting affection while returning little if anything. Selfishness, all about what they want. Talking about themselves constantly while asking you little to nothing about yourself in return. Claims of what they've happily done with others yet the same not offered to you (in a way baiting or goading you, purposely upsetting you). Then there's the posting of misleading photos, claiming bicurious or bixexual when clearly not. Too much makeup, dressing inappropriately in public, talking inappropriately around others in public to cause embarrassment. Last but not least trying to take Tony from Cherry !! ..... All from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Characteristics of entitlement/arrogance and egotistical attitude. Privileged princesses do nothing for me.

Also negativity isn’t great either, not unattractive as that can be short lived.

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Absolutely on the money

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Characteristics of entitlement/arrogance and egotistical attitude. Privileged princesses do nothing for me.

Also negativity isn’t great either, not unattractive as that can be short lived.

Absolutely on the money "

Yep this is the nail on the head......wooo my first forum post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pouting in photos, false eyelashes and gaudy OTT make-up, double standards, unrealistic demands and expectations.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I think it will be more popular with the ladies than you think…

Their block buttons will be red hot.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking for the blocklist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I'm not attracted by anything that looks fake - injected lips, fake boobs, ott make up, filtered photos etc.

Character wise I don't care if a person is male or female, rudeness, entitlement, selfishness, cruelty, violence, arrogance, bitterness, bitchyness are among the traits I dislike in a person.

Mr

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Physically, the trend of injecting lips to make them fuller. I've always found that looks worse rather than better. But each to their own.

Daily red wine drinking to self medicate or mask trauma."

What about champagne

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By *iltomMan
over a year ago

swansea


"Saying no or being busy?

Seriously, as previously mentioned- collagen sausage lips, groucho brows and more makeup than a clown.

and on here, a profile with more demands and T&C's than the Brexit agreement- usually with a status rant about nobody wants to meet "

Exactly that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a fan of all the air brushing and filters and all that rubbish. I mean it'd like false advertising ...just my opinion.

Secondly leave something to the imagination. Overly explicit pictures are a huge turn off!

Thirdly, a degree of being picky is actually a good thing! Shows one has standards.

The rest are basic but good manners and conversation go an awfully long way. It's not all about the looks, there has to be a some substance

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"I am not a fan of all the air brushing and filters and all that rubbish. I mean it'd like false advertising ...just my opinion.

Secondly leave something to the imagination. Overly explicit pictures are a huge turn off!

Thirdly, a degree of being picky is actually a good thing! Shows one has standards.

The rest are basic but good manners and conversation go an awfully long way. It's not all about the looks, there has to be a some substance "

Spot on, especially some basic manners !

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By *j123499Man
over a year ago

exeter

Have not been on this site long enough to comment regarding it but 100% agree with your opinions buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs"

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Personally I don't find anything unattractive in women...... Until you get to know a woman you don't know what her story is and if your opinion of women is formed on their looks, shape, size, clothes etc you are being very judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entitlement , I'm nothing special myself , I feel that I have to make a real effort in everything I do in life to get the rewards I want. sadly this isn't goung to go down well ladies I can honest say that the minute you ask a woman on sites like this to make a effort to appear appealing past flashing thier tits or fanny most will just not bother sighting who the hell do you think you are as they run away unable to come up with anything . then the same type of women will be in the forums moaning about guys posting unimaginative messages or any other namesless entitlement moans theh can come up with .

The hypocrisy is real and very very strong on sites like this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tattoos and piercings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitlement , I'm nothing special myself , I feel that I have to make a real effort in everything I do in life to get the rewards I want. sadly this isn't goung to go down well ladies I can honest say that the minute you ask a woman on sites like this to make a effort to appear appealing past flashing thier tits or fanny most will just not bother sighting who the hell do you think you are as they run away unable to come up with anything . then the same type of women will be in the forums moaning about guys posting unimaginative messages or any other namesless entitlement moans theh can come up with .

The hypocrisy is real and very very strong on sites like this ."

