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What's a message that would brighten a man's day?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Just a hey you got this. Working ur ass off and makin sure everyones ok is always at my cost but hey ho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facepic Friday pics always cheer me up

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Quite simply anything pølite, unique ånd uplifting.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

One that just let's them know you are thinking of them (and not just in a naughty way) x

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

‘Arsenal are going to get top 4 babe x’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.

When in doubt remember..

You are enough.

Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.

Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.

Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them. "

Do men like being called beautiful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘Arsenal are going to get top 4 babe x’ "
^ he likes being lied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.

Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘Arsenal are going to get top 4 babe x’ "

I'm just trying to make someone smile, not make promises I definitely can't keep

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By *hilledGuerillaMan
over a year ago

In the monkey house

Best one I’ve ever had, “I’m so proud of you”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

Do men like being called beautiful? "

I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.

Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar. "

I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

Do men like being called beautiful?

I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?"

I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

Do men like being called beautiful?

I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?"

It is, but I think it depends on the man. I'm aware some people think it can sound a little feminine, and I'm trying to get repeat meets not bruise egos

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Not necessarily the "what", but the "who" for me...

(But see also reassurance on Arsenal's top 4 chances! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist."

You look a bit stressed in one of them. Good pics though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something along the lines of…. Yes. I notice you.

Also, ‘“come round to mine for the night and fuck me like you’re going to prison for the next year….” That would work too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist."

To be fair it does seem like you put a lot of effort into your pics, kudos

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.

When in doubt remember..

You are enough.

Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.

Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.

Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem."

Bravo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

Do men like being called beautiful?

I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?

I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome? "
definitely beautiful. Handsome doesn’t even feel like that much of a compliment. Doesn’t make me feel like the person sees me as any more than any other attractive person.

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By *intsizedpocketrocketsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford


"This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.

When in doubt remember..

You are enough.

Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.

Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.

Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem."

This right here folks!!!

Beautifully put and succinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

Do men like being called beautiful?

I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?

It is, but I think it depends on the man. I'm aware some people think it can sound a little feminine, and I'm trying to get repeat meets not bruise egos "

Trewwwwwww. Go get your man

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.

Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.

I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time "

I get this - same as telling a women she's beautiful can sound cheesy as you sound all James Blunt. But you can never go far wrong by being genuine and I'm sure all men would appreciate the compliment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

Do men like being called beautiful?

I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?

I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome? definitely beautiful. Handsome doesn’t even feel like that much of a compliment. Doesn’t make me feel like the person sees me as any more than any other attractive person. "

Yeh. Handsome. My mum calls me handsome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.

Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.

I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time

I get this - same as telling a women she's beautiful can sound cheesy as you sound all James Blunt. But you can never go far wrong by being genuine and I'm sure all men would appreciate the compliment..."

Ah Shit! I tell women they’re beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"‘you’re so beautiful ’.

I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.

Do men like being called beautiful?

I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?

I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome? definitely beautiful. Handsome doesn’t even feel like that much of a compliment. Doesn’t make me feel like the person sees me as any more than any other attractive person.

Yeh. Handsome. My mum calls me handsome. "

Same . When I’ve just got a haircut my mum and nan always say ‘you look very handsome’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "

Depends

1960's - I've got a ticket to ride

1970's - I've got a ticket to the school disco

1980's - I'm outa school, Call Me, Blondie

1990's - I've rented some videos from Blockbuster. How d'ya fancy a night with Shirley Valentine. Oh, and I've also invited Rita, Sue and Bob too.

2000's - Hey, I got a Nokia 3310, fancy playing a game of hunt the Snake tonight?

2010's - Hey, I'm decorating my flat, but I need some help choosing my colours. Fancy coming round to help me choose from 50 shades of grey?

2020's - Hiya, please stay at home tonight, I can't afford to feed you and I certainly can't afford to turn on the heating to keep ya warm. Maybe catch up on Zoom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I understand the logistics of this site and how bombarded women are, it would be so nice to receive a message from one who I hadn't messaged first. That would make my day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.

When in doubt remember..

You are enough.

Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.

Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.

Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem."

Oh you mean to message this to a guy? That's a really nice sentiment but I was thinking something cute and cheerful haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist.

You look a bit stressed in one of them. Good pics though. "

Haha, thank you

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"‘Arsenal are going to get top 4 babe x’ ^ he likes being lied to "

Glutton for punishment

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"‘Arsenal are going to get top 4 babe x’

I'm just trying to make someone smile, not make promises I definitely can't keep "

Oi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that's unexpected and a conversation starter.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

FAF.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist.

To be fair it does seem like you put a lot of effort into your pics, kudos "

Cheers, I'm trying to make a bit more effort, so that's very kind of you.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "

Something like 'hey I'm not pregnant btw false alarm' lol

Or I can't wait to ride your face & deep throat that big salami of yours when we meet tonight'

That would put a smile on my face for sure hahaha

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Sometimes just a hi how’s things can lift a person . No sex talk or anything,just a chat about anything and everything.

Either that or a foof pic

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By *ubmissive guyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Get round here now Im horny and wet and I want to sit on your face it may not interest most guys or Women but it would be like all my Chritmasses and Birthdays rolled into one haha well a guy can dream.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.

Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.

I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time

I get this - same as telling a women she's beautiful can sound cheesy as you sound all James Blunt. But you can never go far wrong by being genuine and I'm sure all men would appreciate the compliment...

Ah Shit! I tell women they’re beautiful "

You know me, Steve - I'm just straight a "you're hot af" kind of guy! But in all honesty, I don't think the word matters if you're genuine - it's all in the delivery!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "

'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.

We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.

Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'

Works every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?

'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.

We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.

Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'

Works every time. "

Copy and pasting my messages again.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Free beer with every pizza,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?

'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.

We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.

Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'

Works every time.

Copy and pasting my messages again. "

Thats a good one lol

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?

'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.

We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.

Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'

Works every time.

Copy and pasting my messages again. "

Sorry I drank all six coffees and fell off the roof without my parachute.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

“I love lego too”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come and take me out , walk by my side.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "

“Last night was amazing, look forward to seeing you again asap”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have good news about your lottery ticket!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Someone asking how I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?

“Last night was amazing, look forward to seeing you again asap” "

Personally I find this is more of a one way ticket to ghost town

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"We have good news about your lottery ticket! "

You've won a free lucky dip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newcastle United 3-0 Liverpool

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By *edsmudgeMan
over a year ago

oxford


"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.

Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.

I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time "

I think it’s pronounced. ‘andsome .init. bruv .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have good news about your lottery ticket!

You've won a free lucky dip

"

Always the case isn’t it …

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

For me it’s a thoughtful message thats genuine and recognises me.

The best message that I ever had was a random one that dropped into my inbox and thanked me for the person that I am and what I bring.

They didn’t want anything, didn’t want to meet, just to express their thoughts. I was genuinely touched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A compliment on my pics, a lady saying she fancies me. Doesn't have to be anything complicated, simple things can brighten my day.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "
both tests negative, the sti and pregnancy.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

“I’ve just baked you a lovely chocolate cake. Come and get it”

That would have me salivating and smiling in equal measures

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