FabSwingers.com forum: What percentage of your social life revolves around Fab ??

By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

And I'm not talking sexy time stuff here just your social time.

I ask because it's fascinated me for some time now ..

Do you mainly socialise with other fabbers , mainly muggles , or a healthy mix of the two ...

And also has fab enriched your social life more or less since you joined ..

Thankyou , Grumps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't take up much of my social time at all but I'm fairly new here. I was asked about a Fab account on almost every club visit I was at before I joined. It intrigued me enough to start an account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on here when at work as it’s dead. And I work probably 15 hours a day. 5/6days a week. So this is my social life

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

5% or less.

I often wonder were people get the time and funds to attend every social and travel across country almost every week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 / 50 still

And I still can't bastard well get rid of you so not all good..... ha ha ha

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"42."

Amazing

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Zero"

Is that by choice??

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"It doesn't take up much of my social time at all but I'm fairly new here. I was asked about a Fab account on almost every club visit I was at before I joined. It intrigued me enough to start an account."

Well the forums will help so good luck

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Only on here when at work as it’s dead. And I work probably 15 hours a day. 5/6days a week. So this is my social life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot. This is my social interaction.

I have a small handful of friends in the real world and not online.

So yes, I log into here to be ignore.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"5% or less.

I often wonder were people get the time and funds to attend every social and travel across country almost every week. "

I guess it's everyone's unique situation I guess but good point

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"50 / 50 still

And I still can't bastard well get rid of you so not all good..... ha ha ha

I'm afraid I ain't going anywhere sorry to disappoint you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too much.

I work from home and having left the army a few years ago my social group is not at it's highest heights.

But the chance to meet honest open and exciting people is only a boon!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Quite a lot. This is my social interaction.

I have a small handful of friends in the real world and not online.

So yes, I log into here to be ignore.

I'm not ignoring you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero fabs a fun distraction for me just like a book ,a film, or computer games are .

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Far too much.

I work from home and having left the army a few years ago my social group is not at it's highest heights.

But the chance to meet honest open and exciting people is only a boon!"

Yes it really is .. I've made friends for life on here ( I hope haha )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to lots of fabbers. Mostly from the forums. But I don’t see (m)any of them. I still see my friends and do fun things with them. Plus most of the people I talk to on fab aren’t from London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In termsof time spent on fab, I waste time on here. If I’m with someone or have time set aside for socialising I wouldn’t be on it.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Muggles mostly

I did attend an amazing wedding recently where I saw a few fabbers but generally I rarely see any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a lot. This is my social interaction.

I have a small handful of friends in the real world and not online.

So yes, I log into here to be ignore.

I'm not ignoring you

Perfect.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I talk to lots of fabbers. Mostly from the forums. But I don’t see (m)any of them. I still see my friends and do fun things with them. Plus most of the people I talk to on fab aren’t from London. "

That's cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely socialise with Fab people, usually it's a social with a view to possibly meeting at some point.

However I have met one lady from Fab for a purely social purpose and we are now trying to arrange another social for later this month with our partners. We are very much looking forward to this as we get on so well and the conversation, laughter and piss taking will be awesome.

NBVN x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Muggles mostly

I did attend an amazing wedding recently where I saw a few fabbers but generally I rarely see any. "

Ah yes the fab wedding. Hope that was fun for you x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Quite a lot. This is my social interaction.

I have a small handful of friends in the real world and not online.

So yes, I log into here to be ignore.

I'm not ignoring you

Perfect.

* Waves *

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Muggles mostly

I did attend an amazing wedding recently where I saw a few fabbers but generally I rarely see any.

Ah yes the fab wedding. Hope that was fun for you x"

It was brilliant

loved the whole weekend.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Zero

Is that by choice??"

Yes.

I have an excellent social life with lots of theatre, concerts, meals with friends, holidays.

I have sex with people from Fab. I don't socialise with any of them.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"We rarely socialise with Fab people, usually it's a social with a view to possibly meeting at some point.

NBVN x"

The laughter and openness and piss taking as what it's all about ..Love it

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Zero

Is that by choice??

Yes.

I have an excellent social life with lots of theatre, concerts, meals with friends, holidays.