Can you clarify what you mean by asking women to appear appealing?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I am with those that don't like the "trout pout" lips.

I am not keen about masses of seemingly irrelevant tattoos on them. What is the deep personal meaning of having the chinese characters for "Shoe polish" tattooed on your left breast?

And finally, arrogant, shouty profiles. There are loads of lovely women and couples on Fab but every now and again ....

I agree & the fake over made up look with trout pout is a big turn off. I prefer a natural style & look.

Sorry ladies, we were asked. "

You could simply say you dislike lip fillers.

I dislike women (or men) who turn their own insecurities and ignorance into insults

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am with those that don't like the "trout pout" lips.

I am not keen about masses of seemingly irrelevant tattoos on them. What is the deep personal meaning of having the chinese characters for "Shoe polish" tattooed on your left breast?

And finally, arrogant, shouty profiles. There are loads of lovely women and couples on Fab but every now and again ....

I agree & the fake over made up look with trout pout is a big turn off. I prefer a natural style & look.

Sorry ladies, we were asked.

You could simply say you dislike lip fillers.

I dislike women (or men) who turn their own insecurities and ignorance into insults

"

Some (men and women) go OTT with their answers by turning them into indults and hide behind 'well we were asked'. You'll always get those kind of answers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*insults

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Entitlement , I'm nothing special myself , I feel that I have to make a real effort in everything I do in life to get the rewards I want. sadly this isn't goung to go down well ladies I can honest say that the minute you ask a woman on sites like this to make a effort to appear appealing past flashing thier tits or fanny most will just not bother sighting who the hell do you think you are as they run away unable to come up with anything . then the same type of women will be in the forums moaning about guys posting unimaginative messages or any other namesless entitlement moans theh can come up with .

The hypocrisy is real and very very strong on sites like this .

Can you clarify what you mean by asking women to appear appealing? "

I need the whole paragraph clarifying

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I am with those that don't like the "trout pout" lips.

I am not keen about masses of seemingly irrelevant tattoos on them. What is the deep personal meaning of having the chinese characters for "Shoe polish" tattooed on your left breast?

And finally, arrogant, shouty profiles. There are loads of lovely women and couples on Fab but every now and again ....

I agree & the fake over made up look with trout pout is a big turn off. I prefer a natural style & look.

Sorry ladies, we were asked.

You could simply say you dislike lip fillers.

I dislike women (or men) who turn their own insecurities and ignorance into insults

Some (men and women) go OTT with their answers by turning them into indults and hide behind 'well we were asked'. You'll always get those kind of answers. "

I like lip fillers, just 0.5g though as it’s bloody expensive when you have three daughters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we've had what do women find unattractive in men so to flip it what do men find unattractive in women... "

Conceited. Stuck up. Rude. Think their shit don’t stink. Just to name a few things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some proper woman haters in here isn’t there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who hate other women without reason. Often to side with mysogonostic men (think Dorris or Patel)."

Ahhh. The ‘pick me’. I’ve not seen many on fab but this is instant flácido.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Entitlement , I'm nothing special myself , I feel that I have to make a real effort in everything I do in life to get the rewards I want. sadly this isn't goung to go down well ladies I can honest say that the minute you ask a woman on sites like this to make a effort to appear appealing past flashing thier tits or fanny most will just not bother sighting who the hell do you think you are as they run away unable to come up with anything . then the same type of women will be in the forums moaning about guys posting unimaginative messages or any other namesless entitlement moans theh can come up with .

The hypocrisy is real and very very strong on sites like this .

Can you clarify what you mean by asking women to appear appealing? "

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Physically, the trend of injecting lips to make them fuller. I've always found that looks worse rather than better. But each to their own.

Daily red wine drinking to self medicate or mask trauma.

What about champagne "

Probably slightly more postive. As there's an implied celebratory factor..

I know male friends that self medicate with and video games. There's loads going on with regards childhood issues, but its easier (practically, emotionally etc.)to try and deal with it yourself rather than see a psychologist or councillor.

