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They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.  | |||
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"Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women. " Nope. Put all that in the bin. Nope.  | |||
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"Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women. Nope. Put all that in the bin. Nope. "Agreed. I have no issues with meeting bi guys but I do have issues with this insinuation and if anything comments like this just feed others biphobia. | |||
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"I haven’t seen this but I have seen a lot of guys listed as straight who then turn out to be bi " Yeah me too | |||
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"Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women. Nope. Put all that in the bin. Nope. "Yep, straight in the bin!! We are only looking for Bi guys, but definitely not ones with an "it's just easier" or "I don't mind sucking dick" attitude 
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"I can't say I've seen any bitter or negative comments about bi guys. But people are entitled to have preferences. Plenty of women and couples are happy to play with bi guys, check out posts about MMF threesomes and you'll see that. " "Im glad im not bi-sexual, I couldnt stand being rejected by men as well as women!" -Bernard Manning. Seriously though I would say 90% of guys that contact me have "straight" on their profile, and ive met couples who didnt want reviews left as they fear being castigated by other couples. Just be yourself ,you will be found if others are looking for the same as you. | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here. "Sounds as if you've not read my initial post properly or misinterpreted it. There are also bi guys and Tvs on here wanting to meet other bi guys and other TVs. Fabswingers isn't just about meeting women. | |||
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"so a bi guy is only bi because he cant get with women ??? wow .. however there is some truth in this with some fab bi guys who only turn to men for relief you hear it all the time guys saying no im str8 i only did that for relief ..oh ok " It seems you have misread my initial post. No where did I say bi guys are only bi because they can't get women. But the bit about bi married guys and wife's is very common and mentioned a lot. I'm divorced by the way. | |||
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"If anything I have seen more profile that look for specificly bi guys so I don't know where you have seen this. " Try searching for couples and singkr women.. it's often specificaly mentioned ie no bi guys. | |||
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"We’re only looking for bi guys Everyone is welcome here as long as they’re respectful of others and their preferences "Good to know | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about " Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. | |||
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"I can't say I've seen any bitter or negative comments about bi guys. But people are entitled to have preferences. Plenty of women and couples are happy to play with bi guys, check out posts about MMF threesomes and you'll see that. "Im glad im not bi-sexual, I couldnt stand being rejected by men as well as women!" -Bernard Manning. Seriously though I would say 90% of guys that contact me have "straight" on their profile, and ive met couples who didnt want reviews left as they fear being castigated by other couples. Just be yourself ,you will be found if others are looking for the same as you. "Totally this with the review / veri mark. I find it rather entertaining and let them know at meet my thoughts on that Part | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. " People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it" People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. | |||
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"so a bi guy is only bi because he cant get with women ??? wow .. however there is some truth in this with some fab bi guys who only turn to men for relief you hear it all the time guys saying no im str8 i only did that for relief ..oh ok It seems you have misread my initial post. No where did I say bi guys are only bi because they can't get women. But the bit about bi married guys and wife's is very common and mentioned a lot. I'm divorced by the way." Maybe you mis-wrote it then. Go and have another look at ALL the people that replied, not just the selected handful that you've just replied to. | |||
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"so a bi guy is only bi because he cant get with women ??? wow .. however there is some truth in this with some fab bi guys who only turn to men for relief you hear it all the time guys saying no im str8 i only did that for relief ..oh ok It seems you have misread my initial post. No where did I say bi guys are only bi because they can't get women. But the bit about bi married guys and wife's is very common and mentioned a lot. I'm divorced by the way." I don't think anyone else on the thread (including some bi guys) agreed with you about married guys. | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. " Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. " I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members. | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members. " See a democracy | |||
