FabSwingers.com forum: Is it wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

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By *upitersmileCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

You just say say no thank you. See painless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thought no would be a good enough answer lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

"Thank you, but you are not what I am looking for."

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

thank you,but no thank you

see manners cost nothing

no need to insult someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is ugly? Beauty is skin deep!!

Don't see why you would have to be and bad mannered about it?

Just a simple NO thank you is all it needs!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

Yes it would be wrong....dont see the need to be nasty when saying 'thanks but no thanks' to anyone.

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By *lueAlMan
over a year ago

Snaresbrook - South Woodford

Beauty IS in the eye of the beholder, but politeness never costs us anything.

It's best not to crush their feelings too much, they may realise they are not a sparkly diamond already.

Handsome Al. (Well so I've been told - probably by ugly people)

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What is ugly? Beauty is skin deep!!

Don't see why you would have to be and bad mannered about it?

Just a simple NO thank you is all it needs!

Sadly, it appears to be beyond the ken of some people to do just that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is ugly? Beauty is skin deep!!

Don't see why you would have to be nasty and bad mannered about it?

Just a simple NO thank you is all it needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reply that your not interested, if then asked why just say im not attracted to you .... simples, no need to be rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what you define as ugly really.

For some, it goes deeper than the physical.

Be careful with your terminology or people just might see the ugly in you.

A simple 'no thanks' is fine, or simply ignore. No need to be nasty or personal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must add this was based at those who sent repeated messages after a no thanks!

nothing like keeping the fires burning on haloween

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block the repeat senders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just block the repeat senders"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone in a bar, tried to chat you up, would you decline politely or say "I think your an ugly c**t....no offense"? Unless you have been propositioned in a very rude manner, then why feel the need to insult someones looks (that they were born with and cannot help).

I would rather get with a lovely person with a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle, than a stunning beauty with the vindictiveness of Cruella Deville.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must add this was based at those who sent repeated messages after a no thanks!

nothing like keeping the fires burning on haloween

Now that makes sense....you could always ask them to wear a mask!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Must add this was based at those who sent repeated messages after a no thanks!

nothing like keeping the fires burning on haloween

Personally, I have on my profile if the person is not what I'm looking for I won't reply.

If, after receiving a message I look at the profile and they're not what I'm looking for - guess what? I don't reply.

No need to be rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the same person messages constantly after you have politely declined then you can say what you like

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Is'nt it far easier to ignore than allow someone to get you so het up you want to insult them?

Thats what the block button is for,unless you get some morbid satisafaction of getting repeat messages all saying the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeated messages after a polite no are annoying, but look at it like this, to ask the question of how to respond to "uglies", if you messaged someone who thought you were ugly, how would you like them to respond.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

Define ugly! And sorry but why be rude to anyone? If you don't like the look of them a simple 'no thanks' is all thats needed surly. If they cant take that for an answer block and forget...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Repeated messages after a polite no are annoying, but look at it like this, to ask the question of how to respond to "uglies", if you messaged someone who thought you were ugly, how would you like them to respond."
your right how would the OP feel if had mail saying .. I don't meet uglies.. See there's more to people then looks. Some on here people just wish to chat to and no sex just on line friends.. still can be very lovely people to know .Just we go on looks alot of the time here as don't know people its fast lane sex .... but no need to be hurtful and rude and we cant like the same thing and its a good thing .. maybe block if your fed-up with them mailing as that's how alot cope with it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, I think it is very harsh, especially to use the c*nt word.

If they have messaged and you have tried the no thanks approach, just block them.

I am sure you'd not like it if someone messaged you telling you how ugly they thought you were in a such a vulgar way

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

Depends if you are man or woman enough to take the abuse back.

How would you feel if someone did that to you?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I aactually wonder tbh what "the uglies" are - personally I would not use the term at all but even if I did I would find it really hard to specify what constitues "ugly". This may be because I look at more than somebody's face and body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I aactually wonder tbh what "the uglies" are - personally I would not use the term at all but even if I did I would find it really hard to specify what constitues "ugly". This may be because I look at more than somebody's face and body."

Interestingly if you "slap" or "bump" uglies it means you want to or have had sexual intercourse with them...so I would suggest it could mean anything, so better to use some good old fashioned english:

No thank you, you are not my type or

No thank you I do not fancy you.

Makes more sense hey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just tend to say sorry but you are not what were looking for, but thanks and good luck,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

If Katy Piper mailed you, would you say that to her??

Wow. Just wow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

Depends if you are man or woman enough to take the abuse back.

How would you feel if someone did that to you? "

At least they would be straight to the point!

Would move along to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

If Katy Piper mailed you, would you say that to her??

Wow. Just wow.