I have sex with people from Fab. I don't socialise with any of them. "

Totally fair point tbf

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

my social life is fab.. I dont drink or hang around pubs now... I do gym for an hour a day but other then work I come here and go clubs for my fix :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those that said zero???

And yet you’re logged in here!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

About 2%.

I have made a friend from fab years ago and we talk almost daily but it’s never about fab or sex really. We met with the view to fuck like bunnies but ended up just being buddies.

Besides that, I have the best friendship group and am happy with my social life so I’m not looking to add to that at the moment although there are a couple of people I’d like to meet for coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that said zero???

And yet you’re logged in here!

True but you can work with out socialising just like you can play without socialising .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none.

I cant get a social never mind a meet

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

About 5% Fab related. We have a wonderful circle of friends away from here that we socialise with, night out, bbq's in the summer, house party's and weekends away together.

We have a few very good friends on here that we meet every now and again and we enjoy the social events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"none.

I cant get a social never mind a meet"
you know I’d meet you

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd say a majority of our social life involves other swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very little from fab but most of my social life is with people met through kink

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

70/30 Realife/Fablife

I'm a weekend fab socialiser. Weekdays are family time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4% it may be in the background but its only there as a distraction and a marker

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Probably about 50/50. There’s a group of us who meet most months and there are several friends I met via here that I speak to most days.

Then I have the people I grew up with and used to work with.. it’s a fairly even split.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend more time chatting to fab friends than real life friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much social life is fab

Pre-covid around 15%.

Now abszero. And probably time for me to leave.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It is a 0%, although I spend some time using the forum, it is comedy gold

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Of the little free time I get to socialise, it is split equally between socialising with fabbers, meeting old work colleagues or just time to myself.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"We rarely socialise with Fab people, usually it's a social with a view to possibly meeting at some point.

NBVN x

The laughter and openness and piss taking as what it's all about ..Love it

Well, not so much as I get plagued by random porn, so much time wasted dealing with that

Now, where's NSP?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I post here because I’ve been banned everywhere else.

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Pop on here couple times a day me personally, hubby not sure, never asked, he tells me if there are messages on here

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

-5%

Sometimes if I’m bored I’ll browse the forums instead of going out. That’s why it gets the negative rating

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Maybe like 1%. A much larger percentage is kink scene and club related though.

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over a year ago

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"We rarely socialise with Fab people, usually it's a social with a view to possibly meeting at some point.

NBVN x"

Funnily enough I was about to say the exact same thing, I wonder why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the 80s. Busy with home renovations

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Little. All our freinds from the scene we socialise with we've met in clubs.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Cheers for your posts people . I can't reply to you all but I have read them all I promise ...

Apart from the random porn post obviously

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Cheers for your posts people . I can't reply to you all but I have read them all I promise ...

Apart from the random porn post obviously

Pfft ... you've been off "messaging" friends and family really haven't you??

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By *eaderMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

I'm not here for the social side Facebook is for that. This is a swingers site and we know what we are here for. I do have friends that I've made from here but we don't use this site for socials....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, I do have a few good friends from fab but they're not local to me

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over a year ago

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

About 1% or so

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

People I met on Fab have moved to my “real life” circle… I don’t see them as separate entities, the people I befriend are in my life regardless of what channel I met them on.

Then again, I have been meeting people online for 30 years this year

(obviously not in sex sites- more on university chats, IRC, Bitnet And BBSes, those of a certain age like me who remember them!) so online socialising taken to real life comes naturally to me. I thrive on it. I am hopeless meeting people in more traditional ways lol …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50

and it's going more in the direction of fab/swinging

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Cheers for your posts people . I can't reply to you all but I have read them all I promise ...

Apart from the random porn post obviously

Pfft ... you've been off "messaging" friends and family really haven't you??"

This will never end will it

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"None, I do have a few good friends from fab but they're not local to me

Maybe move closer

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Cheers for your posts people . I can't reply to you all but I have read them all I promise ...

Apart from the random porn post obviously

Pfft ... you've been off "messaging" friends and family really haven't you??

This will never end will it

Oh hell no

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Cheers for your posts people . I can't reply to you all but I have read them all I promise ...

