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By *irtycumbo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

So when we first joined it was all about personality (and always will), but recently we've been really picky finding someone who is suitable for what we are after.....plenty of guys who are into what we are into but finding that spark and attraction is becoming harder and harder.

Has anyone else struggled with this

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yes the struggle is real but there's nothing wrong with being picky

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

It's not easy to find someone who I feel comfortable with, who isn't looking for fuck and go.

If that was all I wanted I would say yes to anyone who had a nice face and could accommodate.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes it’s difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not easy to find someone but never compromise just to get a meet.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not easy by omg when you do, it's azing x

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By *ornypair300Couple
over a year ago

scottish borders

Yes 100% agree , think a lot of it has to do with the insane amount of men on here now thinking it’s an easy hook up gaurentee sex site . We enjoy the social just as much as fun but that seems forgotten by alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i now know what bono was singing about..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I find it incredibly difficult to find a person I would want to be naked with. It doesn’t stop me looking though

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"So when we first joined it was all about personality (and always will), but recently we've been really picky finding someone who is suitable for what we are after.....plenty of guys who are into what we are into but finding that spark and attraction is becoming harder and harder.

Has anyone else struggled with this "

Totally resonates

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By *llywalesWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, it's very difficult at the moment. Maybe things will get better in time.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We have found the hardest thing here is meeting the right couple. We haven't had any difficulties meeting so gle ladies like many struggle with. It's the couples that are difficult for us.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am picky. Love going to clubs, parties and socials as someone who messages you on here may surprise you when you meet face to face.

Being a couple will always be difficult as you need to find someone who suits you both.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have no problems finding single men or females we are attracted to.As we only look for bi couples finding a 4 way connection is very hard .

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like being picky and actually prefer picky men tbf

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I like being picky and actually prefer picky men tbf

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Me too

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By *irtycumbo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's like trying to find a movie on Netflix that suits both our interests lol impossible, think it's because we had such a great person the last time it's hard to beat that and definitely not lowering our standards

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"It's like trying to find a movie on Netflix that suits both our interests lol impossible, think it's because we had such a great person the last time it's hard to beat that and definitely not lowering our standards "

Definitely don't lower standards, people tend to come along when you least expect it and trust me they are worth waiting for

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Totally get this

Me & my other half have our joint profile ,but single ones too.

Trying to get 4 way attraction with other couples isn't easy .

Then it's rare I meet on this profile as not Many seem to take my fancy anymore.

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

Being picky is fine when it comes to looks or how someone responds in messages... I've lost out on meets just because of my age nothing about personality or looks, so being pickys not a bad thing but you can miss out on opportunities to meet good people, swings and roundabouts i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s difficult, especially now we’re approaching that funny ole age . We do have more success visiting clubs ( when we manage to attend)as opposed to meeting new people on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got so picky I think it’s not picky anymore but some underlying issue

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By *irtycumbo OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I’ve got so picky I think it’s not picky anymore but some underlying issue "

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’ve got so picky I think it’s not picky anymore but some underlying issue "

Haha same

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Im superficial as f@#k me. I only meet guys i find attractive and like!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m so picky these days I use rubber gloves and tongs when taking a piss

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"So when we first joined it was all about personality (and always will), but recently we've been really picky finding someone who is suitable for what we are after.....plenty of guys who are into what we are into but finding that spark and attraction is becoming harder and harder.

Has anyone else struggled with this "

You (like anyone else) have all rights to be picky

We live one life and should choose what we actually want and what we feel is right for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so

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