Who is Katy Piper? Can't be arsed googling her.

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

these are not the swingers you are looking for..

said with a sweeping motion of your hand

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

Define ugly! And sorry but why be rude to anyone? If you don't like the look of them a simple 'no thanks' is all thats needed surly. If they cant take that for an answer block and forget..."

Everyone is ugly too someone.

Swings and roundabouts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why provide a reason when declining an offer to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone in a bar, tried to chat you up, would you decline politely or say "I think your an ugly c**t....no offense"? Unless you have been propositioned in a very rude manner, then why feel the need to insult someones looks (that they were born with and cannot help).

I would rather get with a lovely person with a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle, than a stunning beauty with the vindictiveness of Cruella Deville. "

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You could just come out with it but that would just make you a nasty cu*t

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trolling can be fun.

If you upset a few folks along the way then so be it.

At least it gets things stirred up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties, just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

OP, ever thought that there could be some on this site who would categorise you as an 'ugly'..? And for reasons you cannot fathom.... How would YOU feel getting a message in the vein you feel like sending? Well?

So like others have said previously, just a simple 'No thank you' and then block takes care of it without offence to anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only people who have tourettes should be allowed to say stuff like that anyone else is a cunt themselves for doing so and indeed very ugly on the inside themselves.Its no better than bullies at school getting cheap laughs picking on someone elses differences..just to take joy in seeing someone else suffer emotionally or physically..now that shows u what type people enjoy doing this, and of course its pretty much thats wrong with alot of society today and with the added benefit from doing it from ur armchair makes it even better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trolling can be fun.

If you upset a few folks along the way then so be it.

At least it gets things stirred up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trolling can be fun.

If you upset a few folks along the way then so be it.

At least it gets things stirred up

As I said before though, you do need to be careful with your terminology when posting publically because people might just see the ugly in you - and without even seeing a picture.

It's a fine line to tread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties, just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

So like others have said previously, just a simple 'No thank you' and then block takes care of it without offence to anyone...

Yes of course, See the fifth message above yours ^^^^^

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

If Katy Piper mailed you, would you say that to her??

Wow. Just wow.

Who is Katy Piper? Can't be arsed googling her.

She is the model that had acid thrown in her face and has had to have her face rebuilt.. Dont really think that is the idea of the thread tho, someone who was attacked.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Trolling can be fun.

If you upset a few folks along the way then so be it.

At least it gets things stirred up

thats fine if thats what your about..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

I've never met you. I've not seen a picture of you.

Yet your post tells me I wouldn't find you the least bit attractive.

You see, ugly comes in many different forms, some more subtle than others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

If Katy Piper mailed you, would you say that to her??

Wow. Just wow.

Who is Katy Piper? Can't be arsed googling her.

She is the model that had acid thrown in her face and has had to have her face rebuilt.. Dont really think that is the idea of the thread tho, someone who was attacked.

Oh yes, now know who you are talking about.

And no its not the idea of the thread

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Trolling can be fun.

If you upset a few folks along the way then so be it.

At least it gets things stirred up

Be careful with that, as people will form an impression going on your posts.

My impression of this one is, how nasty is it to even contemplate telling someone they are an ugly C*** because they sent a mail.

How some poeple should use filters and the block button if you don't want mail of certain people.

Now OK now you are saying your post was to wind people up and not serious....then I would be careful with that also.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

people *

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trolling can be fun.

If you upset a few folks along the way then so be it.

At least it gets things stirred up

Be careful with that, as people will form an impression going on your posts.

My impression of this one is, how nasty is it to even contemplate telling someone they are an ugly C*** because they sent a mail.

How some poeple should use filters and the block button if you don't want mail of certain people.

Now OK now you are saying your post was to wind people up and not serious....then I would be careful with that also."

Is it really any different though from the many look at me threads?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If that is how you want people to see you, fill your boots

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Trolling can be fun.

If you upset a few folks along the way then so be it.

At least it gets things stirred up

Be careful with that, as people will form an impression going on your posts.

My impression of this one is, how nasty is it to even contemplate telling someone they are an ugly C*** because they sent a mail.

How some poeple should use filters and the block button if you don't want mail of certain people.

Now OK now you are saying your post was to wind people up and not serious....then I would be careful with that also.

Is it really any different though from the many look at me threads?

yes, it comes across as nasty and cruel..

just my opinion

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

Dear OP

You have probably realised by now that the term 'ugly cunt' is not appropriate.

In future please conform to one of the following standard forum terminology:

Fugly

Minger

Munter

Please note: these are acceptable terms , unless coupled with the word 'cunt'.

Happy posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

If Katy Piper mailed you, would you say that to her??

