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"Females in gym leggings, particularly the Nike dri-fit variety! Thank the heavens. Makes the gym bearable! ?? Scott " And we wonder why some women hate going to commercial gyms.. ..hmmmmmmm whatever could the reason be?! Focus on your workout my friend. | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout" Thisssss I already feel self conscious enough in gyms as it is, wouldn't want to think anyone is staring at me, whether in a sexual or judgemental way  | |||
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"Females in gym leggings, particularly the Nike dri-fit variety! Thank the heavens. Makes the gym bearable! ?? Scott And we wonder why some women hate going to commercial gyms.. ..hmmmmmmm whatever could the reason be?! Focus on your workout my friend. " Have to agree. Must be horrible for women. | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout" This... which also means if there's a large number of them, i end up looking very interested in the floor or my phone's lock screen 
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"Check out my Nike leggings on my profile…hopefully you like those xx L"Checked them out many many times  | |||
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"If the gym is unbearable, maybe time to try and find an enjoyable exercise instead. " I like sitting on the benches outside the windows of the women's keep fit classes. Their one way mirrors so your not offending anyone! | |||
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"In our gym it’s the guys who crave the attention - the reek of testosterone is unbearable at times and all the grunting lifting weights "I call them the knuckle draggers. The ones who turn up, do a few reps with grunty noises then clog up the machines by using their phones taking selfies
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"In our gym it’s the guys who crave the attention - the reek of testosterone is unbearable at times and all the grunting lifting weights
I call them the knuckle draggers. The ones who turn up, do a few reps with grunty noises then clog up the machines by using their phones taking selfies
Get working or get out "I just got injured, badly  I also hated the mirror perches and grunters too. | |||
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"Come to Pole classes and you will see the amazing shorts and sports bra
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"Are people supposed to spend their time looking at the floor now invade, god forbid, they look at someone?" This
And tbh I quite like it when a guy is having a discreet look | |||
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"There's a difference between looking and thinking nice body, and staring, following women around and rubbing my thighs while salivating. " Exactly that. You can look and not make it obvious | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout" | |||
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"In our gym it’s the guys who crave the attention - the reek of testosterone is unbearable at times and all the grunting lifting weights "This is when you walk past & say “ warming up fella”  | |||
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"There's a difference between looking and thinking nice body, and staring, following women around and rubbing my thighs while salivating. Exactly that. You can look and not make it obvious " As I do when I check out the guys at my gym (or is that objectifying men) | |||
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"There's a difference between looking and thinking nice body, and staring, following women around and rubbing my thighs while salivating. Exactly that. You can look and not make it obvious As I do when I check out the guys at my gym (or is that objectifying men)" The bonus of going | |||
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"In our gym it’s the guys who crave the attention - the reek of testosterone is unbearable at times and all the grunting lifting weights
I call them the knuckle draggers. The ones who turn up, do a few reps with grunty noises then clog up the machines by using their phones taking selfies
Get working or get out
I just got injured, badly I also hated the mirror perches and grunters too."Say what you want about the posers and selfie takers but grunting is an essential part of a PR. | |||
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"Are people supposed to spend their time looking at the floor now invade, god forbid, they look at someone?" I think it’s more the weirdos that stare continuously at someone making it visibly obvious are the problem .. I look at people / say hello and equally people look at me. The squat rack can be spicy though when the group of lads are loitering and you are in middle trying excersize with some idiots just looking at your ass / tits in mirrors walls . Staring and creeping is way way different to glancing around while using a treadmill / machine .. | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout" I thought that was what all the mirrors are for?..  | |||
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"Are people supposed to spend their time looking at the floor now invade, god forbid, they look at someone? I think it’s more the weirdos that stare continuously at someone making it visibly obvious are the problem .. I look at people / say hello and equally people look at me. The squat rack can be spicy though when the group of lads are loitering and you are in middle trying excersize with some idiots just looking at your ass / tits in mirrors walls . Staring and creeping is way way different to glancing around while using a treadmill / machine .. " I only glance a look and don’t stare. Definitely don’t think anyone would be uncomfortable with Me at the gym | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout This... which also means if there's a large number of them, i end up looking very interested in the floor or my phone's lock screen
LvM"Same, oh is that a ceiling, when did they put that there? | |||
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"Come to Pole classes and you will see the amazing shorts and sports bra
Even better
It’s a date "Haha u going up a pole with? | |||
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"Come to Pole classes and you will see the amazing shorts and sports bra
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It’s a date
Haha u going up a pole with? "Do I get to pick my own song ? Hahaha | |||
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"Come to Pole classes and you will see the amazing shorts and sports bra
Even better
It’s a date
Haha u going up a pole with?
