FabSwingers.com forum: Do men meet socially

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve thought this before and once tried to organise a night out. Just drinking and a proper social for guys. I mean, it’s a quick way for a verification for anyone who is new or struggling to be verified. But, you might get on with a few in here and have a blast over a drink.

So, would many men do this or are you only her for the ‘sexy sex stuff’ and socialising with women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I come to these events??

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By *aughty hikerMan
over a year ago

Mansfield

Id be up for a social im based Nottinghamshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sexy sex stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No interest in socialising with men outside of organised group socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like that but I just can’t do those situations, I really struggle in the company of groups of strangers. When it comes to fight or flight, I’m like red bull, the wings take me away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be up for this but in Scotland

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I come to these events??"

What events. hypothetically no.

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By *parrow77Man
over a year ago

cheshire

I enjoy the social meets had always fun and make me smile if leads to more great if not I’ve had nice chat and fun

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’m next leaving London, if there’s anyone I get on with from here I’d invite them for a drink. Or if anyone in London fancied a drink I’d be down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often though this myself OP why is there no only fools and horse style jolly boys outing sort of social with out the getting pissed bit

Personally I think a lot of the guys on here view offer guys as the competition so don't want to associate on them grounds .

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

No. If I was to turn up to this I would expect at least a handy in the gents

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. If I was to turn up to this I would expect at least a handy in the gents

LvM"

I’d do you if you do me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. If I was to turn up to this I would expect at least a handy in the gents

LvM"

I’ll even warm my hands up for ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"…

Personally I think a lot of the guys on here view offer guys as the competition so don't want to associate on them grounds ."

maybe, it’s a good point.

Are we all in a competition?

I’m certainly loosing

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A few years ago when this question was asked elsewhere I said I would be happy to go to one of these socials. Not for verifications but just as a way of meeting new people.

I've changed my mind since though meeting a few guys at mixed group socials when there was a lot of point scoring going on.

Some guys had no interest in talking about anything outside of fab and it was all very competitive with a few very experienced guys mocking those of us who hadn't experienced as much as they had.

I'll stick to the sexy sex stuff from now on

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"No. If I was to turn up to this I would expect at least a handy in the gents

LvM

I’d do you if you do me? "

Seems reasonable

LvM

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"No. If I was to turn up to this I would expect at least a handy in the gents

LvM

I’ll even warm my hands up for ya

What a gentleman

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any socials in London going? For men and women…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any socials in London going? For men and women…"

Join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be up for a pint with the lads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A few years ago when this question was asked elsewhere I said I would be happy to go to one of these socials. Not for verifications but just as a way of meeting new people.

I've changed my mind since though meeting a few guys at mixed group socials when there was a lot of point scoring going on.

Some guys had no interest in talking about anything outside of fab and it was all very competitive with a few very experienced guys mocking those of us who hadn't experienced as much as they had.

I'll stick to the sexy sex stuff from now on

The last social I was at where there was a few lads, present, (but no cake!!

) I spoke to one about how United were struggling under Ol’e and a bit of football back and forth. Another we talked about what he did for work.

I wasn’t there long enough but the vibe I had wasn’t about competitive scoring.

I suppose it’s really who you meet, sorry you had a bad impression put on you op. Hopefully the future is brighter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"…

Personally I think a lot of the guys on here view offer guys as the competition so don't want to associate on them grounds .

maybe, it’s a good point.

Are we all in a competition?

I’m certainly loosing

I'm in no competition with anyone I'm 51 years old comfortable in my skin and mostly I just want to have a bloody good laugh ,as life is way to short at my age to fuck around comparing yourself or competing against to others in my opinion .

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Can I come to these events??"

Star of the show

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"A few years ago when this question was asked elsewhere I said I would be happy to go to one of these socials. Not for verifications but just as a way of meeting new people.

I've changed my mind since though meeting a few guys at mixed group socials when there was a lot of point scoring going on.

Some guys had no interest in talking about anything outside of fab and it was all very competitive with a few very experienced guys mocking those of us who hadn't experienced as much as they had.

I'll stick to the sexy sex stuff from now on

The last social I was at where there was a few lads, present, (but no cake!!

) I spoke to one about how United were struggling under Ol’e and a bit of football back and forth. Another we talked about what he did for work.

I wasn’t there long enough but the vibe I had wasn’t about competitive scoring.

I suppose it’s really who you meet, sorry you had a bad impression put on you op. Hopefully the future is brighter

The lads doing the points scoring had actually organised the walking group that we were all meeting through. In the chatgroups it was obvious that they were using their admin status to chat to the women and avoid the lads but when we were out on the walks they were very much sizing up the opposition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a sociable person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a good idea to be fair. I couldn't give a shit about the wankspangles that think we're all in competition witheach other. I'm confident in my own skin, enjoy the soical aspect of Fab and think it would be a good idea to have lads days out.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I chat to a guy that was on here and we still talk about meeting up for a pint. Nothing in it other than we’d get on as friends.

