FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever removed someone from your hotlist?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have threads about adding people to your hotlist, but have you ever removed someone from it and what was the reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not counting ‘they’re on my friends list’

I’ve removed a few. One was because I just wasn’t interested in pics every day, one was because the jokes weren’t enough, one was because they didn’t upload pics or status updates. Those are the main reasons but I also removed someone for something they said in the forums.

Lmao I’m petty but if they’re on my hotlist I’m probably out of their age range anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forever adding and removing, get bored very easily...!

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Yeah

My tastes change, their photo style changes

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I once removed myself but saw the error and quickly reinstated myself

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I only have one person on my hotlist, everyone else is on my friends list.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't really have many on it. I sometimes add/remove people but it's very rare. Sometimes if I want to confirm with my super cool friends someone is someone and once that happens, bam, off they go.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All the time although it's more of a notlist than a hotlist.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Not counting ‘they’re on my friends list’

Lmao I’m petty but if they’re on my hotlist I’m probably out of their age range anyway. "

This minus the age range bit.

I couldn’t of said it better myself Mr andpickleploughmans (clap) (clapping) oh well neither of those work

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If we send a message and it doesn’t go anywhere. As in they don’t reply or reply and we aren’t compatible…remove.

If we upgrade to our friends list if we get on - remove.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I have and my friends list.

I remove cause they are just aren't for me, nothing more

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By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

Yes I have I get bored easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet Jesus

I don’t use it - no point

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Yes if they no longer catch my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and Friends list as well. If it's clear you're someone's constant 2-3 choice then it's a bye bye from me. Same goes If i see a personality side that i find unattractive.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"Yes and Friends list as well. If it's clear you're someone's constant 2-3 choice then it's a bye bye from me. Same goes If i see a personality side that i find unattractive.

Couldn't agree more

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes, I do. Sometimes I can’t remember why I put them on the list in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep absolutely I do. My reasoning and my sexual attraction towards someone change change very easily.

NBVN x

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

No ,never... probably because there's no one in my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a clear out of my hotlist recently. It was just too long lol

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I removed someone I was really attracted to, because of some comments they made in the forums.

We’d never have got on in person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Its more a perve list really, and sometimes I have to remember that although I still feel like a 30 something hottie, I am a 40 something nottie!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Yes. On one occasion it was becoming obvious they weren’t serious about a meet we were arranging. Pity, because they looked like a very attractive couple.

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye sometimes, for various reasons. Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I take people off all the time - because they're not interested in me or because I'm no longer interested in them.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes sometimes to friends and sometimes del

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once removed someone from my hotlist but I pressed the wrong button.

I soon found them again but what a rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

And from my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I removed a TV/CD from mine a while ago because she was repeatedly uploading the same photo's

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yep. It’s no big thing. And at least on a hotlist they don’t know they’ve been removed.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I've removed a few

She started posting 'Fab if you like' bit of a turn off had to go haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

And from my friends list "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many. I generally add people to hotlist if they aren't online for future contact. If they are not interested after i mail. I tend to remove.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t have a hotlist because I just feel attraction to pics like that.. but I use it to keep people I like as humans to hand that aren’t on my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probly

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes met them in person and was nothing like their pictures plus they were rude and arrogant

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes recently. Their pics and vids made me feel a bit queasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and because I discovered that we wouldn’t be compatible. Either from profile updates, or off putting status updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when people turn out to be something different to what I thought they was.. happened a lot lately.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Anyone else reading through this thread thinking "I hope they're not talking about me"?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have. Usually it's because they don't excite us at that point as much as they once did.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes because we knew there was no chance we would ever meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else reading through this thread thinking "I hope they're not talking about me"?

Nah. None of us guys think we’re on anyone’s

. If I was on someone’s list then jokes on them for putting me there in the first place ygm?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ye I removed virtually everyone I had on mine. Just couldn't be bothered anymore using it.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

As soon as I trick my way on to their friends list I remove them from my hotlist to make room for the next victims.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as I trick my way on to their friends list I remove them from my hotlist to make room for the next victims. "

Bet people will be so happy to see a friend request from you after reading this

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yeah, usually due to a vulgar update although one guy I met turned out to be a bit of a nutter.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"As soon as I trick my way on to their friends list I remove them from my hotlist to make room for the next victims.

Bet people will be so happy to see a friend request from you after reading this

The minute they’re friends it’s game over for them. Think of all the people that have come and gone from the forums. They didn’t get bored of fab…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as I trick my way on to their friends list I remove them from my hotlist to make room for the next victims.