Do I get to pick my own song ? Hahaha "Course, which one would it be | |||
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"Check out my Nike leggings on my profile…hopefully you like those xx L"although fantastic your thing pictures are awesome | |||
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"Come to Pole classes and you will see the amazing shorts and sports bra
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It’s a date
Haha u going up a pole with?
Do I get to pick my own song ? Hahaha
Course, which one would it be "Your heart - Joyner Lucas Or Aww shit - Shoreline Mafia | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout Thisssss I already feel self conscious enough in gyms as it is, wouldn't want to think anyone is staring at me, whether in a sexual or judgemental way "This is why I stopped going to the gym or trying to get in shape. Getting sniggered at when I exercised is humiliating. Give people respect for trying, you dont know their lofe or journey. Not everyone is born a size 8 | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout Thisssss I already feel self conscious enough in gyms as it is, wouldn't want to think anyone is staring at me, whether in a sexual or judgemental way
This is why I stopped going to the gym or trying to get in shape. Getting sniggered at when I exercised is humiliating.
Give people respect for trying, you dont know their lofe or journey. Not everyone is born a size 8"You shouldn’t worry or read too much in to what you think other are thinking. | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout Thisssss I already feel self conscious enough in gyms as it is, wouldn't want to think anyone is staring at me, whether in a sexual or judgemental way
This is why I stopped going to the gym or trying to get in shape. Getting sniggered at when I exercised is humiliating.
Give people respect for trying, you dont know their lofe or journey. Not everyone is born a size 8"Sorry that happened. Maybe you should find a new Gym | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout Thisssss I already feel self conscious enough in gyms as it is, wouldn't want to think anyone is staring at me, whether in a sexual or judgemental way
This is why I stopped going to the gym or trying to get in shape. Getting sniggered at when I exercised is humiliating.
Give people respect for trying, you dont know their lofe or journey. Not everyone is born a size 8"So sorry you experienced this. Not all gyms are the same. Nobody should ever be criticised for bettering themselves. | |||
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Joking aside I think there is a big difference between having a sneaky look at somebody and making somebody feel uncomfortable with lingering glances, if people are looking it’s a bit of compliment however in my opinion that can become pervy and a bit rude/disrespectful very quickly. That goes for men and women | |||
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" I do wear quite revealing clothes at the gym..." *Raises eye brow. | |||
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"It's only human to look. Some people look as they are impressed with that person body, lifting/gym workout, their clothing is showing off their body in one way or another. Sometimes people just glance round and they catch eye contact with someone else. It's a range of things. Unless they are standing staring at you , it's only nature. It can't be helped, it doesn't mean they necessary are doing it in a creepy way, however if self conscious maybe working out at home/outdoors/choosing a quieter time/area is viable. " Unfortunately now there is a trend for (mostly young ladies) to wear revealing outfits to the gym then record people (without their knowledge or consent) when they look in their direction then ripping them on social media and calling them creeps. | |||
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"When I used to work out In my speedos and cover myself in baby oil I would often feel lots of eyes following me around the gym, so I stopped putting the oil on however I still got wondering eyes
Joking aside I think there is a big difference between having a sneaky look at somebody and making somebody feel uncomfortable with lingering glances, if people are looking it’s a bit of compliment however in my opinion that can become pervy and a bit rude/disrespectful very quickly. That goes for men and women "I once had a guy move to directly behind me when I was doing RDLs. They gym still has white boxes marked on the floor from Covid. We were both in ones in front of the mirror with one empty one between us. He picked up his dumbbells and moved to the square behind me even though there was nobody else in the whole area and I was now blocking his view of the mirror. That's the kinda shit that makes you uncomfortable. | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout Thisssss I already feel self conscious enough in gyms as it is, wouldn't want to think anyone is staring at me, whether in a sexual or judgemental way
This is why I stopped going to the gym or trying to get in shape. Getting sniggered at when I exercised is humiliating.
