FabSwingers.com forum: How many kids did you say you was going to have when you grew up

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

And how many did you actually have

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Now I’m a mum to a lot of plant babies

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

None. None.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2. I always wanted a boy and a girl. I’ve got 2 boys now and that’s me done.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

0, but ended up having one, I should have stuck to the original plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fewer than Savile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 2

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I wanted 3 and I have 3. And I wouldn't change the little nutters for anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Three and I have four

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

3 and I have 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 or 6 and I'm getting there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.. currently mother to labrador.

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"0.. currently mother to labrador."
how was the birth xx

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Didn't think about it when I was really young. Had two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wanted four.

i have three, and one in the stars.

so i guess i almost had everything i wanted

. Px

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

2 and 2

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Zero and I now have 1, who I wouldn’t change for the world

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fewer than Savile."

So you have zero ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wanted three. The third was twins but I'm really happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non. Non.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted a family of a few and got 2 boys, I would never say never for more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted 5 or 6.. only had 2

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Said I would have 3 actually had 7 lost one though during pregnancy x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I wanted lots and had 3 girls, wouldn’t rule out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

Have lots of fur babies instead much better and no back chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 and 1. I’m done at 1. Gotta slow down population growth somehow. I’d like another but I already feel guilty about bringing one into this shitty world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, and have 2. One is 16, the other is 20 and I wouldn't be without them!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

4, I have two and one angel so nearly, no more though now too old for that malarkey

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

0 and 2 (but would have been 3)

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

2 and have 2

Plus 4 step children

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've never wanted kids and never had any.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I wanted a boy and a girl and that is what I had. Also ended up with a stepdaughter and stepson as an added bonus.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t remember saying I’d have any..

I gave birth to none, but have 3 wonderful stepkids, so bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.

Best thing I ever did. They were the making of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

2 and ended up with 2 of each

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

6.. I know lol what was I thinking at the time

I'm happy with just my two right now

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

2. 2

Plus some from donating sperm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted two , got two

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Didn't want any, but ended up with 3, 2 girls and a bit. Unfortunately my son died age 21 in a car accident and I don't talk to my daughter's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted at least 4...didnt work that way I'm afraid

Ended up having only one.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I wanted 3 at least & managed 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 i got more

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

When I was younger I didn't want children, then something clicked into place and I wanted children.

We have 2 boys and a girl and are very happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None....Ended up with two lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanted loads

Had 5

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"0.

Now I’m a mum to a lot of plant babies "

Can you teach me how to keep them alive?

To answer the question I wanted two, boy and a girl...now I have million and one reasons why not to have any...the first line of my post being one of them

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

None. I just intended to work, travel and spend my goldern years in the pub spending my military pension.

Ended up with 2 of my own (literally ended up with them) and have now acquired 5 more. Just need to build an extention on the house now.

Funny how life pans out totally not how you expected or wanted but yet turns out great in the end and teaches you important lessons along the way.

I don't think anyone should feel pressure to have kids. You can be perfectly happy and live a fulfilling life with out kids. Plus with load of extra freedom, time and money. Having said that once you have them you love them. They change you, teach you and shape you. So without them I wouldn't be the man I am today. I wouldn't have the life I have now or the wonderful woman I have.

A bit Kierkegaard but I guess have kids you'll regret it, don't have kids you'll regret it. Either or you'll regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit Kierkegaard but I guess have kids you'll regret it, don't have kids you'll regret it. Either or you'll regret it. "

I don't have kids of my own and absolutely no regrets. My ex wife was sterilised before we got together. There was a brief period early in that relationship where I wondered if I'd be OK with this but, having decided I was, I've never regretted it. I was a dad in every way bar biology to her sons and have no desire to have my own.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

A bit Kierkegaard but I guess have kids you'll regret it, don't have kids you'll regret it. Either or you'll regret it.

Mr"

I've never thought parenthood was about biology. Turns out I get to put the theory in practice acquiring 5 more girls. Parenthood is actions and love, not biological material. Life is great without kids (especially the freedom). But for all kids take from you they do give you something back. Don't think you can have it all (although I do know a couple of professional auntie's who have their siblings kids a lot but get to hand them back). More than one way to live life. That why it annoys me about the pressure society puts on women to have kids. Although best some people still have kids because for a societies to have enough working age people to support the rest kind of needs about 2.1 kids to every woman.

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

None and none

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

2 and had 3 and wouldn't change a thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 ended up with 1. Had awful male post natal depression, which NO ONE talks about so I'm not having any more.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I wanted 4 boys I have 3 boys and had an Angel baby

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

"And how many did you actually have

none and stuck to my word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never thought about having kids. I have four. Whoops.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Wanted 4 had 2

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I wasn’t supposed to be able have kids easily due to PCOS, endometriosis and a plethora of other reproductive system ailments since puberty…

Ended up with 3, now two full-fledged teenagers and a pre-teen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the social studies class when I was doing a-levels this question was asked. Most people said two or three, one girl said at least 5 as she really loved kids; I was the only one who said none. When asked why, i questioned why anyone would want to bring children into the world the way things were going.

I do have one daughter, totally unplanned, thankfully she is intelligent, artistically talented and beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 & I had just 1

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

9 and 9

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Wanted 0, have 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 and I have none, but I'm thinking none is for the best

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

"Didn't want any, but ended up with 3, 2 girls and a bit. Unfortunately my son died age 21 in a car accident and I don't talk to my daughter's

That's really sad. Does losing your son not make you want to try make it up with your daughters?

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Wanted 2, had 2. Never imagined I’d raise them alone. They are my world and my reason for living amidst the grief

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Have 2, lost 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 and 1

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