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"The men greatly outnumber the women. It's not a free for all fuckfest. Don't take it personally. ![]() cant even get a chat going with anyone either | |||
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"I think people are still feeling the effects of lockdown. Don't ge disheartened " even just chat be good start lol | |||
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"If what you’re doing isn’t working, then you need to try something different?" ive tired lots different approaches | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() It's true though. Clubs are also social venues. Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag ![]() | |||
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"If what you’re doing isn’t working, then you need to try something different?" This is the best advice you will receive today OP | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() ![]() Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha | |||
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"The men greatly outnumber the women." Fancy a gangbang? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Have you asked for advice on your profile? " no i haven't done that | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() ![]() It's tough for a single guy, but effort in = rewards out, if you get my drift ![]() | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() This ^. Sorry I couldn’t help it also | |||
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"It’s not easy believe me it’s been 5 years hunting for us on and off and we’re still here living in hope ![]() thanks for the support | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() ![]() ![]() Tough for anyone. Depends what you’re looking for ![]() | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh, not for you ![]() | |||
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"It’s not easy believe me it’s been 5 years hunting for us on and off and we’re still here living in hope ![]() Is Hope in Northamptonshire? ![]() | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Bloody is! | |||
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"just looking for couples or woman" There's a couple of Kent socials going on, check out the meets and events section ![]() | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Wait.....what! I'm not having that. Classy lady like you ![]() | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's difficult for all, only in different manners. | |||
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive" I don't drive either, but you know what I did if I really wanted to go somewhere? Planned it and made the effort. I haven't had a holiday in 19 years, I could take on a 2nd job to afford one but the truth is I can't be arsed. I'm already exhausted from the one I do have. But... if I REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted that holiday I could make more effort and get a 2nd job. Priorities ain't it. You either can be arsed and will need patience, planning, prepared ro overcome obstacles and motivation or ya can't and will remain stagnant in achieving that goal. | |||
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"i give up on this site no one seems want meet up" I gave up on this site a long time ago op. As a general rule, it’s not great. But I never gave up on people. Talk to people, keep talking to more people and then you find some that you like. And then you begin to ignore those that ignored you. ![]() | |||
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"Maybe you need to ask for some profile advice. Many clubs are near train stations so that’s no excuse " Do you live near a train station? ![]() | |||
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"The men greatly outnumber the women. It's not a free for all fuckfest. Don't take it personally. ![]() I feel your pain. I've pretty much given up on messaging, etc, so I just sort of hang out here now. | |||
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive I don't drive either, but you know what I did if I really wanted to go somewhere? Planned it and made the effort. I haven't had a holiday in 19 years, I could take on a 2nd job to afford one but the truth is I can't be arsed. I'm already exhausted from the one I do have. But... if I REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted that holiday I could make more effort and get a 2nd job. Priorities ain't it. You either can be arsed and will need patience, planning, prepared ro overcome obstacles and motivation or ya can't and will remain stagnant in achieving that goal. " This ![]() ![]() | |||
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"i give up on this site no one seems want meet up" Amen!!! ![]() | |||
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"i give up on this site no one seems want meet up" OP, only you can decide if this site is for you. It's certainly not always easy. But don't make this site the ONLY way you try to meet people: there's a big, bad non-Fab world out there too! | |||
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive" After having a looking about on the Internet for less than 10 minutes I found that Pleasures in Kent is less than 20 miles from your location and you can bus it in 1 hour and 15 minutes. If you look in the club reviews section on here, there's loads of reviews on Pleasurea for you to browse to see if you would like to attend without even getting off your arse. It's all about the effort. If I wanted to make some connections with people in the lifestyle to show what type of bloke I am, would I spend 10 minutes on the Internet and then 1 hour and 15 on a bus?.....To bloody right I would. Do with this information what you will. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. | |||
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" Do with this information what you will. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. " Also, You can lead a horse to water, but a pencil must be lead. | |||
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"Maybe you need to ask for some profile advice. Many clubs are near train stations so that’s no excuse " You can give profile advice if it is relevant. Says so in da rulz ![]() | |||
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"Get yourself to a social gathering " Yep, get yourself to socials. It will open up the site to you in a whole different way. | |||
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"Get yourself to a club. Sorry couldn’t resist ![]() Listen to Nora. She knows! Seriously, go to a Greedy Girls event at a club and meet people. Use your visit to network and if you're lucky you may even get to play. If you don't get a play on your first visit, go back again as some people you'd have spoken to may remember you. As you get known your chances of playing increase. And if people you play with like what you do word gets around pretty quickly. But stick with it because it takes time and effort. It is well worth it though. ![]() | |||
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"Get yourself to a social gathering " This…definitely this ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive After having a looking about on the Internet for less than 10 minutes I found that Pleasures in Kent is less than 20 miles from your location and you can bus it in 1 hour and 15 minutes. If you look in the club reviews section on here, there's loads of reviews on Pleasurea for you to browse to see if you would like to attend without even getting off your arse. It's all about the effort. If I wanted to make some connections with people in the lifestyle to show what type of bloke I am, would I spend 10 minutes on the Internet and then 1 hour and 15 on a bus?.....To bloody right I would. Do with this information what you will. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. " This is actually a very helpful post. Apologies for my earlier flippant comment. The OP would be wise to take heed. | |||
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"The men greatly outnumber the women. It's not a free for all fuckfest. Don't take it personally. ![]() Do you send messages worth replying to? Most of the messages we get from single men are just rubbish. | |||
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive" Have to make the effort. | |||
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