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Long term relationship but minimal sex life...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning,

I often come here as an escape, read the forums etc but actully wondered if theres others in the same shoes.

Im in a long term relationship and very happy but the sex life is non existant, partly due to her health and teenage kids etc. This is a struggle as sometimes its needed!!

I come here to read the stories, check out the pics etc... even adding my own i guess as a release.

Id love to know if anyone else here is in the same shoes or just me lol.

Look forward to hearing from you all.

Rik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t wear anyones shoes, quickest way to pick up athletes foot.

Probably many are like you or started a swinging journey the same way. Exploring the idea of expanding their current good sex life, or spice up a mundane ‘normal’ sex life or even rescue a none existing one.

You’re not the first op. You won’t be the last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like i told another poster- join reddit and join the r/deadbedroom group.

You'll understand you are not alone in the slightest

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Your not alone no but many ladies and couples won’t meet married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not alone no but many ladies and couples won’t meet married men "

I don’t think that’s what he was asking.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Just have a wank and the urge goes away ????

Sex may be important now but it won’t always be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning,

I often come here as an escape, read the forums etc but actully wondered if theres others in the same shoes.

Im in a long term relationship and very happy but the sex life is non existant, partly due to her health and teenage kids etc. This is a struggle as sometimes its needed!!

I come here to read the stories, check out the pics etc... even adding my own i guess as a release.

Id love to know if anyone else here is in the same shoes or just me lol.

Look forward to hearing from you all.

Rik"

Hi Rik

You're not alone. Hundreds, maybe thousands of people on here in the same situation.

Take care.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not alone no but many ladies and couples won’t meet married men "

Oh please dont mistake me..thats not what this was about... not even sure i'd meet others haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning,

I often come here as an escape, read the forums etc but actully wondered if theres others in the same shoes.

Im in a long term relationship and very happy but the sex life is non existant, partly due to her health and teenage kids etc. This is a struggle as sometimes its needed!!

I come here to read the stories, check out the pics etc... even adding my own i guess as a release.

Id love to know if anyone else here is in the same shoes or just me lol.

Look forward to hearing from you all.

Rik

Hi Rik

You're not alone. Hundreds, maybe thousands of people on here in the same situation.

Take care."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just have a wank and the urge goes away ????

Sex may be important now but it won’t always be."

I do agree, just sometimes tought on the mental side... second guessing etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like i told another poster- join reddit and join the r/deadbedroom group.

You'll understand you are not alone in the slightest "

Ill take a look, thank you

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By *ornyguyMan
over a year ago

Hillsborough, NI

similar situation to yourself OP. if you're unable to obtain some physical stimulation, some mental simulation becomes your substitute.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Like i told another poster- join reddit and join the r/deadbedroom group.

You'll understand you are not alone in the slightest "

Agreed

I had an 8 year DBR. Nothing worked. I left

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Just have a wank and the urge goes away ????

Sex may be important now but it won’t always be."

Really? Is that all sex is to you?

It's not as simple as that, unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've joined with the ultimate goal of sex though, that's not an escape. You can't escape your problems, you can only add to them. I'd recommend talking to your partner before doing something you can't take back. 5 minutes of your ego being flattered is a lifetime of heartache for your partner.

Good luck.

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By *rimly FiendishMan
over a year ago

Heath Hayes

As hotwife says your opening one can of worms to try and deal with another can of worms. 2 open cans of worms gets harder to deal with. Esp if your wife finds out about 1 of the cans.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"You've joined with the ultimate goal of sex though, that's not an escape. You can't escape your problems, you can only add to them. I'd recommend talking to your partner before doing something you can't take back. 5 minutes of your ego being flattered is a lifetime of heartache for your partner.

Good luck."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've joined with the ultimate goal of sex though, that's not an escape. You can't escape your problems, you can only add to them. I'd recommend talking to your partner before doing something you can't take back. 5 minutes of your ego being flattered is a lifetime of heartache for your partner.

Good luck.

"

Totally agree on that

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

There are loads of people on here in the same situation as you

I hope you can find away to work through the issue with your wife without you having to resort to cheating.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"There are loads of people on here in the same situation as you

I hope you can find away to work through the issue with your wife without you having to resort to cheating.

"

Sorry, your partner, not your wife, my mistake.

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