FabSwingers.com forum: Are you annoying/ disliked by a lot of people?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And if you are, how does it make you feel?!

Happy hump day again to those celebrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm quite the opposite. I'm a friendly people person

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yes and probably, it's part of what makes me me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I’m a bit on the spectrum. When I think I’m being friendly and approachable I can be abrupt and defensive and end up rubbing people up the wrong way

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I don’t think so. Or I have no self awareness

I like to think im fairly likeable

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think I’m easy to get on with

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm annoying and disliked here and everybody else thinks I'm lovely.

I really don't give a rats arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if you are, how does it make you feel?!

Happy hump day again to those celebrating

Absolutely but only to those I think deserve it, otherwise I’m quite a nice friendly generous person.

I have this incredible gift on a certain huge media site of pissing people off and generally ending up in Jail…. Although I’m currently on a roll as not been in jail since January

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

I like to think I’m friendly! But I’m pretty outspoken too and I don’t think that’s a trait that a lot of people like soooo…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I am, but to be honest, I put fair effort into being as inoffensive as possible when I first meet people. Doesn't always work as some might see that as me being boring but it helps get a foot in the door before opening up to them a bit more

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Yes and probably, it's part of what makes me me

I'm only annoyed at you for not yet meeting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea more than likely envy is a terrible thing

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m actually a really nice person & would hate to ever offend someone. It’s why I reply to every single message! Politely!!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m mildly socially awkward and people sometimes read that as being aloof or unapproachable. On here my humour is very dry, so people tend to take that as being a bit of a dick.

Those that know me though tend to know that I’m an asshole

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

In life? There are probably a few who don't like me.

In here? There are probably a few more but for similar reasons.

I don't follow the unwritten fab rulebook that says I must react or respond in a particular way to messages or forum comments in order to be more popular and that annoys some people. Usually the people who send those messages and expect something different.

How do I feel about that?

Every time there is a "am I on your hotlist?" thread the vast majority of those who tell me that I am say that it's because I don't follow that unwritten fab rulebook so I feel good about it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Nobody is mostly liked or disliked by people on the forum - most people are indifferent to most people to put it bluntly.

I don't think people are disliked because they're outspoken or don't suck up or are jealous, it's probably because we all have dickish tendencies and sometimes they're not compatible with another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few people like Dick.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I’m a confident woman, some people find that intimidating and in turn take a disliking to me from the outset, others who get to know me find I’m a friendly, sarcastic, dark humoured person who says it like it is - people who don’t care for that won’t get on with me and that’s fine I’m not living to liked by everyone x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like to think what I say and how I treat people is good. It's always how I want to be talked to/treated.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I would think so as I don’t follow the crowd , I don’t lick arse and I’m quite outspoken. I really am a fucking delight though once you know me properly

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I honestly don’t know. In a past life many centuries ago I would have overthought this and decided that no one liked me.

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Being manager of a club and having to barr people or refuse to serve people, i guess i am disliked by some , but that being my job it would never play on my mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I honestly don’t know. In a past life many centuries ago I would have overthought this and decided that no one liked me. "

I would have liked to meet you back then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By the way this thread is just a random thought. Don’t want to be negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s hard to tell online. After all who’s going to tell you to your face… ? ..

I get the impression I’m easy to talk to or get along with face to face I mean, with this handsome mug, who wouldn’t be charmed?

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

I hope so

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not typically, except when I'll take a stand against inappropriate behaviour, rules etc, until I'm satisfied

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I'm loved by everyone.

I'm despised by all.

Yet tolerated by the net difference.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not as far as I'm aware but the I tend to keep myself to myself mostly. At my last job I was pretty depressed and I think a lot of that was to do with not "clicking" with a single person there, and I suppose that has a similar effect.

Since leaving I feel a hell of a lot better and am generally happier

LvM

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Yes.

I don't even think about them. I don't let anyone live in my head rent free for a negative reason. They have no influence or power over me.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I am disliked by a lot and I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am and feel I'm doing my civi duty because if they wasn't hating me there'd be hating on someone else .

