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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Menfolk of fab.....

Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....

How would you fellows react?? x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

GET IN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could sometimes use a break so bring all the toys and her best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love it, it only enhances the fun and wouldn’t take it as an insult.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've had guys ask me if I've got toys they can use on me. Haven't had anyone object to me getting them out yet.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm down with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope wouldn’t be my next question would be do they have any to use on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly wouldn't feel offended or adequate, more excited and intrigued

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Game on!

Anything between consenting adults to elevate an experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring on the arsenal

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’d be staggered if there was any dissent on this one…..

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It would please me as it would be something she’d want to share with me. Anything that increases her orgasms or the intensity of them is good by me.

Toys aren’t competition, they are enhancements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel that the man speaking has some personal issues he has never learnt to deal with.

Very comfortable with toys in the bedroom, find it enjoyable. We don't use them all the time and use them to enhance our love-making. To be fair, we all have off days so if I'm exhausted and pussy cat wants to play with her vibe or whatever, I'm only sorry that I'm too tired.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’d be staggered if there was any dissent on this one….."

I was just thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the one who introduced toys to the bedroom. It was sort of a joke present for Valentine’s Day but we both loved it and now we’ve got a massive collection.

Maybe that man was insecure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So long as she's OK with sharing, I'm in!

Or... its in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few experiences where guys have seemed really keen about using toys when speaking to them beforehand, but then when it came to it seemed super reluctant about it

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By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral

Id love to watch and help out as my partner was using toys i find it a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem whatsoever...adds something more..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ain't sharing my action man and evil knivel with any woman

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I was the one who introduced toys to the bedroom. It was sort of a joke present for Valentine’s Day but we both loved it and now we’ve got a massive collection.

Maybe that man was insecure."

He came across as quite self assured and confident in himself. He said he didn't feel the need for toys as he was more than capable of satisfying a woman x

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Be careful, you might not feel when to stop inside, with toys.

I find girls lack rhythm and stamina when it comes to using a strap on.

Yeah ok, some blokes are useless also.

Girls sometimes feel more part of the action having a cock. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had meets based around toy play and nothing else so no issue here.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Depends if the toy is called harold

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Bring them in. Why not

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’d get my naughty box out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knock yourself out.

Gives me chance to pop into the forum and find out which frying pan to bring.

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

We got whole box full and think they enhance fun more and he loves using them on me.

Not keen on new satisfyer though as he been using it on me all weekend and has almost broke a rib laughing at me and the effect it has

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By *yourselfMan
over a year ago

Heworth

I wouldn't be offended at all, and haven't been when it's happened before.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If she brings Kerplunk or Rebound...I'm game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys in the bedroom??? What's wrong with the dungeon??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God non this is a poor man’s ego at threat.

How the hell do I explore sex if I’m not willing to explore sex with my lover?

Men need to stand back and realise why that woman is with you and feels comfortable enough to bring these ideas into a relationship.

Something different does not mean ‘better’.

I just bring me. I am the woman’s toy

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"God non this is a poor man’s ego at threat.

How the hell do I explore sex if I’m not willing to explore sex with my lover?

Men need to stand back and realise why that woman is with you and feels comfortable enough to bring these ideas into a relationship.

Something different does not mean ‘better’.

I just bring me. I am the woman’s toy

Where do the batteries go??? x

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

As long as they remember the batteries I'm all for it

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Happy for toys to be used. It gives me chance to go for a snack halfway (2 minutes) through

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have vanilla friends who when I have spoken about my toy collection with have said that their partners feel that way.

On here though men seem happy for them to be part of the fun.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I have vanilla friends who when I have spoken about my toy collection with have said that their partners feel that way.

On here though men seem happy for them to be part of the fun.

Kx"

I wonder if it's a fab thing

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I'd be (and actually was when it happened) over the moon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Result!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Menfolk of fab.....

How would you fellows react?? x"

Think thank fuck for that NOW maybe I'll finally get to watch the football in peace

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've seen a few male profiles that are happy to bring their own toys which always makes me wonder if they're sterilised between meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex husband felt like that. I once won a raffle prize (vibrator) at an Ann Summers party and I asked him to use it on me. He went crazy and threatened to throw it out of our bedroom window for all the neighbours to see and shame me.

Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.

NBVN x

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Shows you how narrow minded or ego some people add. Be open minded and enjoy the fun that toys can bring.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Bring 'em on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God non this is a poor man’s ego at threat.

How the hell do I explore sex if I’m not willing to explore sex with my lover?

Men need to stand back and realise why that woman is with you and feels comfortable enough to bring these ideas into a relationship.

Something different does not mean ‘better’.

I just bring me. I am the woman’s toy

Where do the batteries go??? x"

Bend over and I’ll show you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol. I’m an adult. That’s my answer to that.

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Would love it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm all for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was the one who introduced toys to the bedroom. It was sort of a joke present for Valentine’s Day but we both loved it and now we’ve got a massive collection.

Maybe that man was insecure.

He came across as quite self assured and confident in himself. He said he didn't feel the need for toys as he was more than capable of satisfying a woman x"

I’m fairly confident in my abilities but I see the toys the same way I see swinging. An addition to our sex life.

There’s certain toys that can do things no man can just the same as there’s things a man can do that no toy can.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The key for me is "if you're not doing a good enough job". If somebody expressed it like that I could feel put out. I would want to do a better job but the way to achieve that isn't through insults. I would hope we had a good enough relationship to talk about what we like and to explore and learn together.

