FabSwingers.com forum: Really average

By *yron69 OP Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Is there any coming to terms with realising you’re really average at everything? Or is it better than just being shit?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It depenss what lens you choose to look through.

I'm the best at being me. Untouchable. World class.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Why is average so bad? Surely average is where most of us are at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very good at a handful of things, and woefully mediocre at many others. With other things somewhere in between. Life has taught me that everyone else is the same, it’s just the skills that people are good at / are woeful at differ from person to person!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Is there any coming to terms with realising you’re really average at everything? Or is it better than just being shit?"

I’ve realised this a long time ago. I have no talent I’m not particularly good at anything, I’m clumsy, im not the prettiest flower in the florist or the sharpest tool in the shed but I make the most of what I’ve got.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Is there any coming to terms with realising you’re really average at everything? Or is it better than just being shit?

By sharing your flower with tools?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...matters not since we are all far from perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what's average? How do we measure it, your average may be mediocre to one person and to another it is there goal.

Take pride in what you do and sure if you not good at something either work at it or dont do it.

I'm good at my job, I'm a good friend, but I'm crap at swinging and fab but I'm still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is, but there's also heart to take in knowing you're average at everything. Sure, you aren't going to set the world alight but then you're not gonna burn it to the ground either. Not many people can be average across the board at everything they do, and it means you can be relied upon to get a job done to an adequate standard

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is your definition of 'average' OP?? x

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon

"Is there any coming to terms with realising you’re really average at everything? Or is it better than just being shit?

You are far from average :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as I know I’m only good at 3 things… My job, being a dad and lifting heavy things.

I’m ok with the fact that I’m fairly average at everything else because those 3 things are important to me.

Maybe you just haven’t found the thing you’re good at yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...one could argue that we’re all average even if considering to be exceptionally good at something, etc., since there’s always going to be somebody; somewhere in this beautiful World of ours that maybe able to be better...

it’s ok to be average...!

even better to be humble...

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

No matter if good, bad or average the trick is to do it fabulously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No matter if good, bad or average the trick is to do it fabulously!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to waste my gifts

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

No matter what you think of your abilities there is someone, somewhere that is in awe of something you can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think of myself as optimal, not too little, not too much

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'd like to be a great ballet dancer or ice dancer.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I’m very good at a handful of things, and woefully mediocre at many others. With other things somewhere in between. Life has taught me that everyone else is the same, it’s just the skills that people are good at / are woeful at differ from person to person! "

This

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Average is the best way to be, you don't have to worry about high expectations

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Most people aren’t average , most people don’t earn average wage etc average is rare.

I think op means not exceptional , just ok. I guess you are well matched to people who think the same, but I don’t personally believe anyone is. Maybe life / people just made you believe it

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I'm more than happy being average.

Average height, weight, build. There's nothing about me that makes me stand out in a crowd.

I don't want or need to be different. Happy with what I have and wouldn't change it. Accepting and being comfortable with yourself is important.

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