Give people respect for trying, you dont know their lofe or journey. Not everyone is born a size 8"Anyone sniggering at you is nothing but a scumbag and would be banned from mine. That includes anyone laughing at men too. Nothing but pathetic arseholes. | |||
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"I’m torn on this. When I was bodybuilding and I was getting close to a show I liked wearing a string vest during workouts because I liked how I looked and could see the hard work paying off But as I was getting shredded I’d get a lot more looks. This made me self conscious. I didn’t like the lingering stares I didn’t blame them. Or request they didn’t look. I realised I was in a public setting where people can use their eyes as they please. I also realised they were looking for the same reason I liked wearing the vest. So I stopped wearing the vests. I don’t believe it’s as black and white as people want to make it out to be. Staring at people in a creepy way is wrong Wearing cloths that are very revealing are gonna make that happen Pick your poison and deal with the outcomes " Like telling women not to wear skimpy clothes when they're out. | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout Thisssss I already feel self conscious enough in gyms as it is, wouldn't want to think anyone is staring at me, whether in a sexual or judgemental way
This is why I stopped going to the gym or trying to get in shape. Getting sniggered at when I exercised is humiliating.
Give people respect for trying, you dont know their lofe or journey. Not everyone is born a size 8
Anyone sniggering at you is nothing but a scumbag and would be banned from mine. That includes anyone laughing at men too.
Nothing but pathetic arseholes."I would go in, listen to some music and do my thing. Of course, bloody mirrors everywhere. I could see the pointing, the laughing, the snide comments between people. I try to get fit, drop a bit of weight and just generally better myself, and thats how some react. Never once did I have a positive thing happen. Never a 'good routine', never recieved any tips or pointers. Never so much as a smile or nod when walking past people. Ruined the whole thing for me and eventually quit | |||
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"OP, you clearly haven't been here for long. Threads that objectify men are fine, try doing it with women and you'll be flamed. Even the guys who would normally be stood around drooling will criticise you. If you're looking for a positive response to a clothing thread I suggest you ask about men in grey joggers. Never seen anyone say stop perving and just let them workout on one of those
Mr"Poor men. Poor, poor men. Poor men; the most oppressed breed in this world. Poor, poor, poor men. | |||
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"Nah. I keep my eyes to myself, recognising that the eye candy don't want my attention, they want to workout" That's what all those mirrors are for.................isn't it? | |||
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"Are people supposed to spend their time looking at the floor now invade, god forbid, they look at someone? I think it’s more the weirdos that stare continuously at someone making it visibly obvious are the problem .. I look at people / say hello and equally people look at me. The squat rack can be spicy though when the group of lads are loitering and you are in middle trying excersize with some idiots just looking at your ass / tits in mirrors walls . Staring and creeping is way way different to glancing around while using a treadmill / machine .. " Yes! God it makes me uncomfortable. Squats or deadlifts when you're being stared at and even sometimes talked about. 
I'm a big fan of bright patterned leggings (I spend too much money at tikiboo) but in the gym I tend to wear as plain and boring as possible to not attract attention and save the tikis for walking/running | |||
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"Check out my Nike leggings on my profile…hopefully you like those xx L"That pic and every other pic of you in there  | |||
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"Come to Pole classes and you will see the amazing shorts and sports bra
Even better "If thats an invitation then I accept. | |||
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"In our gym it’s the guys who crave the attention - the reek of testosterone is unbearable at times and all the grunting lifting weights
I call them the knuckle draggers. The ones who turn up, do a few reps with grunty noises then clog up the machines by using their phones taking selfies
Get working or get out "Probably the only thing they can pump looking at some of them in there budgie smugglers. Not room for much in there. | |||
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