(I don't think these are things you can successfully cure yourself, for the most part though, sadly.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With w**d (the drug) & video games..

-Won't let me type it..

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By *ookingfun82Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

Those who are self conscious to the point giving a compliment they make you feel like you've just insulted them.

A women with a mum bod who accepta and is happy with how she looks is so much more attractive than a self conscious model.

Definitely like straight talking women so you don't have to worry about having to interpret.q

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Here goes !!

Very skinny ladies

Someone without a sense of humour

Or doesn’t smile ?

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

"

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"As a female, i think its an interesting thread, yes people could take offence, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

It’s an interesting read but i find myself agreeing with most of what is being said on both threads.

Still chuckling at Joker unexpected impersonation.

Back in the day we used to have a liquid we put on after lipstick, don’t they do anything similar now? "

I remember that! It used to sting your lips and you couldn’t close your mouth for ages

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina..."

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a female, i think its an interesting thread, yes people could take offence, but we are all entitled to our opinions.

It’s an interesting read but i find myself agreeing with most of what is being said on both threads.

Still chuckling at Joker unexpected impersonation.

Back in the day we used to have a liquid we put on after lipstick, don’t they do anything similar now?

I remember that! It used to sting your lips and you couldn’t close your mouth for ages "

It still stings it's like smearing hot sauce on them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my point of view if it does matter I don’t find anything unattractive in a women at all, I find that they should be put on a pedestal

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina..."

What makes a man or woman high value?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Characteristics of entitlement/arrogance and egotistical attitude. Privileged princesses do nothing for me.

Also negativity isn’t great either, not unattractive as that can be short lived.

Absolutely on the money

Yep this is the nail on the head......wooo my first forum post"

I’m privileged for your reply. Thanks pal and welcome.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Some drink too much which is not impressive to me.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In general I find any degree of entitlement or a permanent woe is me attitude unattractive.

In this little world of fab both of these are magnified.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?"

Who does what? Which part of the conversation are you relating to?

Profiles of women that thing they deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because they are a woman? I've seen plenty of them on dating apps...and a few here as well, yes.

Where am I getting what from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nose hair longer than mine."

That made me chuckle

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Being up themselves thinking they got looks so can do anything they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?"

Many women’s profiles have a categorical list of superficial physical attributes they’re looking for, peppered with desirable character attributes. Often, those women are absolute train wrecks themselves, lacking in several desirable character attributes that would compliment their “dream man”. But they think they deserve or should have the man of their dreams without putting any effort into their own personal growth, and who want to be taken as is.

Anyway. I get where he’s coming from. I’ve seen it all over the place.

Bottom line, people of both genders are shit and have some stupid expectations of the opposite sex.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

A vicious tongue but that applies to men as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Farting in a public place then moving away quickly so everyone thinks it was me.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

What makes a man or woman high value?

"

What ever an individual sees as high value in a person (man or woman) ...there's no general definition to it. That's also why I said "men that you consider high value " in my response. Are you asking me what I personally believe a high value man/woman is?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Disingenuous.

Arrogant.

Deceitful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina..."

Troll account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?

Who does what? Which part of the conversation are you relating to?

Profiles of women that thing they deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because they are a woman? I've seen plenty of them on dating apps...and a few here as well, yes.

Where am I getting what from?

"

Do they say they 'deserve' or is that their preference?

Or are you one of those men that thinks because you don't find a woman attractive that she shouldn't have standards and should take whatever is thrown at her?

Also does a man being 6 foot 3 make him more 'high value' than a man who is 5 foot 8?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found the 'pick me' of the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loud or obnoxious d*unk women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

"

some men much prefer a silky wet tight arsehole if we’re to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina "

Awe why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A vicious tongue but that applies to men as well."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t actually buy into any of this female entitlement, personally I see it more as a lack of being realistic and perhaps somewhat naive.

Old Chinese proverb, before you point…one finger pointing out, 4 fingers pointing in!

Hence look at yourself first!