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"Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. " Only the people of Uxbridge & South Ruislip voted for or against him - in fact, I’m considering a move to that neck of the woods just so I can vote for someone other than him next time! | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members. See a democracy " I don't deny it's a democrat. I'm just disagreeing with your assertion that the public voted for Boris. The public vote for their MP, not for their PM. | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members. See a democracy I don't deny it's a democrat. I'm just disagreeing with your assertion that the public voted for Boris. The public vote for their MP, not for their PM. " I’m not saying anything about him. It’s a hard job but the public vote for our elected MPs, everyone knows who is in charge before we vote. Responsibility has to lie with the public | |||
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"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members. See a democracy I don't deny it's a democrat. I'm just disagreeing with your assertion that the public voted for Boris. The public vote for their MP, not for their PM. I’m not saying anything about him. It’s a hard job but the public vote for our elected MPs, everyone knows who is in charge before we vote. Responsibility has to lie with the public " "People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it" is what you said and what I am replying to. And I still disagree with you. People last voted for their MP in December 2019 and thus the party they wanted to be in power. Since then Boris has...well he's lied to parliament over and over for a start. Why should the public take responsibility for that? | |||
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"I've seen several profiles with quite bitter negative comments about bi guys, saying they should not be on here and to stick to fabguys site. Clearly, they haven't understood that BI means a guy likes cock and cunt. So a swingers site where both men and women participate is appropriate not inappropriate. Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women. 100% gay guys are not interested in women so wouldn't masquerade as bi. So ladies, don't dismiss bi guys..you could be missing out on some genuinely nice people and nice cocks too. " Sorry op thats a very twisted view. I have known i was bi since i was young and not when i stopped getting sex off my exwife  this post is not going to do you any favours or turn cpls whoes preference is not for bi guys to turm pro bi guys. This is a swinging site for gods sake where nothing sexually is fixed or transparemt. With that attitude i think you had better stick to fab guys as you said guys are easier which is complete bollocks as i found guys can be as awkward as cpls and women alike. Its up to the individuals what their sexuality preference is. You cant make them change that but putting up a post to make them feel guilty. You are not helping yourself or other bi guys by creating this post as it comes across as bitterness towards the ones who do not want to meet you. | |||
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"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc "Mate 90% of guys that message me say straight. I apply the system of simply viewing everyone’s profile as mostly not accurate in some shape | |||
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"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc
Mate 90% of guys that message me say straight. I apply the system of simply viewing everyone’s profile as mostly not accurate in some shape " | |||
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"I've seen several profiles with quite bitter negative comments about bi guys, saying they should not be on here and to stick to fabguys site. Clearly, they haven't understood that BI means a guy likes cock and cunt. So a swingers site where both men and women participate is appropriate not inappropriate. Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women. 100% gay guys are not interested in women so wouldn't masquerade as bi. So ladies, don't dismiss bi guys..you could be missing out on some genuinely nice people and nice cocks too. " Nice one | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here. "Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.  | |||
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"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc
Mate 90% of guys that message me say straight. I apply the system of simply viewing everyone’s profile as mostly not accurate in some shape "I get straight males messaging me yet I dont believe Im listed as looking for them. You are stunning btw  | |||
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"I’m so confused by this thread. " Yep. Complaints about peoples preferences. Madness. Ive found as many MF couples stating "only bi men" as those stating "no bi men". Its helpful! | |||
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"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc "You can stop that with your mail filters. I've never had mail from any guys, despite my extremely cute tushy. | |||
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"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc
You can stop that with your mail filters.
I've never had mail from any guys, despite my extremely cute tushy."Ah, brilliant, thank you. Just hope theres no thread complaining about me changing the settings... | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here. "I know, it's as if genuinely feeling same /opposite sex attraction and affection isn't the reason we're bisexual, it's only because women don't want to have sex with us. Ironically, the amount of married sneak-arounds over on fab guys makes meeting anyone genuine quite difficult. Especially Gay men, as I'm automatically viewed with suspicion...  | |||
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"I personally haven't seen any profiles slating bi guys, or women for that matter. I have met men who are bi and very nice they were too." Oh they're there believe me! Their loss, I'm hot stuff! | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.
I know, it's as if genuinely feeling same /opposite sex attraction and affection isn't the reason we're bisexual,
it's only because women don't want to have sex with us.
