FabSwingers.com forum: Looks vs Personality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m wondering, if you had to give a percentage on it, how much would you sway either way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy...shallow people go 80-20. The less shallow go 20-80

Simples...Next thread. Your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you taking first attraction OP?

Then I would say 60/40. A bad personality really puts me off but the looks have to be there in the first place. No one is going to talk me in to bed either way

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

50 50

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wasn’t really thinking of anything in particular; say you get a message, how much from the personality of the message is weighed against the face picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both required, equally important. Looks draw you in but personality keeps.you there. One without the other and it's a no from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

52-48 in favour of looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn’t really thinking of anything in particular; say you get a message, how much from the personality of the message is weighed against the face picture? "

In this Instance then the personal plays a huge roll for me to want to continue a conversation with them

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

In what context are we talking about OP? Hook-up? FWB? Relationship?

And at what stage of the particular relationship? It changes. Initially looks are massively important for me...I'm not going to really bother finding out what their personality is like if there's no attraction there. The further along I progress in the relationship the more important personality becomes, particularly so in the case of a romantic relationship.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We all look for something different And we also communicate on an different wavelengths making this question irrelevant.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

50/50 x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In what context are we talking about OP? Hook-up? FWB? Relationship?

Again, nothing in particular; I was just thinking on fab that initial message you send, do you read it, then look at the picture? Do you look at the picture first, then read the message and then respond if you like both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction can come from a bloody decent conversation.

I like a face that I find attractive, but if there’s nothing else there - no common ground , then you could be Henry and I’d not continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a meet 80/20. I need to find someone attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with out passing the look stage you do get to the personality i agree both are important but 50/50 cant have one with out the other

sexual atrraction first then personality i would not meet some one that i did not find attractive .. just as i would not meet a guy im attracted to with no personality ...

as for saying people are shallow i think the person saying the are shallow is wrong people will swing how they want to swing its not down to others to tell them any different

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Look get my immediate attention, the first bite is often with the eye. But (based on experience) personality, outlook and soul is what drags me into the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70/30 in favour of personality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A shag - looks

A wifey - personality

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

"Are you taking first attraction OP?

Then I would say 60/40. A bad personality really puts me off but the looks have to be there in the first place. No one is going to talk me in to bed either way"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be anyone off them depends on what the deal is

One night

Fb fwb or realship

Like for instance

For a one night looks or personal along can do it

For a fb cam be the same

For a fwb or realship both have to be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably close to 50/50... But have a high bar on both. I deffo swipe left a lot more than right... And will swipe left based on the profile (which i do scan)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a meet 80/20. I need to find someone attractive. "

The shallow end of the pool is too the left

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yep I'm 100% looks

He can have the most awesome personality, but If my flaps are not fluttering into the friendzone he will go...

I've settled for less before with guys I'm only slightly attracted to and that was poor behaviour from me to him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I honestly don’t think I could get hard if I didn’t find someone’s personality attractive though, like you have to have a spark otherwise it’s no fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a meet 80/20. I need to find someone attractive.

The shallow end of the pool is too the left

Firstly, my preferences are not your concern.

Secondly, if I’m going to fuck someone, I need to be attracted. I’m not marrying them.

Take your judgemental shit elsewhere.

Bye bye babes mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep I'm 100% looks

He can have the most awesome personality, but If my flaps are not fluttering into the friendzone he will go...

I've settled for less before with guys I'm only slightly attracted to and that was poor behaviour from me to him. "

Oooh be careful, you’ll be called shallow! Didn’t you know that you have to fuck everyone?

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

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30% looks

70% Personality

Personality is more important, I've been attracted to people but once they show who they really are they make me gag and not in a good way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

70/30/10 personality/looks/math

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easy...shallow people go 80-20. The less shallow go 20-80

Simples...Next thread. Your welcome"

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Like sixty for looks I think. I have to have the physical attractions obviously but at the same time if they're a gigantic arse then im going to lose interest very quickly.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"70/30/10 personality/looks/math "

Who doesn’t love a bit of maths?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100/100. If I think anything less, I am not getting naked with them.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Yep I'm 100% looks

He can have the most awesome personality, but If my flaps are not fluttering into the friendzone he will go...