Because you no what they say a hater has just got to hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober me is terrible at first impressions. Whenever I’ve started a new job or put in a position where I have to meet new people only a few like me from the off.

D*unk me seems great. I can make friends anywhere after a few pints.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Dislike on here probably but people don’t know me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By strangers yes, I have resting bitch face which is misleading.. they like me once they've thawed the ice

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"By strangers yes, I have resting bitch face which is misleading.. they like me once they've thawed the ice

That happens when you start grinding in their lap, all the friction helps to melt the ice more than break it

LvM

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Depends who you ask, but generally yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm disliked in the real world but then again if I am, no issue to me, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Maybe one or two on here too for their own reasons but most are decent enough to keep the abuse to a minimum

Those that don't....well they aren't worth losing any sleep over!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've never really thought about it, there's nothing I can do about it so it's not worth worrying about...I can only be me, pretending to be something else would be disingenuous, we're not all compatible and life isn't a popularity contest.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I've never really thought about it, there's nothing I can do about it so it's not worth worrying about...I can only be me, pretending to be something else would be disingenuous, we're not all compatible and life isn't a popularity contest. "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, probably on here.

But in real life I'd say most people are indifferent towards me. I don't really stand out, but those who know me do describe me in a positive light.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don’t know if I’m disliked. I know some on here do but at least they’ve been honest. But I am genuinely annoying though. I joke around a lot and like pranking people. Also I recite rap song lyrics relating to most situations I’m in

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

"Yes and probably, it's part of what makes me me

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here maybe official thread killer here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On here maybe official thread killer here "
don’t kill my thread Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep but I don't like people anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On here maybe official thread killer here don’t kill my thread Jo

I’ll try not to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On here maybe official thread killer here don’t kill my thread Jo

I’ll try not to

Dammit Jo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am, and I don't give a flying fuck.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I'm smug.

Everyone hates a smug fucker.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I'm smug.

Everyone hates a smug fucker.

Do you drive a hybrid car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I a nice bloke. But on here I must be doing something wrong I get a lot of not for me or no reply we’ll all I can I must be that ugly lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t think I’m disliked (by many, but probably by somebody) or annoying, but what do I know

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nope I am a absolute delight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I a nice bloke. But on here I must be doing something wrong I get a lot of not for me or no reply we’ll all I can I must be that ugly lol "
you’re not ugly. And I’m sure you’re a lovely bloke. Seen you in the forums- you seem great

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes to both x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No. Just numpties

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

I do try to get on with people, but there's always those that you can't.

A shame, as I feel that you can never have too many friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah probably

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

"God I hope so

I love this attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God I hope so

I love this attitude

Well... you know, I do try my best to annoy at least one person a day.

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

i find it takes a good while for people to get to know the real me , male or female.

i think i give out untrue vibes, not sure what type, but when they get to know me properly i'm quite popular and liked.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I'm an acerbic, sarcastic piss taker and often ride with the filter switch in the low or off position...make of that what you will

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"I'm smug.

Everyone hates a smug fucker.

Do you drive a hybrid car?"

Like with a fucking loud exhaust that reverberates everyone's windows at 6am?

I sure scooby doo!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I'm smug.

Everyone hates a smug fucker.

Do you drive a hybrid car?

Like with a fucking loud exhaust that reverberates everyone's windows at 6am?

I sure scooby doo! "

I was thinking more of that southpark episode where all of the hybrid car drivers were making too much smug

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Oh yeah, that one! Great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m told that I’m loveable but annoying, like it’s somehow endearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to. "

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday "

Because I don't back down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Who. The. Fuck. Cares?

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I think I am overlooked by most people to be honest so neither :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself fortunate that those who dislike me..I tend to dislike also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep "

After the 30 seconds of sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, not like I care what they think as they're all beneath me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on "

And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on

And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times."

Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm hilarious, personally. But if I wasn't me, I'd think I'm annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on

And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.

Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know

It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on

And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.

Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know

It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...

I know! That’s why you should message me

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm liked by the people that I like on here & in the real world. They forgive my constant annoyances 'cos they love me.

I give no thought to anyone else's opinion, as it matters not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a shit if people don't like me. I know some here who don't and it's fine, not going to lose sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on

And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.

Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know

It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...

I know! That’s why you should message me "

You're still too young...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on

And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.

Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know

It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...

I know! That’s why you should message me

You're still too young..."

That’s exactly what you said to me when you were leaving, well that and cockwomble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don’t think people understand my sarcastic and dry sense of humour.

And also perceive me as being quite serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'm hilarious, personally. But if I wasn't me, I'd think I'm annoying. "

You ARE “actual hilariousness”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to. "

I think these are attractive and essential qualities x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I'm smeg.

Everyone hates a smeg fucker.

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But I like their kitchen appliances. So it's not all bad.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"I'm smeg.

Everyone hates a smeg fucker.

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But I like their kitchen appliances. So it's not all bad.

Hey smeg fucker... I'll Dualit you and your little appliance too!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Yes and I couldn't care less. My friends love me and that's what matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would anyone know unless people tell them??

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

Don't know....don't care.

We don't set out to be offensive, annoying or dickish, but by the same token we also don't follow the crowd, or nod along with the majority just to "fit in", take us as you find us, and you'll usually find that we are smashing, lovely people.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m liked by a lot of people, I seem to get a gathering but then anxious me thinks they then out of the blue hate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I annoy people

I’m still nice, but I know my sense of humour on here really gets on some peoples nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To know me is to love me. I'm not widely known...

I was surprised to learn that some people find me frightening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered if people like me or not that goes for in life as well as online

if you like me, great. If you don't then that's great too because the feeling is mutual

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Probably yes. Water off a ducks back though (shrug)

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I'm (he) liked, and described by others as modest, just non-offensive. There's two guys at work who don't like me their reasons are out of my control, I can't do anything to alter that but I honestly don't care, they don't mean enough to me to care. Family and friends are what matters to me anyone else's negative thoughts about me are water off a ducks back tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People seem to like me, but I'm sure I'm annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly hope so.

If not then my life’s work has been in vain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think online I may come across as an arse but IRL people seem to like me, certainly in my work life I get plenty of positive feedback. Outside of that I have a very small circle of friends and they seem to care.

Frida, don't be daft

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Been thinking about my answer for this decided I don't give a s***.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utterly totally annoying and gone beyond point of actually giving one as to what people think....I hate people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if you are, how does it make you feel?!

Happy hump day again to those celebrating

I'm friendly, but I think many people don't like me. Probably because I'm no good at small talk, and although I have a wide range of interests, i generally have limited things I'm any good at talking about.

I love listening though. To stories and other peoples lives.

Oh and i have an atrocious memory, so unless its in diary I'll forget to ask about stuff.

Either that or I'm just an utter dick and don't realise it.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Here I don't think I'm actively disliked any more than I'm actively liked!

In the real world I tend to be liked a lot more than I think. I find myself funny as fuck but a bit annoying, so whenever I left a job (which happens a lot - I was a contractor for years) I'd be really surprised by the people who wanted to keep in touch and who valued my company.

Of course it's possible that as soon as my back was turned they were all calling me fit to burn, but I think I'm generally fairly likeable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life, easy going, friendly and sociable.

On here, people probably think Im a twat because I dont subscribe to the forum gang mentality.

And I dont care one bit about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.

That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday

Because I don't back down?

Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep

After the 30 seconds of sex?

Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on

And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.

Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know

It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...

I know! That’s why you should message me

You're still too young...

That’s exactly what you said to me when you were leaving, well that and cockwomble "

Memories...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's probably a mixed bag, on here and in the real world. Not fussed either way. I know in my work places I'm rather disliked by many peers, that really doesn't bother me though, as I am there for patients/residents first and foremost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annoying, basically just a big twat to many haha

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