FabSwingers.com forum: Is anal still taboo?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like BJ's were 20 years ago?

Is it a valentine's Day only thing for you or do you enjoy it every session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely not.. i

anal, hence its not just a rare occasion thing in our household.

its like when im hangry and need fed.. if i don't get my ass pounded on the regular, i turn into a very grumpy fairy!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No it's not. It's more rare to find someone who doesn't have anal sex/hasn't then has on Fab.

Maybe in the outside world it is still a bit but not on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male anal sex ordinary! X

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nope, just shove it up there, she'll thank you for taking the initiative

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope, just shove it up there, she'll thank you for taking the initiative

LvM"

LVM I'm still waiting for you to come over and touch your toes

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I don’t think it’s taboo. I’ve never done it but I’d say that’s more because I’m a prude and a wimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who your analizing for some its

for some its

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I don’t think it’s taboo. I’ve never done it but I’d say that’s more because I’m a prude and a wimp

High five to the prudish wimpery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think it's ever been really. Just a normal part of sex xx

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"Nope, just shove it up there, she'll thank you for taking the initiative

LvM

LVM I'm still waiting for you to come over and touch your toes

Can I lick yours instead?

LvM

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"I don’t think it’s taboo. I’ve never done it but I’d say that’s more because I’m a prude and a wimp

High five to the prudish wimpery.

Thank you! This is why you’re my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heartening responses here I still find it somewhat of a taboo as not all like it I’m not sure if I like it myself (giving) because asking seems a taboo or if it’s a let’s try it scenario then I tend to go with caution in doing so may miss out on experiencing the full pleasure it could bring us both? I suppose bring open and frank in discussion is a positive way to go But I’m encouraged by comments so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s more taboo to find a lady who’ll let me put my balls in as well these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BJs were taboo in 2002? I don't remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sigh ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s more taboo to find a lady who’ll let me put my balls in as well these days

Haha I've seen that happen, I watch too much porn

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London

"No it's not. It's more rare to find someone who doesn't have anal sex/hasn't then has on Fab.

Maybe in the outside world it is still a bit but not on here.

We can thank porn for this. If you're ever in a debate about porn good/bad then bring this one up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, im not keen on giving it but its pretty normal now i do find most women (from experience) do seem to act like its a treat letting us guys do it

i wonder if they see the look of 'aah do i have too on my face'

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t think it’s taboo at all. I can’t stand it but it’s not taboo. I’d say I was in the minority!

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Its not only the women who enjoy anal, guys like it too.the only problem is finding a female willing to use a strapon on guys, as they all seem to want to take but not give

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Don't think it's taboo at all, even in mainstream. Some people just don't like it or care much for it.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It depends where you do it. Definitely frowned upon in the freezer aisle at our local Tesco...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been that taboo remember girls loving it in the 80s/90s as much as now it just wasn't mentioned in mainstream media

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Blow jobs and anal weren't taboo 25 years ago let alone 20

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Wife loves it and im happy to oblige

im very lucky

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Sigh ..."

...what happened, did you just get softly bummed?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Blow jobs and anal weren't taboo 25 years ago let alone 20"

Or 35!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends where you do it. Definitely frowned upon in the freezer aisle at our local Tesco..."

Are you talking from experience there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think it’s taboo at all. I can’t stand it but it’s not taboo. I’d say I was in the minority! "

I won't do it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it taboo? Hmmm

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Like BJ's were 20 years ago?

Is it a valentine's Day only thing for you or do you enjoy it every session

My fucktoy gets it every week, and would know she's upset me in some way, if she didn't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like BJ's were 20 years ago?

Is it a valentine's Day only thing for you or do you enjoy it every session

My fucktoy gets it every week, and would know she's upset me in some way, if she didn't get it

Like if she has a puncture?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Like BJ's were 20 years ago?

Is it a valentine's Day only thing for you or do you enjoy it every session

My fucktoy gets it every week, and would know she's upset me in some way, if she didn't get it

Like if she has a puncture?"

Got myself a crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living doll......

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By *ickedWhimsWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Sigh ...

...what happened, did you just get softly bummed?

I don't think can get "softly" bummed!

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By *iking 8Man
over a year ago

Romford

I don’t thinks it’s taboo but I don’t think most of the people advertise the fact they enjoy it lol fabers excluded lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gracious no

Not for this hot fox

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By *ickedWhimsWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Depends on the person. Depends on the penis!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"BJs were taboo in 2002? I don't remember that. "

Depends who you were married to that year I suppose.

Around that time I was probably averaging around...oh I don't know......zero a month!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BJs were taboo in 2002? I don't remember that. "

I got my first one around then. I’m sure it was pretty common.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Sigh ...