Wow. Just wow.

Who is Katy Piper? Can't be arsed googling her.

She is the model that had acid thrown in her face and has had to have her face rebuilt.. Dont really think that is the idea of the thread tho, someone who was attacked.

Oh yes, now know who you are talking about.

And no its not the idea of the thread

My point was that some people may say she is ugly. I am sure that at some point in the last few years, someone will have told her that she is ugly. I gather from your response above that you would never think of saying she is ugly... perhaps because it would hurt her feelings? So why would it be ok to tell someone else the same thing?

Telling anyone that they are an ugly c*nt will hurt their feelings. It's just mean.

If people won't leave you alone and they aren't your type, just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The definition of ugly. Shallow ,narrowminded bigots who feel the need to insult someone because they dont fit into a particular ideal of what is beautiful.

Some evil cunts out there.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Must add this was based at those who sent repeated messages after a no thanks!

nothing like keeping the fires burning on haloween

Block them then they cannot repeat message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you define as ugly really.

For some, it goes deeper than the physical.

Be careful with your terminology or people just might see the ugly in you.

A simple 'no thanks' is fine, or simply ignore. No need to be nasty or personal.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties, just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

So like others have said previously, just a simple 'No thank you' and then block takes care of it without offence to anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

I've never met you. I've not seen a picture of you.

Yet your post tells me I wouldn't find you the least bit attractive.

You see, ugly comes in many different forms, some more subtle than others. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

politeness and good manner s all the way rude people and ill manenrs from here or anywhere is aturn off surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say politely, 'sorry not for me' then hit the block button so no ping pong mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

It all depends how fond you are of your teeth if you are in arms reach. Saying that manners and respect have a part to play but if someone is deep bone ugly its tempting to say something at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe ugliness comes from within

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Going back to the OP about Uglies and Fuglies! C***s.

How many times does a profile message you? and you keep saying no!

How many winks? and friend requests? unreturned until you get it?

We don't mind folks having a perv but come on have you nothing better to do when its' kicking out time at the pub!

I should have not used the C word.

But think about how many uglies message you? and you are like Yuck

Beauty is in the eye of the holder, Its can be skin deep, it can be humorous, it can be confidence.

Its the Internet, first impressions do count!

Should we rephrase it say how do you deal with those whom you have no attraction?

Politeness is always key, Or when do you resort to the block button.

Someone needs to ask the question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on what you define as ugly really.

For some, it goes deeper than the physical.

Be careful with your terminology or people just might see the ugly in you.

A simple 'no thanks' is fine, or simply ignore. No need to be nasty or personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a simple thanks for your interest but your not what I'm looking for is suffice, no need to be abisive about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or threaten to send Mafia Queen round

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

It all depends how fond you are of your teeth if you are in arms reach. Saying that manners and respect have a part to play but if someone is deep bone ugly its tempting to say something at times.

Teeth and dentistry will always be expensive!

But will it be worth it if you told the ugly to go fuck themselves? him her or whaterver!

This may seem a bit extreme but we are all on hear to shag. whatever that is! every one dick tom and sally! will never tick all the boxes;-)

Just like everyone does not wish to shag us every Cunt online. ooppss the C word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't have to keep blocking ppl. NO means NO. Just a shame a minority on here don't understand what that means.. No point in being harsh with derogatory terms, but geez some ppl really need to stop making themselves look like desperate morons!! Maybe they should accept the user said NO and NOT keep re-sending messages.. Simples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....

Get it out, with Optrex...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

What concerns me is that you feel the need to let someone know they don't measure up to your ideal of what is beautiful or not when a simple 'sorry, you're not our type' would suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going back to the OP about Uglies and Fuglies! C***s.

How many times does a profile message you? and you keep saying no!

How many winks? and friend requests? unreturned until you get it?

We don't mind folks having a perv but come on have you nothing better to do when its' kicking out time at the pub!

I should have not used the C word.

But think about how many uglies message you? and you are like Yuck

Beauty is in the eye of the holder, Its can be skin deep, it can be humorous, it can be confidence.

Its the Internet, first impressions do count!

Should we rephrase it say how do you deal with those whom you have no attraction?

Politeness is always key, Or when do you resort to the block button.

Someone needs to ask the question!

Are you d*unk? This post is all over the place and nonsensical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you d*unk? This post is all over the place and nonsensical.

Will somebody put a leash on Wishy please

I know it's Thursday, but don't peak too early.

There maybe some 'juicy' political threads come up later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you d*unk? This post is all over the place and nonsensical.

Will somebody put a leash on Wishy please

I know it's Thursday, but don't peak too early.

