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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm finding fab really hard atm to find meets etc what could I be doing wrong ? My spelling is not amazing but I do try issit me doing something wrong or are there alot of people that like to mess others about on here... sorry if its the normal boring forum chat,let me know what you think

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Profile pic for a start...

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat o/p. Sense of humour helps. Lots more men on here than women/couples. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely get a different display pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"Profile pic for a start..."

I agree! Good bum but it’s not yours OP!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You haven't asked for profile advice OP so can't comment x

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Right that profile pic is really really off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may be having a rough time of it but id like to pass on my congratulations on having sex what a wonderful a achievement im so impressed by the trophy and that we all get to see the wonder of it

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

sutton

I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too"
effort is overrated

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too"

You only joined 4 weeks ago....its not #instashag

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too"

Too many men on fab that’s the problem

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"its not #instashag "

I know, I'd have to drive miles to see you

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By *rKingsmanMan
over a year ago

sutton


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too

Too many men on fab that’s the problem "

That’s what I was thinking, too much competition

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too

Too many men on fab that’s the problem

That’s what I was thinking, too much competition "

Yep you really have to stand out but best advice get yourself to a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okok I appreciate the feed back an thankyou for not being so brutel..I don't feel comfortable putting a facepic on what do woman want to see lol I'm not really good with photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile pic for a start..."
okok I will sort that thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too

Too many men on fab that’s the problem

That’s what I was thinking, too much competition "
its not about competition its simply being yourself

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"You may be having a rough time of it but id like to pass on my congratulations on having sex what a wonderful a achievement im so impressed by the trophy and that we all get to see the wonder of it "

You almost sound bitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you’re doing anything wrong, just be yourself and roll with the flow. you’ve a nice profile pic. of what looks like a lovely big dick pleasuring some lucky gurl who has a lovely booty...!

maybe get some more pics. added to your profile in lieu of just the one you have at mo.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too"

Half of your bio is pointless waffle

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too

Too many men on fab that’s the problem

That’s what I was thinking, too much competition "

That's definitely not the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too

Half of your bio is pointless waffle "
that's fair enough I not really too good with words I see aot of members don't like short bios so kind of tried to make a effort,I appreciate the feed back tho thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is tough for a lot of guys.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I’m the same, I put a lot of effort into my messages and message a lot of people with very little back! I wonder what I’m doing wrong too

Half of your bio is pointless waffle that's fair enough I not really too good with words I see aot of members don't like short bios so kind of tried to make a effort,I appreciate the feed back tho thankyou "

That reply wasn't for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah my bad sorry

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London

The thing you're doing wrong is having expectations. Most meets happen in clubs anyway

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP you're clearly happy to accept profile advice, so...

Photos

Ladies want to know what YOU look like, it doesn't have to be your face. For many only having a photo of your cock in someone else will immediately put them off... if I was meeting guys, I wouldn't respond to a message with that photo.

Look at other profiles for inspiration, there's some great male photos about.

Text

It's OK but the use this word/phrase thing is, in my opinion, pointless.

Using the term "cougar" might alienate the very women you're hoping to meet. Lots of ladies really dislike the term. I would leave age preference out to be honest.

Other

Would you really meet a 99 year old? If not, maybe change the age range to reflect that.

Other than that get to clubs, be yourself and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you're clearly happy to accept profile advice, so...

Photos

Ladies want to know what YOU look like, it doesn't have to be your face. For many only having a photo of your cock in someone else will immediately put them off... if I was meeting guys, I wouldn't respond to a message with that photo.

Look at other profiles for inspiration, there's some great male photos about.

Text

It's OK but the use this word/phrase thing is, in my opinion, pointless.

Using the term "cougar" might alienate the very women you're hoping to meet. Lots of ladies really dislike the term. I would leave age preference out to be honest.

Other

Would you really meet a 99 year old? If not, maybe change the age range to reflect that.

Other than that get to clubs, be yourself and be patient."

Your an amazing lady thankyou I will take this on board x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe people don't feel comfortable typing "gingers have souls too"

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By *orticia1313Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm finding fab really hard atm to find meets etc what could I be doing wrong ? My spelling is not amazing but I do try issit me doing something wrong or are there alot of people that like to mess others about on here... sorry if its the normal boring forum chat,let me know what you think "

The age range 18 to 99, and the profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried being funny, Chandler?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's just not easy on here in general for single guys, just enjoy the forums and go to socials

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