FabSwingers.com forum: My wife dosent like sex anymore

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Pics on your profile may help

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

Try couples counseling see if.that can help? Jumping on a swingers site isn't the solution you need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

Need or want

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

You were saying this 9 months ago ( green arrow). Have you not spoken to her since?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

*here it comes*

Get to a club. There is one not far from you that does a Monday event

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

get a new wife

trade her in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find out why by asking her and giving her your attention rather than here and maybe she will or maybe she dose want sex and is getting it and lots of it :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to your wife, there's something going on that needs addressing. Counselling may help your wife or even both of you. Good luck OP x

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

Maybe she does …. Just with someone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy

Maybe she does …. Just with someone else

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she can for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Talk to your wife, there's something going on that needs addressing. Counselling may help your wife or even both of you. Good luck OP x"
not had sex for 2 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"get a new wife

trade her in

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i wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went off sex while married when I realised hubby wasn't faithful or honest

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

Are you sure she doesn't like sex anymore or doesn't like sex with you anymore?...because there's a difference

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Talk to your wife, there's something going on that needs addressing. Counselling may help your wife or even both of you. Good luck OP xnot had sex for 2 years"

Maybe it’s time to leave if sex is that important to you

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"get a new wife

trade her in

i wish"

This is why married men get stick here ,starting threads belittling their wives

We only have your side of things

You've been posting this for ages ,talk to her and ask for permission Have counselling or leave if you're not happy ,cos I'm guessing she probably isn't either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or there could be a medical reason why ! Talk to her you might be shocked

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

If she’s not into sex why was you asking how to get her into group fun??

Maybe talk to her an see why doesn’t want with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pics on your profile may help "
need to meet a nice new woman

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Pics on your profile may help need to meet a nice new woman

Need to be a nicer husband? Maybe there are reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pics on your profile may help need to meet a nice new woman

Need to be a nicer husband? Maybe there are reasons."
i am very nice with her she dosent work or have to. She has her ow money i give her she drives a Mercedes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

How does she smell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy

How does she smell?"

Sorry - wrong joke.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Pics on your profile may help need to meet a nice new woman

Need to be a nicer husband? Maybe there are reasons. i am very nice with her she dosent work or have to. She has her ow money i give her she drives a Mercedes "

Maybe she woukd prefer to have her own money that she earns herself doing something she wants to rather than being "kept" by you.

It can be a bit of a mind fuck especially if the relationship doesn't feel right. Can feel like you're being paid to open your legs. Maybe that's her way of having some control.

My sons dad didn't want me working after I had our son. It was that that ultimately made me feel completely trapped and I didn't want sex with him coz I felt I'd lost my voice, my choice, my independence and my sense of self.

He wanted to "keep" me.

I felt like I was being suffocated.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"get a new wife

trade her in

i wish

This is why married men get stick here ,starting threads belittling their wives

We only have your side of things

You've been posting this for ages ,talk to her and ask for permission Have counselling or leave if you're not happy ,cos I'm guessing she probably isn't either ."

I try to avoid these posts as it pisses me off how someone can talk about someone they supposedly love with a bunch of strangers..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You were saying this 9 months ago ( green arrow). Have you not spoken to her since?"

No point talking to a woman. Her only use is fucking.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy

How does she smell?

Sorry - wrong joke."

My dog’s got no nose.

Oh, dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a new wife

trade her in

Hopefully get a hottie like you x

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"get a new wife

trade her in

i wish

This is why married men get stick here ,starting threads belittling their wives

We only have your side of things

You've been posting this for ages ,talk to her and ask for permission Have counselling or leave if you're not happy ,cos I'm guessing she probably isn't either .

I try to avoid these posts as it pisses me off how someone can talk about someone they supposedly love with a bunch of strangers.."

Don't think it applies in this case but it can actually help opening up and talking to people you don't know. They can give totally unbiased opinions and advice. Being hidden behind a keyboard adds a layer of security to someone that can be shy/embarrassed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts remind me of the writing on the back of dirty transit vans, I wish my wife was this dirty. I'm resisting the urge to write, she is when you’re at work.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy

Are you sure she doesn't like sex anymore or doesn't like sex with you anymore?...because there's a difference "

Agree x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These posts remind me of the writing on the back of dirty transit vans, I wish my wife was this dirty. I'm resisting the urge to write, she is when you’re at work."
she can please her self and so cam you.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

She doesn’t like sex with you***

Sorry to be blunt but the truth hurts. I’d leave unless your ok no sex in the relationship

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

How are things outside of the bedroom? Problems there needs resolving before thinking about what goes on inside it. Good luck op.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Join the club mate mine gone off it because of the menapause hopefully it may come back

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Join the club mate mine gone off it because of the menapause hopefully it may come back"

Do you realise how hard the menopause is? How are you supporting her? By cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples counselling, sex therapy and open communication might help for a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

Hate to tell you this but she loves sex, just not with you!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

So, the advice you’ve received is to;

Speak to her

Go to couples counselling.

Leave her

Live in a sexless marriage.

Cut up her credit card, sell her merc and tell her to get a job.

My advice is start with a good honest conversation with her. Tell her what you expect from your relationship. Then ask her what she expects from the relationship. See if you are both compare to compromise. How you then proceed will be based on her response.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Join the club mate mine gone off it because of the menapause hopefully it may come back

Do you realise how hard the menopause is? How are you supporting her? By cheating? "

One I ain’t cheering as I have not met anybody for sex only chats and yes I am supporting her but she don’t speak or interact with me so I come on here to chat

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By *urvy ClarissaWoman
over a year ago

wigan

Get a divorce, set your wife free and both have sex someone else. Problem solved!

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Talk to your wife, there's something going on that needs addressing. Counselling may help your wife or even both of you. Good luck OP x"

First port of call !

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Just can’t wait for the menopause

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples counselling, sex therapy and open communication might help for a start."
i dont care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a new wife

trade her in

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

HRT ??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Couples counselling, sex therapy and open communication might help for a start. i dont care"

If you don’t care why did you mention it in your post?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Couples counselling, sex therapy and open communication might help for a start. i dont care

If you don’t care why did you mention it in your post?"
duno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

Sorry, I only have sex with dirty people.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me

i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"

Asking wrong people try asking her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread (and the thousands of others just like it) make me sooo happy that I’m single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples counselling, sex therapy and open communication might help for a start. i dont care"

Then why start the thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine doesn't either (due to medication) at a time in my life when I'm not yet ready to give up...

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Mine doesn't either (due to medication) at a time in my life when I'm not yet ready to give up..."

I hope you've told her how you feel about it. People do really need to be honest and say that they can't live without an active sex life. It's definitely not fair to expect a partner to go without sex just because the other person doesn't want sex. It's also not fair to cheat, so a compromise needs to be made somehow so that everyone is happy.

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