Oh and no I ain’t not a woman hater, quite the opposite entirely. I just find it rather amusing when I read profile and see what they seek and yet there actions reflect nothing of what they seek.

Happy hunting !

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Found the 'pick me' of the thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel like this thread has turned into something it wasn’t meant to be so I’m gonna say this and then dip:

I hate it when women play hard to get. Like- if you’re tryna fuck, let’s fuck.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?

Who does what? Which part of the conversation are you relating to?

Profiles of women that thing they deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because they are a woman? I've seen plenty of them on dating apps...and a few here as well, yes.

Where am I getting what from?

Do they say they 'deserve' or is that their preference?

Or are you one of those men that thinks because you don't find a woman attractive that she shouldn't have standards and should take whatever is thrown at her?

Also does a man being 6 foot 3 make him more 'high value' than a man who is 5 foot 8? "

Yes, some say they deserve and some have that attitude of entitlement...I was just giving an example of what I believe accounts as entitlement and I also was simply giving my opinion on the thread (aka what I as a man don't find attractive on a woman - which is entitlement).

I haven't said a woman shouldn't have standards (no need to take my comment personal)

Yes for some women a man that is taller is "higher value" as a partner

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

What makes a man or woman high value?

What ever an individual sees as high value in a person (man or woman) ...there's no general definition to it. That's also why I said "men that you consider high value " in my response. Are you asking me what I personally believe a high value man/woman is?"

I was just intrigued, calling people - man or woman- ‘high value’ - just sounds so wrong

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?

Who does what? Which part of the conversation are you relating to?

Profiles of women that thing they deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because they are a woman? I've seen plenty of them on dating apps...and a few here as well, yes.

Where am I getting what from?

Do they say they 'deserve' or is that their preference?

Or are you one of those men that thinks because you don't find a woman attractive that she shouldn't have standards and should take whatever is thrown at her?

Also does a man being 6 foot 3 make him more 'high value' than a man who is 5 foot 8? "

I can't answer for anyone else but I've had these types of conversations on here with women who claimed they only met a certain level of guy and I agreed that I was fussy in who I met too but I didn't understand what they meant by "level".

The descriptions were all fairly similar.

Popular forum men.

Men who only met popular forum women like them.

Men who would drive long distances and never expect them to travel.

If I questioned what it meant to be popular I was told I obviously wasn't if I needed to be told.

If I questioned what men traveling a distance had to do with standards or preferences I have been told that men don't have options on here and the sooner they accept that and start showing a little gratitude the more chance they might have of getting meets.

There is without doubt a certain section of the fab community that believes their own press and what they claim are standards are based on how they expect others to react to their guidelines.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Awe why not? "

Because it makes a woman seem entitled when she believes she is deservent of a man with all those qualities, but all she has to offer in return is her vagina. At least that's my opinion...don't take it personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance is a turn off, an ugly characteristic for any of the sexes. Also, not a fan of those who disappear so far up their own arse a search and rescue party is required to save them.

Having said that, there are some lovely ladies on here, my wife in particular

Bob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

What makes a man or woman high value?

What ever an individual sees as high value in a person (man or woman) ...there's no general definition to it. That's also why I said "men that you consider high value " in my response. Are you asking me what I personally believe a high value man/woman is?

I was just intrigued, calling people - man or woman- ‘high value’ - just sounds so wrong"

I mean that's fair ...it's your opinion...but when it comes to sex or dating people have their on standards, and they will see some better suited as a partner, so they would put more "value" into meeting and getting to know them. I think that's where the term originates from and why some people use it

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

For me too much makeup or surgical'enhancements'. Also personally I don't find the 'heroin chick' look remotely attractive, not a great fan of tats either really. Well that should make me popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some proper woman haters in here isn’t there "

Hang on guys saying what they dislike about certain women means we are somehow now all women haters .

I do hope I see you in the next thread where women are saying what they dislike about certain men saying some proper men haters in here .somehow I don't think I will see you making that post unless it's to try and prove a piont after me saying what I've said here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others. "

There is a thread on what women find unattractive about blokes. I’m going to say both threads have allowed a vent for both sexes and have in the main, seemed considered opinions.

