FabSwingers.com forum: Paralyzed by choice

By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I'm completely overwhelmed by choice at the moment. I'm trying to plan an outfit for a fetish event... The theme is seven deadly sins...

There is too much choice! I really struggle when I have too many ideas it's almost as bad as things being too narrow to make a choice.

Is there such a thing as an optimum number of options? Am I alone in my paralyzed nature?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pick an outfit for each sin

give each outfit a number

put the numbers in a hat

pull one out.

Presto. outfit picked

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I definitely think there is a thing as too much choice and it can all become far too confusing.

Why not put the outfit names on a piece of paper, throw them into a hat, whichever one you pull out is what you'll wear.

Or you could take photos of you in all the outfits, post them here, whichever gets the most fabs in 24 hours, you wear

Ruby

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"pick an outfit for each sin

give each outfit a number

put the numbers in a hat

pull one out.

Presto. outfit picked"

Picking an outfit for each sin is a problem in itself hahaha. If I use this method I envisage needing many die...

Good thing I'm a nerd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm completely overwhelmed by choice at the moment. I'm trying to plan an outfit for a fetish event... The theme is seven deadly sins...

There is too much choice! I really struggle when I have too many ideas it's almost as bad as things being too narrow to make a choice.

Is there such a thing as an optimum number of options? Am I alone in my paralyzed nature?"
look to accompany six of them... And when someone says you've missed greed, you can say it's greedy to dress up in six...

Or go for a greedy girl line if that's your thing.

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Or you could take photos of you in all the outfits, post them here, whichever gets the most fabs in 24 hours, you wear

Ruby"

While I love this idea, I'm making my outfit, likely out of latex... This method would prove very expensive!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I am often overwhelmed by the number of amazing female fabbers making sexual demands of my time, which is why I spend so many nights by myself.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I can very much relate to this. I go round and round in indecisive, confused circles!

Packing a suitcase is a nightmare for me and I end up chucking in anything and everything ’just in case’.

Luckily, I do not have this problem in my work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"pick an outfit for each sin

give each outfit a number

put the numbers in a hat

pull one out.

Presto. outfit picked

Picking an outfit for each sin is a problem in itself hahaha. If I use this method I envisage needing many die...

Good thing I'm a nerd

it was just an idea

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Or you could take photos of you in all the outfits, post them here, whichever gets the most fabs in 24 hours, you wear

Ruby

While I love this idea, I'm making my outfit, likely out of latex... This method would prove very expensive!"

Ahhhhh,valid point!

I'm sure you'll look great in whatever you end up wearing. Go with your gut instinct perhaps?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Northern stars idea above is a good shout - gut instinct or pulling one out of a hat works.

I definitely find myself overwhelmed by too much choice, procrastinate and then can't decide what to do/wear. It's easier when choosing from three, max.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go as sloth your outfit hair up in roll up curlers dressing gown on down to your knees underneath you have your lust outfit on. then halfway through the night you can go powder your nose take your hair out of the rollers touch up your make up ditch the dressing gown just like magic your now lust .

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I can very much relate to this. I go round and round in indecisive, confused circles!

Packing a suitcase is a nightmare for me and I end up chucking in anything and everything ’just in case’.

Luckily, I do not have this problem in my work. "

Yeah I'm the one who travels with loads of people only taking hand luggage and I have used all my 20kg hold luggage... But I'm always also the one with enough converter plugs, spare first aid kit bits (including medicine) etc...

Holiday mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go as lust, turn up naked.

Problem solved.

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By *adyJayne OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"Go as sloth your outfit hair up in roll up curlers dressing gown on down to your knees underneath you have your lust outfit on. then halfway through the night you can go powder your nose take your hair out of the rollers touch up your make up ditch the dressing gown just like magic your now lust ."

Ohhhh I like this idea

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