I’d consider meeting up with a potential play partner for C as in a threesome it’s important for the two guys to get along.

I met up with a guy when we advertised for a last min meet…we had a drink and chat whilst C was in the hotel getting ready. I wanted to ensure he was on the same page and that he looked like his pics - I messaged C and told her he was a good guy, spoke Italian and she gave me the green light…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve thought this before and once tried to organise a night out. Just drinking and a proper social for guys. I mean, it’s a quick way for a verification for anyone who is new or struggling to be verified. But, you might get on with a few in here and have a blast over a drink.

So, would many men do this or are you only her for the ‘sexy sex stuff’ and socialising with women?

I’d be up for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty socialising with lots of guys and gurls at sleazy but fun sex club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not? Couple of beers and chat...

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Any socials in London going? For men and women…"

Lorna has posted something in the London forum about a possible social

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve been to a lot of socials (Scotland and Manchester) and a lot of pre-club-drink socials and I always talk to guys as well as women. I can honestly say I’ve never met a “competitor” or a witnessed a point scorer. Maybe I’m naive and don’t see it but anyone that’s met me will probably tell I’m laid back enough not to care for such things.

As to a male only social. Not that bothered as I prefer the company of women more than men. Or a mix. So I’ll stick to regular socials.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"A few years ago when this question was asked elsewhere I said I would be happy to go to one of these socials. Not for verifications but just as a way of meeting new people.

I've changed my mind since though meeting a few guys at mixed group socials when there was a lot of point scoring going on.

Some guys had no interest in talking about anything outside of fab and it was all very competitive with a few very experienced guys mocking those of us who hadn't experienced as much as they had.

I'll stick to the sexy sex stuff from now on

The last social I was at where there was a few lads, present, (but no cake!!

) I spoke to one about how United were struggling under Ol’e and a bit of football back and forth. Another we talked about what he did for work.

I wasn’t there long enough but the vibe I had wasn’t about competitive scoring.

I suppose it’s really who you meet, sorry you had a bad impression put on you op. Hopefully the future is brighter

Was that our little social,Woody? That was bloody ages ago! You need to get out more!

You're coming to the next one though, aren't you?

And there WILL be cake. Pinky promise x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"A few years ago when this question was asked elsewhere I said I would be happy to go to one of these socials. Not for verifications but just as a way of meeting new people.

I've changed my mind since though meeting a few guys at mixed group socials when there was a lot of point scoring going on.

Some guys had no interest in talking about anything outside of fab and it was all very competitive with a few very experienced guys mocking those of us who hadn't experienced as much as they had.

I'll stick to the sexy sex stuff from now on

The last social I was at where there was a few lads, present, (but no cake!!

) I spoke to one about how United were struggling under Ol’e and a bit of football back and forth. Another we talked about what he did for work.

I wasn’t there long enough but the vibe I had wasn’t about competitive scoring.

I suppose it’s really who you meet, sorry you had a bad impression put on you op. Hopefully the future is brighter

So it was a bad choice of social then, really?

I meet up with folk socially on a regularly basis. Men and women from on here & we always have a great laugh. Deffo no point scoring or one upmanship. It's a shame you're not over here, or I'd invite you to the one. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I come to these events??"

I was thinking the same thing. Would happily just pull up a chair

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I would, I’ve chatted to a few guys from here at group socials and clubs never felt any point scoring or competition, most are decent & mature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to regularly do kink socials and helped run them

Never done a swing social, think would be extremely shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be up for a social get together with other swingers.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"A few years ago when this question was asked elsewhere I said I would be happy to go to one of these socials. Not for verifications but just as a way of meeting new people.

I've changed my mind since though meeting a few guys at mixed group socials when there was a lot of point scoring going on.

Some guys had no interest in talking about anything outside of fab and it was all very competitive with a few very experienced guys mocking those of us who hadn't experienced as much as they had.

I'll stick to the sexy sex stuff from now on

The last social I was at where there was a few lads, present, (but no cake!!

) I spoke to one about how United were struggling under Ol’e and a bit of football back and forth. Another we talked about what he did for work.

I wasn’t there long enough but the vibe I had wasn’t about competitive scoring.

I suppose it’s really who you meet, sorry you had a bad impression put on you op. Hopefully the future is brighter

That's because there's a cracking crowd at that social. And now, there's cake too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going up to Newcastle soon and I’m planning to meet Mr NE. He doesn’t know that yet but I am.

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