I've settled for less before with guys I'm only slightly attracted to and that was poor behaviour from me to him.

Oooh be careful, you’ll be called shallow! Didn’t you know that you have to fuck everyone?

I'll own that

I couldn't imagine telling a future sexual partner that I thought he was 80% gorgeous but made up the extra 20% with his personality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"70/30/10 personality/looks/math "

Hahaha.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

50 50

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep I'm 100% looks

He can have the most awesome personality, but If my flaps are not fluttering into the friendzone he will go...

I've settled for less before with guys I'm only slightly attracted to and that was poor behaviour from me to him.

Oooh be careful, you’ll be called shallow! Didn’t you know that you have to fuck everyone?

I'll own that

I couldn't imagine telling a future sexual partner that I thought he was 80% gorgeous but made up the extra 20% with his personality...

I’ve been told something like this before, I took it as a compliment…but on the same token I’ve also been called an organic dildo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was just sex then looks probably 75/25.

For a relationship it’s 50/50. I need to be attracted to them but if we don’t hate all the same things it’s not going to work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep I'm 100% looks

He can have the most awesome personality, but If my flaps are not fluttering into the friendzone he will go...

I've settled for less before with guys I'm only slightly attracted to and that was poor behaviour from me to him.

Oooh be careful, you’ll be called shallow! Didn’t you know that you have to fuck everyone?

I'll own that

I couldn't imagine telling a future sexual partner that I thought he was 80% gorgeous but made up the extra 20% with his personality...

Haha I get you. I’m not into fucking people who I don’t find attractive, great personality or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Socially personality 99% looks 1%

Sexually looks 98% personality 2%

Relationship looks 100% personality 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The math ain’t mathing in this thread

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Yep I'm 100% looks

He can have the most awesome personality, but If my flaps are not fluttering into the friendzone he will go...

I've settled for less before with guys I'm only slightly attracted to and that was poor behaviour from me to him.

Oooh be careful, you’ll be called shallow! Didn’t you know that you have to fuck everyone?

I'll own that

I couldn't imagine telling a future sexual partner that I thought he was 80% gorgeous but made up the extra 20% with his personality...

Haha I get you. I’m not into fucking people who I don’t find attractive, great personality or not.

Exactly

His looks draw me into arousal, and his personality creates feelings. If he's a cunt then those feelings quickly turn to hate, regardless of how pretty he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually looks 98% personality 2%"

So they turn up with 98% of zero personality and you’d have sex with them if their looks are on point ?

*asking for a fr…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be a mix of both looks/attraction and personality for me, no point in them being drop dead gorgeous and then being arrogant etc that’s just a total turn off!

Percentage wise probably 50/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 03/05/22 20:19:14]"
. Deleted by mistake.

Does it matter anyway….?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Depends what for.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Sexually looks 98% personality 2%

So they turn up with 98% of zero personality and you’d have sex with them if their looks are on point ?

*asking for a fr…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends what for. "

To wash your car.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I need both but not in what percentage.

I need to be attracted to someone before I can have fun with them and the personality (and good sex) will keep me going back (if they want me also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site"

That’s shallow, apparently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

Shallow’s not a bad thing if he’s hung like a hamster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

Shallow’s not a bad thing if he’s hung like a hamster

Mmmm a hamster you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

Shallow’s not a bad thing if he’s hung like a hamster

Mmmm a hamster you say?

I nearly said gerbil but I didn’t want to start that off again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

Shallow’s not a bad thing if he’s hung like a hamster

Mmmm a hamster you say?

I nearly said gerbil but I didn’t want to start that off again

I believe gerbils are not as well endowed as hamsters but I may be mistaken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

Shallow’s not a bad thing if he’s hung like a hamster

Mmmm a hamster you say?

I nearly said gerbil but I didn’t want to start that off again

I believe gerbils are not as well endowed as hamsters but I may be mistaken

Gerry would have known.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I need both but not in what percentage.

I need to be attracted to someone before I can have fun with them and the personality (and good sex) will keep me going back (if they want me also

Basically this yes

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By *rilogyMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

Think he likes you lol

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

Depends on the situation really, at a club it’s probably more 90% looks and 10% personality just to make sure they aren’t a complete bellend.