There maybe some 'juicy' political threads come up later

Well it was like reading someone with tourettes (but with only a little bit of swearing).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you d*unk? This post is all over the place and nonsensical.

Will somebody put a leash on Wishy please

I know it's Thursday, but don't peak too early.

There maybe some 'juicy' political threads come up later

Well it was like reading someone with tourettes (but with only a little bit of swearing).

There as been some great responses above.

Tourette's now there is a thing!

We all need to learn about dysfunctions and syndromes, many folks deal with this on a day to day life.

Anyone who mocks those are best to be avoided.

A good example of Tourette's is we all meet folks in life. Whom we may boil their goat, they wind us up, sometimes a few bad words make you feel better.

Ones idea of "Nonsensical" could be a contribution so small as to be laughable or one having no intelligible meaning.

You could start another forum post if you don't like this one?, and say:

.Look at me

.Why do single men do this?

.Why do couples do this?

.What is wrong with my profile?

.Bisex and labels threads?

.What did you have for breakfast? makes a change from dinner?

If we get a little of a heated debate going then its all good stuff.

I prefer to be Obtrusive! a good work out gets the juices flowing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

What concerns me is that you feel the need to let someone know they don't measure up to your ideal of what is beautiful or not when a simple 'sorry, you're not our type' would suffice.

Nothing concerns us, We are happy meeting the folks we do.

An few honest questions?

.Do you take one for the team?

.Partner shows you profile and you say god no!

. Judge a profile on pics( not everyone is photogenic)

Everyone who has ever taken a science class knows the word "hypothesis," which means an idea, or a guess, that you are going to test through an experiment. A hypothetical is related to that. It means something based on an informed guess.

Quite relates for us swingers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Is it best to keep the peace?

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

LMAO .....you can't call a c#nt ugly , you'll get sued !

A nice polite no thanks should do

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"To just come and say you are an Ugly cunt!

My manners tell me no, but sometimes i'm so tempted.

Sorry this was not meant at any forumties,

just generally messages!

How do you say NO to the uglies

LMAO .....you can't call a c#nt ugly , you'll get sued !

A nice polite no thanks should do

You simply answer them very politely until they ask why not...

Then all the gloves come off and I tell the 5"2 20 stone guys who think they meet my preferences just how they don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Going back to the OP about Uglies and Fuglies! C***s.

How many times does a profile message you? and you keep saying no!

How many winks? and friend requests? unreturned until you get it?

We don't mind folks having a perv but come on have you nothing better to do when its' kicking out time at the pub!

I should have not used the C word.

But think about how many uglies message you? and you are like Yuck

Beauty is in the eye of the holder, Its can be skin deep, it can be humorous, it can be confidence.

Its the Internet, first impressions do count!

Should we rephrase it say how do you deal with those whom you have no attraction?

Politeness is always key, Or when do you resort to the block button.

Someone needs to ask the question!

Are you d*unk? This post is all over the place and nonsensical.

Maybe you should read from the start of the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stand by my original post, theres nothing needed to offend someone.Some may apologize, some may no thanks, some will say not for us.

these will suffice...not much else is needed

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No thanks and all the best

if people need to say 'No, you are an ugly cunt' that says more about their own ugliness, not facially, than anything else.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We just say that we don't think we'd be compatible. Just because we may not find someone attractive it doesn't mean others won't - beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I wouldn't want to upset anyone anyway. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would not abuse people who I wasnt attracted to, I think that is extremely rude. Im glad to say that I do not feel the need to sink to those low levels.

I do not reply to people whom I have no interest in. If they keep messaging I would block.

If you choose to send abusive messages to people then expect them to report you which may lead to your exclusion.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Depends on what you define as ugly really.

For some, it goes deeper than the physical.

Be careful with your terminology or people just might see the ugly in you.

A simple 'no thanks' is fine, or simply ignore. No need to be nasty or personal.

ditto..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok we throw the towel in on this one.

A lot of good comments, along with lefties and righties.

Need to think of a better one that is off the ball

Get the debate a bit more worked up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok we throw the towel in on this one.

A lot of good comments, along with lefties and righties.

Need to think of a better one that is off the ball

Get the debate a bit more worked up!

I'll just wank at ur pics thanks...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok we throw the towel in on this one.

A lot of good comments, along with lefties and righties.

Need to think of a better one that is off the ball

Get the debate a bit more worked up!

I'll just wank at ur pics thanks..."

Not again Paddy!

Shall need to send you some new material just for your private _iewing

You have to keep the home fires burning next time we are back up north.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"What is ugly? Beauty is skin deep!!"

Chicks with warty noses and nervous ticks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What is ugly? Beauty is skin deep!!

Chicks with warty noses and nervous ticks.

Each to there own

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