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By *onkeynut OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"

Yep, not a nice thing, I think my wife has been ghosted after what looked like a fruitful conversation yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, but I have learnt they are not worth crying over…. Head up, move on! Rise above it & be the better person x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

What's a "boing" vid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"

I guess the way to look at it is the shitty moments make the great moments in our lives feel and taste all the better .

Thats the way I try to look on life in general even when things haven't gone or turned out the way I wanted them to for what ever reason .

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

The normal scenario is they talk for a week, message loads then you go for the meet question and they go ghost. Luckily a few who started as hotlisters, are now friends, and we keep in touch .

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I've had it recently, then I was told I had blocked them even though I had sent a few messages over the last couple of weeks. But you live and learn.

Sorry OP I don't have any videos like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will show my ignorance on here, what are boing and helicopter vids?

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By *rTongueMan
over a year ago

...


"What's a "boing" vid?"

I assumed it was a typo meant to be Boeing or helicopter vids, guess they’re aviation fans

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By *rTongueMan
over a year ago

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"Will show my ignorance on here, what are boing and helicopter vids?"

A hard cock going ‘boing’ when it’s released from the underwear, and someone twirling their cock in circles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"

Well if they can be adults and just they're aren't interested, sometimes after chatting. You just loose interested or just dont fiñd it going anywhere, they aren't worth knowing of that's how they handle things

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Will show my ignorance on here, what are boing and helicopter vids?

A hard cock going ‘boing’ when it’s released from the underwear, and someone twirling their cock in circles"

I see

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

I've lost count

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"

I have always wanted to do a boing vid...as for the helicopter, never again I think I sprained my right nut the last time.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"

Yes we were recently ghosted by a girl a few days before we were supposed to be meeting for a social. She didn't even log in. A few days later she's back on here and then ignored our message asking if she was ok.... BLOCK.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yeah it's pretty crap OP, it would be nicer if they just said they're not interested or whatever it is that stopped them messaging

Have a boing on our profile as a pick me up

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )

Yep, not a nice thing, I think my wife has been ghosted after what looked like a fruitful conversation yesterday "

Indeed I have (this is the missus), buy you know? Shit happens, some people are arseholes, so we just move along. I'm not going to float everyone's boat, that's cool. The conversation was fun and prompted some great sex with hubby!

To the OP: give my hubby a go, he won't ghost you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can send you unsolicited duck pics

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

It’s annoying but as they say, no answer/reply is an answer. Getting ghosted is just another form of no

Took a girl out for a date once and at the end, as you should, I asked her to txt me when she got home safe.

She either fell off a bridge or ghosted me. I don’t like that because I was left a little worried about her safety. But as they say, I got the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alas happens alot on here but at least you now got plenty dick pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )

I have always wanted to do a boing vid...as for the helicopter, never again I think I sprained my right nut the last time."

That made me laugh (female of the couple)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"

Their loss. You look stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can send you unsolicited duck pics "

Quack quack

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By *assiieneilxMan
over a year ago

Newcastle under lyme

I can only dream of being ghosted on here

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )

Their loss. You look stunning "

^^ this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not great. But the way I see it, if someone ghosted me and didn’t have the respect to give me an idea why, I wouldn’t want to speak to them again anyway.

I do get why some ghost though? But I wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

They’re usually the ones who just want pics I find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )

Yep, not a nice thing, I think my wife has been ghosted after what looked like a fruitful conversation yesterday

Indeed I have (this is the missus), buy you know? Shit happens, some people are arseholes, so we just move along. I'm not going to float everyone's boat, that's cool. The conversation was fun and prompted some great sex with hubby!

To the OP: give my hubby a go, he won't ghost you xx "

OP: ignore the wife, I’m a notorious ghoster, in fact, I’ve done more ghosting than the spirit of Anne Boleyn at Hampton Court - Bob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re usually the ones who just want pics I find. "
I have not ghosted you yet….

Oh I see what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"It’s not great. But the way I see it, if someone ghosted me and didn’t have the respect to give me an idea why, I wouldn’t want to speak to them again anyway.

I do get why some ghost though? But I wouldn’t. "

I've ghosted in the past and the reason I didn't give an explanation was for the same reason I ghosted her in the first place.

Non stop drama and an unhealthy obsession with what everyone else on fab was doing, up to and including sharing personal details of people I had never spoken to or even knew anything about.

She already knew my opinion on what she was doing and she chose to ignore advice from numerous friends so I just stopped chatting and left her to it.

Based on all that I know for a fact I was then added to her hit list and snidey forum comments from others in her ever diminishing circle have confirmed that.

So ghosting is sometimes a necessary evil.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"I can send you unsolicited duck pics "

Oh I love ducks

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

As for ghosting. It’s the shittiest behaviour ever. I hope the low life gets a crusty willy and it drops off just for treating you that way

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan
over a year ago

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I'm probably guilty of ghosting and feel guilty for it. I get inundated with emails, text, SMS, MST, notification from every fucking app that I miss millions of replies. Between work life and home life, it's communications overload and loads of messages to me (work and personal) go unread or unanswered due to lack of time or whoever's shouting loudest.

I used to lime the ol' days of few emails and maybe a kinky Skype/MSN message or txt and that was all I had to keep up with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's really crap. Has happened several times to me. Upset me a few times so you have my sympathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is so shitty

That is all.

(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"

Sorry to hear this OP ghosting someone is an awful thing to do!

CrispyDuck Has some great vids!

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By *onkeynut OP   Woman
over a year ago

somewhere

Thanks everyone. It wasn’t anyone from fab. I can understand why there are reasons to ghost at times but there was no reason for this.

Anyhow, next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone. It wasn’t anyone from fab. I can understand why there are reasons to ghost at times but there was no reason for this.

Anyhow, next "

*Woody rushes in………

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your ok op hugs

Also sorry op I have to

DIAMANTE - Ghost Myself

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qDNovcNHgmY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to be the modern way

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm so used to it I don't even realise it's happened any more.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Happened to me it’s not nice and we’d been chatting over 8 mths… just wish he’d grown a pair… I would of respected him more….

But like everything you get over it and move on… but still not a pleasant experience x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

How long is it before you realise you’ve been ghosted? A genuine question for once.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

It is shit, OP. I've actually found some perverse consolation in this thread as at least I know it happens to lots of people! Onwards and upwards...

I do actually have a boing vid but have spared the world that trauma so far...maybe one day!

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Yeah OK it was nice chatting with you see you later princess xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally agree, but I have learnt they are not worth crying over…. Head up, move on! Rise above it & be the better person x"

Says more about the person doing the Ghost.

Than the person whom had been Gjosted/blanked/blocked etc etc etc..

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Are there motives for people who ghost.. are there serial ghosters or one of ghosters ...

Is the ghoster the one who is always in the wrong.. ?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

It's shit, I've had it done to me in 'real life' what I thought was a relationship, met the family etc and then disappeared into thin air and fool me it happened to me twice I gave him a second chance and again he did it.

On here I've been sat waiting for a message to say yes I'm on my way and nothing, to the point where I used to get ready completely last minute because I was so used to guys ghosting

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