If we are being invited to someone’s home or inviting someone to ours for the night we need to find them 100% attractive and find their personality 100% compatible with ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating. "

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wondering why I’m the only one who’s been called shallow when others have much higher looks percentages (not that they are shallow either btw)?

That dude clearly can’t handle his feelings for me, obviously

Think he likes you lol"

I think so too, like pulling my hair in the playground

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating. "

Yep same, could you kiss a face you weren’t attracted to?

It is shallow but like you we aren’t looking for love and marriage.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I need to like someone's personality to want to have sex with them, that initial fanny flutter from looks can be sorted with a minute with the wand.

So both for me, possibly slightly more personality. Not doing random percentages because that means diddly squat and it fluctuates depending on how horny I am and what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site"

IT’S A SEX SITEEEEEEEEEEEWWEEEKEEEEE

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I need to like someone's personality to want to have sex with them, that initial fanny flutter from looks can be sorted with a minute with the wand.

So both for me, possibly slightly more personality. Not doing random percentages because that means diddly squat and it fluctuates depending on how horny I am and what I want."

Completely agree with this statement. Well said.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

IT’S A SEX SITEEEEEEEEEEEWWEEEKEEEEE"

I don’t agree with that either. I don’t do hook ups but I still need to like the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

That’s shallow, apparently!

Everton supporter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

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NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

IT’S A SEX SITEEEEEEEEEEEWWEEEKEEEEE"

Was thinking... that means tinder is only a dating site and nobody on tinder has ever treated it as a sex site...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

I’m just here to make sure she’s not the only one getting slated tbh. Sorry you had to be the victim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

IT’S A SEX SITEEEEEEEEEEEWWEEEKEEEEE

Was thinking... that means tinder is only a dating site and nobody on tinder has ever treated it as a sex site...

If you’re looking for something deep, tinder is where it’s at

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Depends what for.

To wash your car. "

Better be damn hot, 99% to wash my car, as demitri at the car wash will attest too.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

I’m just here to make sure she’s not the only one getting slated tbh. Sorry you had to be the victim

Haha I can take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

Indeed

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

If I’m not as attracted to their personality as their looks then things will not work for me. An unattractive personality is an instant turn off, no matter how pretty they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

I’m just here to make sure she’s not the only one getting slated tbh. Sorry you had to be the victim

Awww my hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

I’m just here to make sure she’s not the only one getting slated tbh. Sorry you had to be the victim

Awww my hero

I’m king of the white knights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks draw you in their personality is the gravity that keeps you there.

If it's someone I'm going to bump uglies with at least.

If it's friendship then it’s 100% personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

I’m just here to make sure she’s not the only one getting slated tbh. Sorry you had to be the victim

Awww my hero

I’m king of the white knights.

Wear that crown with pride my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A ball gag and a hood and neither matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

Are you standing up or doing that weird swim people do in the shallow end?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A ball gag and a hood and neither matter

I used to say on my profile that if you find me ugly it doesn’t matter because blindfolds are one of my listed interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the purposes of fab, I can’t have sex with someone I don’t find attractive.

I’ll jump in that shallow end too. Might break my legs doing it, it’s fuckin dangerous is that.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Can I say that you're absolutely lush, don't want to appear shallow

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

Are you standing up or doing that weird swim people do in the shallow end?"

the weird swim. And a few handstands

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

To be honest I have to find the person attractive to want to meet, personality is important in the sense I have to be able to converse with you but if I’m not attracted to you it wouldn’t go much further

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"A ball gag and a hood and neither matter

I used to say on my profile that if you find me ugly it doesn’t matter because blindfolds are one of my listed interests

This made me chuckle

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

50/50 without either there will be no sexy time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

Are you standing up or doing that weird swim people do in the shallow end?

the weird swim. And a few handstands

Correct answer. Everyone knows that the only acceptable way to manoeuvre in the shallow end.

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over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Can I say that you're absolutely lush, don't want to appear shallow

Aww thankyou

Come and join me and Nora in the shallow end, the water is warm

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

IT’S A SEX SITEEEEEEEEEEEWWEEEKEEEEE

Was thinking... that means tinder is only a dating site and nobody on tinder has ever treated it as a sex site...