Bob

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others. "

OK but this thread was a question addressed to men....and the question was "what do men find unattractive in women" ....and most of us find entitlement as unattractive

No one said men can't be entitled....there's plenty of men here that join thinking they will get sex just because they have a penis ( that's entitlement) . ..

Just because we mention what we find unattractive in women, doesn't mean we are ignorant of the fact that men can be unattractive for the same reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some proper woman haters in here isn’t there

Hang on guys saying what they dislike about certain women means we are somehow now all women haters .

I do hope I see you in the next thread where women are saying what they dislike about certain men saying some proper men haters in here .somehow I don't think I will see you making that post unless it's to try and prove a piont after me saying what I've said here.

"

Wow!

I was actually talking about the more harsh comments about womens appearance (see lip filler conversation) but well done, exactly what I said

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others. "

Need more lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

OK but this thread was a question addressed to men....and the question was "what do men find unattractive in women" ....and most of us find entitlement as unattractive

No one said men can't be entitled....there's plenty of men here that join thinking they will get sex just because they have a penis ( that's entitlement) . ..

Just because we mention what we find unattractive in women, doesn't mean we are ignorant of the fact that men can be unattractive for the same reasons"

FYI - notice I said some and you said all

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?

Many women’s profiles have a categorical list of superficial physical attributes they’re looking for, peppered with desirable character attributes. Often, those women are absolute train wrecks themselves, lacking in several desirable character attributes that would compliment their “dream man”. But they think they deserve or should have the man of their dreams without putting any effort into their own personal growth, and who want to be taken as is.

Anyway. I get where he’s coming from. I’ve seen it all over the place.

Bottom line, people of both genders are shit and have some stupid expectations of the opposite sex. "

Fair enough. I was genuinely interested as I haven’t seen any of those. Mine specifies over 6ft. That’s because I’m tall. I see these things as preferences not entitlement so I disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone want me to rap a little bit to lighten the mood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You protest too much!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

There is a thread on what women find unattractive about blokes. I’m going to say both threads have allowed a vent for both sexes and have in the main, seemed considered opinions.

Bob"

That thread was started by a man. Not really the point I was making. I agree - both sexes need to vent, it would appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

OK but this thread was a question addressed to men....and the question was "what do men find unattractive in women" ....and most of us find entitlement as unattractive

No one said men can't be entitled....there's plenty of men here that join thinking they will get sex just because they have a penis ( that's entitlement) . ..

Just because we mention what we find unattractive in women, doesn't mean we are ignorant of the fact that men can be unattractive for the same reasons"

I don't disagree with anything you've said. I was just venturing a comment of my own.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Yes you do, if that's what you want.

To want a good man is one thing....to believe you deserve a good man just because you are a woman, is entitlement. Your actions, behavior and your personality show if you deserve a good man...not what you have between your legs

I'll still have a vagina though, which the majority of men on here are looking for let's be honest

OK but what you just said has nothing to do with what I said...my point is don't expect or think you deserve a so called "high value man" just because you are a woman ( or that you have a vagina). Even on this site the men that you consider high value will not choose you just because you have a vagina...

Who does this though? Have you seen profiles that say this? Where are you getting this from?

Who does what? Which part of the conversation are you relating to?

Profiles of women that thing they deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because they are a woman? I've seen plenty of them on dating apps...and a few here as well, yes.

Where am I getting what from?

Do they say they 'deserve' or is that their preference?

Or are you one of those men that thinks because you don't find a woman attractive that she shouldn't have standards and should take whatever is thrown at her?

Also does a man being 6 foot 3 make him more 'high value' than a man who is 5 foot 8?

Yes, some say they deserve and some have that attitude of entitlement...I was just giving an example of what I believe accounts as entitlement and I also was simply giving my opinion on the thread (aka what I as a man don't find attractive on a woman - which is entitlement).

