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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re being taken for a mug. Send no more money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Are you sure it's not a balding, 50something guy called Billy-Bob ?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

If this is true, I'm still gobsmacked that people fall for this crap.

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By *interfoxWoman
over a year ago

maesteg

Oh dear, I'm sorry op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez anyone who starts asking for money is a red flag for me OP start thinking with your head & not your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don’t send any more money. I know someone this has happened to. They actually do go and meet once a year for 2 weeks and she spends the rest of the year sending thousands of pounds for “lost phones” and “family emergencies”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BTW hope you didn’t send to much money

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By *ySweetLadyWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?"

You write in your profile:

“Sub seeks to be abused and used”

I think this is what you would get if you go… but maybe not in the way you would like.

Please, be careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?"

Now you have admitted this on the forum it's likely that people will message you on here trying to scam you. Be careful.

Have you met her in real life before? Do you know it is a she?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?"

Did I just read this right?

Are you new to the internet op?

Google - online scams

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?"

Did you pay her in BITchCoin?

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

It's a scam block and delete

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

"Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?"

You are joking right? Please don't send her anymore money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go, don't send any more money very sorry

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By *elight 99Woman
over a year ago

richmond

Ummmm op what do you think

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Surprised she's not asking for the flight money so she can come see you.... Sounds like a scammer.

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By *WINGStars23Couple
over a year ago

Northwest

Stop sending money, see if she still wants you to go over then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP stop sending money and stop all contact, it sounds like a scam.

NBVN x

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

You said in your profile that you like to be used

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Probably looking for a sugar daddy will want more money and that's all send no more definitely a scam

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Am I the only one who thinks that maybe OP is trolling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you chatted to her on camera?

If not then get that sorted, no excuses. If she won't do it for any reason then back away and do not go.

If she does, read the signs and see how you feel about it. Consider her sentence structure and see if it matches her written sentence structure for instance. If at any point you are uncertain, close it down.

If you then decide to go, ensure you have a back up plan in case things go badly. Plenty of folks have been caught in this kind of thing. Even Sherlock Holmes investigated a similar case as I recall.

Be careful and be safe in all things. You may have said goodbye to the money, do not chase it - that's how casinos and bookmakers get rich.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?"

Are you serious?

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By *ownwithafeatherMan
over a year ago

Watford

OP could you send me a tenner for a couple of beers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

id send you a tenner. i would help anyone who needs help. but do you really nee a tenner for drinks? I would think you were finaceualy ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive been chatting to a lady in US, She tells me she cannot manage. Ive sent her money. She has asked be to go over there. Should I go. ?"

I’ll have a chat with you pal ...

I’ll send my bank details ... inbox

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

im not your pal

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Opps be carefull!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"im not your pal"

that I would have to agree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it. Sounds like an adventure. Probably bollocks but you never know until you try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I keep thinking about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please be careful OP

I know someone that was scammed out of a substantial amount of money.

For everyone who thinks that you wouldn’t be caught on a scam like this it’s never as straight forward as it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting "Gooooooood evening madam, there is a pigeon trapped inside your bank account" vibes from this.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Maybe I keep thinking about it..."

Please read and take the comments on here seriously.

You are more than likely being financially abused, scammed whatever word you want to use, block her (possibly him) and DO NOT send any more money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow just errrrm wow

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

What else are you going to spend the money

Go and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your comments. I feel so stupid and vunerable.Im not a bad person. I would try and help anyone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop immediately if not sooner mate. People will take advantage of good natured folk. Hope you're not too much out of pocket

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

If the account is even still active just report "her" and block them

Move on. Never send money again

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Am I the only one who thinks that maybe OP is trolling?"

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Have you been promised money by a Nigerian Prince by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for your comments. I feel so stupid and vunerable.Im not a bad person. I would try and help anyone.... "

That is how scammers work unfortunately OP, it could be genuine, but it's highly unlikely

Maybe watch 'the Tinder Swindler' if you have netflix..It will give you an insight

I hope you are OK

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By *enny PR9TV/TS
over a year ago

Southport

The Tinder Swindler strikes again.

When my lottery win became public knowledge I asked about what to do about all the begging letters. The consensus was, I should keep sending them.

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