FabSwingers.com forum: Friend request as a filter

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I may be the only one, but anyone else get sent a friend request by someone you've never messaged or been messaged by and then look at their profile and if it's not for you, block them.

I do, it tells me they haven't read my profile, they just want to look at private pics etc

I might miss out on someone that can hold a conversation but i use this as a tool for sorting out... Tools lol

Anyone else?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Most of the friend requests I get are from people I've never spoken to before. I just ignore them but don't delete so they can't send another one. I don't normally block unless their profile is bad.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I don't usually block them but I will take a sneaky look when I see they're offline

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message and ask them if they meant to send it. Put the ball in their court. I’d never rule people out on the basis that they sent a request.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t look at them because I won’t accept them anyway. Just stops them doing it again so they sit there ignored.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I don't use the friend request either way particularly, those who are friends are actual folk I've met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Ignore, unless I know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore them if they’re blokes. They just probably want to perve at my cock pic.

If it’s a woman I accept, they just probably want to perve at m….. you get the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request."

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just ignore them if they’re blokes. They just probably want to perve at my cock pic.

If it’s a woman I accept, they just probably want to perve at m….. you get the idea

And you get to perve at them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one."

Blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t look at them because I won’t accept them anyway. Just stops them doing it again so they sit there ignored."

I do this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t look at them because I won’t accept them anyway. Just stops them doing it again so they sit there ignored."

Request sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just ignore them if they’re blokes. They just probably want to perve at my cock pic.

If it’s a woman I accept, they just probably want to perve at m….. you get the idea

And you get to perve at them lol"

Hahaha. A gentleman never tel. Of course I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not for the random adds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend request incoming to everyone in this thread ……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not for the random adds "

I would accept your random add

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of the friend requests I get are from people I've never spoken to before. I just ignore them but don't delete so they can't send another one. I don't normally block unless their profile is bad. "

Trust me the profiles are bad! Red flags are definitely blowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake! "

I couldn’t block you. I use your pics to measure things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block delete winks and friend requests.

I only accept friend requests if I've been talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friend request incoming to everyone in this thread …… "

Waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not for the random adds

I would accept your random add

Careful, I’ll send one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake!

I couldn’t block you. I use your pics to measure things

Blocked!

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Think I have probably only sent 5 or 6 fried requests in over a year and only to people I have been chatting to

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request."

We do this too, although we don't delete them but just leave them on there

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I ignore friends requests unless someone says they’ve sent me one. I don’t delete just leave them there gathering dust, then they can’t send another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ignore friends requests unless someone says they’ve sent me one. I don’t delete just leave them there gathering dust, then they can’t send another one. "

Also sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake!

I couldn’t block you. I use your pics to measure things

Blocked!

Nooooooooo!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake!

I couldn’t block you. I use your pics to measure things

Blocked!

Nooooooooo!!!"

I couldn’t block you. I enjoy looking at Mrs NE’s bottom too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friend request incoming to everyone in this thread ……

Waiting

It’s wierd ….It won’t let me send it … !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake!

I couldn’t block you. I use your pics to measure things

Blocked!

Nooooooooo!!!

I couldn’t block you. I enjoy looking at Mrs NE’s bottom too much. "

One of these days I’ll shave mine stick a thong on, take a few pics and see if anyone notices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake!

I couldn’t block you. I use your pics to measure things

Blocked!

Nooooooooo!!!

I couldn’t block you. I enjoy looking at Mrs NE’s bottom too much.

One of these days I’ll shave mine stick a thong on, take a few pics and see if anyone notices

Do it! Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just delete them unless we have spoken to someone and they’ve told us or asked if they can send a friend request.

Can I send a request.

You don’t have to answer it, I just wanna send one.

Blocked

Fuck sake!

I couldn’t block you. I use your pics to measure things

Blocked!

Nooooooooo!!!

I couldn’t block you. I enjoy looking at Mrs NE’s bottom too much.

One of these days I’ll shave mine stick a thong on, take a few pics and see if anyone notices

Do it! Please."

Even I’m terrified by that visual

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Ignore

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Accept the request late at night, look at their pix and then unfriend them - you get to see them but they don’t see you. Simples.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Um, is there any way you can call back a friend request... Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s a friend request? I’ve never experienced one? Which is strange given that I’m a single male on a swingers site

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"What’s a friend request? I’ve never experienced one? Which is strange given that I’m a single male on a swingers site

They are overrated don't worry

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I didn't realise they couldn't send another request. I'd been merrily deleting each and every repeat request.

Lesson learned. That'll teach all em... bah-ha-ha-ha

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I wait until their offline, then look at their friend only photos then delete them. I’ve said I’ll do it in my profile

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

What’s a “friend request?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do this. As per my profile, I block and delete the request if it's from someone I don't know. I do sometimes wait till they're offline to accept and look at their pics before I do the block/delete

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Surely the accept or decile button is the only filter you need?

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