If a lady wants to bring toys into the bedroom just because that's what she enjoys, that would be great! Luke

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"My ex husband felt like that. I once won a raffle prize (vibrator) at an Ann Summers party and I asked him to use it on me. He went crazy and threatened to throw it out of our bedroom window for all the neighbours to see and shame me.

Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.

NBVN x

This is how this man came across (only not as angry) it was like "I am a man, I am or should be all you need in the bedroom" x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.

NBVN x

This is how this man came across (only not as angry) it was like "I am a man, I am or should be all you need in the bedroom" x"

Probably one of those guys that fixes everything with a hammer

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I would be delighted. Then say "wait here imma go grab my tool bag from the car!"

Meanwhile she's like "tools...?"

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Offended

, oh hell no. I'm more than happy to see their Toys R Us

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Was he having a laugh or just being a knob?

If he was being a knob, he has an outdated and old fashioned way of looking at sex. Men can and do get as much out of toys.

And my inner voyeur comes out watching the woman pleasure herself.

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By *la87Man
over a year ago

acton

"Menfolk of fab.....

How would you fellows react?? x"

I bought 4 toys and counting for my wife. Most women don't cum from penetration. She's most women. They're fun additions

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Dear god no!! Bring all the toys and let's play with them

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Are they the same guys that go around saying they don't need lube because they have 'skills'?

Yeah nah. Toys and lube for everyone, it's fun!

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

"I have vanilla friends who when I have spoken about my toy collection with have said that their partners feel that way.

On here though men seem happy for them to be part of the fun.

I wonder if it's a fab thing

I would not say its a fab thing, I think it's down to the individual.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Was he having a laugh or just being a knob?

If he was being a knob, he has an outdated and old fashioned way of looking at sex. Men can and do get as much out of toys.

And my inner voyeur comes out watching the woman pleasure herself. "

He was being serious, didn't come across as a knob as such or a twat x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I would be delighted. Then say "wait here imma go grab my tool bag from the car!"

Meanwhile she's like "tools...?"

Tool bags are fun

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Was he having a laugh or just being a knob?

If he was being a knob, he has an outdated and old fashioned way of looking at sex. Men can and do get as much out of toys.

And my inner voyeur comes out watching the woman pleasure herself.

He was being serious, didn't come across as a knob as such or a twat x"

Just scared then! X

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Bring 'em on. If she has fun using them, then I'm sure I'll have fun getting involved too

LvM

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Tool bags are fun

It's amazing what you can find around the house, or from a trip to B&Q or Homebase...

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Love using toys especially love 2 watch a lady play with herself using a toy x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.

NBVN x

This is how this man came across (only not as angry) it was like "I am a man, I am or should be all you need in the bedroom" x"

Sounds like he felt you were stepping into an arena he is not familiar with, isn’t comfortable with, wasn’t sure how to handle the fact you wanted to introduce toys. He clearly felt threatened by your request and by his feelings about it….. guess it didn’t happen and isn’t likely to now…

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Tool bags are fun

It's amazing what you can find around the house, or from a trip to B&Q or Homebase...

The old I wonder what that feels like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be offended at all, I'd just see it as adding a different dynamic and would completely fine. As long as she's not expecting me to sit in the shame corner while she uses it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Menfolk of fab.....

How would you fellows react?? x"

Depends on the toy. What on earth am I supposed to do with double sided dildo op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Menfolk of fab.....

How would you fellows react?? x

Depends on the toy. What on earth am I supposed to do with double sided dildo op?

DP her with it maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would definitely be in for that

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Honestly I'd be offended if she didn't have toys to play with! So much fun

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"I've had guys ask me if I've got toys they can use on me. Haven't had anyone object to me getting them out yet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Menfolk of fab.....

How would you fellows react?? x

Depends on the toy. What on earth am I supposed to do with double sided dildo op?

DP her with it maybe

What is this a tick box exercise? Might as well add MFFF to the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its there to use along side me and im able to get creative cool im in

If its for me to use on her until i get bored no id rather get my fingers wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Menfolk of fab.....

How would you fellows react?? x"

I buy most of our toys! Who doesn't love seeing their partner having an amazing time!

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

I draw the line at Plushies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Menfolk of fab.....

How would you fellows react?? x

I buy most of our toys! Who doesn't love seeing their partner having an amazing time!"

Some do some don’t it’s that simple

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

if it can add to the excitement and pleasure of both then I’m all in favour

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often play Buckaroo in bed, nowt wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just enhances the fun and pleasure

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By *reamblueMan
over a year ago

London

That's like getting offended after making someone an ice cream sundae and they suggest that chopped nuts sprinkled on top might be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she pulled out a Nerf Gun and asked me to stand at the end of the bed when I replied no problem then I’d have an issue …. Unless she passed me one too

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

No problem with toys either for use on her or her to use on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If she pulled out a Nerf Gun and asked me to stand at the end of the bed when I replied no problem then I’d have an issue …. Unless she passed me one too

You could remake that scene from Mr and Mrs Smith.

*Opens Amazon and orders Nerf Guns*

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Love using them together. I probably wouldn’t meet someone who didn’t like them to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love using them together. I probably wouldn’t meet someone who didn’t like them to be honest. "

Anything for you Nora

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