I haven't said a woman shouldn't have standards (no need to take my comment personal)

Yes for some women a man that is taller is "higher value" as a partner "

Height is nothing to do with standards. Genuinely lost with these comments.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"You protest too much!! "

Nora doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone want me to rap a little bit to lighten the mood? "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Awe why not?

Because it makes a woman seem entitled when she believes she is deservent of a man with all those qualities, but all she has to offer in return is her vagina. At least that's my opinion...don't take it personal "

With all respect of your opinion, I don’t really know how you can say “all she has to offer in return is her vagina.”

Surely if you were to match with her preferences and you wanted to meet her, you would see her more than a vagina, for who she is and all her attributes that you find attractive about her also…

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

OK but this thread was a question addressed to men....and the question was "what do men find unattractive in women" ....and most of us find entitlement as unattractive

No one said men can't be entitled....there's plenty of men here that join thinking they will get sex just because they have a penis ( that's entitlement) . ..

Just because we mention what we find unattractive in women, doesn't mean we are ignorant of the fact that men can be unattractive for the same reasons

FYI - notice I said some and you said all "

Alright my apologies...I meant SOME men and SOME women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't "

I heard on the grapevine that Nora once said yes when nobody even asked.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't "

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Female entitlement when it comes to relationships and dating ... no, you don't deserve a 6'3, handsome, successful, respectful, well mannered, compassionate, intelligent, rich, funny, sensitive yet masculine man, just because you are a woman or because you have a vagina

Awe why not?

Because it makes a woman seem entitled when she believes she is deservent of a man with all those qualities, but all she has to offer in return is her vagina. At least that's my opinion...don't take it personal

With all respect of your opinion, I don’t really know how you can say “all she has to offer in return is her vagina.”

Surely if you were to match with her preferences and you wanted to meet her, you would see her more than a vagina, for who she is and all her attributes that you find attractive about her also…

"

That's totally different to what I said....I was giving an example to what female entitlement could look like.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments "

And I’d like to know if I’m classed as entitled for not meeting men under 6ft or with beards

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"A wiffey kipper.

Took a bird out once who was wearing fishnets, smelt like there was still a couple of mackerel caught in them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some proper woman haters in here isn’t there

Hang on guys saying what they dislike about certain women means we are somehow now all women haters .

I do hope I see you in the next thread where women are saying what they dislike about certain men saying some proper men haters in here .somehow I don't think I will see you making that post unless it's to try and prove a piont after me saying what I've said here.

Wow!

I was actually talking about the more harsh comments about womens appearance (see lip filler conversation) but well done, exactly what I said "

You made a generic statement maybe next time name who you are tarring with the women hating brush just like i have with my statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Farting in a public place then moving away quickly so everyone thinks it was me."

This one

Was it you though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments

And I’d like to know if I’m classed as entitled for not meeting men under 6ft or with beards "

I thought you were over the beard thing?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments

And I’d like to know if I’m classed as entitled for not meeting men under 6ft or with beards

I thought you were over the beard thing? "

Small ones I am . I’m working on it haha x

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments "

You totally didn't get the above comment ha ha

Oh Nora, this is why I like you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

There is a thread on what women find unattractive about blokes. I’m going to say both threads have allowed a vent for both sexes and have in the main, seemed considered opinions.

Bob

That thread was started by a man. Not really the point I was making. I agree - both sexes need to vent, it would appear. "

I can't find the other one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments

And I’d like to know if I’m classed as entitled for not meeting men under 6ft or with beards "

I certainly didn’t claim anyone in particular was entitled. I answered a very specific question of what I find unattractive.

My post above about you saying yes, was just a joke. sorry. Tried to lighten the mood as another had said.

Its time for me to leave these bad vibes.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I heard on the grapevine that Nora once said yes when nobody even asked. "

True story that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments

And I’d like to know if I’m classed as entitled for not meeting men under 6ft or with beards

I certainly didn’t claim anyone in particular was entitled. I answered a very specific question of what I find unattractive.

