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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Today my site supporter pass runs out and I’m at crossroads. Feels like a good time to maybe say goodbye to Fab, don’t think I’m getting as much enjoyment out of it anymore.

Anyone else been similar recently?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

If you're not feeling it, hide your profile and go away for a few months to see how you feel

LvM

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

I now have a stupid theme song stuck in my head lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're not feeling it, hide your profile and go away for a few months to see how you feel

LvM"

I guess that’s an option, I never seem to be able to do that. Same with most things in life it’s either all or nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite often take breaks when I find it gets all a bit ‘meh’.

Usually UNLOS but then sone months later rejoin, going forward I’m just going to log out but not close the account. Up to about a week or so ago I took a month out, then you can come back feeling refreshed!

If it’s not working for you at the moment and you’re not feeling it, maybe stay off for a while and pop back again when you get the urge.

You can still use the site almost the same without a site supporter pass

Good luck OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to hide my profile, but last time I completely deleted it.

Hide it and see how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re not bothered about losing veri’s, a clean break is as good as any. The site will (probably) always be here. Come back when the mojo hits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I quite often take breaks when I find it gets all a bit ‘meh’.

Usually UNLOS but then sone months later rejoin, going forward I’m just going to log out but not close the account. Up to about a week or so ago I took a month out, then you can come back feeling refreshed!

If it’s not working for you at the moment and you’re not feeling it, maybe stay off for a while and pop back again when you get the urge.

You can still use the site almost the same without a site supporter pass

Good luck OP! "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to hide my profile, but last time I completely deleted it.

Hide it and see how you feel"

I might give it a go x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’re not bothered about losing veri’s, a clean break is as good as any. The site will (probably) always be here. Come back when the mojo hits."

Yeah I think that’s part of the problem, no mojo feel like I’ve got a bit stale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a break as others said OP, if you just hide profile, also you can try excercising your will power for not logging on till you feeling refreshed.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"When you're standing at the crossroads, and don't know which path to choose.

Let me come along, 'Cause even if you're wrong.

I'll stand by you, I'll STAAAAND by you"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bLpmj059JFA

Cal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a break as others said OP, if you just hide profile, also you can try excercising your will power for not logging on till you feeling refreshed."

Yeah I’m going to have some time away after today. See if I miss it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I now understand procrastination, never got it before but I hear it discussed a lot on fab. Thank-you for enlightening me

OP - just pay it it’s £5 , think about it again in 60 days

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Today my site supporter pass runs out and I’m at crossroads. Feels like a good time to maybe say goodbye to Fab, don’t think I’m getting as much enjoyment out of it anymore.

Anyone else been similar recently? "

Just don't renew

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Taking regular breaks helps alleviate that feeling for me

Do what you feel is right OP

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth


"I now understand procrastination, never got it before but I hear it discussed a lot on fab. Thank-you for enlightening me

OP - just pay it it’s £5 , think about it again in 60 days "

I always put off procrastination.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I usually just hide my profile and take a break when I feel like the idiots are in charge of the asylum

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Just don’t log on.. I do it all the time. Saves it getting stale.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly correct take a break for a few weeks when you return it won’t just be same old same old xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today my site supporter pass runs out and I’m at crossroads. Feels like a good time to maybe say goodbye to Fab, don’t think I’m getting as much enjoyment out of it anymore.

Anyone else been similar recently? "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left previously as felt like I spent a bit to much time on it and some things just felt so repetitive, if it got like that again I’d just hide my profile and take a break, just do what feels right for you

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Saaaaame. But I just hide or not log in for a while. Takes so much effort to create a profile and build it up seems a silly idea to delete it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ooo ty for reminder have 12 days left shall do it now I do the 10 month one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your profile for a while, most people do. You might regret deleting it. I kind of regret deleting my previous profile x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

All good till end January now x

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