Bet people will be so happy to see a friend request from you after reading this

The minute they’re friends it’s game over for them. Think of all the people that have come and gone from the forums. They didn’t get bored of fab…"

Yeah you’re so right. This is why I like you. You’re getting people the hell outta here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as I trick my way on to their friends list I remove them from my hotlist to make room for the next victims.

Bet people will be so happy to see a friend request from you after reading this

The minute they’re friends it’s game over for them. Think of all the people that have come and gone from the forums. They didn’t get bored of fab…

Yeah you’re so right. This is why I like you. You’re getting people the hell outta here.

You’re a vigilante. Like Batman. And we can only see like half your face too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes sometimes I even wonder how they hit there

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

If i see people i like the look of in the forums - i might add them to my hotlist - they sometimes end up on my friends list and if we chat and it doesn’t work they get back off it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes o often have a clear out, some people re upload the same pics and it becomes quite repetitive or I've just gone off that person for whatever reason.

Mrs

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Yes mostly those that I no longer meet or talk to

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Our hotlist is our ‘to do’ list - profiles we like but haven’t yet messaged. Once we’ve messaged, they’re removed and hopefully progress to the friends list

So people come and go from ours!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes as it's often my stalking list. Used it a lot in the past to see if my suspicions were right about people (they often were). Every now and then I realise it's not healthy so I delete them lol

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Yeah I’m forever changing my hot list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if theres no engagement with them after a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are removed because I’ve moved them to friends, others just because I got bored lol or whiny status updates!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes ....so watch out all you hotlisted hotties lol

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Yes, sometimes if I see a new profile that interests me, I'll add it to my hotlist to message later rather than be one of the 16,734 messages she gets in the first 24 hours. Sometimes I'll look back after a couple of weeks and maybe decide that after reading her updated bio or seeing her photos that she's not actually for me.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"We have threads about adding people to your hotlist, but have you ever removed someone from it and what was the reason?"

Yes. A cpl we had met socially and were planning to meet again to play. The lady was lovely and sexy and confident. Her fella was ok on the social meet but over messaging he started to become a dickhead so we just refused to meet which made him a bigger and arrogant dickhead so we removed and blocked them. Shame really as she would have been really fun in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is empty atm actually.

I'm not actively looking for the moment so I cleared it out. Just my friends list to be perving over for now

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Some are removed because I’ve moved them to friends, others just because I got bored lol or whiny status updates! "

You're on my hotlist now, I could perv at your pics forever

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I remove the ones that dont like beards or men, lol

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Yep if status updates start to hint that we'd not get along in person, even for a social... no point wasting people's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its sometimes someone who has put a moaning or not pleasant status up ,it totally puts me off .

Fab is for fun .

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, I remove people from my hot list. Usually when they've uploaded new photos that demonstrate that the are not, in fact, hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody on my hotlist ATM.Find that they contact you,seem very interested then disappear within a day or 2 with no further contact.

Or reappear 2 weeks later continuing the previous conversation like there was no 2 week break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just removed two people from mine. I have six people in total now, 4 I know in person and two that I plan to meet in the near future.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I tend to remove someone from my hotlist if they graduate to being on the friends list … but otherwise no. My hotlist is pretty short and sweet anyway.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Occasionally. Mostly if they get moved to the friends list but also if they haven't been around for months, or if something becomes apparent that doesn't gel with us (statuses, forum posts etc).

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never, ever used my hotlist!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. Either friends list or a pattern of unpalatable behaviour

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

We only have people that go to the dunes at theddlethorpe so that will allways be on the hotlist and on both if we met them there

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By *unner6969Man
over a year ago

Bicester

I move around the country with my job, spending anywhere between a few weeks and over a year in an area on long-term contracts.

So, I tend to remove people from my hotlist regularly, as geographically they are no longer of interest.

I also remove people once we're friends (physically, or online, or both) - only need to see them in one place, after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as I’ve moved them to friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have zero people on my hotlist. I haven’t come across anyone who wows me enough to want them on there.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes usually because their updates get on my nerves

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

This thread just inspired me to remove 11 profiles from my hotlist. All for various reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes usually because their updates get on my nerves"
this. A few cases of detoxing the hot list.

They also come off of we end up chatting and nothing happens.

Or if we chat and they become friends !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Its more a perve list really, and sometimes I have to remember that although I still feel like a 30 something hottie, I am a 40 something nottie!"

Ha ha, sounds like mine....you are on my list....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Mine is empty right now, maybe it’s time to have a peruse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ,mine is empty

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes, I removed all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, mine is more of a wish list and a stalker list

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