Apart from the random porn post obviously

Pfft ... you've been off "messaging" friends and family really haven't you??

This will never end will it

Oh hell no"

Don't think Posh has seen this so that's something at least

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Cheers for your posts people . I can't reply to you all but I have read them all I promise ...

Apart from the random porn post obviously

Pfft ... you've been off "messaging" friends and family really haven't you??

This will never end will it

Oh hell no

Don't think Posh has seen this so that's something at least

Don’t worry I’ll send it her.. you’re welcome

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Most of it but I’ve not long been in the city and don’t know anyone, so it’s all fab related until I can build other connections

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Sometimes a lot. Sometimes a little. Life ebbs and flows.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

About 1%

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Cheers for your posts people . I can't reply to you all but I have read them all I promise ...

Apart from the random porn post obviously

Pfft ... you've been off "messaging" friends and family really haven't you??

This will never end will it

Oh hell no

Don't think Posh has seen this so that's something at least

Don’t worry I’ll send it her.. you’re welcome

Yeah thanks so much

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Thanks everyone for your contributions ..

Much appreciated and interesting

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Very little, other than online time.

I'd actually like it to take up a bit more time as there are some people on here who I would like to meet in the "real world" for a beer and a natter...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Zero....that's what my RL friends are for x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve got a small amount of Fab friends and loads of vanilla friends, who I see a lot of.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

*message from Posh*

I'm caught in a pornado from Grumpy so I can't reply right now...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"*message from Posh*

I'm caught in a pornado from Grumpy so I can't reply right now...

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0% as a rule we don't socialise as we are only looking for swinging meets.

We have friends and family for socializing with.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Zero, life and time is too short to chat about it. We're here to meet and play. We're also not one of those couples, who I look sexy in lingery and we sit in a club talking about swinging. We're well I'm the fem in the middle of the action playing.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

3%, I probably have one social a month from here (either a group social or a 1:1 social).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that said zero???

And yet you’re logged in here!

True but you can work with out socialising just like you can play without socialising ."

I stand by my comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"none.

I cant get a social never mind a meet you know I’d meet you

I'm to far away though

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Lots. My ex. was super controlling and destroyed my social life.

Fab, allowed me to rebuild one with like minded people, and now all my best friends come from Fab and I feel like I'm part of a community

Love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Lots. My ex. was super controlling and destroyed my social life.

Fab, allowed me to rebuild one with like minded people, and now all my best friends come from Fab and I feel like I'm part of a community

Love it! "

Totally this for me too and the same situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To much haha, but that will all change in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None whatsoever..

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

TBH a majority.i find such high quality people here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

zero in person, but i do enjoy the forums and cam/chat ocassionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually social life very little though a few groups social a year are always good

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

When we first found swinging, it was so new and exciting we couldn't get enough of it.

Clubs, 121 meets, parties, swingers holidays, our non swinging friends started asking questions about why we didn't meet so much anymore.

As time passed it did fall away, we reconnected with friends.

During lockdown, even though I worked through it, Paul worked from home and the devil led him to that dark area of FAB forums and down the rabbit hole he slid.

He's back to work now and the forums are loosing their attraction, we are back to meeting real people, go to real clubs, real parties and next month the real and one and only Cap D'Agde.

So, all in all, about 5%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.0016%

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

They lasted long whoever this was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very small fraction.

Fab is more an indulgence, I have quite an active and busy life away from here.

I'm fortunate that I have a lover who I can have the social aspect too. Now weather this blurs the lines I couldn't say.

But for me I like to keep the two apart. I personally think it's healthy otherwise it's just an endless cycle

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I’m always lurking

I have made some really super friends here some I get to have naughty moments with but I socialise with most of them. Some remain online contacts due to distance & life priorities but I’m glad I’ve met them all.

My non fab and fab life never used to cross over but they do a little bit these days and now I’m older I’m not as bothered about compartmentalising my life into different boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the majority of my social interaction. I haven’t seen most of my friends for years and few of them live near me.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

So to find the percentage, one needs to divide the fab social time by total social time, right. By that logic I get 100%, from 100×(0/0)

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