If you’re looking for something deep, tinder is where it’s at

Yeah I thought that ... Thanks

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

50-50 you always have to open the door before you walk through it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

Can I join you

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Can I say that you're absolutely lush, don't want to appear shallow

Aww thankyou

Come and join me and Nora in the shallow end, the water is warm

Can I join the shallow party

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Can I say that you're absolutely lush, don't want to appear shallow

Aww thankyou

Come and join me and Nora in the shallow end, the water is warm

Can I join the shallow party

Of course

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Looks for me initially. If I don’t like your face it’s not happening. If that’s shallow I’ll take the slating.

Only me being slated so far, think you’re safe

Haha. I’ve just read the thread. I always comment then read it backwards

NORA!!!!! The shallow end of the pool is that way!

Me and Liverpool girl are having a lovely time down this end

. It’s where all the funs at

Can I join you

Yes! It’s full of hotties down this end now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avert your gaze ladies while I pop my mankini on.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Avert your gaze ladies while I pop my mankini on. "

Good grief. I won’t cope

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By *ociferu69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Personality always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just sit and look cool on the loungers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Attraction can come from a bloody decent conversation.

I like a face that I find attractive, but if there’s nothing else there - no common ground , then you could be Henry and I’d not continue.

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

IT’S A SEX SITEEEEEEEEEEEWWEEEKEEEEE

Was thinking... that means tinder is only a dating site and nobody on tinder has ever treated it as a sex site...

If you’re looking for something deep, tinder is where it’s at

Yeah I thought that ... Thanks

You know what I meant by deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Avert your gaze ladies while I pop my mankini on.

Good grief. I won’t cope "

You’re right, I apologise, nobody should have to suffer that.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m just not that fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical attraction

No here to find a life partner and this isn't a dating site

That’s shallow, apparently!

We're gonna fight

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I’m just not that fussy

PM incoming!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"52-48 in favour of looks. "
I only care about how she voted in the EU referendum

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

"I’m just not that fussy

I’m that case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just not that fussy

Just outside the age range to slide in the DMs

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"52-48 in favour of looks. I only care about how she voted in the EU referendum

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Me, too!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I’m just not that fussy

I want to retract this statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"52-48 in favour of looks. I only care about how she voted in the EU referendum

Me, too!

If this was tinder we’d be a match!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I’m just not that fussy

I want to retract this statement

Damnit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just not that fussy

I want to retract this statement

No no no no no wait, I’m just spell checking my Dm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Looks is what attracts them...personality is what makes them stay

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% of everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The take home message I’ve taken from this entire thread is inject as much personality as possible into your message just in case

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked..."

So you're saying there's a chance?...

LvM

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over a year ago

"Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked...

So you're saying there's a chance?...

LvM"
ruling myself out.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked..."

Echo this!

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

"Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked...

So you're saying there's a chance?...

LvM"

I think you two have the luck of a double dose

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

"Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked...

So you're saying there's a chance?...

LvMruling myself out. "

Last time I checked, i liked you

... and as she writes this thinks this could be read as an exceptionally backhanded compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's 60 personality and 40 looks. I can't sleep with men I can't talk to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always personality over looks for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% personality. I like to take them roughly from behind with the lights off so looks are immaterial really, but I do like a nice chat about French literature and string theory afterwards so its personality all the way for me.

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over a year ago

"Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked...

So you're saying there's a chance?...

LvMruling myself out.

Last time I checked, i liked you

... and as she writes this thinks this could be read as an exceptionally backhanded compliment

"
I'll take it.

New tinder profile: "not a dick. May be unattractive." CW

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

"Well I've never slept with a hottie I thought was a dick. But i have 100% slept with unattractive people I liked...

So you're saying there's a chance?...

LvM"

I so read this like Lloyd Christmas

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Some people you are instantly sexually attracted to but others are just ok but you get to know the then one day think WTF! How could I have not have fancied her? she’s absolutely fucking gorgeous. Is that just me or do others have this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone has a personality of a wet blanket you won't get that far .

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's probably 50/50 for us. Either a personality or a look that we don't like would be a no-go for us.

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