Ironically, the amount of married sneak-arounds over on fab guys makes meeting anyone genuine quite difficult. Especially Gay men, as I'm automatically viewed with suspicion... "I don't believe that the OP is right about all bisexual men. Perhaps it's just his experience. All of the bi-men I know and have chatted to here genuinely have an attraction to men. I just as likely to be attracted to a bisexual man as I am to a straight one. A few couples here have spoken of negative experiences with a bi guy which means they view them with suspicion. Some people here have a negative view of bi guys because there is a stereotype that they're more likely to have STDs. I never knew this before I joined Fab and find it pretty shocking. Happy to be corrected by any bi-men if I've got this wrong. | |||
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"Just hide it. In my experience, most people looking for bi guys are aware of the stigma and don’t care if you have straight on your profile. The ones not looking for bi people won’t know. Win win " Well yeh if someone's happy staying in the closet that's up to them... But then again Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual activists in the seventies and eighties fought long and hard to achieve visibility and acceptance so personally I think you're setting us back forty years but hey... | |||
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"Every now and then someone posts the same thing about a particular group they are in. They feel attacked, offended or disliked. We're living in such hypersensitive era at the moment. People don't hate others, they just have preferences which exclude your demographic. If someone says something offensive just get on with your life." If you'd ever been attacked and abused(both physically and verbally in my case) because of your sexuity you might understand why it's an issue for some. Just saying. | |||
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"Just hide it. In my experience, most people looking for bi guys are aware of the stigma and don’t care if you have straight on your profile. The ones not looking for bi people won’t know. Win win Well yeh if someone's happy staying in the closet that's up to them... But then again Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual activists in the seventies and eighties fought long and hard to achieve visibility and acceptance so personally I think you're setting us back forty years but hey... "I think they fought for acceptance in the eyes of the law and society, you know, so they’d stop being imprisoned and chemically castrated. Not to get meets on a swinging website But if I am, sorry guys | |||
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"Just hide it. In my experience, most people looking for bi guys are aware of the stigma and don’t care if you have straight on your profile. The ones not looking for bi people won’t know. Win win Well yeh if someone's happy staying in the closet that's up to them... But then again Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual activists in the seventies and eighties fought long and hard to achieve visibility and acceptance so personally I think you're setting us back forty years but hey...
I think they fought for acceptance in the eyes of the law and society, you know, so they’d stop being imprisoned and chemically castrated. Not to get meets on a swinging website
But if I am, sorry guys "I'd emphasise your point "in the eyes of society"... Don't you feel you're feeding the stigma by doing what you do? Personally if I felt I had to lie about my Sexuality to someone just so they'd accept me then, to be honest I wouldn't want to meet that person. | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.
Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her. "Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy. Then the men fuck them. Cock rules. | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.
Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.
Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy.
Then the men fuck them. Cock rules. "Some people think you're a serious person, you know. | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.
Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.
Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy.
Then the men fuck them. Cock rules.
Some people think you're a serious person, you know. "I know.  | |||
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"So what about the women that are married and bi?,is that different then " Bisexual women don't exist. We've already established that... | |||
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"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.
They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.
Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.
Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy.
Then the men fuck them. Cock rules.
Some people think you're a serious person, you know.
I know. "Scary | |||
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"Absolutely it’s for all our desires ! The fab guy site is gay only and the interaction ladies also enjoy from us Bisexual guys is mindblowing ! "I'd have to agree with you there. I find the forum on FG to be literally only half as interesting because of the lack of female input. If it's was FabLGBT maybe it'd be a more inclusive online space Again, ironically you still get loads of "sniffing the wife's knickers" and "dirty wife chat" threads. Really pisses all the Gay guys off and to be honest I can't blame them! I see those threads and I'm like "eeewww, creepy!" myself! | |||
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"You might be able to blame your ex-wife for some things, perhaps many things, but definitely not your bisexuality! " but they do constantly. Check out fab guys, I'm in a sexless marriage so I've turned to guys brigade lol | |||
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"You might be able to blame your ex-wife for some things, perhaps many things, but definitely not your bisexuality! but they do constantly. Check out fab guys, I'm in a sexless marriage so I've turned to guys brigade lol" Yep. And they're crap shags usually! | |||
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