...what happened, did you just get softly bummed?

I don't think can get "softly" bummed!"

No, you can.

You have to put on the debut album from Dido.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Not really, it's pretty vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like BJ's were 20 years ago?

Is it a valentine's Day only thing for you or do you enjoy it every session

My fucktoy gets it every week, and would know she's upset me in some way, if she didn't get it

Like if she has a puncture?

Got myself a crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living doll......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BJs were taboo in 2002? I don't remember that.

Depends who you were married to that year I suppose.

Around that time I was probably averaging around...oh I don't know......zero a month!

Giving or receiving?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

It depends on who you’re with, I suppose. For some women it’s still a big no no.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"It depends on who you’re with, I suppose. For some women it’s still a big no no."

This, only the opposite - for some men it's still a big no no

Mrs

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Depends on the person I'm with, for some it's a definite yes for some it's a no....especially if they push the issue about doing it, then it's a definite when hell freezes over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it taboo? I didn’t think it was….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really, it's pretty vanilla "

I'd say it's more Marmite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really, it's pretty vanilla

I'd say it's more Marmite."

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Not really, it's pretty vanilla

I'd say it's more Marmite."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s taboo at all anymore and I don’t think anything is really taboo in fab terms really. I’ve tried it but discovered for medical reasons that I can’t. I’ve even had guys say no thanks because i can’t and so I don’t think it’s taboo at all, in fact it seems for some it’s the one thing they just want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s taboo at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more of a second date thing I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its like alot if things now are spoken about especially with social media & internet where as before it wasnt out there as much but did happen behind clised doors. Also the more we hear or see stuff the more we want to try it.

When i was younger i never even thought about anal, just like rimming, never did i think id lick a womans ass but now its a different story.

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By *nemichaelMan
over a year ago

kings lynn

I first had anal back in the 70s. We were about 18 and it was a rare time we had a house empty we had already had sex. See was laying on her front, I was starting to get randy again and was caressing her bum. I then laid on top of her and was just rubbing in her crack for a few minutes when she moved and took it in her arse. I asked if it was ok she just said yes but not to deep. She didn't cum but I did, after I finished she said you have got to lick now I need it. She hadn't acted like that before but it turned her so much. We did it regularly after that she never cum even when I played with her but, said it just felt so naughty doing it.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

On what planet were blow jobs ever taboo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, don’t think I can eat someone out without having a bit of a fuck about and rimming them… plus it seems to be a thing that a lot of women in my opinion/experiences enjoy, Just put the tip in and let her back up and watch how wild she becomes

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By *eaqueenWoman
over a year ago

Heathrow

"Blow jobs and anal weren't taboo 25 years ago let alone 20

Or 35!"

Or 40!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everytime but there is no taboo for us. We probably have more anal than BJs.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"On what planet were blow jobs ever taboo?"

Probably this one, like back in Victorian times or whatever. It was probably something that went on more openly / known about in whore-houses, and only ever done bedind closed doors in secret by the more 'respectable' folk. Very secret, never talked out, hush-hush and all that...

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I don't think it's taboo, but not something I'm personally bothered doing either.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Definitely more of a second base thing I would say

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I only like it with certain penis’…Ahem…I mean people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think it’s taboo at all. I can’t stand it but it’s not taboo. I’d say I was in the minority! "

Me too..

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By *ickedWhimsWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Sigh ...

...what happened, did you just get softly bummed?

I don't think you can get "softly" bummed!

No, you can.

You have to put on the debut album from Dido.

Gonna put my willy in your bum, music on, see what happens! #SoftlySoftly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky and successful at introducing some older divorced ladies to the pleasures of anal for the first time. First some clit lucking then rimming then introduce a finger into the cunt and then whilst still giving oral at the same time tease her arse hole with another well lubed finger. I bring them to climax finger fucking both holes while giving oral. After that they realise that they've been missing out on anal stimulation and it's not long before they want a cock instead of a finger. Of course one major factor is their arse hole is much tighter than their well fucked pussies so they feel the actual penetration much more anf the initial pain is part of the pleasure they get of being well and truely fucked.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Of course one major factor is their arse hole is much tighter than their well fucked pussies so they feel the actual penetration much more"

Erm… #notadoctor and all that, but I’m pretty sure that’s not how the female genital anatomy works…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends where you do it. Definitely frowned upon in the freezer aisle at our local Tesco..."

But its acceptable in the meat and poultry aisle? Or are all Tescos not the same rules as ours..??

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

" Of course one major factor is their arse hole is much tighter than their well fucked pussies"

Wow, just wow!

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