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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I am guessing this topic has been done before. But I will do again ..

Why as a straight male do I get messages asking to met from Bi or Gay men?

If I was looking for a male, I would have put that I was bi, bi curious or even gay. As I have not put that and have put straight why do I get the messages ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it gets done to death regularly. And still I post on it! Because a lot of guys with 'straight' on their profile are actually partial to a bit of cock. So it's always worth asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same as me with couples

i get messages daily from couples asking for meets even tho my prifle is quite clear that i only meet men

we can sit here and ask why all day

answer is people will take their chances

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Because there are so many bi men that say they are straight on their profiles that some guys will take a chance that you are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am guessing this topic has been done before. But I will do again ..

Why as a straight male do I get messages asking to met from Bi or Gay men?

If I was looking for a male, I would have put that I was bi, bi curious or even gay. As I have not put that and have put straight why do I get the messages ?"

You could always use the message filter to stop them getting in touch with you...

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

If they was would they not message males themselves.. ?

Why offend straight males by asking?

I would never message a couple or a female than did not have they were looking for a male there profile, just in in hope..

I think do that is rude and just broadcasts desperation ..

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Why even bother have a "what you are looking for" field. If people are just going to ignore it..

The field is there for a reason, people have filled it in for a reason.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block single guys, then it ends

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

You are probably just so hot they can't help themselves and are drawn to you like moths to a flame.

That's what happens to me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they was would they not message males themselves.. ?

Why offend straight males by asking?

I would never message a couple or a female than did not have they were looking for a male there profile, just in in hope..

I think do that is rude and just broadcasts desperation .."

you'll never stop it tho

its just part of being on here

i get messages litterly by the dozen every day from couples, women, men outside my age limit, men asking if i will accommodate them etc all of which is clear on my profile but they still mail me

its just part of being on here i cant say it offends me tho, im thicker skinned than that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"block single guys, then it ends"

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Why does it offend you? As has been said before, they're just chancing their arm as many men with 'straight' on their profile are actually bi.

We get messaged all the time from men who are listed as straight on their profile. As soon as I say we ONLY play with bi men, they suddenly become partial to cock.

Why not set your filter to exclude all single men? Sorted.

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

It does make you feel that maybe Fab needs to upgrade its message filters. Only allow messages from people that met your critera fully..

Wow just imagine how many cut and paste messages from men would not be allowed though .. hehe

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"It does make you feel that maybe Fab needs to upgrade its message filters. Only allow messages from people that met your critera fully..

Wow just imagine how many cut and paste messages from men would not be allowed though .. hehe

"

actually for a FREE site, it's current filters do a great job if people utilise them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make you feel that maybe Fab needs to upgrade its message filters. Only allow messages from people that met your critera fully..

Wow just imagine how many cut and paste messages from men would not be allowed though .. hehe

"

lol you can block single men

you can block all kinds of people

any sex, none verified, new people, people with no pics etc how much of a filter do you want?

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Why does it offend you? As has been said before, they're just chancing their arm as many men with 'straight' on their profile are actually bi.

We get messaged all the time from men who are listed as straight on their profile. As soon as I say we ONLY play with bi men, they suddenly become partial to cock.

Why not set your filter to exclude all single men? Sorted."

If you get a message from a straight guy saying he is interested in cock, that does not mean every straight guys on the site is the same..

I am very sure if I a striaght guy suddenly decided he wanted to play with a male he would start looking a messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make you feel that maybe Fab needs to upgrade its message filters. Only allow messages from people that met your critera fully..

Wow just imagine how many cut and paste messages from men would not be allowed though .. hehe

actually for a FREE site, it's current filters do a great job if people utilise them.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but the fact remains that you can block single men. We have everyone blocked except M and MM so never have a problem, unless they message us through forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"block single guys, then it ends

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"........

Why as a straight male do I get messages asking to met from Bi or Gay men?

............ "

Desperation on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"........

Why as a straight male do I get messages asking to met from Bi or Gay men?

............