My post above about you saying yes, was just a joke. sorry. Tried to lighten the mood as another had said.

Its time for me to leave these bad vibes. "

Eh? I wasn’t referring to you. I didn’t even see anything you posted. no bad vibes here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some proper woman haters in here isn’t there

Hang on guys saying what they dislike about certain women means we are somehow now all women haters .

I do hope I see you in the next thread where women are saying what they dislike about certain men saying some proper men haters in here .somehow I don't think I will see you making that post unless it's to try and prove a piont after me saying what I've said here.

Wow!

I was actually talking about the more harsh comments about womens appearance (see lip filler conversation) but well done, exactly what I said

You made a generic statement maybe next time name who you are tarring with the women hating brush just like i have with my statement."

No thanks, I’m not going to name every poster. It’s not a fucking roll call.

Saying “some” is adequate

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments

And I’d like to know if I’m classed as entitled for not meeting men under 6ft or with beards "

Doesn't make you entitled at all...but if you add other "qualities " such as rich, handsome, famous, big dick energy , multiple cars, a private jet, a private island, muscular with an 8 pack (yes not even satisfied with six-pack ) , treats me like a princess, is carrying and shows it by buying me stuff ....well in that case I might start to believe you are becoming slightly entitled

Of course this is an exaggeration and I'm being very sarcastic

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I’m not. I’m all for people giving true opinions, I like it. People are too scared to usually. I just like to know reasons and clarification if I don’t understand the comments

And I’d like to know if I’m classed as entitled for not meeting men under 6ft or with beards

Doesn't make you entitled at all...but if you add other "qualities " such as rich, handsome, famous, big dick energy , multiple cars, a private jet, a private island, muscular with an 8 pack (yes not even satisfied with six-pack ) , treats me like a princess, is carrying and shows it by buying me stuff ....well in that case I might start to believe you are becoming slightly entitled

Of course this is an exaggeration and I'm being very sarcastic "

Ah ok cool. I genuinely would be upset if people thought I was. The height thing is my issue not anyone else’s. It’s no secret that I don’t like my height. Thanks for clarifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

There is a thread on what women find unattractive about blokes. I’m going to say both threads have allowed a vent for both sexes and have in the main, seemed considered opinions.

Bob

That thread was started by a man. Not really the point I was making. I agree - both sexes need to vent, it would appear.

I can't find the other one "

Busman made it I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

There is a thread on what women find unattractive about blokes. I’m going to say both threads have allowed a vent for both sexes and have in the main, seemed considered opinions.

Bob

That thread was started by a man. Not really the point I was making. I agree - both sexes need to vent, it would appear.

I can't find the other one "

If you green arrow me, I commented, Lacey.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You protest too much!!

Nora doesn't

I heard on the grapevine that Nora once said yes when nobody even asked.

True story that "

Never

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does anyone want me to rap a little bit to lighten the mood? "

Yes please. I'm currently in hiding after this has gone a bit Pete Tong

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A lot of men saying how entitled women are yet the ones constantly complaining on the forum about what they aren't getting are...men.

And to pre-empt the comments that women ARE getting what they want - there are just as many women as there are men on the "Dry sex" threads and others.

There is a thread on what women find unattractive about blokes. I’m going to say both threads have allowed a vent for both sexes and have in the main, seemed considered opinions.

Bob

That thread was started by a man. Not really the point I was making. I agree - both sexes need to vent, it would appear.

I can't find the other one

If you green arrow me, I commented, Lacey. "

Oh it died 5 hours ago. That explains it! Thank you

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

What I find unattractive:

• Entitlement - women who expect the moon on a stick whilst offering spacedust in return.

• Double Standards - they proffer intellectuality of the highest order but their profile narrative is anything but that.

• Nonsensical Clichés - they want quality meets. What on earth is that?? A pedigree? A Royal Warrant tattooed on my arse?

• Gullibility & Naivety - Sydney University disclaimer, which is as much use as tits on a fish.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The feminist type, you know the ones

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