Desperation on their part."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think there's a 'block steve' filter as well. I'm always coming up against it.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It does make you feel that maybe Fab needs to upgrade its message filters. Only allow messages from people that met your critera fully..

Wow just imagine how many cut and paste messages from men would not be allowed though .. hehe

lol you can block single men

you can block all kinds of people

any sex, none verified, new people, people with no pics etc how much of a filter do you want?"

Yes, you can but why should you have to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am guessing this topic has been done before. But I will do again ..

Why as a straight male do I get messages asking to met from Bi or Gay men?

If I was looking for a male, I would have put that I was bi, bi curious or even gay. As I have not put that and have put straight why do I get the messages ?"

have to be honest not got a clue; your profile says straight - your not looking for men - so im gussing some men are thick and try it on

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I am guessing this topic has been done before. But I will do again ..

Why as a straight male do I get messages asking to met from Bi or Gay men?

If I was looking for a male, I would have put that I was bi, bi curious or even gay. As I have not put that and have put straight why do I get the messages ?

have to be honest not got a clue; your profile says straight - your not looking for men - so im gussing some men are thick and try it on "

no, they never got past the VWE 8 inch and very thick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does make you feel that maybe Fab needs to upgrade its message filters. Only allow messages from people that met your critera fully..

Wow just imagine how many cut and paste messages from men would not be allowed though .. hehe

lol you can block single men

you can block all kinds of people

any sex, none verified, new people, people with no pics etc how much of a filter do you want?

Yes, you can but why should you have to? "

Well if you don't want to block don't come on forums moaning about getting messages from men. The option is there to use.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It does make you feel that maybe Fab needs to upgrade its message filters. Only allow messages from people that met your critera fully..

Wow just imagine how many cut and paste messages from men would not be allowed though .. hehe

lol you can block single men

you can block all kinds of people

any sex, none verified, new people, people with no pics etc how much of a filter do you want?

Yes, you can but why should you have to?

Well if you don't want to block don't come on forums moaning about getting messages from men. The option is there to use."

I'n not complaining about getting messages from men. If they're unwelcome messages I send a brief response and block the sender but I wouldn't block ALL single men 'cos there are some here I'm quite happy to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe they are not really a single bi/gay guy but a cpl pretending to be one

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

oh shit!!!we must have blocked single bi females.

we've not had a fancy a shag message from one for ages DOH!!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"oh shit!!!we must have blocked single bi females.

we've not had a fancy a shag message from one for ages DOH!!

"

Fancy a shag Saucy????

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"oh shit!!!we must have blocked single bi females.

we've not had a fancy a shag message from one for ages DOH!!

Fancy a shag Saucy???? "

jump on,hurry up i'm getting all excited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am guessing this topic has been done before. But I will do again ..

Why as a straight male do I get messages asking to met from Bi or Gay men?

If I was looking for a male, I would have put that I was bi, bi curious or even gay. As I have not put that and have put straight why do I get the messages ?"

Ok you're not bi that's fine but , do you suck cock ?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Message filters are good for stopping a lot of unwanted messages but don't work if people lie about age, gender and sexual preferences.

Just say no thanks if someone you are not interested in messages you, then block them so they can't contact you again. And don't be so Hung up about it.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Message filters are good for stopping a lot of unwanted messages but don't work if people lie about age, gender and sexual preferences.

Just say no thanks if someone you are not interested in messages you, then block them so they can't contact you again. And don't be so Hung up about it."

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By *tomCom OP   Man
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I seem to be getting the idea from this forum post that people thing that it is not really an issue I should be worring about. That I should just delete the messages and move on. I am very happy to do this

But I have to ask, if people do not think it is a problem why are there so many forum posts about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seem to be getting the idea from this forum post that people thing that it is not really an issue I should be worring about. That I should just delete the messages and move on. I am very happy to do this

But I have to ask, if people do not think it is a problem why are there so many forum posts about it?

"

As has been said before, its only a problem if you let it become one

if you block men they cant message you, the only reason they are mailing you is because your allowing them to

i cant see your problem, just block men

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